Because of the pain, it is called marriage

Chapter 1 Needle Point Against Wheat Grass (1)
Today is the 13th anniversary of Qi Xuexin's marriage. When she woke up in the morning, she deliberately dressed up, put on a new purple dress bought in the mall, and put some foundation on her face. Looking in the mirror, she felt that she It looks younger and more attractive.But Yang Xuewu no longer had any feelings about this special day. When he was brushing his teeth, he stared at his wife with puzzled eyes and said, "It's not like going out to get married, what are you doing in such a beautiful dress!" Qi Xuexin rolled his eyes at him, Ignore him.As soon as she turned around, Yang Xuewu saw a large section of white skin on her back, and his heart began to feel sour, and he muttered: "If you don't want to wear it, just take it off, it's already cold day lily chewing hard." I can't even chew, and I want to seduce someone dressed like this to work..."

Qi Xuexin glared at him fiercely, and said with a dark face: "My daylily became like this because I was tortured by you Yang Xuewu. Don't worry, wait for someone to water me someday , I will still become a tender bud, and then I will be afraid that you will feel inferior when you go out with me."

Yang Xuewu burst out laughing: "Your bud is also a thousand-year-old iron tree bud, which can't be compared with tenderness." Qi Xuexin was a little annoyed: "When I invested in your restaurant, but A straw house. I will renovate and redecorate and paint for you. You are the virtue you are now. Now you think I am old? The more you live, the cuter you are, and I become a daylily. So you are living with me now, aren’t you looking for Maternal love? I am not so lucky to have such a tender son as you. "

Yang Xuewu patted her arm, and said cheerfully: "You, you really deserve to be a Chinese teacher. You have a sharp mouth, and it's not fun for me to argue with you. Oh, yes, Xuexin, I Mom called in the morning and said that if there is something difficult to use in our house, don't throw it away, and take it home for Mom to use."

Qi Xuexin looked at Yang Xuewu expressionlessly, and said, "In my family, her son and you are the most difficult to use, and the others are all very easy to use!"

Yang Xuewu was taken aback, frowned, and said, "Why do you speak so unappealingly? I just said it casually. What are you doing with your barbed words? I'm going to work, so I won't tell you anymore. I'm making trouble."

After Yang Xuewu left, Qi Xuexin stared blankly at herself in the mirror, silently took off her clothes, why were she dressed so grandly?This day is no different from other days. Since when did Yang Xuewu forget his wedding anniversary?five years ago?Or was it eight years ago?After silently eating breakfast and washing the dishes, Xuexin applied hand cream on her hands, and looked at a pot of cactus on the window sill. She suddenly felt that her heart was like this cactus in front of her, full of thorns, everywhere. It's not fun.

If there is a next life, she wants to be a cactus and live alone and contentedly.When a person, sometimes it is too hard, the momentary love in the journey of life actually earns himself to give his whole life willingly.But after a moment of sweetness, huge and hidden suffering followed.

When she came to school and stopped in class, Qi Xuexin forgot all her troubles.She likes children, likes her students' clear and knowledge-seeking eyes, and is full of admiration and trust for teachers, which makes her wish to impart all knowledge to them.This class is "Little AIDS Fighters". Just as she was educating the students emotionally, the mobile phone on the podium suddenly rang.She is a little unhappy. Her relatives and friends know her occupation, and they will not call her during working hours. Her mobile phone usually only accepts text messages or is used as a watch to check the time.

She picked up the phone and looked, it showed the phone number at home. Is there something urgent at home?Qi Xuexin hurriedly made a gesture to the students who were still interested, picked up her mobile phone and ran outside the door.

"Hey?"

"Xuexin, you must go home for me right away!" Her mother-in-law's commanding tone came from the other end of the phone.

"What's the matter? Mom, when did you come? Is there anything at home? I'm in class."

"It's terrible! The house is terribly dirty! What do you want to do? Ah?" The mother-in-law's voice was so loud that it could penetrate the eardrums, and she had to keep the phone away from her ears.

"What is terribly dirty?" Qi Xuexin was confused and asked patiently. She remembered that she had washed the dirty clothes before going to work, and cleaned the house.

