For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 35
May you be safe and happy, and live the rest of your life well.

It is said that the formation of character is greatly influenced by the family.If Gu Wei is a representative of positive influence, then there is no doubt that I am a representative of negative influence.With an "unreliable" father in front of me, I have no resistance to the "reliable" aura emanating from Gu Wei.

However, Grandpa made a conclusion after in-depth analysis: "Gu Wei looks good, but he still has a naughty spirit in his bones. The school looks good, but he is really good."

After Gu Wei listened to it, he smiled meaningfully at me, making me inexplicably feel like I fell into a trap...

The happy life of the senior handsome man and the empress dowager
More than 50 years ago, the second son of the Lin family was born. He inherited the excellent genes of his parents. He is handsome, smart, and knowledgeable. He went out with his parents since he was a child. Everyone who saw him would boast: "The second boy will definitely have a future."

In this regard, Mr. Lin was quite disapproving: "You only have a brain, but not a heart. Let him go, as long as he doesn't harm the society in the future."

If there are three sons in a family, the parenting model is basically the same: the eldest bears the lintel, and the youngest is doted on.

So under the unconscious care of his parents and the conscious care of himself, Lin Er grew up to be a teenager with high IQ and low EQ.How low is it?Mathematics full marks, Chinese failed.Do you think his language is not good? NO, because he was sleeping during the Chinese test, and he thought sleep was more important than the test.

Mr. Lin was busy with work, so it was rare for him to care about his child. When he saw Lin Er's report card, he was so angry that he grabbed him and beat him up, and kicked him to take the make-up exam.When Lin Er made up the exam, he was the only one in the classroom, with three teachers staring at him. He didn't feel nervous, and he took the draft paper and typed the draft slowly.The invigilator looked at the clock on the wall, and he was about to have a heart attack. He took off the watch and put it under his nose: "Time! Pay attention to the time!" There are still 10 minutes left and the composition is still empty. What do you think? !Lin Er obediently pulled over the test paper, brushed and began to copy the composition, and finally passed with a high score.So teachers hate him!Broken children are not worrying!

Lin Er basically lived in this state of loose immortals until the Cultural Revolution—was awakened by the whip of the Red Guards.His parents went to reform through labor, and his elder brother joined the work, so he took on the responsibility of raising younger brothers.The changes in his family and the tempering of life taught him to be cautious in his words and deeds. However, he still lived a simple and happy life in a difficult life. This kind of natural kindness and simplicity accompanied him all his life.Lin Er patiently survived until his parents were rehabilitated, the college entrance examination resumed, his job, his favorite girl, his own small family, and then, I was born.

The love story between Mr. Lin and his mother is quite legendary.

Back then, Mr. Lin took the entrance exams of two units before graduation, and the notice from City Y arrived one day earlier than that from City X.Grandpa and grandma naturally hoped that the children would stay with them, but Mr. Lin pressed the two notices under the pillow and went to sleep. When he woke up, he said in a very clever way: "Since God told the city Y to arrive early, it means there What's waiting for me." So he packed his luggage, waved goodbye to his family and set off for Y City.

After half a year of calm, playing a friendly basketball game with other units, with crowds of people and colorful flags fluttering, Mr. Lin’s eyes passed through layers of cheerleaders and landed on the mother who was in charge of supplying drinking water and towels on the other side of the field—this girl really nice!Then I tried my best to create opportunities to chase all the way...

At that time, my mother lived in the dormitory of the unit, half a city away from my family.Once, grandma went to see her, and when she was waiting in the guard room, she happened to see Mr. Lin knocking on the door. At that time, grandma thought in her heart, if only this young man could be my son-in-law.

Later, my mother took Mr. Lin home, and my grandmother saw it——Oh, it's really him!The mother-in-law and the son-in-law are really eye-catching!So he was very kind to Mr. Lin, and gave the green light all the way.

The two were having a sweet time, and the grandfather in City X heard about it, so he sent his uncle directly to City Y to tell his mother: Teacher Lin has a fiancée, and the other party is the daughter of grandfather's old comrade-in-arms. .

