You are my rare tenderness

Chapter 2561 Ending (5)

Fang Zilin and Xiao Cheng are already engaged, and she is very envious of An Nuan before they are married, and she especially hopes that her marriage can be like hers, so she invites An Nuan and Lingling to drink coffee and discuss marriage with them way.

"Boss, how do you and your husband keep the freshness of your marriage? I see that you are still like a couple in love. Xiao Cheng and I are not so good now. Boss, please teach me quickly, I want to Learn from you, and I will always be in love with my husband, and always keep freshness." Fang Zilin asked An Nuan for advice very humbly.

An Nuan was drinking coffee while thinking about what to say, but after thinking about it for a long time, she couldn't figure out how she and Rong Jing kept their relationship so good, and finally had to say: "Actually, I think marriage is such a thing. , Different people have different opinions. Brother Jing and I have a good relationship. We grew up together. I have been brought up by Brother Jing since I was born. Although he is only one year older than me, he is like a brother to me. It’s like Dad again, I think he is more important than my life now.”

If An Nuan really wanted to say something about the way of marriage, An Nuan really couldn't say it, because in her opinion, she really didn't go out of her way to maintain her relationship with Rong Jing. Or, she felt that the relationship between her and Rong Jing did not need to be maintained at all, because in their world, each other was indispensable.

It seemed that there was no constructive answer for asking An Nuan, so Fang Zilin had no choice but to turn her head to Lingling.

Lingling had two marriages. The failure of the first marriage was really not her fault, but the second marriage was always good.So she still has a say in marriage.

"Zi Lin, maybe you don't understand some of what I said, but you just need to remember it well. In the end, marriage is to turn two completely unrelated people into a family, and the family stays together. Of course, the main thing is to be tolerant and considerate of each other. Marriage is completely different from falling in love. When falling in love, both of them lack a sense of responsibility and commitment. What they think most is not to keep each other's relationship going, but to be together when they are together. If you don’t agree, you will divide. But after marriage, it will be completely different, because it is very difficult to form a family.”

Lingling took a sip of coffee and smiled knowingly when she thought of her marriage with her husband.

"It's normal for husband and wife to have friction. After there is friction, you can't fight your enemies like you don't want each other, but you should both give in to each other.

As the saying goes, when husband and wife quarrel, fight at the head of the bed and fight at the end of the bed, the most important thing to pay attention to is that you must not leave the unpleasantness overnight. Once it is overnight, it will always change the taste just like the overnight meal. "

Fang Zilin listened very seriously. She felt that Lingling's words were very inspiring to her, so she thought for a while and asked, "Xiao Cheng is a rather boring person. Sometimes when something happens, I can't argue with him even if I want to quarrel with him." When I got up, he didn't quarrel with me at all, just sat there alone and let me talk, like a gourd. Then tell me, what should I do?"

"Then don't quarrel. When you want to quarrel, you should think about whether there is a need to quarrel. Give yourself 3 minutes to calm down first."

(End of this chapter)