For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 28
Marriage, stay tuned.

I never thought that the news of my marriage to the doctor would spread faster than H7N9, which made me wonder if someone had planted an eyeliner in the Civil Affairs Bureau.From the second day after receiving the certificate, I began to receive all kinds of non-mainstream wedding gifts and packages one after another.

It is not surprising that Yinxi sent sexy pajamas and a box of TT. Gu Xiao took a box of "Marriage, Are You Ready", "Chinese Divorce" and "Starting the Divorce Counterattack"? The most amazing thing is Sansan. Once the huge box is opened, there are three pairs of UGGs (two big and one small) inside...Xiao Jun, don’t you take Xiaguan? !

When Gu Wei saw the pink bow tied on it, his facial muscles stiffened.Then, without hesitation—the box was thrown on top of Gu Xiao's box.

【The 20 Years of Me and Sansan】

Sansan is my best friend. After the fight in the kindergarten, the heroes cherished each other, and they have been in collusion ever since.

The reason why she is called Sansan is because she is the third in her generation.

For a while, Mr. Lin was very vulgarly immersed in CCTV [-]'s programs about cases and arguments. After listening to it, I called Sansan and asked, "Why don't you just call me Xiaosan?"

I looked at him helplessly: "Because you are ranked second..."

Teacher Lin is a person who is so pure that his mind never turns a corner.If I dare to call her mistress, she will definitely smash me to death with a thousand words of dick.But I called her Sansan, and her counterattack had no lethal effect except for stiffening the base of her tongue.

In the eyes of outsiders, Sansan and I are perfect complementary girlfriends, one is sullen and the other is tough, the other is iceberg and the other is enthusiastic, the other is monotonous and the other is lively, the two of us fought hand in hand until we graduated from junior high school, and then we were admitted to two different colleges. high school, and then...

Hongyan's biography continues to rape/love...

In the era when mobile phones were not very popular and young people were pursuing flirtatious things, the two of us killed countless letters, envelopes and postcards at an average frequency of [-] letters a week, and only met three times in three years. It has withstood the test of time and distance.Oops……

Sansan is an authentic science student, and her choice of subjects is a combination of physics and chemistry. At that time, her mantra was, "If you learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, you will not be afraid to travel all over the world."

I chose geography and physics, and I took more than a year of classes in the physics and chemistry class and the history and geography class. I only got a stable seat in the history and geography class in the second semester of the third year of high school.

Sansan studied science in a key liberal arts high school, and I studied literature in a key science high school. This was a tangled time, and I don’t recall it.

Sansan always said with disgust: "You are a fake science student!"

I said: "You can't discriminate against geography just because you have poor three-dimensional thinking and never calculate the distance between two points on a sphere."

这是三三的死穴，她到现在都算不清楚公转角度自转角度同时作用下太阳会对一棵树的影子产生怎样的影响。或者类似一架由北纬30°东经120°的飞机在2012年2月29日23时以880公里的时速自西向东飞往南纬30°西经120°时，当地时间是几点这种问题……其实我还没跟你算地速空速转换……（三三：信不信我废了你！！）

She always said that she knows that this kind of thing has no practical significance, and she will not say "lost in a deserted forest, you can deduce the direction and time from a tree, and then go out!" Such an exciting event Let's get excited together.Therefore, people who study geography are lonely...

After the college entrance examination, she entered the Civil Engineering Department of T University in X City with her strong physics results.With my strong geography grades, I entered the Accounting Department of University T University in Y City, 136 kilometers away from her...

"Although geography is a serious science subject in college, my dear, you are beyond redemption." Since then, Sansan has completely separated me from the category of science students.

I am depressed.

Because for three years in high school, no one regarded me as a liberal arts student...

I grew tenaciously in the cracks—the welcoming pine! (cold joke……)
Accounting is not what I want, I was transferred.I am a child who grew up under the red flag, bathed in the favor of the party, and the three views are normal and rooted in red seedlings. I can't even make real accounts. How can I make fake accounts? !

For this reason, the mother who was born as an auditing mother went from the first "accounting is actually very simple" to follow the temptation, to the later "who did you inherit from?" Very helpless, and I am also very helpless, because my grades in professional courses are actually not bad... I am just not interested.

So I took the second degree without hesitation, and changed careers in my senior year.When Sansan entered a design institute in X City and became a green and fresh engineer, I got the admission letter of graduate student from X University and successfully joined forces.

Regarding the matter of graduate students, the first reaction of many parents is, ah, children who love to learn, and then they will basically ask: "What major are you studying?"

From here on, there is discrimination.

You say, economy, people think, wow, really rich...

You say, architecture, people think, wow, really sturdy...

You say, philosophy, people think, wow, it's really profound...

You say, physics, people think, wow, really academic...

You say, geology, people think, wow... what did you just say?
There are often indescribable expressions on the face, mixed with surprise, bewilderment, passivation... and other emotions.I saw this expression for the first time on my mother's face when I was 22 years old.