The mother would rather be broken than broken, and she broke up with Mr. Lin immediately-then the marriage and marriage have nothing to do with each other.

In what age do you still arrange marriages?Marriage with fingertips is too nonsense!Teacher Lin was so angry that he rushed back to City X overnight, but was beaten by his grandfather: "Shut up in the house and starve!"

Not giving food can't stop Teacher Lin's anger: "If you don't let me marry whoever I like, I won't marry anyone."

At the critical moment, my uncle stood up and said, "I got in touch with that girl from City Y. She's a pretty nice person, and she's also good to the second child."

Coupled with the persuasion of grandma and aunt on the side that "twisted melons are not sweet", grandpa reluctantly agreed, and took Mr. Lin who had been hungry for three days to plead guilty and went to the old comrade's house to dissolve the engagement.It is said that the "fiancée" has a special liking for Mr. Lin, and she was heartbroken to hear this incident, but the heartless Mr. Lin rushed back to City Y overnight as soon as she regained her freedom.

In order to win back the lady's heart, she used all of her playing the piano, singing, and writing poems, but she was unmoved. Teacher Lin, who was exhausted physically and mentally, was sent to the hospital.

Mother finally relented when she heard about it, and went to visit her.Teacher Lin immediately felt wronged when she saw her: "I don't know that girl very well. I can count the number of times I've met since I was a child! I don't even know whether the mole on her face is on the left or the right. Arranged marriage! It's dross! It's a plunder of humanity!"

The two reconciled as before.

Later, Teacher Lin took mother back to City X to meet her grandparents, and grandma was a little worried that mother-in-law would not like her.The mother said domineeringly: "It's not that I want to get married!"

Teacher Lin: "Yes, yes, I was crying and begging to marry."

People's hearts are full of flesh, and their emotions are all out of place. Once they met, they found out that mother was a reliable and good girl, and grandpa no longer objected.

On the day of the wedding, the "fiancée" appeared, and when she came up, she lay on Teacher Lin's shoulder and cried.

Teacher Lin was stunned, and it took him a long time to come to his senses: "A man and a woman can't kiss each other, and they can't kiss each other." Pushing the other party away, he quickly caught up with his mother, "Wife, I'm innocent, wife—wife—I'm in a suit What if it gets dirty..."

In our family, when my mother's opinion was opposed, she would say: "You two Lin bully me!"

When Mr. Lin's opinion is opposed, he will say: "You two girls bully me!"

When my opinion was opposed, I held back for a long time: "You couple bullied me!"

Then, the vile couple will put on a matter-of-fact look and say in unison: "What?"

Teacher Lin and my mother fell in love with me until I was born, eight years, which he always described with bitterness as "eight years of war of resistance".They have bickered and quarreled, but their relationship has always been good.People are strict and dignified, unsmiling in front of people, but sticky behind people.When I was young, I was still worried about "there is a minor in the family, so pay attention to the impact". When I went to college, the two of them became unscrupulous: half of each person had to eat buns for breakfast, hold hands when going for a walk, and watch TV. They have to be close together, and when there is an advertisement in the middle, they have to kiss...

I bite the bullet and protest: "You two, pay attention! There are still singles here!"

The two of them continued to speak in unison: "What?"

Not much, I'm out of sight.Just as she was about to evacuate to a safe area, my mother added insult to injury: "Instead of being jealous of us here, why not find one yourself." I swear I never had any jealousy-related expressions on my face.

Later, I took Gu Wei home.These two people paid attention to it a lot. When watching TV together, they both sat upright, acting like elders.Teacher Lin saw me leaning against Gu Wei's arm, feeling uncomfortable: "School Lin, stand like a pine, sit like a bell!"

I curled my lips: "The clock is down."

Gu Wei pursed his lips and laughed until his ears turned red.

After a day of stretching, Mr. Lin returned to his original nature.

"Honey, peel an orange for me." "Honey, I want to drink water." "Honey, my neck is sore, rub it for me."

