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Chapter 106

Chapter 6, Section 10 About Love

[French] Pascal
If there is a strong and soft part in the human spirit, then this is love, and controlling this strong and soft feeling is a pure, high-class, and elegant activity... Women want to see the strong and soft feelings in men's hearts.In my opinion, this is the most important point in winning a woman's heart.

Looked at from the same point of view, the mind wears out and becomes enfeebled.In spite of the hope that the joys of love are firm and long-lasting, there are times when it is necessary to forget about love.It is not for the sin of infidelity, not for loving another, but for the restoration of the strength to love more strongly.The spirit naturally tends to this, commands people to act in this way.But it is precisely this fact that often leads to tragic results in human nature.

In the absence of courage to express one's feelings, there is pain and joy in the joy of love.What a frenzied infatuation when plans of action are drawn up to impress men of infinite esteem!Thinking hard every day, looking for a way to express my feelings.And because of this, he wasted the time he should have talked with the woman he admired.

When I am in love, I seem to be a different person than I used to be, and I am convinced that all people will feel this.But nothing could be more wrong than this reasoning.However, because reason is blinded by emotion, it cannot make a completely reliable judgment, and it is always in fluctuation...

There are people in the world who need to pursue for a long time, and they are emotionally sensitive people.There are also people who cannot stand waiting for a long time, and these are the roughest people.Mentally sensitive people love long and enjoy it more.The rough love is eager and unrestrained, and the end of love comes early...

In love, silence is better than words.It is not a good thing to have nothing to say, but concise and concise words will make a deeper impression on the other party. This is the so-called wordless eloquence.The man he admires is inferior to words, but brilliant in other respects, by which he completely conquers a woman.No matter how quick the eloquence may be, there are cases where this quickness happens to disappear completely.There are no definite rules in all such situations, and they happened without careful consideration, so that they can conquer the opponent, and it is not planned in advance, but happens involuntarily...

Some people say that when you are in love, regardless of property, parents, or friends, you will completely forget about it.I agree with him.Noble love comes from deep within.Because love is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, everything other than the lover is no longer important.Because the spirit is controlled by love, there is no room for worry and anxiety to penetrate.The passion of love cannot be called beautiful if it is not as wild as this.

Therefore, lovers don't even care about the rumors in the world.He knew early on that this action was based on legitimate reasons and therefore should not be blamed in the slightest.So, he was so passionate that he had no time to think seriously...

The great soul is not the soul that loves most often.I think it should be the soul that loves most strongly.When great souls fall in love, they love with extraordinary fervor...

【Together with you】

Love is the fire of life, with love, life can burn; love is a vessel, with love, life can contain more sources of hope.

It can be said that to love someone is to rejoice in the beauty that erupts from the collision of two hearts, and pray in my heart over and over again. This is not a phantom, nor a moment, but the only exception, which is the real eternity.

To love someone is to be unable to restrain the urge to give even if it is false, even if it is short-lived, and finally stretch out your hand and hand over your heart and your soul, even if the dream is broken again, even if the soul is split from now on, you have no power to refuse it. A feeling of being far and near, life and death.

To love someone is to never write poetry, but you actually wrote such lines: how I want to have your phone call from the sky / how I want to have your greeting with a bouquet of flowers / how I want to have your tenacious voice at noon when there is a thunderstorm Arm support / How I want to dance with you on that beautiful night / How I want to smile at you when the old and sick old age comes / How I want you to suddenly fall from the sky in this sad and dreary night.

To love someone is to turn a blind eye to a huge spiritual distance, but to be grateful for your wealth all the time.The true love that you believe is about to disappear in this world is firmly in your hands.You will smile when you see the morning star, you will nod your head when you see the sunset, and you will no longer frown in the dark and severe winter.You smile at everything because you feel stronger than the whole world.

Loving someone is when the fuse finally ignites after extreme disappointment, the shackles are removed, the heart is relaxed and free again, but just a word, a look of concern, will easily throw you into a new round of love. combustion.

To love someone is to resent him and miss him at the same time, belittle him and yearn for him at the same time.Just issued the order to evict the guest and announced that he would never see him again, but turned around and dialed the phone in confusion to look for him.

To love someone is to feel a blank in your heart after a great grief.You no longer love nor hate, nor rage nor mourn.Compassion gradually grows in your heart, pity for you who once indulged, and even more pity for the person you loved, pity for that mediocrity, and that weakness.

At this time, loving someone becomes an experience.This experience was once sweet and sweet, but in the end it was extremely painful.This experience gradually precipitates into a step-you stand on the step and regain the height.

Love what you love, and you will cherish what you love.

(End of this chapter)