60s Bai Fumei

Chapter 54
As soon as Gao Yongfang and Wang Xiumei left, Zheng Xianghong asked Gao Jiazhi, "Jiazhi, what do you think of Teacher Wang?"

"What does Mom think?" Gao Jiazhi asked.

Zheng Xianghong shook his head, "I don't know, the key is what you think. If you like it, mom will follow you. If you don't like it, don't talk to your third sister in the future. Mom feels heartbroken seeing her like that now. A good person came to the city It’s been like this for a few years.”

"I don't know." Gao Jiazhi also shook his head, "Anyway, if Mom likes her, I'll think about it. The main thing is that the Gu family can be filial to Mom." Gao Jiazhi didn't know what kind of wife he was looking for, but at least he had to find one Good-tempered, filial.

Her mother has a good personality, and has been bullied by her grandma for so many years. Gao Jiazhi is not willing to find a fierce and noisy daughter-in-law to bully her mother.

Zheng Xianghong stared, "Look at what you said, it's not your mother and I will marry a daughter-in-law. This daughter-in-law will live with you for the rest of her life, and you have to choose it yourself. Otherwise, mother will just fall in love with you. If you don't like it, what's the point of trying to live a life?" mean."

"Mom, I'm still young, what's the hurry." Gao Jiazhi shook his head.

"You are so young, you are almost twenty, now you have to think carefully about your wife, or all the good ones will be picked away." The girls in the village are all engaged and married early. Zheng Xianghong hopes that his son can find a good one. Daughter-in-law live a good life.

"You can look at the girls in the production team, but forget about the educated youths. The girls in the city can't stay in the country." Zheng Xianghong is not optimistic about the educated youth's daughter-in-law. These girls in the city are not bad, but in the countryside. It's not as good as being in the city, how can the girls in the city stay here.

If there is a chance to return to the city in the future, who knows what they will choose at that time, if they leave their son and grandson and return to the city, Zheng Xianghong is not happy to see these.

"Why can't the educated youth do it?" Gao Jiaxing replied.

"Yes." Gao Jiazhi also responded, if there were no comparison of these educated youths, the girls in the village would naturally be good, but the comparison of these educated youths would not be enough for the girls in the village.

One is that boys are generally favored over girls in the village, and they rarely spend money to send their daughters to study, so the girls in the village are rarely educated, and their temperament is not as good as the girls in the city, but compared to the girls in the city, the girls in the village Simple and down-to-earth.

Zheng Xianghong said: "What's the city like, what's the country like, don't talk about other things, look at Xia Xiao's dormitory, Wang Zhiqing and Yang Zhiqing are from the capital, Xia Xiao and Sun Zhiqing are from S city, that's the whole country. In addition to the most prosperous city outside the capital, there are also Feng Zhiqing and Dong Zhiqing, they are all from big cities, if they have the opportunity to return to the city in the future, how can they stay?"

Gao Jiazhi and Gao Jiaxing were silent, and after a while Gao Jiaxing said, "Perhaps the national policy will change. By that time, the educated youth can return to the city, and it is impossible for us to stay in the village all our lives."

Gao Jiazhi also nodded, the two brothers are ambitious people, they both want to get ahead, and they are unwilling to spend their whole lives farming in the village.

"Who knows what will happen in the future, mom only looks at the present." Zheng Xianghong said here, seeing the silence of the two sons, she said again: "Oh, I don't care about you anyway, after all, you marry a wife and spend your whole life with you, so mom also I don't stop you, if you really want to find an educated youth, mom won't stop you, but you just have to treat him well, don't let him run away when the time comes, what do you do?"

"I haven't seen how kind your father is to you. You haven't been determined to live with your father." Gao Jiazhi said.

Zheng Xianghong said: "Look at the men in the village, your father has treated me very well."

"A man has to be nice to his wife, so that women are willing to live with him." Zheng Xianghong said again.

Gao Jiaxing pursed his lips, "The red army cousin is not good to Li Shengmei, but he has been a patriarch for so many years, let's see what Li Shengmei is like, he doesn't do any work at home, and he almost brings food to his mouth. In the production team, the sky is the boss and the earth is the second."

"That's right, I didn't see Li Shengmei being honest as soon as the Red Army cousin cleaned up. Some women just need to be cleaned up." Gao Jiazhi said.

Zheng Xianghong paused, and said: "It was not easy for your cousin in the Red Army. He joined the army and fought on the battlefield. A flower in the village, like your cousin, many women are unwilling to marry him, but Li Shengmei is willing to marry, and she gave birth to three sons for your cousin, so she is naturally confessed."

"Mom told you to treat your wives well and fulfill your responsibilities as a husband. It's not for you to confess your wives in the future. Husband and wife will live a lifetime in the future. It's not an animal, even if it is an animal, you have to love it, otherwise you will be injured and die, and you will lose You are still yourself. And your wife is a human being, the mother of your children, who will accompany you for the rest of your life. Only when you treat her well can she treat you well. But there is a limit to being a man. Know what to do.

If you spoil your wife, that's your fault.Teach your children in front of others, teach your wife behind your back, if your wife is not good, it is because you did not teach well.But you can't beat and scold at will, this is wrong, some women will accept their fate if they are cowardly, but some women may not.Especially the women in the city. They grew up in the city and received urban education. If men beat and scold them, they will not be able to keep them one day.Regardless of country girls or city girls, wives can't beat and scold at will, otherwise, if there is a better way to go, how can they stay and live with you in a down-to-earth manner. "

Zheng Xianghong spoke for a long time, and then sighed earnestly, "Mom doesn't study much and doesn't have much education, but after living most of her life, she still knows the truth of being a human being."

Gao Jiazhi and Gao Jiaxing nodded, as if they were taught.

"Mom, don't worry, I will marry a good wife to obey you." Gao Jiazhi said.

Zheng Xianghong smiled slightly, "I don't care if you are filial or not, as long as you are nice to you."

Speaking of this, Zheng Xianghong looked at Gao Jiazhi worriedly and said: "Jiazhi, mom knows that you have a good relationship with Yongfang since you were young, but Yongfang's unreasonable request that you ignore her. She chooses her life, and it doesn't matter if she lives well or not. Can't blame anyone else."

Zheng Xianghong is not optimistic about this marriage, but Gao Jiazhi and Gao Yongfang have a good relationship. Zheng Xianghong is afraid that Gao Yongfang will ask Gao Jiazhi, and Gao Jiazhi will agree if he is soft-hearted.

"Mom, don't worry, I don't like that Teacher Wang." Gao Jiazhi said.

Zheng Xianghong said: "He's still a good person, but he's divorced, and he's a few years older than you."

Gao Jiazhi shook his head, "Teacher Wang looks shrewd and can calculate, but also has a lot of careful thoughts. I don't like it."

(End of this chapter)