Traveling through Xueba is full of blessings

Chapter 433 Persuading peace but not breaking up (two more)

Regarding Ye Boting's attitude, Xia Tian was not unhappy, but felt that he had to be careful with what he said in the future, and that he would be easily misunderstood by others if he had no good intentions.

Ye Boting's face was flushed from drinking, and Xia Tian had already drank three cups of white wine in a few words.

"What's the matter with you? Tingzi, why are you so chattery now? You're still drinking to relieve your worries. If you don't chatter anymore, it feels like you're full of worries and unable to speak."

"Because I really don't know what to say. From getting married to now, a lot of things that I can't even imagine have happened. It's not just his mother, his younger siblings who are in the middle. I think Qu Lei treats me much worse than before. .

But you want me to give an example?I really can't tell.I am incapable of all kinds of housework, and he took good care of me, and he did a good job in these aspects.

But I still feel more and more that there is something between him and me, and I can't tell exactly.

We are always a little noisy, it is different from what I imagined in many ways.The point is that I can often forget the origin of those little quarrels, and I don't care, unless it's just after the quarrel, such as last night. "

Xia Tian scratched his nose, did not understand but did not delay persuasion:

"Specifically, if you don't tell me, I can't help you analyze it. But I know one thing. Most of the conflicts between husband and wife are the responsibility of both parties, and the quarrels are inexplicable. Sometimes when someone is in a bad mood, he will give in. One step, don't rush forward."

"You and my brother also quarrel? How many times? Why?"

Ye Boting was puzzled, but his tone was urgent. She really didn't understand why she wanted to be together 24 hours a day when she was in a relationship, but why it was so annoying when she was really married, and it was not the same thing as imagined.

Xia Tian hurriedly took two mouthfuls of food, and answered after drinking a saliva:
"Arguing, why do we have more?! The number of times, in fact, according to common sense, it should be more. In the first six months of marriage, we could quarrel over the phone. This is normal. He is not a roundworm in your stomach. Men and women Women think differently, he can't guess it, and you can't understand it either."

"and after?"

"After a long time, I got used to it. I know what he will do when he is in a bad mood, and he also knows what I don't like to hear.

The two of us, like you, are small things, and there are no big things in life.You can ask me specifically now, I know that there was a quarrel a few days ago, but the reason is the same as yours, I just remember the general idea. "

Seeing that Ye Boting was not satisfied with the answer he gave, Xia Tian smiled:
"I'm not any more than you, and I haven't developed a more exquisite heart. We are both just married and have no experience to talk about. We are crossing the river by feeling the stones.

When you are angry, you will be disappointed, and when you quarrel, you will feel that he has changed and is very strange.

It's not regret, it's discouragement, discouraged, he didn't find the right one, he didn't understand himself at all.But I will ask myself later, what about him?He also feels the same, does he also doubt his choice?

The reason why I said that according to common sense, we should make a lot of noise is because of my character and your brother's.He has always been arrogant and rarely bows to others.As for me, I'm always not very enthusiastic about feelings.Some passive acceptance.In addition, we are women, especially those who are a little bit educated, and those who are full and idle, are a bit hypocritical.

The daughter-in-law of a poor family is moved by the fact that her husband ate less food in order to be full, such as my mother.

People like us who don’t have to worry about three meals a day will try to figure out who’s at fault when they get angry, who bows their heads first, who’s the first to coax whom, and who’s at fault. In fact, it’s unnecessary to think about it.

Always let a person admit his mistakes to you, he will be decadent, is he really wrong a lot?You're also crooked, and it's not a big deal.

The two of us never got into an argument because I didn't really care who bowed.Your brother often gets mad at me, and will ask other questions out of words. Just like this, people will give you a chance, it is a signal, if you don't grasp it, you will have a cold war.I usually take my chances.It can be done, but it must be done with a degree, and it cannot be unreasonable. "

Ye Boting curled his lips when he heard this, and raised his chin again to look at Xia Tian.

Xia Tian shook his head helplessly:
"Tingzi, you think that my retreat is a coward, I don't have everyone's demeanor or I have no self, etc. I admit it, because I don't want those, I just want happiness. Don't go in the wrong direction.

Let me tell you, I use my trembling experience of crossing the river by groping for stones to advise you, at home, it’s just a couple, if you’re a couple, you’re a couple, what kind of self do you want in a home of two people.Don't marry yourself.

Why do other men have to bow their heads all the time, even if you don't bow your head, be gentle, don't always bow your head to Qu Lei who is right and who is wrong, it is really useless compared to that real one.That shouldn't be the theme of life.Love you, pamper you, see you in the real chapter. "

Ye Boting lowered his eyelids and kept turning the wine cup: "What do you mean, we both have problems in every aspect?"

"Among them, you specify. It's not that I'm talking about your pavilion, it's about eating. Your brother said that day, you have to be able to cook. Even your brother cooks for me. You can't let After Qu Lei's training every day, he still has to run home just to eat and drink for you.

After a long time, outsiders, especially your mother-in-law, she can't see the sweet happiness and sweet words of the two of you after closing the door, but she can see that her son has to take trot to serve his daughter-in-law every day.As far as this family courtyard is concerned, it will be known after a long time.

It's not that I'm afraid of what others will say, and I don't live with them, but people's words are scary. Some words are passed to Qu Lei's ears, and I say it twice, and I often hear it and have psychological hints.Or you really can't do some other housework. "

Ye Boting frowned: "I will disobey my parents because of him. I have paid so much. Why are you like others, always cooking and doing housework? Even if I didn't do it, I must have paid more than others. And his Mother, you can bear it in exchange for you! I caught up with you and have a good mother-in-law! Just now you said that Qu Lei had evil intentions, but now you are standing on his side, where are you?"

Xia Tian raised his eyebrows, swallowed, and said in his heart: When your mother made things difficult for me, why didn't you see it?Two embarrassing ways.

"Ye Boting, I thought you were drinking too much. I treated you like a friend to persuade you, but you didn't say anything, how can I persuade you! Don't be ignorant!

Yes, no matter how close friends are, you can't talk about the things between husband and wife, not to mention the education constraints you have received, etc., you can't speak too specifically, I understand.

You said I was just shaking and guessing like a half bottle of water, so I had to think and say something.

If you don't pass, I have a way to persuade you, if you pass, I have to guess as a friend, and I have to persuade you two in a good way.What a thankless effort! "

Looking at Ye Boting picking up the vegetables, Xia Tian waved his hands irritably:

"Don't eat it, it's annoying. I was angry with Qu Lei and your mother-in-law, and came to my house to be angry with me as a pregnant woman. I was angry and cried at your mother-in-law for the first two days, and then looked at your face and guessed wildly in fear, saying You are still angry from embarrassment, you deliberately want to transfer your unhappiness to me, don't you?"

One was dizzy from drinking and was in a bad mood, and the other was a month old with leg cramps in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep well all night long. Neither of them had a soft personality.

Ye Boting glanced sideways at Xia Tian: "I'm leaving, I'm never coming again! You're getting more and more annoying, what kind of friend!"

The "drunkard" took his coat, put on his shoes, pushed open the door, and left, without getting any further out of the conversation.

The pregnant woman was so angry that she knocked on the table with chopsticks, thinking, what will happen to your family in the future...

　Recommend a friend's masterpiece: Guose Tianfan "Hou Men's Happy Marriage" was reborn to abuse the scum, married him and killed him...

　　


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