Daughter's Portable Space

Chapter 409 Human Heart
"That's fine, I usually live in Zhuangzi on the outskirts of the city, and if I come to the city for something, at least I have a place to stay."

In fact, at the beginning, Qin Shaotian also mentioned that a courtyard should be set aside from the Qin family mansion for the second bedroom, but in the end this proposal was rejected.For such things as family separation, it should be straightforward, after all, it is reasonable.It doesn't matter if you don't separate families, many big families live together for several generations.

But the most taboo thing is this kind of situation that looks like they are separated, but they are actually getting together again.

On the surface, it seems that the two families are separated, but inside, the houses are adjacent to each other, the servants are running around, and even the accounts are still together.Or it doesn't matter in Qin Shaotian's generation, after all, the second room is his uncle and cousin, but if it goes to the next generation...

Although Brother Jie and the others are also relatives to the second room of the Qin family, since they have never been close to the second room since they were young, and they will grow up in the capital in the future, the relationship between them in this life is at most just a matter of face.Rather than wait until later to have conflicts, it is better to stay away from the beginning, and just have some exchanges during the holidays.

It is precisely because of these problems that the eldest son of the Qin family has tacitly allowed the second son to move far away.Of course, it's not good to be too far away. Married to Haozhou City like my aunt, I'm afraid it will take several years to get together. Time is running out, and no amount of affection will be wiped out.However, half a day's journey away from the Qin family's ancestral house like Erfang is the best.

The matter of buying a house for the second bedroom is considered to be a conclusion, and the Zhuangzi in the outskirts of the city is considered good. There was a house before, but it still needs to be repaired.

The second master of the Qin family has been busy with the New Year's affairs recently, and he also has some business dealings on hand. After all, the separation of the family is imminent, and the two families have already begun to act separately.The affairs of the back house are handled by the second wife of the Qin family, the second young master of the Qin family is in charge of the house on the outskirts of the city, and the third young master of the Qin family is in charge of the small courtyard next to the street.As for the children of the younger generation, they are naturally taken care of by the two young mistresses.

Luo Yunrui thinks that the second room is not bad, the population is neither too large nor too small.It won't cause too much right and wrong, but if you can help each other when you encounter problems, the family will live in harmony, and the small life will not be too bad.

However, after Luo Yunrui told Qin Shaotian about her idea, she got ridiculed by him.

"Ruier, you are so funny, so what if they are brothers? They are brothers, but they all have wives and children. Do you really think that the days of harmony can last for a long time?" People are selfish. On this point, Qin Shaotian She saw it more thoroughly than Luo Yunrui.

"I think the second room and the others get along pretty well on weekdays." Luo Yunrui is also selfish. The population of the Luo family is simple, and so is the eldest family of the Qin family, so she wants to see if there is any family that is harmonious with brothers The sisters-in-law are friendly.If possible, she also hoped that after ten or twenty years, the three little brothers could live together in harmony.

"Because they are in the Qin family's ancestral house, and this house belongs to me." Qin Shaotian also knew what Luo Yunrui was thinking, but he never thought that the family would live together forever.

Out of parental responsibility, he will definitely arrange the children's future life properly, but it is impossible to ask them to never separate.That is so unrealistic.

Luo Yunrui was a little silent. She naturally understood these reasons, but understanding did not mean she could accept them.If it was before giving birth to the three little brothers, Luo Yunrui would have thought well.After the children get married, they will leave the separated family. Naturally, she and Qin Shaotian will live with the eldest son, and the other children will come to see them during the holidays. They don't need to meet often on weekdays, as long as they help each other when they are in trouble. up.

However, as the children were born and grew up one by one, Luo Yunrui felt a little uncomfortable.

As a mother, she naturally hopes that her children will always be brothers and sisters. It's not that she didn't see the bad things of other people, but she just selectively ignored them.

"The second room seems to be safe and sound all these years, but in fact if they dare to make a fuss, I will definitely drive them out immediately with my temper. Don't forget, the identity of the second uncle is at the top of the list." There, if I treat Erfang well, outsiders will praise me for being kind. But if I treat Erfang badly, no one will dare to say that I am wrong. On the contrary, Erfang must be respectful to us. If there is a slight mistake, This reputation of ungratefulness is to be carried for a lifetime."

This is the difference between concubine and concubine.

Luo Yunrui nodded slightly, she understood the meaning, but the second room was an outsider to her, never a family member.

"By the way, don't underestimate the third sibling, she looks weak, but... well, the family is going to be separated anyway, it's none of my business."