I understand her shock at the word "geology" on the notice. A person who deals with numbers all day long cannot understand my love for this land... (囧)
But I also understand that for the sake of X University, she will not cut me.She squeezed the notice and snorted with a half-smile: "Accounting is cross-geology, it's enough to mix and match, who did you learn from?"

I tried to invigorate the atmosphere: "Mr. Lin, look at Mr. Lin, he mixes physics and composes music." If it were now, he would not only cross schools, majors, and disciplines, but he would also be a cultural student and an art student...

My mother finally chose to continue stocking...

Sansan was the third person after my parents to know about this matter. Her jade hand that drew the design drawing took the notice and stretched it out, touched it, dusted it, and pinpointed me—thief!Heart!No!die!

Sansan, you understand me so well!

What is a buddy?The best friend is that if I were a man, I would definitely not marry you!Otherwise, where would I hide my private money? !

Sansan and I are both very pragmatic people.for example:
As soon as she was a freshman, I decided on her graduation project: "Remember the theme is my wedding room".San looked at me with disgust: "Darling, I didn't study interior design."

When I accompanied her to find inspiration for the first project she took over during the summer vacation of the first year of research, when Sansan took advantage of the beautiful sales lady pointing at the ceiling of the model house and talking nonsense, she quickly turned her head and said to me: "Give me the calculation." The light time in winter on the first floor of Building B is fast."

I looked at her with disgust: "Third, geology mainly studies the material composition and sphere structure of the earth..."

Sansan made a sharp look: "Then you predict an earthquake for me?!"

I... looked up at the sky, resigned myself to draw a triangle in my mind, and estimated the distance between floors in latitude and longitude...

It can be seen that first, we do not have a thorough understanding of each other's professional fields, and second, she is S and I am M... But this does not affect our friendship that lasts forever.Because we know that each other is not what they appear to be.She said that I have a good temper but I can't hide my dark physique, then she is the tofu Xi Shi who is full of the temperament of Yu Jie and the inner tenderness...

So on the day she resisted the hunger strike arranged by her parents, I ate her share of lunch and succeeded in convincing her parents with a series of vicious social events in which "the parents arranged a road to the sky and walked out of a sad song of life".After my mother and I had a cold war for two meals, she took my mother out for an hour's walk, using "Which parent is not good for their children, and which child wants their parents to worry?" This is completely different from geology in my opinion. Tenderness Raiders without any relationship got my mom done.

So we complement each other, we share similar tastes, and we take care of each other's aftermath...

We have been together for more than 20 years, and our relationship has already surpassed friendship.On the other side's life path, they come in and out without any scruple.

One day after getting the certificate with Gu Wei, Sansan and I had dinner, and after eating, she dragged me to a KTV and sang "Friends Walk Together for Life" for more than three hours...

I can understand the feeling of boredom and soreness when watching the inseparable time of my closest friend and myself gradually transfer to another person, but I feel happy for the other person from the bottom of my heart.

Without Sansan's help, maybe the doctor and I would not have walked so smoothly.

Dear Sansan, there are many things, between not talking about being aggrieved and talking about hypocrisy.And we who are hypocritical generally don't choose to say it hypocritically.We have been together for so many years, and we will continue to do so in the future.

Finally, Sansan, hurry up and lose weight. The bridesmaid dress I ordered for you is still the one with a tube top. If you can’t wear it, you can only wear a bed sheet. It’s up to you to choose whether it’s stunning or terrifying.

【Finding the Southwest】

Silan can be regarded as my senior sister from a different school.She is from Hangzhou, but exudes a temperament different from that of ordinary Jiangnan girls, just like the old silver bracelet with complicated patterns on her wrist-the simplicity reveals a kind of dignified coquettishness.

Silan's appearance is a bit like a combination of Yang Liping and A Duo, and the angular betel nut bones are inherited from her Tujia grandmother.

We often jokingly call Si Lan the almsgiver.She always carried a big pale black bag, as if she might wander around at any time.

When I first met Si Lan, she hadn't started wandering yet, and she was quietly waiting for her Fei Xiaoguang.They were teenage lovers, all the way through high school.He studies economics, and she studies history. There are few classes, so she follows us to sit in, and we get to know each other after we come and go.Usually chatting, not much talk, occasionally a few words are related to Fei Xiaoguang.

Fei Xiaoguang was in our first class, and he can be seen on the scholarship bulletin board every year.The time I saw him in person, I was a little surprised, but the white-faced scholar had an overly serious expression, how could he support the aura in Si Lan's bones?
But Silan likes it.

"Xiaoguang said, after graduation, he will accompany me to travel all over the Southwest."

I didn't dare to tell her how a boy who runs to professors and counselors every day can let go of his great future here and go west with you?
Once, the college held a party, and she attended it with Fei Xiaoguang.During the period, they came over to chat and laugh with us. A senior sister exaggeratedly imitated the Mosuo people's wedding song, and a group of people laughed unsteadily.

