Wangfu little dumb wife
Chapter 331 Your decision is important to your child's growth
Chapter 331 Your decision is important to your child's growth (1 more)
Song Jiao is young, so she may not understand it well, but Wen Wan knows it best. Xie Zheng's family is in a special situation, and more than anyone else, he hopes that this assessment can be brought forward.
Because the assessment means the assignment of official positions, and the assignment of official positions means that from now on he can officially use his salary to eat the emperor's food, and no longer need to live on the second house's money.
……
The purpose of Jinbao is to make a trap, Wen Wan intends to go to Jinghu Lake, and she has already made up her mind, she doesn't know how to row a boat, so she will take a crowded painting boat to go there later, who would have thought that someone would run into a shadow puppet show just halfway there.
Seeing a lot of people gathered outside, the little guy poked his head out of the car window for a few glances, then threw the matter of the rings out of the blue, and turned his head to grin at Wen Wan.
Wen Wan asked him, "Do you want to go down and play too?"
Jin Bao couldn't help nodding.
Asking Lin Bo to stand aside, Wen Wan took her son and niece out of the car and bought them a fried cherry. This thing is to pick fresh cherries and put them in a pot to boil. When they soften, they pick out the pits inside. Then mashed the cherry meat into mud, pressed into small cakes with molds, and finally sprinkled with sugar.
Wen Wan bought two servings, each wrapped in oiled paper for easy eating outside.
The troupe of shadow puppetry set up a shed with several tables, one table with four benches, which can seat eight people, six cents per person, and free for children.
Wen Wan paid twelve cents, and sat at an empty table that was temporarily unoccupied, with melon seed shells all over the floor under her feet.
Presumably someone had heard it before them, no wonder there were not many people this time.
Wen Wan hugged her son and sat on the bench between herself and Song Jiao, and cast her eyes on the white curtain of the shadow play.
After a while, the shadow play started.
Song Jiao looked up and then at Jinbao. Seeing that the little guy was watching with gusto, she even forgot to eat the fried cherry. She asked Wen Wan in a low voice, "Aunt third, do you think the little guy can understand?"
"A baby who is only over two years old and can't even speak well, how can he understand? At most, it's fresh to see the shadow puppet behind the cloth that can speak and move."
After a pause, he said gently, "Just wait and see, with our brat's temper, he may have to ask me to buy it back and perform for him after watching it in a while."
Song Jiao smiled and said it was impossible, "Even if we really spend money to buy a set and take it home, we won't know how to do it. Could it be that Third Aunt wants to learn two tricks from the master on the spot?"
Wen Wan didn't think that way, but it's a pity that her words came true. When the shadow puppet show ended, the little guy who had been sitting on the bench so well suddenly became obedient and asked her to buy the shadow puppet back.
Song Jiao thought of what Aunt Three said just now, "..."
Wen Wan looked at her son, "Am I too spoiled by you?"
Jin Bao was so frightened by his mother's sudden serious expression that he fell silent.
Wen Wan said with a sullen face, "You don't want a shadow puppet. If you want to eat something delicious later, mother will buy it for you. If you want a shadow puppet, mother will not want you. I will leave you here alone to see enough!"
She is really a bit angry, and she has no time to bring it to her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law pampers him too much on weekdays. She always thinks that the child is young and will give him whatever he wants. He is only two and a half years old, and he is already used to it. After growing up and becoming temperamental, why not become the second Lu Yanqing?
But this fire, she can only fire herself, she can't blame others, let alone her mother-in-law.
Jinbao was yelled at by his mother for the first time, thinking about it a little aggrieved, sniffing, and wanting to cry when his mouth deflated.
Wen Wan said to him again, "If you cry, I will leave right away. I really don't want you anymore, do you believe it?"
Jin Bao held back his voice and looked at her tearfully.
Song Jiao looked really pitiful, and persuaded softly: "Aunt third, isn't she just a shadow puppet, I have money with me, I just go and buy it, don't yell at him like that."
After finishing speaking, I got up and went to find the shadow puppet master.
Wen Wan didn't allow her to go, "When a child in the country is his age, it's not bad if he can eat enough. Who dares to ask for these things? To put it bluntly, Jinbao is just used to it!"
Song Jiao pursed her lips, "But he's only two years old, and he still doesn't understand anything."
Wen Wan has a firm attitude: "It is to teach him what is enough when he doesn't understand, let him know what he should and shouldn't want, what he should or shouldn't want, children are not inherently good or bad, it all depends on adults One-step teaching, since childhood, give him this and that, let him think that everything in the world belongs to his family, and later this concept becomes a habit, who will get him back? What should I not do in the future? The first thing people will scold me is that I, a mother, have not taught it well."