The third young lady of the Qin family?
"Shaotian, after all, the third younger sibling is also your cousin, why do you say that?" Although she didn't have a particularly good impression of Xue's cousin at first, since she married the third young master of the Qin family, Luo Yunrui's relationship with her has changed. not bad.It should be said that the cousin of the Xue family devoted herself to her husband and daughter and never provoked disputes. Naturally, with Luo Yunrui's temper, it was impossible to make things difficult for her.

"It's because she is my cousin that I can see through it better."

Luo Yunrui recalled something about the Xue family's cousin, and shook her head gently: "No way? I think she used to be nice to the old lady, but now she is also filial to her parents-in-law and wholeheartedly caring for her husband and raising her children. It seems that there is no problem."

"Rui'er, who do you think is the scariest person? Or, do you think women are scary?"

"Ok?"

"I've heard a saying that a woman is weak and a mother is strong. No matter how weak a woman is usually, she will be extraordinarily strong when she becomes a mother."

"That's natural."

"What about the third sibling? What kind of person do you think she is?" Qin Shaotian sneered slightly: "She was raised by the old lady since she was a child. If you really count, the old lady spent more effort on her than Xi'er and I are more together. Naturally, she is not a heartless person, and she is extremely dedicated to the old lady. But, Rui'er, do you understand? If it is said that the old lady loves her wholeheartedly, then she will return For the old lady, there is too little, too little."

"No way?" Luo Yunrui suddenly hesitated.

A few years ago, the old lady of the Qin family was seriously ill. At that time, if the cousin of the Xue family hadn't devoted herself to serving the old lady of the Qin family, she might not have survived that time.It's just that Luo Yunrui felt before that it might be better if the old lady just went there that time.At least the juniors will mourn because she is a kind old lady in their minds.

"The third sibling does everything for herself."

Qin Shaotian restrained his smile, as if recalling some unpleasant memories: "She is kind to the old lady because the old lady loves her, and at the same time, the old lady is the only person she can rely on. This is with me and Xi'er, or Yan'er and his siblings are all different. We have parents and brothers and sisters. The old lady is not that important in our mind. Relatively speaking, the old lady is the most important in the eyes of the three siblings. .”

"Is this wrong? If someone treats me like this, I will repay her."

"It's not the same, it's just a kind of dependence. When the old lady was seriously ill a few years ago, those of us who are younger generations will feel heartbroken and sad, but only the third sibling is really desperate. But what happens next? The old lady is for her Planning a future and forcing my second uncle and aunt to agree to this marriage, do you know what this means?"

"This……"

"The third younger siblings used to have no relatives and no reason, and the old lady was all she relied on and hoped for. But what about after she got married? Her husband is very important, and her in-laws are very important. After that, she had a son again...Ruier, do you understand? The old lady is not a fool, she didn't care about the third sibling in the next few years, the fundamental reason is that the third sibling didn't care about her in the first place. "

Feelings are always mutual. If someone pays blindly but never gets anything in return, no matter how many feelings there are, one day they will dry up.Even the biological parents, after being disappointed or even desperate again and again, find it difficult to give their wholehearted love to their children.

"The third younger sibling is actually simple and quite simple. She is selfish and considers everything for herself. She is not a bad person. She will not deliberately plot against others, but she will not allow others to plot against her. I think it is mainly because she Once you lose your parents, once you meet someone you can rely on, you will subconsciously hold on tightly and never let go."

The hurt when I was a child was actually the most unforgettable. The cousin of the Xue family was not sent to the old lady of the Qin family as soon as her parents passed away. She was fostered by her uncle's house for a period of time.It's not that the uncle's family will abuse her, it's just that each family has their own children, and they take good care of her in life, but they will inevitably neglect her emotionally.

"Rui'er, we'll separate after the next year. Let's stay as far away as possible from the second room. We're going to the capital anyway. Even if you really need to have contacts in the future, you can talk to the second brother and sister. The third brother and sister I really don't like this guy."

Actually, strictly speaking, Luo Yunrui is also somewhat selfish.It's just that she won't be jealous, won't cling to someone, and won't ignore others because she has better support.

No matter how long she has been married, the Luo family will always be her natal family. The second master of the Luo family and the Luo Zhang family are always her parents. Even if the second master of the Luo family values ​​brother Rui more, he will not deliberately ignore her as the eldest daughter of.

Maybe Xue's cousin's selfishness is understandable, but she made a big mistake in dealing with the relationship between husband, gentleman, children and old lady.

Love can be unique, but family affection is completely different.Having one more family member is one more love, instead of giving up the elders who have given everything for her after choosing a husband and son.If you really think about it, it should be that Xue's cousin's mentality is wrong. After all, her actions reflect her true inner thoughts.

(End of this chapter)