marriage is natural

Chapter 479 Quotations from He Ma: You are not allowed to live together during the wedding period
Father He was still having fun in the living room.

He Xidong, who was locked out of the bedroom door by his wife, touched his nose and went back to the living room, curiously leaning over to his father: "Dad, what are you happy about? Seeing that you have made Mom go away."

"What? Oh." Father He came back to his senses, scratched his head, a little embarrassed but couldn't help but said, "I was thinking, you and Weiwei are so good, and your mother and I have contributed a lot."

He Xidong: "..." This thick-skinned one, I convinced you!

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In the room, He Wei pushed He Mu to sit on the edge of the bed, rubbed her shoulders and said, "Mom, don't get angry, brother He came to our house just because he respected you and Dad..."

Hemu patted her back angrily: "You will speak well for him."

He Wei smiled flatteringly and said: "How can I! I'm not telling the truth. In fact, you think, I'm going to marry someone sooner or later. Rather than marrying someone who doesn't know the basics, it's better to be like Brother He. Look, You know everything about his family and himself, right? Even if you don’t know anything, just ask your godmother and you’ll know it all. Let’s see if he dares to bully me when he gets married. It’s not your turn to bully me. Take it out on me, godmother will be the first to help me..."

He Mu couldn't hold back her joy: "Dare you think so long-term? Tsk tsk! You really don't want to stay in a female college. How old are you? You just want to get married. Are you ashamed?"

He Wei thought she was ashamed, let her be a lady who is full of mouths to marry long and short, how can she not be ashamed.But He Qingdong fought the front line, so she had to strike while the iron was hot and hurry up, because she couldn't follow through and mess up what she had agreed upon.

Mother He sighed and said, "Mom is not old fashioned. There are no girls out there who are dating at your age. A while ago, I heard from your Aunt Fu that there was a junior high school girl opposite her house, and she brought her boyfriend back to the house." Even if you can still study in the same school after graduation, you may be separated, and it will not affect your future marriage discussions at all. But you are different from Ah Qing, he Are you 28 this year?"

"It's 27." He Wei continued.

"What's the difference! Left and right are so many years older than you." Hemu rolled her eyes at her and continued, "At this age, let alone wait for you to graduate from college. It's too late to get married now. His family can really wait." Even if you can wait, as he said, the first step is to get engaged, and the second step is to get married, and the appointed one will keep an eye on you closely, for fear that something will happen halfway. But how old are you? Five years after graduating from university Right? What if, mom means what if, when you suddenly get stuck and say that you can’t get along with him and want to break up, how can you explain to the Aqing’s family, alas..."

He Wei was amused by her mother's frowning expression, she covered her belly and couldn't help laughing, "Oh mom, you think I broke up with him? You can't think better?" If it falls into someone's ears, Definitely swish air-conditioning at her.

Seeing her daughter laughing like this, Mother He thought it was funny, but it was not impossible, her daughter was so outstanding, she didn't know how popular she would be after graduating from university five years later.There are so many young talents to pursue, what if someone really meets you and regrets getting engaged so early?It's not the daughter herself who suffers.

He Wei suppressed a smile and comforted her mother: "No way! Mom, relax."

He Mu: "..." Why is there a kind of backlash?Thinking about it, in the past, when there were daughters in the family who were of marriageable age, the mothers were there to persuade them, and the daughters were either crying with a towel in their hands or protesting silently with a stern face.Why did her family become a daughter and persuade her to relax?With such a heartless girl, it's no wonder that the mother is so lenient!
He Wei lay on Hemu's back, rubbing her mother's face once in a while, and said softly: "Mom, no matter where I marry, I will always be your daughter, don't worry. Oh yes, congratulations!" My eldest brother bought the house opposite our house, saying that if we don’t move, he will build a wedding room opposite, and it will be convenient for me to go back to my mother’s house. If we move to Binhai No. [-], he will also buy a villa, or Can be a neighbor, hehe..."

Hemu: "..." Got it!She finally understood that her daughter was completely abducted, and she even discussed where to live after marriage, what a silly girl!
After the slander was over, Hemu's heart skipped a beat, she turned her head and asked her daughter: "What about you, have you lived with Ah Qingzhu?"

"..." He Wei was stunned for a moment, why should we live together?How many nights have two people slept together in the same bed but did not break through the last level of relationship?

When Mother He saw her daughter's reaction, she was devastated, and hurriedly grabbed her ear and scolded her in a low voice: "Oh, you silly girl, if you are not married and cannot live with a man, you will suffer a lot, do you know that!"

"Mom, I don't."

"What?" Change Hemu was stunned.

He Wei covered her hot face, because she was actually afraid that the word "guilty" would be written on her face: "I didn't spend the night with him." The integrity is almost gone!

"Really?" He Mu didn't believe it very much, "Then why did you react just now?"

"I... I didn't understand what you meant, hehehe..."

Hemu breathed a sigh of relief, it's fine if he doesn't have one, but——"Men and women are not allowed to do it before they get married, you will remember it for mom!"

It was only after I finished speaking that I realized that under normal circumstances, it seems that if you get engaged, you can live together, right?She and Comrade Lao He were poor at that time, so they didn't do it so concretely. The two parties changed their posts and got married on a good day.But families with a little bit of conditions will hold two ceremonies, first engagement, then marriage, two wedding candies, and two banquets.So although they are engaged to be called unmarried couples, they can move in together according to the custom.

Hemu went back and forth several times in her heart, but in the end she still didn't reveal this level to her daughter.Anyway, even if you agree, it's still too early to get engaged.When they are engaged, how the two of them make out in private, she doesn't care if they don't see it.But now, I have to brainwash my daughter, and tell her how important the gate of the girl to the woman is, so I can't just lose it.

In this way, the two women hid in the room and talked for half an afternoon.

In the first half, He Wei basically talked and her mother listened; in the second half, the energetic He Mu came on stage and read into her daughter's ears how to protect herself before marriage and the dialect version of "Women should love themselves".He Wei didn't even have a chance to interject to defend herself and He Qingdong, who was described by He Mu as a "big-tailed wolf".

It wasn't until three o'clock when the mother of the mother said "Yeah", remembering the little native chicken that she had agreed with others, and then reluctantly let go of the girl who was halfway through the lecture: "Let's not talk about it, Mom has to get the chicken. If you are late, you will be picked away, and it will be too late to make soup when you come back... I will tell you tomorrow..."

He Wei: "..." Mom, you don't need to say it, really!Girlfriend, I understand!

(End of this chapter)