It's not too late to love again

Chapter 560 Let Lan Tan Go
Luo Qishan spoke very straightforwardly, and Yan Zhui didn't understand.He raised his eyelids and said lazily, "Are you sure you want me to scold you?"

"Yes, I'm sure. As long as you don't hide your bad emotions, as long as you tell me, I feel better than you are ignoring me so coldly now. If you don't feel happy, it will only be worse if you hold it back, and it will be worse if you say it You can get by if you are comfortable. You shouldn’t be ignorant of such a simple truth.” Luo Qishan’s firm and brave eyes were bright and full of expectation.

She is a brave woman, and the light in her eyes at this moment made Yan Zhui tremble slightly... The fleeting look of regret between her eyebrows was quickly replaced by a coldness.

"Okay, since you insist on me, then I'll say something." Yan Zhui's calm tone contained a chill that made Luo Qishan's heart palpitate.

"In Jinhong No. [-], after you were poisoned, you said that it would take half a year to conceive. In fact, it only takes two to three months for the remaining poison to be discharged. After that, it will not affect pregnancy, because your poisoning is not deep, and the rescue is timely. But you said you would For half a year, the real reason was the contraceptive pill. You used the poisoning to cover up the fact of the contraceptive pill. You had no intention of confessing to me at all. If Mrs. Chen hadn’t discovered the contraceptive pill you hid, you would have continued to hide it from me. Luo Qishan, do you treat me like a husband by acting like this? Do you have any family values? Don’t forget that we are husband and wife, shouldn’t we be honest with each other? Shouldn’t we discuss major and minor matters with each other? Say After all, you have not entered the role of marriage and family from a single life. You are used to making decisions by yourself. Have you ever thought that you are not alone now? You have a husband and a family, and every decision you make is It will have a huge impact on me and you, but you still only stay in the thinking of being single! You should reflect on it, am I right?" Yan Zhui has a serious expression and deep eyes, which makes people feel like a huge boulder in mind.

Luo Qishan stood stiffly, her beautiful cheeks turned white and red, and her ears were hot, not excited, but surprised and ashamed.

There is no transition from a single life to a married family role.These words hit a point deep in Luo Qishan's heart, and the pain made her heart tighten.

But this sentence was like a slap in the face, and it woke her up severely!

Yes, she has been single for the past 25 years, she is not like many young people in modern society who actually start living together, trial marriage, and start a married life early before they get married.She used to do whatever she wanted, very comfortable, very free and easy, all kinds of major decisions, after she became an adult, she was able to make independent decisions, and never had to worry about anything.But now that she is married, she is no longer in a world of one person, and is no longer a single person who can do whatever she wants. Every major decision she makes will be shared by her and her significant other, sharing weal and woe. .

Yan Zhui's tone gradually softened a little, and his face was not so cold: "Maybe what I said was a bit heavy, maybe you think I made a fuss over a molehill, but that's not the point... The point is, we should all think clearly. Transition to marriage, there is another person in one person's world, how should we go on, how to do it, in order to maintain and manage our relationship and marriage. In this regard, I am not doing well enough, we all need to reflect, Improve, learn. The subject of marriage is too complicated. It is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along with each other. We must find a suitable way and method, otherwise, even if we have passed this hurdle, there will be more intense conflicts in the future. Me and you , It's time to think about it... I believe you will understand what I said, not because I am still angry with you, but because we have too many deficiencies that need to be improved, I hope you can understand what I am talking about."

Luo Qishan stood there dumbfounded, Yan Zhui had already entered the ward, leaving her alone to blow the cold wind by the window.

With Yan Zhui's attitude, Luo Qishan was not angry or resentful, because she was awakened, and what he said was correct, but she hadn't felt it before, and now she was suddenly pointed out by him, which had a kind of enlightening effect.

Luo Qishan was deeply immersed in Yan Zhui's words just now, she was not stupid, she instantly realized that an important key she needs to understand is... Will she really know how to live a married life?Even, she and he are eager to have a child now, but have they really thought through all the problems after giving birth?
Luo Qishan only felt a chill down her spine, she became extremely calm, and her mind became much more flexible. When she thought of various problems, she understood... She and Yan Zhui are like two travelers walking in the desert, suddenly seeing an oasis , I can’t wait to drink water, hoping to be full, but in fact, binge drinking is prone to problems.She and Yan Zhui were too eager for a beautiful love to happen to them. When the other party came into their sight and started to fall in love, the feelings that had been stored for 30 years erupted at once. They were too eager to have love and ignored the two people before marriage. There is no emotion, lack of understanding, and no planning for the living conditions and future after marriage.It can be said that in the minds of the couple, they have no concept of what life after marriage looks like.

Marriage needs a running-in period. Some people think that they have passed the running-in period when they live together or get along before marriage, but it is not.So people often complain that their life after marriage is completely different from before marriage, that is, the running-in period has not passed.

During the running-in period, some couples are lucky enough to adapt to married life after the running-in period, while others fail during the running-in period, and then part ways...

