The lady is busy farming

Chapter 1502 Relying on Yourself

It's all about the damned monarchy system, the royal family is the most important thing in everything, so there are so many rules as a last resort.

"Wei Yu, mother understands your heart. It's okay, mother won't do it next time. Sit down, come, and serve tea to the princess." Xia Yingyun took Qiangwei's hand and sat on the side limply. Now, as for the main seat, only the mothers are present at this time, and no one is paying attention.

After the girl served tea, Xia Yingyun sent everyone away except Nanny and Fei Cui.

"Wei Yu, this trip has worked hard for you. It has been delayed for so many days, and my mother is worried every day. If you don't come back again, I will ask your father to go there in person." Thinking of the long journey, They were all a group of men, she regretted it when she thought about it, and she blamed herself for being dragged in by Wei Yu at that time.Without thinking too much for a while, I agreed.

It was only later that she realized how hasty her decision was. How could she let her daughter run away so easily?Coupled with the fact that Master Hou didn't follow, I was even more worried.It made him restless for several days, but fortunately Hou Ye told him that Yun'er had passed.She was a little relieved.

Hearing her mother's worry, Qiangwei quickly took her hand to comfort her, "Mother, do you think I have come back safely? Since I dare to go out, I can definitely protect my personal safety. Mother, don't blame yourself, besides, I Did you find a delicious food when you went out this time? I just brought some for you today, and I will ask my mother to stew it for you later."

For Xia Yingyun's concern, Qiangwei felt very warm in her heart, and she felt this concern when she entered the mansion.As long as someone understands her heart, no matter how much she does, it is worth it.

"Really? That's a good feeling. Let the kitchen make it later. I have to taste how delicious it is." Xia Yingyun took Qiangwei's hand and looked up and down again. I didn't think about it carefully, but after such a thing, my mother suddenly felt that Wei Yu's courage is really not ordinary. You talk about you, a girl's family, and you leave as soon as you say it. To be honest, this kind of courage, my mother No."

"Ah? Is this also worthy of praise?" Qiangwei suddenly felt amused when she heard the envy in her mother's tone, "Then mother thinks I'm brave, is it a good thing or a bad thing?"

"Is this? Of course it's a good thing. As a woman, if you are more courageous, you will have a stronger temper, and it will be easier to judge things. In fact, women are decisive and agile, and they are also very respected, but women have always been weak. You rely on the men around you, and you can't make the decision. After a long time, men will also get tired. Therefore, only women who rely on themselves can attract the attention of your husband for a long time, because you have not caused him any pressure. In When facing you, he is very relaxed."

Xia Yingyun thought for a while, and suddenly expressed her feelings.Afterwards, she realized that the three daughters were all staring at her without blinking, as if something was on her face.She looked embarrassed, but fortunately she covered it up in time.

"What are you doing looking at my mother like this? Mother is speaking from experience. Listen carefully, this is some of my mother's opinions. If you think it makes sense, you should think about it later and be an independent mistress in the future." .If you feel that what mother said is wrong, you have to go back and think about it. What is the best way to do it. In short, one thing is that mother will not harm you.” Really, she just suddenly endured these stinky children. I can't help but sigh with emotion.It was treated like a monster.

For some reason, during these days when Wei Yu is not around, I often lose my mind from time to time.There will always be some messy thoughts in the mind.It was because Xiao Yu hadn't been raised by her side since she was a child, and when she wanted to get to know her, she realized that she was a very independent child.

Although her personality is a bit strong, she doesn't make people feel awkward, because she knows how to care about the feelings of people around her.Although some ideas conflict with what she has always followed, at the same time she also found that Wei Yu's ideas and style of doing things have indeed brought her a lot of convenience.At the same time, it also makes people hard to pick.

Listening to her mother's analysis, Qiangwei raised her eyebrows. Although she didn't know why she suddenly felt these emotions, it was undeniable that her ideas coincided with her own.

"My sisters and I will accept my mother's teachings with humility. I also think you are right. Women can rely on men, but they must have their own opinions and positions. Being weak will only become a burden for others. It will take a long time , No matter men or women, they will feel tired. What is the saying? The mountain will fall if you rely on others, and you will run away if you rely on everyone. Only by yourself is the most real."

"Pfft, big sister, what you said is so interesting! I agree!" Nangong Dieyi listened to the big sister's opinion, and immediately looked at her with surprise. Only on the basis of equality can we communicate well.It must be uncomfortable to bow one's head for no reason.

"Sister, hearing what you said, why do I feel scared?" Nangong Yuan'er listened to the opinions of several people, and suddenly thought of what her aunt had said to herself a few years ago.She told herself that a woman's youth is very short, and she must find a man she can rely on when she is young and beautiful.As long as you are favored by men, you don't have to worry about being rich and prosperous for a lifetime.

Moreover, my aunt said that women are born as vassals of men, so for the life I want, I can only please men. Only men are happy. Whether you want jewelry or silver, men will personally deliver it to you. in front of you.

But today, what my mother and eldest sister said and their opinions are completely contrary to what my aunt said.How does this make her choose?At that time, when my aunt told me these things, she still doted on me very much, and she was the first to cling to herself for any good things.Therefore, she didn't think that her aunt would lie to her at that time.

Seeing Nangong Yuaner's tangled face, Qiangwei smiled, "What's so scary about this? Think about it, if you are a girl with your own opinions, you can make decisions for yourself in everything, and you don't need others to tell you what to do. Then How does it feel? If you have the opportunity, you can experience it for yourself. We women should know what we want and need. Then we should fight for our goals. As long as we work hard, we should all succeed."

Well, it’s a bit of a backlog, and you can’t do anything, but that kind of hard work is also worth remembering, at least it can prove that you are a passionate person.

(End of this chapter)