Every day I just want to hold the fourth master's thigh tightly

Chapter 1669 Marriage is a matter of one person

Although Gu Youran had never been in a relationship or married in her previous life, she had seen countless official accounts that moved people to tears, and even seen many tragedies around her that were passionately married but divorced.

So in this respect, she pays great attention.

Since we have chosen this person and love him deeply, some people even ran for ten years and only got married after 15 years. However, after only three to five years of marriage, they got divorced just after giving birth to a child. Such a result is really regrettable.

Especially for a woman, if she likes this man at the age of 20, and after spending 20 years with this man, she is completely separated because of some trivial things, especially when Girls Over Flowers has reached middle age, although you already have enough Ability and economic control of the future life, but in the dead of night, only you can understand the loneliness and pain in your heart.

Since you love this person so much, why do you push the ending to a tragic end with your own hands?

Maybe there is more tolerance, or it is actually just one more sentence to explain and discuss, why not do it?
Many people think that marriage is a matter between two people, and it requires two people to work together and manage it together, so that the marriage will go on more solidly and smoothly.

But it's not.

When you think so, even if you make 50.00% effort, you can only achieve [-]% effect.

Because you will compare.

Compared with what you do more, he does less.

You will feel wronged, feel unfair, have a gap in your heart, and even feel that he doesn't love you enough or love you enough.

A small matter will generate countless negative energy thoughts.

Therefore, when you think that marriage is a matter between two people, when you always compare inadvertently, even if you work hard and hard, your heart is already unhappy, and your marriage does not feel so happy up.

In fact, marriage is a personal matter.

You love him, it is your own business; you are willing to give, that is your choice out of love; you are good to him, because you are willing...

If all appeals become simple, return to the original point, and become your own business, then it will be much easier to deal with.

At least, love and not love will become straightforward.

Leave if you don't love.

Love, then please continue.

Even though this person has many small problems, you love him, don't you?

Love needs tolerance and understanding, it is unconditional, just like your parents treat you...

Don't think too much about each other's shortcomings, you are going to be together for a lifetime.

But if you really can't tolerate the shortcomings of the other person, you need to ask yourself, do you still love?If you don't love, then please leave...

Simply and decisively, stop torturing yourself and the other person.

But if you still have illusions about the other party, please be tolerant, forgive her, and tolerate her doing some "outrageous" behaviors towards you.

Try to think of it as fun, an interesting existence between husband and wife.

After all, if you want to find someone who is truly perfect, who is exactly what you imagine, it is estimated that you will get divorced more than 20 times like a Hollywood star.

So, please be patient with your significant other.

Fourth master's pampering and pampering towards Gu Youran was the foundation of their marriage, as was Gu Youran's understanding and affection for fourth master.

Most importantly, none of them deliberately asked for contributions from both parties.

Because love is unconditional.

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　　What's the most outrageous thing your boyfriend or girlfriend did to you?
　　(Before I saw a guy put his hand in the water while he fell asleep to watch him pee...)
　　
　
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