Yan Zhui and Luo Qishan entered the running-in period after realizing it. They collided fiercely and sparked. After hugging each other enthusiastically, they realized that they were not ready at all.To put it bluntly, the two are in love, but is marriage just love?
Love is beautiful, but marriage is complicated and difficult. Who can reap happiness without going through bumps and bumps?
Luo Qishan left the hospital silently, without feeling unwilling or unconvinced.She needs to calm down and think about it, does she really need this marriage?Do you really plan to bear the "unfreedom" that marriage brings to you for the rest of your life?
Yan Zhui had the same considerations as Luo Qishan... He wanted to know if he really loved Luo Qishan, and could he tolerate her for the rest of his life?Not for grandpa, not for mother, not for anyone, but only for himself, should this marriage still exist?If he was allowed to choose again and choose freely without family pressure, would he still marry Luo Qishan?
This is definitely the biggest test for the couple. The matter of the contraceptive pill is just the fuse. The most important thing is not this, but the two people's knowledge and understanding of marriage, a huge collision of ideas and values ​​and outlook on life!Once you have figured out many things, you will no longer be entangled and troubled. Whether you can understand or not is completely different ideology and state, just like Luo Qishan's current situation, she has figured it out, she understands, Yan Zhui doesn't understand He can understand why she took the pill, but what he wants to think about now is about the future, marriage, and family of the two... She and him started late on this road, and there are too many things to learn. too much.

With these cognitions, Luo Qishan didn't feel so sad anymore, because the reason why Yan Zhui needed to think was also a responsible attitude towards her, a sense of responsibility towards this marriage.Fortunately, he didn't let the contradictions pile up in his heart, and he was able to speak out his thoughts frankly, which is a kind of progress.Although it is difficult for a woman to understand Yan Zhui's thoughts, Luo Qishan has returned from a few years abroad at any rate, and her thinking keeps pace with the times, unlike those who are used to living in certain big environments with princess disease A woman like this is only self-centered in everything and doesn't care about other people's feelings. She is extremely harsh and picky on men, and no matter what she does, she can't satisfy this kind of woman's endless complaints...

Luo Qishan is very sensible, after being woken up by Yan Zhui, she already understood what he was thinking, and she suddenly realized that she has been preoccupied these two days, and the most important thing is not contraceptive pills, but what Yan Zhui said on the question of how marriages are run.

The relationship between her and Yan Zhui is developing too fast, but there are some hidden dangers. It is necessary to dig out and solve each other's ideological roots, so that it is possible to make great strides forward, and truly reach the level of Yan Shao and Shui Han, Du Cheng. With Tong Fei, Fandi and Xiaoying, Yasa and Sister Lan... They are so close to each other, trusting each other is like believing in yourself, loving each other is like loving yourself, and they are completely integrated into each other's lives .

The feelings that have not been precipitated after experiencing bumps and bumps cannot withstand wind and rain, and are extremely fragile. It looks like a happy appearance, but inside it may accumulate criticism and be vulnerable.Yan Zhui and Luo Qishan are now at the most critical juncture in the running-in period. If they cross the past, they will hold hands for a lifetime, but if they cross the past, they will break up peacefully...

The couple's transition from single to married was so sudden that when they encountered something, the first thing they thought of was not to tell their significant other, but to solve it by themselves.Both of them are very independent, and they always think that they can make up their own minds about everything, and just make up their own minds.Sometimes this kind of thinking is out of fear of causing trouble to the other party, and fear of making a marriage that has no emotional foundation worse. The starting point is good, but the result is not good.

When Yan Zhui went to Switzerland, he didn't tell Luo Qishan the real reason. He kept all such big things a secret, and Yan Zhui didn't know about Luo Qishan's USB flash drive and taking contraceptive pills until later. of.To put it bluntly, these two people are really the same, and no one should say the fault of the other, but they are not used to sharing the joys, sorrows, sorrows and joys of life with the other half.

When Luo Qishan walked out of the hospital, she felt more relaxed, just because she could appreciate Yan Zhui's painstaking efforts. Both sides thought calmly and figured out what they wanted most, which would be very beneficial to their future development.It's also because he has feelings for her and still loves her, that's why he said those words, otherwise he wouldn't need to think, just ignore her.

A torment can be exchanged for a deeper exploration and understanding, which is a good thing and not a bad thing.

As long as the love is still there, she believes that everything can be better, and the short cooling is just to boil again.

Luo Qishan's footsteps became brisk, and she no longer felt melancholy. It was time for her to think about other important things... Lan Tan, how is his trial going?

This idea just came up when the phone in the bag rang... This number made Luo Qishan frown.Is it aunt?What day is it today? My aunt usually doesn't call her. The last time my father had an accident, my aunt only came to the house twice and stopped asking. What's the matter today?
Luo Qishan picked up the phone, but before she could speak, the other party was already shouting...

"Hey, Shanshan, are your parents crazy? They actually said that they would no longer pursue Lan Tan's framing of your father, and that they would persuade you to go to the police station to close the kidnapping case! Crazy, they are really crazy !” My aunt was furious on the phone, her voice extremely sharp.

"What?" Luo Qishan was startled, and immediately froze.

Before Luo Qishan could react, another call came in, and it was from her mother.

"Hey, aunt, my mother is calling, I'll answer it first, and I'll contact you later..." Luo Qishan hurriedly pinched the phone on this side, and immediately picked up her mother's phone.

(End of this chapter)