In the midst of a fit of anger, the gentle words were almost breathless.
Song Jiao was speechless by her silence. She was going to buy a shadow puppet, but now she didn't have that thought. She sat down again, shocked by the third aunt's words, feeling uneasy and at a loss.
Wen Wan was silent for a while to digest her anger, then looked at her son again, "Jinbao, tell me, do you want a shadow puppet?"
Jin Bao didn't say a word, Xiaorou was holding a bite of fried cherry in his hand, he stretched out his arm and handed it to Wen Wan, looking at his mother's eyes to flatter her but at the same time felt a bit timid.
Song Jiao reminded him in a low voice, "Jin Bao, say no to your mother, hurry up!"
There were still tears in Jin Bao's eyes, and he was so choked up that he couldn't speak.
Wen Wan didn't force him, she squatted down in front of him with her back on her back, "If you don't want the shadow puppet, come up, mother will carry you around for a walk before we go back."
Jin Bao sat still.
Wen Wan frowned, and when he turned his head, he saw that he was tightly pinching the parchment paper wrapped with fried cherries.
Thinking of the scene where the little guy handed her the snack he had eaten just now to please her, his heart was touched, his emotions softened, he reached out to pick it up, and said in his mouth: "Just this time, don't be an example, don't be obedient again , Mother doesn’t want your bribe anymore, she wants to spank your ass, do you hear me?”
The little guy took fried cherries from his hand, even though it was still stained with his son's saliva, Wen Wan didn't care, and quickly finished eating.
Afterwards, Wen Wan did what she said, and walked around with the little guy on her back. Seeing that the weather was getting better, she took her son back to the carriage.
The little guy was having a temper tantrum with his mother, and he didn't speak when he got in the car. In the end, he couldn't bear the drowsiness and fell asleep in his mother's arms.
Wen Wan hugged her son and sighed silently in her heart.
Seeing that she was not in the right state, Song Jiao didn't dare to say anything along the way.
The mother-in-law was still at Xu's house, Wen Wan had no reason to go back to the mansion first, and asked Lin Bo to go to the general's mansion. When Jinbao arrived, Jin Bao hadn't woken up yet, Wen Wan carried him to Song Fang's room, put him on the small couch, and pulled him Covered with a blanket.
It was already evening, and most of the guests who came at noon had dispersed, and the rest, either distant relatives who couldn't leave for a while, or those who were too close, were left for dinner.
Song Fang didn't go out at noon, so she had to show her face at any time, and asked Mei Zhi to watch over the two babies. She went to the banquet to have a face-to-face meeting with relatives
There are fewer guests, and the dinner atmosphere is much more relaxed.
Song Fang made a toast with tea instead of wine.
After dinner, Wen Wan followed Song Fang back to the room, Jin Bao was still awake, Wen Wan lifted the blanket, gently hugged him, said goodbye to the Xu family, and followed her mother-in-law out of the door.
……
It was still the same as when they came here, the parents-in-law took the same car, and Wen Wan and Song Jiao took Jinbao to the car. In order not to disturb the little guy's sleep, the two of them didn't say a word the whole time.
Back at Song's house, it was already dark.
The servants had already lit the lanterns outside the gate, and the dim light made the big stone lion outside the gate extraordinarily solemn.
Wen Wan held her son in her arms, hurriedly talked to her mother-in-law and went back to her yard.
Song Wei had been in the Yamen for a long time, and now he had dinner and was dealing with official business in the study, when he heard the movement, he came out to have a look, and saw Wen Wan hugging the sleeping Jin Bao, he was silent, waiting for Wen Wan to send Jin Bao to him. When he came out of the back room, he asked, "Why have you been here for so long?"
Wen Wan simply said that Mrs. Xu forced to keep dinner, there was no other way.
Song Wei saw that she was not in a good mood, and her voice became more and more mellow, "What's wrong?"
Wen Wan sat down, was silent for a while, and said slowly: "Master, why don't I go to the Hongwen Museum, and take care of the children at home with peace of mind from now on."
Song Wei didn't say yes, nor did he say no, he said calmly, "What happened?"
Wen Wan talked about the fact that she took Jinbao out to play during the day, "Although he is only two and a half years old, don't you think this is the best time to train him? It is because he doesn't understand that he thinks that adults What we say and do is right, we should guide him well, instead of relying on him for everything because he is young, reluctant to say that he is reluctant to be educated, I don't want to spoil my child, and I don't want to see another Lu Yanqing again."
Song Wei understood her concerns, and did not try to persuade her as before, and hummed softly, "Okay."
Wen Wan was a little surprised, and raised her head, "You don't object?"