"Why don't you and your wife close the screens when you go out in the morning? There are a lot of small bugs in the house, flying all over the house, it's really annoying! I don't care! Come back and clean it!" the mother-in-law snapped. Got the phone!
Qi Xuexin couldn't laugh or cry, little bug?
Now that the weather is getting hotter, there are more flowers and plants on the balcony, and it is normal to have a few flying insects in the house. Wouldn’t it be enough to light a mosquito coil?It's just that the old man forgot to close the screen window and lifted his finger and pulled it to settle it. This old woman actually called her teacher to ask her to blame for such a big thing.Qi Xuexin really convinced her mother-in-law.As for her mother-in-law, her father-in-law died early, and she was raising three children by herself. It stands to reason that she should be a hardworking, clean and simple rural woman, but she is not!Her mother-in-law is typical selfish, she chooses the easy things and fears the heavy ones when doing things, Qi Xuexin is really afraid of her, every time she comes, she will make a mess of the family.After a long time, Qi Xuexin also looked away, but as an old woman in the countryside, just bear with her, there is no need to quarrel with her, after all, she is Yang Xuewu's mother.

After class, Qi Xuexin sat quietly in the office, a ray of sunlight outside the window gently slanted on the table, and a pot of purple flowers bloomed elegantly on the table, accepting the sunshine bathing happily, exuding a faint fragrance.She took a sip of tea, picked up a red pen and prepared to correct homework, when her colleague Yuxiu came in with a black fish, and yelled, "That old bastard in my house is getting more and more tricky, yesterday I was talking about eating black fish at home Cooking pickled cabbage, no, I asked someone to send it to me, and it cost me dozens of yuan, this thing is really expensive."

Yuxiu is already in her forties this year, but she doesn't have the rich appearance that a woman of this age should have. On the contrary, she feels a little skinny. Qi Xuexin always feels that she is so thin that her cheeks can't cover her teeth.

Qi Xuexin smiled and said: "Your family is not something you are used to. My family has never had any requirements for martial arts in terms of food. He basically eats whatever I make him."

Yuxiu threw the fish to the corner, washed her hands and sat opposite her, and said, "Hmph, now, when I'm happy, I'll get him a few dishes to eat, and when I'm not happy, I don't bother to care about him. The same goes for clothes, and when I'm happy, I'll eat them." Help him wash and wash. If I’m not happy, I told him to change it. He didn’t just wash his ass up. He has no status at home now, and his son and daughter don’t want to see him. No matter how hard he jumps, he can’t make it to the sky. !"

"Your old Li is doing well now. I saw him mopping the floor last time I went to your house."

"Hmph! He owes me, what's the point of dragging the floor? I have endured his infidelity and cheating since I was in my twenties. This is already known in the whole city. I am not afraid of losing face. My old face I lost it all to him. At that time, I endured it! For the sake of the children, for this family, I endured it! In the end, I endured it. Now that he is old, why not return to this family as usual? I endured him for more than 20 years , Now he is 50 years old, I plan for him to live to 70 years old, he has to bear with me for 20 years! I can proudly stand in front of him for 20 years, and the life expectancy will be longer than that! The woman outside, the childhood sweetheart loves so much that she almost elopes and dies. Woman, besides making a show, what is she left behind? She is in her 40s, and she is not alone. Who would want her? Besides, I heard that she is in their neighborhood, talking to other men. Everyone guards against her, she smells like a fox all over her body, who doesn't guard against her? She fought with me for decades, what did she get in the end? To get the love of my old Li? Well, the love of the dead old man is all Let her go, I have a family, lovely and vigorous children, and a wife when I grow old... So, in the end, I still won."

Qi Xuexin's ears were callused after hearing these words about Yuxiu. She was really puzzled. Every time Yuxiu would make a bunch of remarks about her old Li's affairs, and each time it was different, it sounded like a joke. Makes sense.In short, there are many, many, only Qi Xuexin can't think of, there is nothing Yuxiu can't tell.Thinking about it makes it hard to tighten the smile, as it is now.Yuxiu noticed the smile on her face and was surprised: "What's wrong? What are you smirking about?"

"It's nothing," Qi Xuexin quickly restrained her smile, "I'm a childhood sweetheart who sympathizes with your old Li, but I just happened to meet a wife with such stamina. Originally, she probably wanted to compete with you in stamina, but I didn't expect that she couldn't hold you back. It's bad luck for her, if I meet a master like me, I will definitely not be able to hold her back, and I will definitely be snatched away by her man."

Yuxiu said seriously: "I said Xiao Qi, you really can't have such thoughts. Your Yang Xuewu is now the director of the department in the hospital, and the money he earns a year is more than ten times that of yours, right? Back then you When I was with him, he had nothing. This good man was cultivated by you, so you can’t take advantage of others, right? In this society, there are a lot of shameless foxes who take the initiative to post, give way? Are you stupid? , dragging her to death!"

Qi Xuexin was taken aback, looked at her in bewilderment, and murmured: "What are you talking about? It seems like my Xuewu really cheated. Don't make me nervous."

