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Chapter 183 Part Two
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Chapter 8 Psychological strategy 8: Knowing people with discerning eyes, using people first to see people

Section [-] Tolerate the faults of subordinates

Mental Wisdom Call:

Forgive your subordinates for their mistakes, let them know that you are generous, and he will be willing to do anything for you.

Skillful in control:

Tolerance should be a virtue that every leader possesses.No subordinate is willing to work hard for a leader who cares about his subordinates, has a small belly, catches them even if they make a small mistake, and even retaliates.

Forgive the mistakes of subordinates as much as possible. This is an important means of winning people's hearts.For those matters that have nothing to do with the overall situation, you can't compare with your subordinates. If you are patient, you will bear it, and if you give in, you will let it go.You must know that being tolerant to subordinates is a means of creating a centripetal effect.

During the reign of Emperor Wen of the Han Dynasty, Yuan An was once the prime minister of Wu Wang Liu Pai, and he had a servant who had an affair with his concubine.After Yuan An knew about it, he did not disclose the matter.Someone used this to scare the servant, and the servant ran away in fear of crime.After Yuan Ang heard the news, he personally led people to chase him back, gave him his concubine, and still relied heavily on him as before.

During the reign of Emperor Jing of the Han Dynasty, Yuan Ang entered the court as Taichang and was ordered to go to the state of Wu.At that time, King Wu was planning to rebel against the imperial court and wanted to kill Yuan Ang.He sent 500 people to surround Yuan An's residence, but Yuan An didn't realize it.It happened that the attendant was the school captain Sima in the army surrounding Yuan An, so he bought two hundred stones of good wine and invited five hundred soldiers to drink to their heart's content.The soldiers were so drunk one by one that they collapsed to the ground.That night, an attendant sneaked into Yuan An's bedroom, woke him up, and said to him, "Run away, the king of Wu will behead you at dawn." Yuan An asked, "Why did you save me? The attendant said to him, "I am the attendant who was forgiven by you before!" Yuan Ang was shocked and fled from the state of Wu.

From here, we can not only see Yuan Ang's magnanimity, but also gain insight into his superb art of controlling his subordinates.

Coincidentally.In 199 AD, Cao Cao and the most powerful Yuan Shao rejected each other at Guandu.Yuan Shao has [-] soldiers and sufficient food and supplies, while Cao Cao's military strength is only one-tenth of Yuan Shao's, lacking food and grass, and he is obviously at a disadvantage.At that time, many people thought that Cao Cao would definitely lose this time.Cao Cao's generals and many ministers who stayed in Xudu, the base in the rear, secretly wrote letters to Yuan Shao, planning to submit to Yuan Shao if Cao Cao failed.

After more than half a year of refusal, Cao Cao adopted the strategy of counselor Xu You and attacked Yuan Shao's granary, turning the tide of the battle in one fell swoop and defeating Yuan Shao.When Cao Cao's subordinates sorted out the documents and materials confiscated from Yuan Shao's barracks, they found many letters between rebels and Yuan Shao.Cao Cao didn't even look at it, and ordered them to be burned immediately, and said: "At the beginning of the war, Yuan Shao's soldiers had enough food, and I was worried about whether I could protect myself, let alone other people?"

This approach is indeed very clever, he will gather back the forces that have begun to eccentric.However, people without a certain tolerance will not do this.Forgive your subordinates for their mistakes, let them know that you are generous, and he will be willing to do anything for you.

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