Song Wei said: "Your decision and your child's growth are important."
(End of this chapter)
Song Jiao is young, so she may not understand it well, but Wen Wan knows it best. Xie Zheng's family is in a special situation, and more than anyone else, he hopes that this assessment can be brought forward.
Because the assessment means the assignment of official positions, and the assignment of official positions means that from now on he can officially use his salary to eat the emperor's food, and no longer need to live on the second house's money.
……
The purpose of Jinbao is to make a trap, Wen Wan intends to go to Jinghu Lake, and she has already made up her mind, she doesn't know how to row a boat, so she will take a crowded painting boat to go there later, who would have thought that someone would run into a shadow puppet show just halfway there.
Seeing a lot of people gathered outside, the little guy poked his head out of the car window for a few glances, then threw the matter of the rings out of the blue, and turned his head to grin at Wen Wan.
Wen Wan asked him, "Do you want to go down and play too?"
Jin Bao couldn't help nodding.
Asking Lin Bo to stand aside, Wen Wan took her son and niece out of the car and bought them a fried cherry. This thing is to pick fresh cherries and put them in a pot to boil. When they soften, they pick out the pits inside. Then mashed the cherry meat into mud, pressed into small cakes with molds, and finally sprinkled with sugar.
Wen Wan bought two servings, each wrapped in oiled paper for easy eating outside.
The troupe of shadow puppetry set up a shed with several tables, one table with four benches, which can seat eight people, six cents per person, and free for children.
Wen Wan paid twelve cents, and sat at an empty table that was temporarily unoccupied, with melon seed shells all over the floor under her feet.
Presumably someone had heard it before them, no wonder there were not many people this time.
Wen Wan hugged her son and sat on the bench between herself and Song Jiao, and cast her eyes on the white curtain of the shadow play.
After a while, the shadow play started.
Song Jiao looked up and then at Jinbao. Seeing that the little guy was watching with gusto, she even forgot to eat the fried cherry. She asked Wen Wan in a low voice, "Aunt third, do you think the little guy can understand?"
"A baby who is only over two years old and can't even speak well, how can he understand? At most, it's fresh to see the shadow puppet behind the cloth that can speak and move."
After a pause, he said gently, "Just wait and see, with our brat's temper, he may have to ask me to buy it back and perform for him after watching it in a while."
Song Jiao smiled and said it was impossible, "Even if we really spend money to buy a set and take it home, we won't know how to do it. Could it be that Third Aunt wants to learn two tricks from the master on the spot?"
Wen Wan didn't think that way, but it's a pity that her words came true. When the shadow puppet show ended, the little guy who had been sitting on the bench so well suddenly became obedient and asked her to buy the shadow puppet back.
Song Jiao thought of what Aunt Three said just now, "..."
Wen Wan looked at her son, "Am I too spoiled by you?"
Jin Bao was so frightened by his mother's sudden serious expression that he fell silent.
Wen Wan said with a sullen face, "You don't want a shadow puppet. If you want to eat something delicious later, mother will buy it for you. If you want a shadow puppet, mother will not want you. I will leave you here alone to see enough!"
She is really a bit angry, and she has no time to bring it to her mother-in-law. Her mother-in-law pampers him too much on weekdays. She always thinks that the child is young and will give him whatever he wants. He is only two and a half years old, and he is already used to it. After growing up and becoming temperamental, why not become the second Lu Yanqing?
But this fire, she can only fire herself, she can't blame others, let alone her mother-in-law.
Jinbao was yelled at by his mother for the first time, thinking about it a little aggrieved, sniffing, and wanting to cry when his mouth deflated.
Wen Wan said to him again, "If you cry, I will leave right away. I really don't want you anymore, do you believe it?"
Jin Bao held back his voice and looked at her tearfully.
Song Jiao looked really pitiful, and persuaded softly: "Aunt third, isn't she just a shadow puppet, I have money with me, I just go and buy it, don't yell at him like that."
After finishing speaking, I got up and went to find the shadow puppet master.
Wen Wan didn't allow her to go, "When a child in the country is his age, it's not bad if he can eat enough. Who dares to ask for these things? To put it bluntly, Jinbao is just used to it!"
Song Jiao pursed her lips, "But he's only two years old, and he still doesn't understand anything."
Wen Wan has a firm attitude: "It is to teach him what is enough when he doesn't understand, let him know what he should and shouldn't want, what he should or shouldn't want, children are not inherently good or bad, it all depends on adults One-step teaching, since childhood, give him this and that, let him think that everything in the world belongs to his family, and later this concept becomes a habit, who will get him back? What should I not do in the future? The first thing people will scold me is that I, a mother, have not taught it well."
