Official Road Hongyan

Ye Ming hadn't figured out why Liu Ziliang suddenly stood beside his bed, Liu Ziliang spoke softly again: "Director Ye, I'm sorry I woke you up. I came here today , I sincerely apologize to you, I hope Director Ye will forgive me for my presumptuousness and recklessness!"

Ye Ming finally came to his senses after hearing Liu Ziliang's words. He stared at Liu Ziliang's frightened face with some doubts. He couldn't figure out what kind of medicine he was selling in his gourd. Sitting there silently, watching how Liu Ziliang will perform next.

Seeing that Ye Ming was expressionless and silent, Liu Ziliang thought that he was still hating him, and became even more flustered. He suddenly raised his right hand and waved the two "He Tian Xia" cigarettes in front of Ye Ming. Yang smiled and said: "Director Ye, I know you like to smoke. It happened that when I went back last night, a comrade-in-arms came to see me and brought me two cigarettes. I brought them to you today...

"Director Ye, I don't mean anything else. I just felt that the night you came, District Chief Yan and I were a little restless. We said something sorry to you and did something sorry to you. Moreover, you called me this morning. When I called to invite me to dinner, I was discussing with Captain Chen Guitian about the arrest of a fugitive murderer who had been charged with numerous crimes.

"Later, when Captain Chen Guitian knew that the person who called me was you, Director Ye, he severely criticized me, and introduced to me the situation of Director Ye in detail, saying that you are a big-hearted, big-hearted, A young hero with courage, insight, affection and righteousness, and also an aspiring young man with both civil and military skills, outstanding ability, and great future. After listening to his criticism of me and introduction to you, I was really ashamed and regretful! Captain Chen said at the time that I had no eyes and no eyes, and that I looked down on people with my dog's eyes. I think these two words are completely correct.

"At that time, Captain Chen asked me to call you to apologize and ask for your understanding. However, I did not do so. I thought: I have done so many things and said so many things to be sorry to Director Ye, if I only A phone call is far from enough to express my regret and sincerity of apology. Therefore, after I had a meeting in the team in the morning, I hurried over to find you after eating two mouthfuls of rice in a hurry. I hope Director Ye will see my sincerity and forgive my ignorance and rude words in the past. From now on, I will treat you as my own brother. If anyone dares to do anything to your brother again , my surname Liu was the first to be rude to him."

Liu Ziliang's lengthy apology and compliments made Ye Ming's skin crawl.Especially when Liu Ziliang himself said that he was "sighted but blind" and "a dog's eyes look down on people", he could hardly help but burst out laughing.

However, he knew: No matter how nasty Liu Ziliang's words are, how they make his skin crawl, and how ridiculous they are, he must never show bored or ridiculous expressions on his face—because during this period of time, he has been I am reflecting on some of the fundamental reasons why I was not suitable for being in the officialdom in the past and was always unable to be promoted.One of them, he thinks is very fatal, that is, he will not cater to and compliment his superiors, and at the same time, he can't understand those who flatter and listen to those flatterers.

But in the real officialdom, Ye Ming noticed: If you don’t understand and cater to the leader’s intentions, don’t speak well of the leader in a timely manner, and don’t bow your head in front of the leader, then the leader won’t pay attention at all. You will not value you at all, let alone promote you and reuse you-of course, this is not absolute compared to most leaders.Some leaders, such as Secretary Li Runji, may not belong to this type.But officials like Secretary Li belong to the minority after all.So, my point of view is still valid.

Corresponding to this is: if you want to be a leader, then you must have the capacity to listen to all kinds of words: first of all, of course, you must be able to listen to critical words, which is the basic self-cultivation and ability of a leader. tolerance.Secondly, you must have the patience and courage to listen to the flattering words and compliments of your subordinates, no matter how nasty the flattering words and compliments are, or how goosebumps you get.Moreover, this is actually a kind of self-restraint.Because once you become an official, you will definitely encounter the situation where your subordinates flatter you.If you blindly hate this behavior, blindly reject this behavior.Then, your subordinates will think that you are pretending to be noble, that you are not approachable, and even that you are impersonal.Therefore, they are likely to alienate you and treat you at a respectful distance.In that case, your "noble behavior" that doesn't listen to flattery is likely to offend many subordinates unintentionally, and it is very likely that you, the leader, will become a "lonely person" who is superior...

It is precisely because of this that Ye Ming is now gradually able to tolerate those sycophant behaviors, and is gradually able to take the initiative to lower his posture to cater to the intentions of his superiors.Although, he felt a little ashamed and embarrassed for his change, but he knew that this was the path of psychological transformation that he had to go through after he stepped into the officialdom, and he had to do it even though he knew he couldn't do it...

Just like now, when Liu Ziliang said such disgusting and goosebump words to himself, if it was two years ago, he would definitely not buy him, and he might even mock him.

But now, his mentality is different.Therefore, he tried his best to control his distaste for Liu Ziliang's words. After he finished speaking, he deliberately pondered for a moment, then smiled a little, and said unhurriedly: "Captain Liu, you are serious! I If I cared about your original attitude towards me, I wouldn't take the initiative to call you to invite you to dinner this morning, right? I think this way: we are all classmates, and you Captain Liu is my senior, and you come from your position Said, you are still my leader. Therefore, I should respect you and take the initiative to build a good relationship with you. This will also help us get along under one roof in the future, right?

"What's more, Captain Chen Guitian of your criminal investigation team and I are also good friends. We have drank together many times. Moreover, I am also very familiar with your Director Guo. Since you and Captain Chen are in the same unit and department, we There are more reasons to be close and a basis for forming good friends. Therefore, although there are some small festivals and misunderstandings between us, you and I are both manly men, and we will never get angry over such a small festival. Thinking, thinking about it. My call to invite you to drink is out of this consideration. Ha ha!"