One Moment: Li Yifeng's Best Time

Chapter 3 Everyone Can Be Confident
Ideal life
I am a typical Chengdu person in my heart, and my vision of the ideal life is no different from most Chengdu people: I have a job I like; I can rest for a long time in a year, enough to travel with friends and family; I usually stay at home , go around to eat some authentic delicacies, and talk about homely things.

If the dream was pushed away by fate when it first came true, then in the future, I want to slowly control it.Life is a drift, and there may be no way to change the passage of time and the direction of destiny, but on the way, you can use your own power to control the speed of drifting and the place to stay, to see the scenery you want to see, and to go to the distance you want to go.

mature
In the past few years, what people around me say the most is that I have grown up and matured.Of course, I am 26!I have eaten a few more years of salt and passed a few more bridges. Compared with when I first entered the industry, I should grow up and mature.

"Become famous overnight when I was young" made me feel arrogance that I couldn't find my way.At that time, I was very self-willed and self-centered, such as the matter of not being able to eat breakfast in time for the announcement.In the past, I often had to get up early to catch the flight to catch the announcement. In most cases, there was not enough time for breakfast.I don't understand this point very much. In my opinion, as long as there is no plan that cannot be implemented after a reasonable plan, there are no reasons why you can't buy it or where you can buy it.At times like this, I would be unhappy, with bad emotions written all over my face, and I would never be able to coax him for an hour or two.At that time, the people around me were very tolerant of me. They thought that I was probably just a little wayward child, and they basically let me go.But, time will always correct you. The barbs you shouldn’t grow and the crooked branches that take away the nutrients for growth will be pruned quietly, allowing you to reflect on your bloody self and grow up.

There was a time when I was so anxious to prove I wasn't a kid, I felt like I was different and I demanded that everyone treat me like an adult.I need dialogue, I need respect.In this way, I am more like a child clamoring for candy, and the way they deal with me is to stuff a candy.This kind of coaxing made me realize that adults do not depend on the age setting. You have to have a mature mind, demand yourself like an adult, talk to the world with an adult attitude, and understand and treat the world well. Become a better self to meet a better world.

I began to become peaceful, restrain my temper, treat people and things with a humble heart, and learn to be considerate and tolerant.

It wasn't a certain thing or a certain node that made me change. It was such a long time in the impact of the frame, and I looked back occasionally to realize that I was different.For this kind of growth, don't sigh, don't be complacent, believe that it makes sense to happen, smile at the past self, and then move on.

doubt

Artists are a type of people who have to be confident in front of others.

To put it in an easy-to-understand way, it is to have a strong aura.Some people's aura is innate, just like the draft queens who also came from Chengdu.Some people, such as me, will only turn on the aura mode before going on stage, commonly known as "people come crazy".I have seen some artists, there will be some rituals before going on stage, clasping their hands together and chanting words, or high-fiving the staff, and shouting loudly.I am the kind who silently walks on stage and sees the audience below, and the switch is turned on.

In front of people, I am temporarily worthy of the stage, but after people, I often put question marks on myself.Much of the time, confidence and doubt alternate.

When I see a song being sung heartily, or a performance that is done in one go without peeing, I always ask myself, can I do it?I imagine myself as a person standing on stage, and I will drum in my heart, thinking that others are great, and it is difficult for me to surpass or be as good as them.This kind of feeling is a bit like the exam when I was a child. Before the exam, I would be very nervous. I felt that I didn’t know all the questions and didn’t review them well. But after entering the exam room and actually doing the exam papers, I realized that it was not as difficult as I imagined.

This kind of self-denial and self-doubt should be a good thing, at least I am not blindly arrogant.After the exam, I am used to doing the wrong questions again, thinking about why I made the mistake, whether it was really not good or because of carelessness.Now I will also have such a review of my work. After each event, I will look at the photos and videos of the scene, and I will ask my assistant to take pictures of some important scenes and watch the replays. It is clear what is lacking.

Now my internal strength is still sufficient, but if I want to advance to a higher level of martial arts, I must retreat and concentrate on practicing.I plan to take an entire period of time to go to class and recharge.

External affirmation is very important to me.Recognition and praise from others is an important basis for building my confidence.Many people say, I don't care what others say about me, I will do what I think is right.In fact, it is very difficult for us to really do this. We always care about what others think and say. We are all people in this world, and we are not so detached.It's just that I can discern what the original intention of other people's eyes is.I will not completely deny myself because of others' negation, but I will care about it and reflect on it.During this process, I will pay special attention to the opinions of my family and fans.Because they are important people to me.

not an entertainer
Mr. Haiquan once told me that you should not take too many detours in doing things. Listening to advice will save you more time on the road to success.I listened to this, but it was a pity that I didn't implement it very well.I belong to the stubborn temper that I have to hit the south wall by myself before I know how to look back, and I may think next time, "I will succeed if I hit harder this time."

When I was young, I always had to go on a rampage before I knew how to walk.

In the Vanity Fair of the entertainment industry, the thing that makes me least like an artist is "coldness".I have seen some people who have the super skill of "becoming acquainted in a second".Sometimes it's interesting to think about it, and I also think about whether I should practice like this.But the original heart gave me a principle: I don't want to get out of the mud without being stained, but I want to be able to pass my own test.You don't need to be sleek and witty in everything, a little edge is yourself.Naturally, if you don’t follow the trend, it will be no fun if people all over the world look the same, and edges and corners can sometimes become the highlight of life.

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