The senior sister said, "Why do I feel that this girl has lost money?"

No matter what others think, Si Lan is still waiting for her Fei Xiaoguang with all her heart, and Fei Xiaoguang who is waiting for her to accompany her to realize her dream of traveling all over the Southwest.

I once asked curiously, "Silan, why are you so interested in Sichuan, Tibet and Yunnan?"

"This story is too long to tell. I promised my grandma to help her find someone," she said.

Not long after they entered their senior year, Silan suddenly stopped coming to the courtyard, and none of us could contact her.I asked my senior sister if there was any news about Si Lan, she wouldn't disappear suddenly like a fox demon, would she?

The senior sister said that the most common thing in Liaozhai is the fox demon who has been let down by white-faced scholars.

Later, the story of the white-faced scholar reached my ears.I thought the excuse would be the old-fashioned "I don't think we're a good fit", but it turned out to be "I don't think your heart is with me".

At that time, the senior sister cursed angrily: "Fart! He doesn't care about him, why is such a clever woman guarding such a clumsy husband! You are not afraid of being struck by lightning if you make such an excuse for cheating!"

On the eve of graduation, I met Silan in the library who came to return books.Her smile was still quiet: "I went back to attend the funeral a while ago." Her grandma left.

As for Fei Xiaoguang, her words were few and simple: "It's not ridiculous for a man not to be responsible, but it's hateful not to be responsible."

She gave me a turquoise pendant: "I'm going to Sichuan, and I will take the Sichuan-Tibet line to Tibet."

Such a slender figure with bright eyes.I hugged her: "Bon voyage. Remember to send me a postcard."

After that, contact was cut off.

Fei Xiaoguang got his wish and entered a very good foreign company. He heard about him in the circle of classmates, but his career and life have not been smooth.I can't say if this is retribution, but he has no regrets in his heart after missing out on such a good girl as Si Lan, only he knows.

During the summer vacation after graduating from university, when I went home to clear the mailbox, I found a dusty postcard.The front is the Potala Palace, the color of the sky is very beautiful.On the reverse side is Si Lan's words: "If you have the chance, you must come here to have a look."

I suddenly miss this unique girl.

After contacting my senior sister, I got a little idea of ​​her experience.

After graduating, she set off with 1 yuan in money. After a bumpy journey, she lost contact with Ganzi Autonomous Prefecture.When I heard from her again, she had already been teaching in an elementary school for five months, and she gave me an address: "Can you send me a package for the things you don't use? Both adults and children are fine."

"I collected five big bags of clean clothes and stationery and sent them over, and she wrote back a letter of thanks. The postage was included in the letter." The senior sister shook her head, "Wrote again, and replied that she had left 3000 yuan, and she had already left .”

Later, after another half a year, I received an email forwarded by my senior sister.

I opened the picture nervously.Beside the moat in the ancient city of Lijiang, a slender girl sits on the stone steps, a little tanned, her long hair tied into a bun with a hairpin, simple and indifferent.

"It's very good here, close to the sky, beautiful."

Si Lan is like a little fairy, keeping in touch with us intermittently.Sometimes it's an email, sometimes it's a postcard.

Until I received the news that she was about to get married.

The senior sister was pregnant with Liujia, so I went alone.After three years, I saw Si Lan again, holding her so happy that I couldn't speak.

The night before the wedding, Silan and I lay on the same bed and listened to her tell a long story.

A Tujia girl fell in love with a Kangba man who was 9 years older than herself.

He hides, thinking that a girl who is good at singing and dancing like a flower bone, how can she run around like a soldier like him.

She chased after, and forced a silver bracelet to him, and the other was a pair between her wrists.

He finally softened and asked someone to bring the agreed message.

She rushed to Aba Prefecture, but never saw anyone again.

She waited in Aba for five years, but there was no news. Finally, she married a scholar who went to study there, and followed her husband back to Jiangsu and Zhejiang.

I asked, "Did you find it later?"

Si Lan shook her head: "No, I haven't found it after searching for a lifetime."

She insisted on writing letters to Aba Prefecture, and later contacted his family members, but no one had heard from him.At that time, on the front line...

Si Lan touched the silver bracelet on her wrist: "Grandma always thought that he was here. It's actually quite good to have such a thought."

On the wedding day, I put Si Lan on horseback.On the way she was looking for another bracelet, she met Sangji, a Kangba boy who was willing to help her carry heavy luggage and accompany her no matter how far away.

I think this might not be the continuation of her grandmother's previous fate.

Last month, I sent an electronic wedding invitation to Silan's mailbox without any hope. At the end of the month, the school signed for a package. When I opened it, I found a small bronze statue of Bodhisattva, a Buddhist pagoda and a pair of exquisite silver Gawu .

Silan said, "This is the dowry."

(End of this chapter)