60s Bai Fumei

Chapter 309
The main reason is that people don’t have many ingredients, and what they eat is simple. Now, recipes are not everywhere like later generations. There are many gourmet recipes and even videos on the Internet.

As long as you have a little interest, learn and try, it will not be difficult, unless you are a kitchen killer.

When everyone was having dinner, Xia Jing tugged at Xia Xiao's sleeves, and the two sisters went out for a walk.

"Sister, when do you think I should get married?" Xia Jing asked.

Xia Xiaodao: "Although you and Yan Hao have a good relationship, don't rush to get married. Let's talk for at least two more years. If your relationship is stable during these two years and you both feel that you are suitable, then you can get married again."

"I thought so too. Today Yan Hao told me about getting married. Although I also wanted to marry him, but now he just came here and I don't know what's going on with his family. I didn't agree. I also want to spend two years together. " Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiao nodded, "Then you also tell him that you are in a relationship now, and you can tell each other if you have anything. I let you stay for another two years. The main reason is that you are in the production team. After all, it is different from It’s the same as in the city before. Here you have to have the spirit of enduring hardships and standing hard work, and it’s very experienced here. When people are in difficulties, it’s easier to see a person’s essence.”

Speaking of this, Xia Xiao said again: "I'm not saying that Yan Hao is not good, Yan Hao is very good, and his feelings for you are also very real, but he is not mature enough, you are still young, there is no need to get married so early. After all, there are many things to consider after marriage, so it's too early to mention marriage, and you have to be prepared, you can't hide from his family for the rest of your life."

Xia Jing nodded, "Understood, sister."

"Yan Hao is now mentioning marriage, probably because of the situation of the production team. If you are married, you can apply for a dormitory separately, like Wang Aihua and Fang Yuejin. Otherwise, he can only live in the male educated youth dormitory like now. You Living in a female educated youth dormitory, you may eat in the cafeteria by yourself occasionally, and it is not convenient to eat here, after all, you have to consider the thoughts of the dormitory people, right?"

When Xia Xiao said it, Xia Jing said: "Yes, Yan Hao told me the same thing today, saying that if we get married, we can apply for a dormitory, we can start a fire together, everything is more convenient. I naturally want to Those who married him want to be with him, but when I think of his family, I don't know what his family's attitude is, I'm a little worried."

"His family, don't worry about it for the time being. You and Yan Hao have a good time, mainly because of Yan Hao. He is willing to come here from H province for you. This kind of heart is precious, but don't be too moved and put it away." His position has been lowered."

Xia Xiao reminded that what she didn't say was that a large part of Yan Hao's coming here was for Xia Jing, but maybe a small part was also to resist his family.

After all, everyone has such a period of rebellion, some people are early, some people are late, who knows whether the current Yan Hao came through the hardships because of the rebellious period, but from the north to the south, he can persist all the way , This heart, this affection, and even this perseverance and persistence are also admirable.

Xia Xiao didn't want Xia Jing to lower her position because of this emotion, and give way in front of Yan Hao. It was fine at first, but as time went on, she knew that something would definitely go wrong.

"I didn't place a low position, Yan Hao and I are dating." Xia Jing was a little puzzled.

Xia Xiao didn't know how to explain it, so he could only say:

"Xiao Jing, men can't be used to them, and they can't be indulged. You can get along well with Yan Hao, but there are some things you can't do for him. Now that he's in the production team, you have to bring him into this environment as soon as possible. , but you can't do everything for him.

There is also the question of eating, or the two of you go to the cafeteria to eat together, like today, you prepare it here, pack it up and send it to him, you can't do this every day, right?Although you live in a female dormitory, you can also let him come over to help you cook and cook together, and then pack with him and find a quiet place or eat together on the grass. This is definitely better than you. good. "

When she was in college, she met many boys who cook and deliver meals for girls, and she also saw girls who cook and deliver meals for boys. Some people will be moved for a while, but if they go on for a long time, these moving habits will change. As it should be.

Whether it's the elderly or adults or children, everyone is the same, you can't be too used to it, too indulgent, too much is not a good thing.

Although there is a new society, but now men are still male chauvinists in their minds and bones. If they are too used to men, they will only suffer themselves.

For those women who are wronged and seek perfection, men will not appreciate her difficulty, but will only take it for granted.

Yan Hao is a good person, but if Xia Jing takes care of Yan Hao in everything, it's hard to say what Yan Hao will become in the future.

"Sister, I kind of understand what you mean, but I can't express it." Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiao smiled and said: "I was just talking about it. I watched you cook and pack and deliver meals to Yan Hao. That's what I wanted to say. You have to learn to let Yan Hao take the initiative. Only when a man learns to take care of you, can he take care of you?" What really makes you feel safe and reliable, do you like a man who takes care of you, or a man who always wants you to take care of him?"

"I must like a man who takes care of me." Xia Jing said without thinking.

Xia Xiaodao: "That's it, so you have to work hard yourself, but you can't do nothing. Sometimes you also care about each other, and many things are mutual protection. Let's take an example. He was sick. You always took care of him when you were young, and you always took care of him, but when you were sick, he couldn’t take care of you, and he couldn’t even do anything for you, maybe he couldn’t go to the hospital to accompany you and take care of you. At that time, Can you feel comfortable?"

Xia Jing shook her head and said with a smile, "Sister, I understand your worry."

"It's good that you understand." Xia Xiao smiled slightly. The two sisters were also chatting casually. Xia Xiao suddenly reminded Xia Jing because she was thinking about it. She only hoped that Xia Jing and Yan Hao would be fine in the future.

"You and your brother-in-law are like, it must be very good?" Xia Jing said.

Xia Xiaodao: "Anyway, when I cook, your brother-in-law will take the initiative to help me wash the dishes and help me light the fire."

When it comes to her own affairs, Xia Xiao can't say anything. She and Gao Jiaxing get along very casually, and they don't do anything deliberately.

Moreover, Xia Xiao can understand other people's affairs, but Xia Xiao may not be able to understand his own affairs.

Speaking of this, Xia Xiao said again: "Don't feel bad about me, you just learn how to do it, how you two get along is up to you, anyway, just don't wrong yourself too much."

(End of this chapter)