The lady is busy farming

Chapter 1233 Friends Have More Definitions
Hearing her mother's inquiry, and thinking about what happened more than half a year ago, Qiangwei simply learned what Aunt Li planned, and seeing her mother's surprised look, she shrugged her shoulders.

"I also accidentally ran into Aunt Li and her mother's family when they met in Fengqing Teahouse. I felt that they looked a little sneaky, so I sent someone to check and found out that the family was doing bad water. At that time, I also looked at the third sister. I was too young, so I felt compassion and told my second brother, I don’t care what he will do. I didn’t expect my second brother to act decisively, and directly made Mrs. Li’s voice hoarse."

"Jue'er drugged Mrs. Li?" Hearing this, Xia Yingyun was still a little surprised. She didn't expect Nangong Juechen's methods to be quite fierce, and she directly gave the Li family the most painful warning.

"Yeah, I think the second brother directly poisoned the old lady because he still has resentment in it, thinking that she didn't teach Aunt Li well. As for Aunt Li targeting me, it may be because I bumped into their plan. To beat them head-on, Aunt Li didn't dare to do anything to her son, so she had to spill the resentment in her heart on me."

Xia Yingyun nodded when she heard the whole story, "So that's how it is. This is self-inflicted evil. I knew the Li family's thoughts were not pure at the beginning, but as a concubine, she will be attached to Nangong even if she can cause so much trouble. Mansion life, let alone the Li family? When they plotted against Lord Hou, they just wanted to get benefits from it. Now that she is allowed in, the mother who deserves it will not be stingy, and don't even think about the rest. She really thinks that Nangong The benefits of the government are so easy to get?"

Speaking of this, Xia Yingyun took a sip of tea and hid the sneer from the corner of her mouth. Even if she didn't care about things before, her dowry income was managed by the nanny and jadeite. As for the harvest in the mansion, although it is not a lot, but It's all under the control of Butler He.

She knew that Hou Ye kept some guards outside, plus the disabled and wounded who were injured when he went to war with Hou Ye, Steward He would send some money to them every quarter.

Just these eating, drinking, and chewing expenses have already spent most of the income of Nangong Mansion, plus the expenses of the mansion, if it weren't for Steward He's careful planning, there would be no surplus at all.

Therefore, no matter how much Aunt Li was favored at that time, Lord Hou would at most reward her with some jewelry.As for the money, Master Hou will not give more.

"Not to mention Wei Yu, and my mother didn't pay attention to it. It's been a long time since I saw Aunt Li dressed up beautifully. In the past, she never had less than three or four pieces of jewelry on her head. Now she is plain A lot. Could it be that she gave all of herself to her natal family for nothing?" Having said this, Xia Yingyun just froze for a moment, then began to shake her head.

"It is said that a married woman and the water that is thrown out, as a woman, the most important thing is to live her own life well first. It is said that the emergency is not the poor. If the mother's family is a bottomless pit, if I am softer, I will be in trouble in this life. Being led by the nose by her natal family." Xia Yingyun said here, thinking of the wall she encountered with her mother last time, she still felt a dull pain in her heart.

"When a woman marries, she belongs to someone else's family. You must manage your own small life well first. If you have children in the future, all your thoughts must be for the sake of the children. If the natal family is reliable, it's okay, if not , you have to rely on yourself for everything. Do you understand?"

Hearing what her mother said, Qiangwei glanced at her in surprise, knowing that she was teaching her how to make choices when encountering problems.Before Qiangwei opened her mouth, Nangong Dieyi, who was practicing tea art next to her, refused to accept it.

"Mother, we are your daughters. Will you throw us out when we get married in the future?"

"You children, you must be treasures in my hands. Mother will never give up on you. But mother will always get old, and the power of this family will be handed over slowly. In the hands of your sister-in-law, their center of gravity will also shift. She also wants to plan for her own children. So, when the time comes, if the mother still insists on helping you, it will only divide the family. You understand Is it?"

She was angry with her mother before, but later she figured it out, maybe that was not her mother's original intention, and it was no longer her mother who was in charge of the house at that time.

They will also encounter the same problem in the future, and they may be sad at that time, and they may not communicate with each other.But so what?Not to mention that the catastrophe is imminent and they fly separately, but for the children and family members behind them, even if they feel sad and even feel guilty, they will not change the result in the end.

"Won't my mother choose a good wife who is educated and reasonable for my brothers? As long as she is a good person, we will definitely get along by then. I think the second brother's daughter-in-law Wu Min is pretty good."

"Stupid child, this has nothing to do with knowledge and reason. Maybe you will understand when you get married and have your own children and husband. As a mother, in order to protect your children, you can abandon everything. The biggest wish. Of course, this must be a kind and selfless mother, not the kind who are born selfish."

"Because I've reached this point today, I'll also tell you by the way that it doesn't matter how good you are as a friend. Only when you encounter problems, there are people who are willing to lend a helping hand. That's the real friend. No matter what other people choose, there is no distinction between who is right and who is wrong, maybe they have scruples in their hearts, and they don't want to implicate their family members or themselves."

"Hmph, what's the use of such a friend? Friends are meant to help each other. If you just hide when something happens, what kind of friend are you? I would rather not have such a friend." Nangong Dieyi refilled her mother and eldest sister. , with an unbalanced opening.

"You child, why can't you listen to what your mother says. You were born in the Nangong family, and which of the friends you make is not a daughter of the family? If something happens to you, when they want to help you, they will definitely think of it first. It won't hurt your family. Just take you as an example, if your friend is in trouble and you want to help, we will be implicated and even lose our lives because of it, will you still act without hesitation?" Xia Yingyun said, looking at her daughter with a serious face. Although such a thing may not happen, it is still necessary to give her a vaccination in advance.

In the vortex of Shangjing, there are no permanent friends and no permanent enemies.But the kind of friends who depend on each other for life and death are hard to come by,
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