In the midst of a fit of anger, the gentle words were almost breathless.
Song Jiao was speechless by her silence. She was going to buy a shadow puppet, but now she didn't have that thought. She sat down again, shocked by the third aunt's words, feeling uneasy and at a loss.
Wen Wan was silent for a while to digest her anger, then looked at her son again, "Jinbao, tell me, do you want a shadow puppet?"
Jin Bao didn't say a word, Xiaorou was holding a bite of fried cherry in his hand, he stretched out his arm and handed it to Wen Wan, looking at his mother's eyes to flatter her but at the same time felt a bit timid.
Song Jiao reminded him in a low voice, "Jin Bao, say no to your mother, hurry up!"
There were still tears in Jin Bao's eyes, and he was so choked up that he couldn't speak.
Wen Wan didn't force him, she squatted down in front of him with her back on her back, "If you don't want the shadow puppet, come up, mother will carry you around for a walk before we go back."
Jin Bao sat still.
Wen Wan frowned, and when he turned his head, he saw that he was tightly pinching the parchment paper wrapped with fried cherries.
Thinking of the scene where the little guy handed her the snack he had eaten just now to please her, his heart was touched, his emotions softened, he reached out to pick it up, and said in his mouth: "Just this time, don't be an example, don't be obedient again , Mother doesn’t want your bribe anymore, she wants to spank your ass, do you hear me?”
The little guy took fried cherries from his hand, even though it was still stained with his son's saliva, Wen Wan didn't care, and quickly finished eating.
Afterwards, Wen Wan did what she said, and walked around with the little guy on her back. Seeing that the weather was getting better, she took her son back to the carriage.
The little guy was having a temper tantrum with his mother, and he didn't speak when he got in the car. In the end, he couldn't bear the drowsiness and fell asleep in his mother's arms.
Wen Wan hugged her son and sighed silently in her heart.
Seeing that she was not in the right state, Song Jiao didn't dare to say anything along the way.
The mother-in-law was still at Xu's house, Wen Wan had no reason to go back to the mansion first, and asked Lin Bo to go to the general's mansion. When Jinbao arrived, Jin Bao hadn't woken up yet, Wen Wan carried him to Song Fang's room, put him on the small couch, and pulled him Covered with a blanket.
It was already evening, and most of the guests who came at noon had dispersed, and the rest, either distant relatives who couldn't leave for a while, or those who were too close, were left for dinner.
Song Fang didn't go out at noon, so she had to show her face at any time, and asked Mei Zhi to watch over the two babies. She went to the banquet to have a face-to-face meeting with relatives
There are fewer guests, and the dinner atmosphere is much more relaxed.
Song Fang made a toast with tea instead of wine.
After dinner, Wen Wan followed Song Fang back to the room, Jin Bao was still awake, Wen Wan lifted the blanket, gently hugged him, said goodbye to the Xu family, and followed her mother-in-law out of the door.
……
It was still the same as when they came here, the parents-in-law took the same car, and Wen Wan and Song Jiao took Jinbao to the car. In order not to disturb the little guy's sleep, the two of them didn't say a word the whole time.
Back at Song's house, it was already dark.
The servants had already lit the lanterns outside the gate, and the dim light made the big stone lion outside the gate extraordinarily solemn.
Wen Wan held her son in her arms, hurriedly talked to her mother-in-law and went back to her yard.
Song Wei had been in the Yamen for a long time, and now he had dinner and was dealing with official business in the study, when he heard the movement, he came out to have a look, and saw Wen Wan hugging the sleeping Jin Bao, he was silent, waiting for Wen Wan to send Jin Bao to him. When he came out of the back room, he asked, "Why have you been here for so long?"
Wen Wan simply said that Mrs. Xu forced to keep dinner, there was no other way.
Song Wei saw that she was not in a good mood, and her voice became more and more mellow, "What's wrong?"
Wen Wan sat down, was silent for a while, and said slowly: "Master, why don't I go to the Hongwen Museum, and take care of the children at home with peace of mind from now on."
Song Wei didn't say yes, nor did he say no, he said calmly, "What happened?"
Wen Wan talked about the fact that she took Jinbao out to play during the day, "Although he is only two and a half years old, don't you think this is the best time to train him? It is because he doesn't understand that he thinks that adults What we say and do is right, we should guide him well, instead of relying on him for everything because he is young, reluctant to say that he is reluctant to be educated, I don't want to spoil my child, and I don't want to see another Lu Yanqing again."
Song Wei understood her concerns, and did not try to persuade her as before, and hummed softly, "Okay."
Wen Wan was a little surprised, and raised her head, "You don't object?"
Song Wei said: "Your decision and your child's growth are important."
(End of this chapter)
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