With Gu Wei at the side, my mother was still a little embarrassed.

I said, "You two were so sticky in the hospital back then, didn't you see Gu Wei?"

Ever since, they stick to theirs, and we stick to ours.

According to my aunt's description, my mother never had a lolita era, and she was domineering since she was a child.

When she got married, grandma specially had a long talk with Teacher Lin: "You have to let her more in the future."

When I was a little bit socially conscious when I was two or three years old, my grandmother had a long talk with me: "You have to give her more in the future."

In fact, grandma worried too much, we father and daughter have always let her be rounded and flattened in front of mother: Teacher Lin is enjoying it, but I am not worthy of fighting.

A while ago, my mother had some complaints about the washbasin at home, but I can't say exactly where the complaints are.

Mother: "Old Lin, I don't think this pool is good."

Teacher Lin was playing games with his laptop, and casually agreed: "Oh, then change it."

Mother: "Why don't you just redecorate the house?"

Teacher Lin didn't even look up: "Yes, yes. Repaint it, change the color, change the sofa, and change the wife."

Then, he was beaten by my mother.

Teacher Lin's appearance is extremely deceiving.Before I entered the first grade of elementary school, Mr. Lin attended the parent-teacher meeting for the first time. He wore gold-rimmed glasses and had high brows and deep eyes. He also asked questions in a timely manner, gave suggestions, and his words were decent and to the point.

The next morning, as soon as I entered the classroom, the class teacher asked, "Is your father a reporter or a researcher? He has such a good temperament."

All the teachers who have taught me have the impression of Mr. Lin as "a scholarly family, gentle and modest", I can only say hehe, I really can't tell how cute and arrogant he is at home, childish and boring.

One, sticky.

Before the age of 40, the first sentence when coming home from get off work is: "Wife—where is my wife?"

As long as I am on a business trip, I keep texting: "Do you know where I am? Room XXX in XXX hotel." "Do you know who I ran into this afternoon? XXX, XXX, and XXX." "You know what I had for dinner Is it? XX, XX, XXX..." Before going to bed, I will also send a text message "I'm sleeping".Mother wanted to blackmail him for a while.

Two, narcissism.

Every day after shaving in front of the mirror, I would sigh to myself: "You are so handsome."

My mother often said to me with a "Bodhisattva bless" expression on her face: "It's a good thing you didn't inherit your personality from your father, otherwise I would die of exhaustion."

Teacher Lin: "What's wrong with inheriting me? Inheriting me is a big beauty who is all about the country and the city."

Three, be stubborn.

I never bring special products on business trips, thinking that "the special products in the store are all deceiving foreign devils", but I always bring back a bunch of them every time, euphemistically saying "I bought them for you to use for fun". (What's so good about this?!)

The reason why my personality is relatively young and mature is mainly thanks to Mr. Lin. When I was 20 years old, I made up my mind: "I will never find someone like Teacher Lin in the future!" No matter how handsome I am, I can't bear it.

It is said that Mr. Lin suffered internal injuries to this day.

Teacher Lin said: "I cut a piece of meat and changed a son-in-law." The description was extremely bloody.

When I was acting like a baby with me at home and I ignored him, I was still arrogant at first: "If I wasn't sick, you would still be single right now." Then it became, "If you have a partner, forget about dad!"

My mother always said that Mr. Lin is just a young master, and he will never learn to worry about family affairs in his life. However, he is such a master who can't worry. When I fell in love, all his worry factors exploded.After hearing that I had a boyfriend, he kept thinking about it.

"Hey, what kind of personality do you think she is looking for? Lively or steady? Tsk, it's better to be steady, but there are lively and lively ones."

"The boy won't be in the same profession as her, right? After that, the two of them will run outside, it won't work."

"White skin or dark skin? Well, it must be white, and black doesn't match her."

"Hey, has that boy worked yet? Where is he from? Can you follow her back to City Y? It's best if you can follow her back."

