The head of urban peach blossom

Chapter 1165 Emotional Intelligence Too Low
After talking with Hua Xiaolou, Linghuzong finally realized that he was indeed impulsive back then.

He only considered his own feelings, but didn't change his perspective to think more for Bai Yun.

After all, he is a bachelor and can do things without any scruples.

But Bai Yun is a wife, she has many scruples.Not to mention fame, the key point is that the reason why she married into the Gu family was precisely because the Gu family was powerful enough.

To put it bluntly, this is a way of marriage.

Her betrayal will only anger the Gu family, thus bringing incalculable impact to her family.

Therefore, even if she fell in love with Linghu Sect at first sight, she would not dare to leave the Gu family easily.

Because she has to think about the overall situation, and she can't implicate the family, or even the entire monster clan, because of her own selfishness.

Facts have proved that the love between the two has indeed had a great impact.

Not only did Bai Yun's natal family be destroyed, but it also completely turned humans and monsters into opposites.

Then, it also led to the two falling in love and killing each other.

"But, I don't regret it!"

Although he realized that he was wrong, Linghu Sect said this.

Hua Xiaolou sighed.

He knew that Linghu Sect was not being stubborn, but that he really had no regrets.Because this guy is too obsessed with love, for the sake of love, he can abandon everything, regardless of the consequences.

"I know you don't regret it, but back then, you could have used some tricks instead of going directly to Bai Yun's husband's house and telling her that you liked her.

From another perspective, if you were Gu Han, what would you do?Presumably you will also draw your sword on the spot, right? "

"This... is true!"

"Isn't that enough?" Hua Xiaolou continued to persuade.

"You can definitely adopt some strategies...Love is not a one-sided matter, but a two-person matter. You are desperate and only want to get Bai Yun, but you don't think about it from her perspective.

Therefore, this is also the reason why you cannot be together now.Maybe, there is a knot in her heart, she thinks you just want to possess her, not love her that much..."

"Who said that?"

Linghu Zong said anxiously: "I really love her."

"But she doesn't necessarily think so. Because, from her point of view, your behavior does have a lot of hurting her heart. In addition, your family was killed, although you didn't do it, but dare you say it, you Without any responsibility?"

"All right!"

Linghu Sect nodded: "I admit this, and I am responsible. That's why, at that time, I recklessly avenged the Bai family and wanted to kill all the members of the Gu family."

"Even if you kill all the members of the Gu family, what's the use? Can you save the lives of Bai Yun's family?"

Linghu Sect shook his head: "I understand these reasons, but I don't know how to repair the relationship with her. Now, we are like enemies, and we will fight every time we meet."

Hua Xiaolou smiled: "Then will you kill her?"

"of course not……"

"Similarly, she won't either. When she said that she would kill you every time she saw you, she must have just been angry. Or, she deliberately wanted you to give up.

Because she feels that it is impossible for you to be together anymore, it is better to cut off this relationship.Let you hate her, let you never go to Yaozu again..."

Linghu Sect frowned.

"Why do you feel like you know her well?"

"Wrong, I don't understand her, but I understand women!"

In this regard, Hua Xiaolou can definitely brag in front of many men.

After all, for so many years, there have been many women around him, of all types.

Gentle Liu Yiyi, tricky Shen Bingbing, cold Nalan Qianxue, unrestrained Alice, charming Su Daji... Every woman has a different personality.

Walking among them, Hua Xiaolou has already figured out many of the women's little thoughts.

Although Linghu Zong was a love idiot, if he said something that was not pleasant, he could be called an emotional idiot.

For so many years, he has liked a woman. He knows too little about women. He only knows how to act according to his own thoughts.

"You know women well?"

"To tell you the truth, there is more than one woman in my brother, and I often fight with them. Naturally, I have to control their minds. This woman, when she says no, she often wants..."

"what do you want?"

"Well, it's hard to say, it can be in all aspects. In fact, it is not necessarily a bad thing for a woman to scold you and hate you. If she ignores you and treats you like a stranger, then it proves that she really doesn't care about you anymore. ..."

"brother……"

Linghu Sect's eyes lit up, and he completely put aside the superior airs, the suzerain's airs, leaned close to him like a young man, salivated and said: "It seems that you are really a master in the field of love, teach me, How can I get Bai Yun back into my arms."

Hua Xiaolou shook his head and said, "First of all, your idea is wrong."

"Ah?" Linghu Sect was a little dazed.

"You only think about letting her return to your arms. Can't you lower your value and let her return to her?"

Linghu Sect was talented and intelligent, but he couldn't understand this sentence.

Is there a difference?

"Maybe, you think there is no difference, but in fact, there is a big difference. Letting her return to your arms shows that you are proud. In our words, it is called masculinity.

After all, Bai Yun is the Demon King now, and she also has her own reserve.The important thing is that this whole incident is that you are sorry for you.

If you hadn't provoked her out of nowhere, would there have been so many changes in the future? "

"This... this is true, but I..."

"Okay, I know you want to say that you don't regret it. But it's not fair to Bai Yun, okay? Who did she provoke? Why did she suffer so many accidents?

Therefore, she was actually wronged in her heart.Sure, she loves you, but what did she get from you?
your love?Jokes, your love will only do her a disservice.

So now, let her see that your love is useful to her and can bring her security and reliance.

She is now serving as the demon king, but it doesn't mean she likes this superior feeling, maybe she is just fulfilling the mission of the family.

And at this moment, what does she need most?
If she had a caring man by her side who could accompany her through ups and downs, do you think she would be tempted at this time? "

"what?"

Linghu Sect panicked.

"You mean that someone will take advantage of the situation and try to please her at this moment..."

Hua Xiaolou had a headache.

This guy's emotional intelligence is really too low, why can't he understand?
"What I mean is, you don't want to fight her anymore, but to appease her...Of course, this process will not go smoothly.

After all, she doesn't know how to face you now.Moreover, now the monster race and humans have been fighting because of the spiritual vein mine.

This also makes it difficult for the two of you to finally get together.So, these two things are actually one thing. "

Having said that, Linghu Sect finally understood.

After all, he is not stupid, but he is too persistent in love, so his emotional intelligence seems a bit low.

(End of this chapter)