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Chapter 11 Psychological Strategy 11: Be the protagonist of love

Section [-] Differences in love psychology between men and women

Mental Wisdom Call:

Due to differences in physiological characteristics, cognitive styles, etc., there are psychological differences between men and women in love.Understanding these differences can help us build stronger relationships.

Skillful in control:

The psychological differences between men and women in love are specifically manifested in the following aspects:
1. Men are more likely to fall in love at first sight than women

The understanding between people always starts from the acquaintance.Love sprouts from good feelings, and the good feelings between people cannot be separated from the first sight.Some people don't have any special feelings when they first meet, but fall in love with each other after a long time; while some people will fall in love as soon as they meet once.Usually, men pay more attention to women's appearance, while women pay more attention to men's inner world, so men are more likely to fall in love at first sight than women.

2. Men take the initiative in courtship, while women prefer "love marathons"

In the process of falling in love, men tend to be more active, dare to express their love first, like to make quick decisions, and start bold pursuits soon after contacting each other, hoping to achieve success in a short period of time.Women, on the other hand, like to express their feelings implicitly in a roundabout and indirect way, and like to treasure the seeds of love deep in their hearts.

3. Men’s self-esteem in love is not as strong as women’s
In love, men generally don't care too much about the embarrassment caused by being rejected by the other party during courtship.If the courtship is frustrated, they will use the spiritual victory method to comfort themselves in order to achieve their own psychological balance.Women, on the other hand, are extremely sensitive in love, have strong self-esteem, and will find ways to satisfy this need.

4. Men are not as defensive as women
Generally speaking, men are less defensive than women in relationships.After many men start contact with women, they hardly suspect each other.Women are not the same. They are very calm in the early stages of a relationship, and often use a scrutiny attitude to observe whether the other party is sincere and sincere, and examine the other party's family details, lest they be deceived.So in the early days of a relationship, women tend to be very cautious.

5. Women are more sensitive than men

In love, men are often a little careless and cannot perceive the subtle psychological changes of the woman.They tend to take into account the big aspects, but do not pay attention to the small details. When they find that the other party's mood changes, they are often puzzled and at a loss.

Women's emotions are very delicate, and they are good at observing each other's psychology.They pursue the intimacy of love and require men to behave in a satisfactory way.A casual word or incident from a so-so and careless boyfriend will often make them feel sad or lose their temper.

6. In terms of emotional expression, women are more reserved than men

The emotional performance of men and women in love is very different, even in the stage of intense love, there are differences.

Men are generally quick and strong in response, strong-willed, brave and bold, full of emotion, but emotionally unstable.This personality characteristic makes them easy to express their feelings of love and express joy.Too many words and deeds without thinking about the consequences, easily impulsive, not good at controlling oneself when stimulated, such as eager to express love with intimate forms such as kisses and hugs.

Women are generally calm and prudent, flexible and active, with changeable emotions, full of emotions and fragile. In the process of love, they are shy and seldom show their emotions. They are good at hiding themselves. , The method of suggestion, and I don't like to express it with the intimacy of actions and behaviors too early.

7. After falling out of love, women have a stronger ability to bear
Breaking up in love is a painful thing for both men and women.But in the face of broken love, men are less able to bear than women, and often appear depressed, sad, and even desperate.This is because men are more emotionally romantic in love, and lack rational analysis and consideration of broken love.In addition, men have poor tolerance, and are prone to depression and sadness in the face of such major setbacks as a lovelorn.Women are naturally very painful and sad after falling out of love, but they have a relatively strong tolerance and like to hold it in their hearts, so they don't seem to be in great pain.

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