The first time I took Gu Wei home, Mr. Lin was very happy at first. He had a good impression of Gu Wei before, but when he thought that there are so many people who like doctors, he started to worry, and he sighed in bed at night: "There are too many temptations. School and school can deal with it for a day or two, but they can't handle it for ten or twenty years..."

Therefore, Teacher Lin talked directly to Gu Wei: "You are now in the period of passionate love, and you can see everything about each other. How long has it been? There are so many temptations around."

Gu Wei: "I know what others see in me, and what the school sees in me. So I don't think about others."

After Mr. Lin made it clear that Gu Wei was not in trouble, he began to discuss with his mother: "Hey, let them deal with it first. You can tear it apart after a while, and the child will not be sad. It's okay, I'll keep an eye on it. If anything goes wrong with Gu Wei, I will be the first to deal with him!"

Mother: "The school will stay in X City."

Teacher Lin began to worry again: "That's right, it's too far away, I can't reach it with my hands." He felt that I was far away if I was more than half an hour's drive away from him.

So Mr. Lin talked with me again, and after knowing that I was firm, he went to discuss with my mother: "You said it's not good to have Gu Wei transferred to City Y. Or should we go to City X after retirement?"

My mother said: "If you are not familiar with the place, you will buy a house and decorate it when you are old?"

Teacher Lin started to worry again. After worrying for a while, she thought about it: "I'll buy the house, and let Gu Wei watch over the decoration."

Later, Gu Wei came to the door more often, and the better he got along with Mr. Lin.The more Mr. Lin looked at it, the happier he was: "The young man is very good, very good, very good."

Later, Teacher Lin began to worry about other things.

"Hey, I read the newspaper just now, saying that the proportion of young people dying from overwork is increasing year by year. Gu Wei is so busy, what should we do?"

"Hey, Gu Wei works so close to the radioactive source, isn't it bad for his health?"

"Hey, the magazine says that doctors are one of the ten most stressful professions."

"Hey, I heard that the school's cousin went to Guizhou to participate in the Zhixi project. The child went out when he was still so young. What if the school principal gave birth to a child and Gu Wei went out?"

……

When Yinxi came back from Jinshi's big wedding, I dragged Gu Wei back to my room.night--

Mother: "Why are you tossing and turning?"

Teacher Lin: "Hey, I'm not married yet, these two young people are young, wouldn't it be nice to live together?"

Mother: "The child knows it well."

Teacher Lin: "That doesn't work either. Feelings are coming up, right? I can't control it. Should I stop looking?"

Mother: "Sleep peacefully for me!"

standard hero home
According to the doctor's grandfather, the doctor's father was very reserved back then. He was afraid that Meng Lang's pursuit would frighten his beloved girl, so he suppressed, suppressed, and suppressed for nearly two years.

After expressing their hearts to each other, the doctor's wife was very reserved, so she got along slowly. After almost four years, she was forced into marriage by the two parents.

I suddenly realized that Mr. Gu's patience is inherited from there, and the plots are all inexplicably similar...

The doctor's father was not in a hurry to have a baby after returning home with a beautiful woman, and wanted to adjust the doctor's mother's physical condition to the best.As a result, the parents were anxious.After Gu Wei was born, the names should have been arranged according to seniority, but seeing the doctor's mother's weak appearance when she was pushed out of the delivery room, the doctor's father decided: "Call me Gu Wei, and put our surnames together."

The role model comes first, when Gu Xiao was still a fertilized egg, the name was given.

In the doctor's parents' house, such a scene is often seen.

The doctor's wife handed the doctor's father a clean rag: "Wipe the bookcase clean." The doctor's father began to tidy up the bookcase and wipe the bookshelves.

The doctor's wife patted the doctor's father: "Go and make a flower stand." The doctor's father put down the newspaper and went to the terrace to organize the potted plants.

The doctor's wife: "Old Gu, come here and make a fish." The doctor's father went to the kitchen to put on an apron and cook.

There is never half a word of nonsense, just do what you say.

I sighed: "Mom is too powerful."

Doctor: "Our family has always educated our children by precept and example."

(End of this chapter)