wolf road

Chapter 10 Wolf Spirit (10)
be patient
Because the wolves have a better endurance and fighting mentality, they always maintain strong energy.Life in China is restricted by group politics, requiring everyone to make contributions within their ability to their own ethnic group, which in itself is a huge coordinating force.When coordinating various internal relations of this ethnic group, individuals often have to emphasize and suppress their own feelings to a certain extent, which is called tolerance.To a large extent, forbearance is not about swallowing one's anger and calming down, but a way of thinking to achieve a certain purpose in life and avoid being emotional.For this reason, forbearance is actually a power of wisdom in life.Many times, small things can't be tolerated, and big things are ruined, which is not worth it.Confucius taught us a long time ago: If you can't bear it, you will make a big mess.

During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang assisted Liu Bei, determined to regain the Central Plains.He often sent troops out of Qishan to attack Sima Yi.But Sima Yi always refused to come out and fight Zhuge Liang.Zhuge Liang tried every means to humiliate Sima Yi, but Sima Yi always ignored Zhuge Liang's humiliation. In short, he just refused to come out to fight Zhuge Liang.Every time, when Zhuge Liang ran out of food, the Shu army would naturally retreat and the war would be over.Zhuge Liang sent troops out of Qishan six times, and each time he returned without success. Later, Du Fu, a great poet of the Tang Dynasty, also lamented for him: "He died before he left the army, which made the hero burst into tears."Sima Yi was able to bear it, so he was not defeated by a generation of Confucian general Zhuge Liang in terms of national plans.

Therefore, when something happens, you must be steady, and don't try to be quick and spoil the plan.

If you can't bear it a little, you can make big plans, don't make big mistakes because of small things!
In a sense, patience is a strategy to preserve one's life, because a little intolerance can lead to a big plan, because long-term things should be measured.Patience is a flexible forward strategy, just as defense and retreat in war are sometimes a necessary preparation for victory.

Patience is not an abstract concept, but a strategy with rich connotations. Patience is not passive and silent, but ready to go.Patience is essentially a dynamic balance, and when the equivalent accumulation reaches a certain level, a qualitative transformation will inevitably occur.Patience is the tempering of the will and the accumulation of explosive power. Patience is a wise choice in times of helplessness. It is the brewing of a bright rainbow in a storm. More importantly, we must endure loneliness, loss, even humiliation and hard work, and wait for and grasp the final stage of attack. good time.

Things are always moving and changing. Opportunities exist in patience. For anglers, a very good way to attack is patience.Great opportunities are often hidden in great patience. The so-called heaven will assign great tasks to people, and they must first suffer from their hearts, muscles and bones, and starve their bodies... This is the truth.A man with ambitions everywhere, how can he mess up the big plan for a trivial matter!The story of Gou Jian, the last overlord of Yue in the late Spring and Autumn Period, just explained the essence of patience and preservation of life.Patience is not stopping, not escaping, not doing nothing, but guarding the weak, accumulating, and advancing in a roundabout way.When fate is out of control, one must calmly accept this weakness, endure the position of the weak firmly, accumulate strength on the basis of defending the weak, and strive to become stronger little by little, so as to gradually break away from the disadvantaged position of the weak, and at the right time Strike out for new chances of success.

Know that patience is conducive to success in career, and impulsiveness will only miss good opportunities.In the face of other people's insults and injuries, we don't need to rush to prove that we are not weak and deceitful in a confrontational way, because Lu Yao knows the horsepower, sees the real skill over time, and effectively endures, which will make us gain more income.

There are many examples in Chinese history of using tolerance to reflect personal accomplishment and talent.For example, "Historical Records" volume ninety-two "Huaiyin Marquis Biography" contains the story of Han Xin accepting the test of humiliation under the crotch:
A young man in Huaiyin Tuzhong insulted his faith, saying: "If you grow up, you like to carry a sword, but your heart is timid."The day of public humiliation: Faith can die, stab me; if it can't die, get out of my crotch.So whoever believes in it, Ni came out of his crotch, and Pu Fu.Everyone in the city laughed and believed, thinking they were timid.In terms of Han Xin's ability to lead hundreds of thousands of soldiers and horses to command the Battle of Gaixia, it was easy to kill this young man in Huaiyin Tuzhong.But because of this, it's not worth getting into the trouble of hiding everywhere. With Han Xin's great ambition, he naturally refused to make a deal with the life of this slaughtered boy.This just shows Han Xin's special personality of fortitude and forbearance.Later, Han Xin could not be appointed under Xiang Yu, but when he came to Liu Bang, he was almost killed. Xiao He recommended several times, but Liu Bang was still hesitant, and Han Xin endured it, showing his firm will.After being appointed as a general by Liu Bang, he commanded battles and overcame difficulties many times, including the danger of being trapped in a dead place and then survived.

