Assistant God of Life in Another World

Going to the opposite of the original is actually not an ideal choice or behavior.

The ideal behavior should be to infer other cases from one instance.

What is drawing inferences from one instance?

Confucius, the Chinese sage in the previous life, once said: "If you take one corner, if you don't turn it against three corners, there will be no more."

"Corner" here refers to the direction and aspect, and the four corners refer to four aspects and four directions. <When Feng is proud, he is very humble, you just nodded in approval and said: "Yes, this person is really good, I like it! Unlike some people, when they are a little proud, they immediately raise their tails."

At this time, Confucius would shake his head and say, "nonono, take one corner, don't use three corners, it will be a tragedy for you to judge people like this."

You should also see what happens when the person is down and down.If he is frustrated, downcast, unlucky, stuck in a mud pit, and behaves perversely, withdrawn, and weirdly, it means that the so-called modesty when he is proud of his youth is just a way of holding victory Fruit, leisurely transforming the pride in my heart into contentment, so it looks like humility.

In fact, this humility is only on the surface, but on the inside, no one is as proud as him.

These are just two corners, how about two corners?

Proud and frustrated are temporary states, so the other two corners should be relatively stable levels.

Just like a bowl of water, whether the water is calm or not calm shows the state.And the amount of water, such as a bowl, a tank.It is the level.

It is not enough to see the two manifestations of a person when he is proud and frustrated.

You also look at how he plays in the low position and in the high position, or in the etic position and in the dominant position.

He is a small clerk.And just joined the company.He is diligent and conscientious at work, and works hard outside of work. He rushes to do all the tasks of serving tea, pouring water, sweeping the floor and mopping the table, and he asks for instructions early and reports late for big and small matters, so you say: "This person is not bad. I like it! Observe again Observe, if possible, take him in as a younger brother!"

(Several years later, the elder brother was killed by the younger brother. "Your wife, I will raise her. The elder brother is under the nine springs, but please rest assured, everything has a younger brother!")

He is a king in the pioneering period. He is thirsty for talents and has an open mind. You obviously only have three or four percent talents.Finally one day, he made a great decision.You smile with relief, and he is happy and proud of himself.

When you go to sleep at night, you are still thinking, what position will he seal me?

(The person you are thinking of is giving secret orders to the left and right in the deep palace: "Send some knives and axes, go, chop this old guy up for me, shit, I have tolerated him for a long time! I really think I am a character ?” So you slept so soundly that you never woke up again.)

(Three days later. The whole country is in mourning, that person is dying in front of your soul, "Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo-of-teacher! I have lost my teacher and my father!" At the end of the order, the national teacher has made great contributions to the country, and deserves to enjoy the royal temple, and the descendants will not be guilty of rebellion. So your family is grateful, and your son is willing to die to repay the king's kindness.)

This is the tragedy of "taking one corner and not using three corners".

Therefore, in ancient China, when a superior who understood this principle, when inspecting his subordinates to be his confidantes or successors, they would praise them a few times, smash them a few times, let them hold the power for a few times, and let them have a position without the right to sit. Sit on the bench a few times.

After seeing its performance in these four corners, I said, "Yes.", or "No."

But after that, no matter what position you were in before, you can go straight to the center all the way.

After that, no matter what position you are in now, you will always be cool on the sidelines. Even if you die and reach the highest level, you can only be a subordinate character at that level.

This is the four-corner positioning method.

Applying this method to selecting people is the "four-corner method of selecting people", and using this method to establish a person in the world is the "four-corner method of establishing a person".

How to stand up?

Connect the two opposite sides of the four corners, and the intersection of the two straight lines is the place to stand, which is what the Chinese sages called "the golden mean".The golden mean does not allow you to stay at this point all the time, but allows you to use this point as the origin of your life.

When it's time to be proud, you can be proud, and when you're done, you have to return to this origin as soon as possible.When it's time to be frustrated, you can also be frustrated to your heart's content. After you are frustrated, you still have to return to this point of origin immediately.

Taking this point as a stronghold, attacking everywhere, and never departing from it, that is to live to the fullest, but always follow the golden mean.

Therefore, being honest is not necessarily the golden mean, being well-behaved is not necessarily the golden mean, being gentle is not necessarily the golden mean, and being sincere is not necessarily the golden mean either.