Seeing this, Yuxiu smiled immediately: "The homework has been changed. It's getting far away."

The two of them had no class, and after changing their homework for a while, Yuxiu suddenly said: "By the way, when my old Li broke up with his childhood sweetheart, I told her face to face: find a man to marry, don't think You are better than other people's wives, don't think that a man loves you more than his wife. When the novelty is over, there is at least a strong affection between you and your wife, and there is nothing left between you except exhausted love , what you leave for a man is an inescapable trouble! If you can get rid of it, a man will abandon you without hesitation! As the saying goes, a lover is like a rag, throw it away after you use it up! Do you think this is a classic or not? For this , His lover ran to the door to seek death!"

Qi Xuexin kept silent, but thought in her heart: Your old Li is too wicked, it is heartless enough to let his wife say such things after spending most of her life as a girl who has paid for it.

Because he didn't agree with Yuxiu in his heart, he ignored her and let her talk to herself.

After get off work, I went to the vegetable market to buy good vegetables, and when I came home by bicycle, Qi Xuexin opened the door and saw melon seeds all over the floor, and her mother-in-law was leaning on the sofa, eating half an apple and watching TV.Seeing her coming back, the mother-in-law greeted her without raising her head: "Are you back?" Qi Xuexin held back her breath and watched her mother-in-law gnaw on an apple and spit the skin on the ground. Spit.Every time she came home, Qi Xuexin had to clean for at least half a day.

"Mom, I bought your favorite beef, how do you want to eat it? Do you still braise it?" Qi Xuexin asked while washing vegetables in the kitchen.

The mother-in-law put the leftover apples on the sofa, wiped her hands on her trousers, and said, "Let me cook it. I have a strong taste. I don't like it when you burn it."

Qi Xuexin had no choice but to walk out of the kitchen and let her mother-in-law go.

My mother-in-law cooked beef with green pepper, eggplant with minced meat, braised chicken and seaweed egg soup.After her mother-in-law finished cooking, Qi Xuexin went into the kitchen to clean up. She was still dumbfounded when she entered the kitchen. On the ground, green onion leaves, garlic skins, and minced ginger were all over the place. On the stove, the soy sauce bottle was crooked. There is a layer of salt powder around the salt jar, the bag of chicken bouillon is also lying on the stove, and the dish basin is even more horrible. Plates, vegetable shovels, dishcloths, and dirty washing water that have not been poured out are mixed together. Qi Xuexin sighed, this mother-in-law, frying so many dishes is like making a fuss in heaven, if it cooks a table of dishes, what kind of kitchen will it be?If it is not done well, the living room will suffer.

As soon as Qi Xuexin cleaned up, her daughter Yang Jing came back.Yang Jing went in to change her shoes, saw grandma, bowed her head and called "Grandma" and entered the room. The old lady curled her mouth and muttered: "Damn girl, just like her mother, you just can't get close to me!"

Qi Xuexin set the table and chopsticks, and shouted to her daughter: "Yang Jing, come out to eat!"

Yang Jing jumped out, looked at the food on the table, and said coquettishly to her mother, "Mom, you know I don't like garlic when I eat chicken!"

Qi Xuexin smiled lovingly: "It's your grandma's cooking, don't learn to be picky eaters, your father and I don't have this bad problem."

Yang Jing pouted and took a mouthful of vegetables, and immediately spat it out and exclaimed, "My God, what kind of vegetables are these? They eat salt!"

The mother-in-law said disapprovingly: "Eat four liang of salt more, walk and run ahead! How can you have strength if you don't eat salt? Xiao Jing, look at your thin arms and legs, it is short of salt. Look at that scene The white-haired girl in the book, her hair will turn white if she doesn’t eat salt, so is it okay if she doesn’t eat salt?”

"Okay, grandma, tell my dad about your trick! Anyway, I don't like to eat it! Mom, make me a bowl of instant noodles. I'm off to do my homework. Today's homework has to be handed in in the afternoon." Yang Jing put down her chopsticks and walked away. I ran into the room and closed the door to do my homework.

"Look at this child, she has a cold temper. Grandma finally came here and cooked food for her to eat. She is fine, with this attitude."

Qi Xuexin comforted her: "Mom, don't worry about the child's temper, she has been picky about eating." After finishing speaking, she made instant noodles for Yang Jing and brought them to the room, and carefully closed the door behind her.

"Mom, let's eat. Xuewu is on middle shift today, and he won't get off work until three or four in the afternoon."

