Chapter 232 He wants to make peace with Ji Shuyan!
Seeing that Qin Yufeng was listening carefully, the old lady continued: "Now you feel that she is not worth enough, so you just do nothing, and you have to wait until she completely occupies your heart before you dismiss other women around you. Do you think that at that time Is there still time? You have to be clear that when she settles in your heart, your disgusting images of "a married man", "having an affair with other women", and "promiscuous and non-specific" are also completely stuck in your heart. Once her fixed impression of you is formed, if you divorce your wife for her, not only will you not get her appreciation and love, but it will make her think that you are a person who likes the new and dislikes the old, and can abandon you mercilessly for the sake of the newcomer. The scum of the old man—”
Qin Yufeng's face suddenly became serious.
Is that so?
He always thought that if he didn't have a woman he admired in his heart now, it wouldn't be a big deal if Ji Shuyan had a place in the palace. Anyway, there was a clean relationship between him and Ji Shuyan, wasn't it?
He, maybe he will never fall deeply in love with a woman in this life, so why did he drive Ji Shuyan's mother and son out of the palace for a person who will never show up, making them pitiful creatures ridiculed by the world?
He has been thinking that the current situation is very good. If he will not fall in love with other women, then Ji Shuyan and her son will enjoy a lifetime of glory and wealth in the palace, which will be regarded as compensation for his ruining their mother and son's family; and if he falls in love with her in the future If you don't care about others, it will be too late for him to reconcile with Ji Shuyan ruthlessly...
Listening to what my mother said now, he seems to be very wrong?
The old lady sighed, "Silly son, you can't really wait for the enemy to sneak into the attack range before you start arranging a counterattack... The same is true for feelings, if you want to win someone's heart, you have to let her see the best and most perfect you--"
Qin Yufeng opened his mouth, but the old lady didn't give him a chance to speak.
She continued, "I know you are very guilty of Ji Shuyan. She is a good and innocent woman. Because of you, she was forced by Shuangshuang to marry someone she didn't love at all. It was also because of you and Shuangshuang that she lost Husband-in-law, desolate and homeless with a child... But, is this guilt really worth your life to pay her? If you don't make peace with her for a day, you are a married woman in the eyes of outsiders. Husband, any woman with a little sense of shame will immediately remove you from the selection of husband-in-law..."
"And Ji Shuyan will not be much better than you. You married her, but you can't pamper her like a gentle and caring husband. Is it fair to her? Why don't you think about it, if you don't detain her in the palace , she may meet a man who truly loves her and is willing to give her happiness? You can indeed give her glory and wealth, but you will never be able to give her love, and you may not even be able to give her a child. You are preventing her from going Looking for a way to happiness, are you compensating her, or making her worse?"
"..."
Qin Yufeng's face suddenly became extremely solemn.
The old lady's last words about Ji Shuyan hit his heart directly.
That's right, he can give Ji Shuyan glory and wealth, but can he give Ji Shuyan a man's true love for a woman?
Didn't he rather escape to the barracks the night before than spend the night with Ji Shuyan?
He let her stay alone in the empty room, let her be a concubine in name only, and let her cry all day for the emotion she couldn't ask for. Is this really good for her?
Maybe my mother was right...
He didn't compensate her at all as he imagined. He clearly blocked her way to find happiness. He didn't make up with her, which was the real harm to her!
(End of this chapter)
Seeing that Qin Yufeng was listening carefully, the old lady continued: "Now you feel that she is not worth enough, so you just do nothing, and you have to wait until she completely occupies your heart before you dismiss other women around you. Do you think that at that time Is there still time? You have to be clear that when she settles in your heart, your disgusting images of "a married man", "having an affair with other women", and "promiscuous and non-specific" are also completely stuck in your heart. Once her fixed impression of you is formed, if you divorce your wife for her, not only will you not get her appreciation and love, but it will make her think that you are a person who likes the new and dislikes the old, and can abandon you mercilessly for the sake of the newcomer. The scum of the old man—”
Qin Yufeng's face suddenly became serious.
Is that so?
He always thought that if he didn't have a woman he admired in his heart now, it wouldn't be a big deal if Ji Shuyan had a place in the palace. Anyway, there was a clean relationship between him and Ji Shuyan, wasn't it?
He, maybe he will never fall deeply in love with a woman in this life, so why did he drive Ji Shuyan's mother and son out of the palace for a person who will never show up, making them pitiful creatures ridiculed by the world?
He has been thinking that the current situation is very good. If he will not fall in love with other women, then Ji Shuyan and her son will enjoy a lifetime of glory and wealth in the palace, which will be regarded as compensation for his ruining their mother and son's family; and if he falls in love with her in the future If you don't care about others, it will be too late for him to reconcile with Ji Shuyan ruthlessly...
Listening to what my mother said now, he seems to be very wrong?
The old lady sighed, "Silly son, you can't really wait for the enemy to sneak into the attack range before you start arranging a counterattack... The same is true for feelings, if you want to win someone's heart, you have to let her see the best and most perfect you--"
Qin Yufeng opened his mouth, but the old lady didn't give him a chance to speak.
She continued, "I know you are very guilty of Ji Shuyan. She is a good and innocent woman. Because of you, she was forced by Shuangshuang to marry someone she didn't love at all. It was also because of you and Shuangshuang that she lost Husband-in-law, desolate and homeless with a child... But, is this guilt really worth your life to pay her? If you don't make peace with her for a day, you are a married woman in the eyes of outsiders. Husband, any woman with a little sense of shame will immediately remove you from the selection of husband-in-law..."
"And Ji Shuyan will not be much better than you. You married her, but you can't pamper her like a gentle and caring husband. Is it fair to her? Why don't you think about it, if you don't detain her in the palace , she may meet a man who truly loves her and is willing to give her happiness? You can indeed give her glory and wealth, but you will never be able to give her love, and you may not even be able to give her a child. You are preventing her from going Looking for a way to happiness, are you compensating her, or making her worse?"
"..."
Qin Yufeng's face suddenly became extremely solemn.
The old lady's last words about Ji Shuyan hit his heart directly.
That's right, he can give Ji Shuyan glory and wealth, but can he give Ji Shuyan a man's true love for a woman?
Didn't he rather escape to the barracks the night before than spend the night with Ji Shuyan?
He let her stay alone in the empty room, let her be a concubine in name only, and let her cry all day for the emotion she couldn't ask for. Is this really good for her?
Maybe my mother was right...
He didn't compensate her at all as he imagined. He clearly blocked her way to find happiness. He didn't make up with her, which was the real harm to her!
(End of this chapter)
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