Therefore, being unrestrained can be the mean, being slanted with the sword can be the mean, being aggressive and domineering can be the mean, and being able to hide the city in the chest can also be the mean.

Moderation is the way, not behavior.

Those who practice the mean are mostly mediocre, and those who practice the mean are the masters.

"Maintaining the vastness while minimizing the subtlety, being extremely wise while being moderate." This is a principle of standing up, dealing with the world, and dealing with affairs that the Chinese sages highly respected.

You are a painter, you need to put thousands of miles away in your heart, but your brushstrokes have to go deep into a small ant on a leaf stalk.

You are a world-renowned physicist who knows all kinds of celestial bodies and the laws of their operation, but when you tell your little daughter about the starry sky, you have to tell her sincerely: "You are my angel. Look! You came down from the brightest star in the sky!"

When she grows up, she will know that this is a lie.

But in her heart, your countless physical laws that shocked the world may not be as important as this little lie.

She will love you for that lie, not for your laws of physics.

Knowledge can be redeemed through time, but love cannot, love needs to be consistent.So when knowledge and love collide, knowledge needs to give way to love.

what is this?

This is the golden mean.

Such a world is a world of the mean.

Fang Tian did not explain such a truth to Andy, Falstein and others, and did not tell them that the best practice method is to locate in the four corners, rather than simply and crudely going to the original opposite, contacting and feeling the original reverse. world.

Of course, this is not because of selfishness or any reluctance.

It's because he, who is also a practitioner, now knows that there are some things that are best walked step by step by himself, felt while walking, and obtained through feeling.

Such an attainment is the real attainment.

The Tao is not something that someone tells you, but something that comes out by yourself.

If one of these people walks on this path in the future, he will never hesitate to have an in-depth talk with him, and then tell him all the reasons behind it.

In fact, Fang Tian was already prepared for such an in-depth discussion.

The few people in front of him are actually people he is more optimistic about.

why?

Because in the previous night chat with each of them, Fang Tian deliberately used the four-corner selection method.Since it's just a conversation, and it's just a conversation, the so-called four-corner choice is of course impossible to be very accurate.But what is the saying?

——The qualified ones may not be screened out, but the unqualified ones are all screened out.

So during the conversation, someone was very respectful, Fang Tian just smiled and said goodbye.Some people acted very frankly, Fang Tian just smiled and said goodbye.Some people were very eager, Fang Tian just smiled, and then said goodbye as well...

Goodbye, of course, is never to see you again.

For those people, one conversation is enough, the second time, it is a waste of time.

Even though some of these people may change in the future, or have a relatively large transformation-like himself, but so what?In this world, there are so many people, even if you like them, you only need to know some of them.

Andy and the others left after another worship and feeling that they had gained a lot.

When they were leaving, several people were clearly reluctant to speak, but they faintly revealed that they still hoped to have such meetings and conversations with His Highness Fang Tian often in the future.In fact, this conversation was just a discussion between the eight of them. During the whole process, did Fang Tian say anything?But just keep nodding.

But all eight of them obviously don't see it that way.

To this, Fang Tian just smiled and didn't give them any answer.

It's long in the future, and I'll talk about it later.

These are still just idle things to him, and he won't spend much thought and time on these things for the time being. —— Hurry up and find a way to become a mage, that is serious.

After becoming a mage, at the very least, at the very least, can he get ten or twenty years of free time?

In those ten or twenty years, no one would be surprised or anything if he didn't make any progress.And such a long time is enough for him to plot slowly and plan the next stage of development.

Fang Tian will never forget for a moment, the two sudden assassinations, and he will never forget that during the second assassination, what he saw in the Pyramid Sea of ​​Consciousness, the assassin was hit by an invisible finger from the sky. Point for the fly ash thing.

I don't know when, if he makes a mistake, maybe another finger of the same or similar level will point to him.

What means did he have against the click of that force?

No, nothing.

Therefore, his current situation is completely in danger, but in danger.

And once the real danger came, he really had no other way to go except to be ashamed immediately.

A little white rabbit is in a place where wolves dance together, what should I do?

Fang Tian could only tremble and design some principles for himself that seemed relatively safe from his point of view. ——Based on the existing conditions, it can only be done in this way. (To be continued. () Vote for recommendations and monthly tickets. Your support is my biggest motivation.)