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Chapter 507 Heartbeat (Monthly Pass 90+)

Ji Yusheng and Ye Boting were sitting face to face in a small restaurant near the hospital chatting.

Ji Yusheng crossed his fingers on the dining table, in a state of listening carefully.

He really listened very attentively, listening to the opposite pavilion talk about her married life.

"Tingzi, you said you used to admire him a little bit? What do you admire about him?"

Ye Boting considered it carefully before commenting:
"I admire him for being able to persist in studying even when his family conditions are so difficult, he is very motivated and hardworking, he does not give up on himself and goes with the flow, and he helps his comrades as much as he can.

He not only made medicinal wine for my dad, but also cared for his comrades and ordinary soldiers.He does not accept help from others easily, but he is willing to help others.

My brother also knows that at that time they collected money to collect food stamps for the sacrificed comrades in arms, and Qu Lei also quit smoking for a long time, just to save money.

So I never thought it was a kind of flattery that he used to treat my dad the same way, I thought that was just how he was. "

Ji Yusheng took a sip of tea from his cup before opening his mouth slowly, instructing Ye Boting in a deep voice:

"In marriage, whether this man is a hero and whether you admire it is just one aspect. The most important thing is whether he has a heart for you.

Don't look at how much he says, don't observe what he does for others, but look at how much he does for you. "

Ye Boting didn't say anything else, she just told Ji Yusheng the reason for the quarrel between her and Qu Lei.

She really couldn't figure it out, she always thought that she should be the one who should worry about contributing to her comrades-in-arms, but she didn't want Qu Lei to stop her because of money.And Qu Lei clearly understands what Li Tong means to her.

Ji Yusheng looked at Ye Boting who was wrinkling his beautiful eyebrows opposite him, pondered for a while, and then comforted him again:
"Maybe you didn't find the right way to speak, and the discussion didn't get to the point. You need to adjust a conversation mode.

With relatives, leaders, friends, including between husband and wife, you can't talk as you like. In fact, there is a skill in everything.Use your strength to achieve your goal, not quarrel. "

Ji Yusheng saw that Ye Boting on the opposite side was even more confused by what he said, so he smiled, and after adding tea to Ye Boting, he continued:
"Just as we want to be brave, but not reckless. He may be reminding you to be careful, maybe not to stop you, but to express his concerns.

His experience and family make him understand the difficulty of life, so he naturally values ​​money more than you.You have to understand him and think about what caused some of his behaviors. "

Ye Boting shook his head. When a woman confides, what she expresses is emotion and resolution. She knows that there are reasons Ji Yusheng said above in Qu Lei's thinking, but she just feels that Qu Lei has changed.

Becoming a stranger, not what she wanted.

Ji Yusheng seemed to know what Ye Boting was thinking:
"The distance is beautiful, and the distance is ugly. This is how people get along with each other. No one is shaped according to your imagination. He is not clay. He can make an image that you are satisfied with."

"But why do other people live so well after marriage?"

"Someone else's house? You know it's someone else! Rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar tea, no one will tell you about the little quarrels.

Vulgarity is reality, elegance is fiction.To observe life with a calm heart, this is what people often say about living.

Don't imagine, but feel the bits and pieces intuitively, and ask yourself if this person is what you want.

One day when you and him can both unload the burden and show the most true and free self in real life, that state is called life.Emotions are gradually infiltrated, rather than famous paintings, which are generally described in your imagination. "

When Ye Boting raised his head again, he moved closer to the table, leaned closer to Ji Yusheng, raised his head and looked seriously into Ji Yusheng's eyes.

And Ji Yusheng instinctively wanted to make a backward movement, but he also moved forward without any trace of movement, facing Ye Boting's position.

Ye Boting's clear almond eyes are full of curiosity:

"Uncle Ji, what if it was you? What would happen if you were Qu Lei? Would you say the same thing that pokes my heart like him?"

Ji Yusheng narrowed his eyes slightly:
"Me, I'm still different from him, fundamentally different.

I am more and more able to accept reality, instead of becoming very realistic like him;

He is indifferent due to reality, I am willing to see the world with good eyes;

He thinks he is more mature and experienced than you, and wants to teach you by discussing or blaming, but I often find that I can blame fewer and fewer people, and I can accommodate a lot of things I don't like in my heart. "

Ye Boting's poisonous tongue is not limited to treating Qu Lei: "Oh! I understand! I forgot that you are already an uncle, you have more experience, and you have already matured. Qu Lei is still young, and development will take some time." Withdrew his body, straightened his back and gave the evaluation.

"This..." Ji Yusheng understood why the young couple always quarreled.

When Ye Boting left, he returned the money to Ji Yusheng, and said to him: "Uncle Ji, thank you. I will ask you to invite me to dinner later if there is something I don't understand."

This time Ji Yusheng spoke his mind: "As long as you need it."

Ye Boting waved his hand to say goodbye, without dragging his feet at all, picked up his coat and hung it on his arm, and left calmly, naturally she didn't know that Ji Yusheng had been sitting there for a long time.

Ji Yusheng rubbed his temples. The moment Ye Boting approached him just now, he knew his heart was beating wildly. He had never experienced such a situation when he was young. He knew what it meant, so what to do!
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Ye Boxuan handed the rice bowl to his mother-in-law, took two mouthfuls of rice, and then seemed to remember something: "Father, mother, my brother's job is settled, the court."

Ye Boxuan, who slept all afternoon after being drunk, has a hoarse voice, like the sound of a cold, and he is a little angry these days.

"What?" Xia Tian paused while holding the soup bowl to drink the soup.

The whole family stopped serving food, Ye Boxuan looked up at Xia Aiguo and continued:

"Father, isn't the court good? My brother studies law, and he can develop there, which is better than other places. I guess he should start as a clerk, and the rest is up to my brother himself."

Su Meili hurriedly interjected and asked, "Boxuan, which court is it? No, I'm asking about the place!"

Ye Boxuan was stunned for a moment: "Of course it's the capital. Didn't Xia Tian write to you? She dreams of having you by her side every day. When my brother has a place to stay, let's see." Get Dongzi to go to school too. Hukou is fine, but my elder brother needs to have a family, and it will be under his name."

Xiao Mao's face turned red with excitement, and Xia Aiguo's hand holding the wine glass trembled a little: "Bo Xuan, it's hard for you to be my aunt!"

"What are you talking about! You gave Bo Xuan the fuck." Su Meili couldn't control her smile, and wanted not to show her happy emotions, so she could only save the situation by coldly berating Xia Aiguo.

"Father, mother, it's really no trouble! I have already agreed with Xia Tian, ​​my brother has the ability, it's just a chance."

Ye Boxuan hurriedly served a glass of wine to his father-in-law, alas!After tomorrow, he will be returning to the group, and his beloved three will be entrusted to the old father-in-law and the old mother-in-law.

(End of this chapter)