Han Xin was able to endure the humiliation of his crotch, and instead of being despised, he was respected by others. This is the result of his explanation of his behavior at that time with his later success.After Han Xin became the king of Chu, he summoned the young man who humiliated himself and protruded from his crotch as a lieutenant of Chu, and said to his generals: This is a strong man.When Fang humiliates me, I would rather not kill the evil?There is no name to kill, so forbearance is here.This is the embodiment of his wisdom of seeking respect through patience.

Patience is the tempering of the will and the accumulation of explosive power. It is the use of silent struggle to break through the net and melt the ice with invisible flames.Fight with patience.Learn to persevere in the pursuit of patience, and have a deeper understanding of life in patience.Genius is nothing but long patience!Try Harder!Maupassant practiced Flaubert's words, and finally became a striking star in the world literary world.

Patience is a kind of self-cultivation, which not only reflects the tolerance of human nature, but also reflects the quality of a person.A little intolerance leads to chaos, big plans and when it's time to take action are actually two situations. The limit of patience is very difficult to define. Sometimes, tolerance and intolerance are just a temporary choice.

Everyone has their own way of life and principles of life, and patience is a kind of knowledge in dealing with others.For the same situation, if we use forbearance reasonably, we may be praised by people, but if we cannot restrain forbearance, we may be disgraced by people.For example, it is very common to be stepped on or slightly bumped in public. If you can't bear it and hurt others or fight, then your intolerance will be spurned by others.A few years ago, Sun Tianshuai, a boy from Henan, fought fiercely because he couldn't bear the humiliation of the Korean boss asking him to kneel down. His intolerance aroused people's sympathy and praise.

Patience is sometimes a painful test, and it is unforgettable after suffering like hell.Goujian, the king of Yue, tasted his bravery, and Sun Bin pretended to be crazy and foolish after his bones were gouged out. Their patience was to save money and make money later.

Patience is affected by time, occasion, self-cultivation and human factors, and the degree of patience is determined by the individual.Learn to be patient, we will know tolerance; learn to be patient, we will know respect; learn to be patient, we will understand the meaning of struggle; learn to be patient, we will see the dawn of success!

wait
People's sorrows, besides the sorrows of parting and homesickness, are mostly the sorrows of boredom.Due to the interruption of traffic, I was unexpectedly delayed in a wild shop in a deserted village during the journey, and the traffic was closed for no time, and I had no relatives. The boredom in this situation is really indescribable.

A fledgling young man should pay attention to the doorway of this industry anytime and anywhere, and must study it very thoroughly.In this regard, we must not be negligent and careless.Some things seem insignificant, but we must observe them carefully. Although some things are difficult and dangerous, we must try our best to explore them clearly.If he can do this, he can remove all obstacles in his career path.

No matter how humble your current position, gaining new and valuable knowledge will greatly benefit your career.I know that some small employees in companies, despite their meager salaries, are willing to use their evenings and weekends to attend classes in cram schools, or buy books for self-study.They know that the greater the knowledge base, the greater the potential for development.

We should all be very familiar with the story of Zhuge Liang borrowing arrows from a straw boat.

We know that to borrow arrows, many conditions are required, such as a boat, a scarecrow on the boat, and soldiers who drive the boat, beat the drum, and lure Cao's army to attack with arrows.These are not a problem for Soochow. Even if they don't have it for the time being, they can be prepared immediately. This can be done by manpower.

But even so, Zhuge Liang still had three days to issue a military order in front of Sun Quan and Zhou Yu.why?That's because to borrow arrows, you also need a weather condition filled with fog in the river. This is not only a key condition for success or failure, but also a condition that cannot be created by manpower.Zhuge Liang knew that there would be fog on the river only on the third day, and the only thing he could do was two words: wait.Therefore, to act aggressively, you must learn to wait.Waiting is waiting. In many cases, waiting calmly is a wiser choice.

Waiting is not a helpless passive giving up.Waiting is judging the situation and looking for opportunities while watching quietly, which itself contains proactive factors.

Many entrepreneurs, especially those starting with technology, are often indecisive about when to raise capital.Get financing right away, worrying that your rights and interests will be infringed by the financing party; if you don’t, the amount of capital is too small, and it is very difficult to develop faster.The transformation of technology into industry is a very interesting phenomenon. Not all technologies are suitable for the market. Therefore, if you can learn for a while, you can gradually accumulate some experience and confirm your position. At the same time, you can also give investors considerable confidence.Financing at this time can often have both sides.Because all investors pay attention to first investing in people and then investing in projects. Only when you can withstand the ruthless test of the market can you be favored by people.So, waiting is necessary.

People have to learn to wait for three days of life.In real life, some people can't wait for three days, leaving a lifetime of regrets.

In life, there are many things that need to wait for three days.Learn to wait for three days.The severe winter is past and it is spring, the mountains and rivers are full of doubts and there is no way out, and the willows are dark and the flowers are bright and there is another village.

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