Qi Xuexin drank boiled water while eating vegetables, and went to wash the dishes after this difficult lunch, to find out all this and see that the time is almost one o'clock, Qi Xuexin has the habit of taking a nap, she greeted her mother-in-law: "Mom, take a rest at noon ? I'm going to sleep too."

The mother-in-law sat on the sofa and stood still. She patted the sofa and opened her mouth, and said, "Xuexin, sit down. Mom has something to tell you."

Qi Xuexin thought: Here we go again.Either asking for money or asking for this or that. The last time she came here was to ask her to find a partner for her sister-in-law in their unit. Her sister-in-law was over [-] years old and still picking and choosing, wishing to marry the governor.Every time my mother-in-law comes, there must be a purpose. It's okay to ask for money, but I'm afraid that she will make demands, which are impossible for human beings.

Qi Xuexin said patiently: "Mom, let's talk about it when I get home tonight. I still have a few classes in the afternoon. I want to take a break."

"Who doesn't want to go to work? Do you think I'm idle at home? Do you think I came all the way to eat your meals? You don't want to see me like that? You don't even want to listen to me? You say you have a son It’s useless, marrying a wife and forgetting your mother, it’s true! Back then, I should have strangled Xuewu to save me from being angry now.”

Meeting such a mother-in-law, even Qi Xuexin's 12 points of patience will be exhausted. She doesn't want to quarrel with her mother-in-law at noon, and her daughter is still at home.She lowered her posture, pulled a chair and sat down: "Mom, if you have any orders, please tell me."

"Hmph, order? Do I dare? You are a teacher of the people, how dare I! I'm begging you!"

Qi Xuexin was silent.

"Last time I told you to help Xiaofen find a good husband's family, but you pushed back and forth and refused to help! Oh, you found a good husband by yourself, and the hungry man is hungry? You don't even think about it, you good husband Who was born and raised! Xiaofen is also called your sister-in-law anyway, so you can’t have snacks on her marriage? Xiaofen is not too young at [-] now, and in a few years, the market will be even better No, I didn’t ask you to find overseas returnees or university professors or senior management for Xiaofen. Anyone who has a house and a job is fine, but you always say that there is no suitable one. If you can come, what is so hard to find? You just refuse to help."

Qi Xuexin wanted to say, when I married your family and learned martial arts, I didn't have a house yet, but he had nothing. Your daughter has no education and no job. I am a rural girl who wants to find a house and a good job. Treat yourself as your own daughter Is it inlaid with gold?
She was perfunctory to her mother-in-law: "The older boys in our unit are all married, and the ones who have just been assigned are only 22, there is no suitable one."

The mother-in-law looked at her suspiciously: "Really?"

Qi Xuexin nodded.In fact, there are quite a few people in their unit who are about the same age as Xiaofen, but how can she say this?No matter how poor the family is, it is impossible to find an older rural girl who has nothing to be his wife, right?
The mother-in-law glanced at her, obviously not believing Qi Xuexin's words, but she endured it and did not continue talking about this topic.The old lady thought for a while, and her heart hardened, and she had to tell the purpose of her trip, so she coughed twice and said, "Xuexin, Mom is here this time to discuss something with you."

Qi Xuexin became vigilant, her mother-in-law's attitude must be a serious matter, she quietly watched what the old lady said.

"Ming Yazi has been graduating from university for three or four years, and the family even sold the cooking pot for him to study. Now he has a girlfriend, who is also a college student, and he wants to get married. Let's get married. They want to buy a house...Ming Yazi, a college student, found a job with great difficulty, and the salary is not high. How can he have the money to buy a house? Your life is so good now, and you gave birth to a girl, what is the use of so much money? In the future, it will be cheaper for the other family. Xuexin, you are a sensible person. As the saying goes, an elder brother is like a father. Ming Yazi’s father is gone, so you have to help him. So, I come with you Discuss and discuss, can you pay to help your brother buy a house... not too big, ninety square meters, only a few hundred thousand yuan..."

Qi Xuexin didn't seem to believe her ears. Seeing her mother-in-law staring at her, she was really angry: "To put it bluntly, it's only a few hundred thousand yuan? Haha, no matter how much money I have, it belongs to my daughter." , nothing to do with your son!"

The mother-in-law was stunned for a while, and said, "That's your brother!"

Qi Xuexin turned back to her vigorously: "That's your son! It's none of my business if your son buys a house? What happened to my daughter? The daughter also came out of my belly. It's a piece of my body. My money is Leave it to my daughter, stop thinking about it, let me tell you, you should die as soon as possible, there is absolutely no discussion about this matter!"

(End of this chapter)