Every day I just want to hold the fourth master's thigh tightly

Chapter 1420 Everyone is a Proud Individual
Gu Youran smiled: "How could this be an interruption? I like to chat with you guys and come up with ideas. This will make me feel energetic. I'm going to be moldy every day in the mansion..."

Everyone laughed, but they didn't dare to stay too long. Pregnant women are easy to get tired, and they were afraid of disturbing her rest, so they chatted briefly, and then they went to Prince Lian's mansion to see Mingyan.

……

As they imagined, Mingyan's life was not good.

Ever since Ba Ye picked her up from his house in the suburbs of Beijing, Ba Ye's attitude towards her is obvious to all. He is more than ten times more considerate than before, and almost his whole heart is attached to her, even ignoring Zhang's pregnancy discomfort. Just let the government doctor go and see.

All the servants in Prince Lian's mansion could understand that the master was planning to reconcile with Fujin.

But Mingyan's fiery heart had already been crushed to gray by him, and she no longer had any interest in him.

If she hadn't enjoyed such a relaxed life, maybe he would take her back and she would accept her fate, but she already knew that it was so wonderful to live for herself, so she felt that even the man she loved was nothing.

Youran and the others are right, the greatest value of a woman is herself.

Realizing your own value is not to make men look at you more, but to live your own life well.

Contrary to traditional thinking, after reading Gu Youran's books these days, she suddenly realized:
Women are not born with the task of carrying on the family line;

When a woman marries a man, she does not just become a slave. She must obey him in everything and regard him as heaven. Even if she loses her self-esteem and is forced to the extreme by the other party, she still has to obey the family law of her ancestors, endure and humiliate her...

That's not real morality.

They are subject to rules that are restricted by morality, but when the other party has no moral bottom line, such morality becomes a knife for them to self-mutilate.

It's chains, it's hell on earth.

It is the most servile nature without human rights.

A few months ago, she definitely would not have such an idea, and would think that a woman who has such an idea is immoral, presumptuous, or even debauched... But now that she is deeply in the mud, she realizes how pedantic she used to be , how stupid.

I actually feel that I was born to serve others, and even if I lose myself, I still have to carry out this kind of morality.

But when the other party hurt her without a bottom line, everything she had persevered before became a joke.

It was also in this way that she re-examined her life and realized that people live for themselves.

No one has to obey others, everyone is a proud individual.

Therefore, even if Yinhu treats her very well now, so good that everyone around her is moved, she can no longer accept him.

Because she is insecure.

I don't want to repeat the same mistakes.

He had been gentle to her before, but how long could such tenderness under compassion last?
Ming Yan knows best in her heart that if a woman wants to live with peace of mind, she must make herself valuable and strong enough to handle everything in the rest of her life, so that she will not be afraid of anything.

And relying on men, is not far away.

Even if she married him, it was impossible to rely on him for the rest of her life.

A man will change his mind and will not hold her in his hand and take care of her all the time.

Only women can cherish and protect themselves forever.

Seeing Mingyan's expression that seemed to see through the world of mortals, everyone felt a little distressed.

Qi Fujin couldn't help but said: "Oh, Ba Ye is also good to you now, why don't you just make up..."

(End of this chapter)