The story of the struggle of the poor girl who crossed

Chapter 225 Poria's Words (1)
It's just an uncle, so what does it matter?In the future, if Fuling is with Zhao Hong, Zhao Hong's uncle and aunt want to make trouble for Fuling, so she doesn't need Fuling to do anything. Make a trip.If she wants to use the name of the female general to do bad things, she will not allow it.

Ban Xia nodded vigorously: "Sister, I really think that Zhao Hong and Fu Ling are quite suitable. Although Zhao Hong is my classmate, he is two years younger than me, and about two years older than Fu Ling. However, it is better to be older, be steady a little."

Liang Moju nodded: "Well, what you're saying is that it's a good thing to be more mature." In her previous life, she would have thought that a 25-year-old man was terribly childish.People in this ancient society may mature a little earlier, but if they don't even have one, what can they do?Two years older, that's a must.

Ban Xia: "Sister, if you agree, I'll test Zhao Hong, okay?"

Liang Moju: "Don't worry, Eldest Sister will ask Fu Ling to find out about the situation first, to see if she likes Zhao Hong. If she doesn't want to, then don't force it, you have to find someone she likes."

A good man may not be able to give a woman happiness, no matter what, there must be some feeling.Love is second, pleasing to the eye, that is a must.

She is impatient, and Fuling is 17 years old, so her marriage really cannot be delayed.She hadn't come back before, and Licorice's marriage hadn't been settled yet.Fu Ling was not in the mood to talk about marriage either, and kept telling her family that she would wait until Licorice got married.Now that Licorice is married and the elder sister is back, it's time for Fu Ling to get married.

Liang Moju found Fu Ling and said straightforwardly: "Fu Ling, you are also 17 years old, it's time to get married. What kind of person do you like, tell the eldest sister!"

Fu Ling blushed all over her face, lowered her head and said coyly: "Eldest sister, I'm still young, neither the eldest sister nor the second brother are married, so I'm not in a hurry!" .Anyway, she didn't want to get married earlier than her eldest sister and second brother.

Liang Moju couldn't help but feel very sad. It was her who made her younger siblings hurt. She looked at Licorice with distress, and softly comforted her: "Fu Ling, my eldest sister doesn't want to get married for the past two years. Eldest sister has to think about it. Your second brother If you are a man, you can find a 30-year-old girl when you get married at the age of 15, but you are different. If you are still undecided, you will become an old girl if you drag on. At that time, it will be much more difficult to find a suitable husband and son-in-law!
The eldest sister does not want you to be a stepmother, nor does she want you to make do with marriage. The eldest sister hopes that you can find a good and suitable husband and live a happy life.Listen to the elder sister's words, get married early, don't delay.If you procrastinate any longer, you may not be able to find a good one in the future, which will not only affect the rest of your own life, but also affect your children in the future! "

Liang Moju patiently explained, and Fu Ling finally nodded: "Okay, I will listen to Eldest Sister. Eldest Sister, I like scholars. Well, people with both civil and military skills, that's the best! Also, I don't want to marry into a rich family, marry an ordinary family That's fine. Don't be too poor, I don't want my family to live on my dowry after getting married!"

Her dowry will definitely not be less, but she must leave it to her children, not to supplement her husband's family.Of course, if the people in the husband's family are good enough to her, and when the husband's family encounters difficulties, she will take out some dowry money to subsidize the people in the husband's family, that's fine.However, if people from the husband's family had planned on her dowry from the very beginning, such a husband's family would not want it!
Liang Moju nodded: "Well, what you said is that it's really not good to be too poor. At the very least, you can eat and clothe yourself without spending your dowry. If a man can't even solve the problem of food and clothing for his family, what can he do?" Do you have the energy to raise children?"

The most important thing is that Joan will mourn everything for the husband and wife.If you are worried, how can you have enough patience and warmth to treat your wife?If a man has to worry about eating and drinking all day and night, how can he have enough patience and warmth to treat his wife?
Only when a person is happy in his heart and happy, can he have his mind and ability to greet others with a smile.He himself is frowning and full of worries, how can he be gentle with his wife?It is estimated that a little unhappiness will cause quarrels between husband and wife.Life is not going well, and Bai Lianhua outside took the initiative to post it, so he must be easily tricked.

About this point, as early as a few years ago, Liang Moju broke apart these truths, and told Licorice, Poria and Xiao Lan.The three of them had long been convinced by her words, including Xiao Lan, who had no yearning for those poor scholars.

As for Zhao Hong, although his family was not rich, it was not poor either.His family has a three-entry house in the capital, not far from Tianshui Lane, and the location is not bad.His father is a carpenter with excellent crafts, and his mother does some embroidery to earn money on weekdays. The life of the family of five is not bad.

Speaking of which, in fact, Zhao Hong and Licorice's husband, Zhao Xun, belong to the same family.However, six or seven generations have passed, and they only know each other, not close.However, Licorice also heard from Zhao Xun that Zhao Hong's family is a very good family.

Liang Moju asked Fu Ling again: "Your brother's classmate Zhao Hong, what do you think? Don't be shy, tell the truth to eldest sister."

Fu Ling couldn't help being taken aback when she heard this, and said blushingly, "Sister, what do you mean?"

Liang Moju: "Your second brother said that Zhao Hong is a nice person, and his family is also pretty good. The most important thing is that his family has a simple population, and his younger brothers and sisters are also good. Zhao Hong's younger brother is still Juren now. , now I am studying in Yixiantian Academy, and I heard that the grades are very good. I am interested, and I can be admitted to Jinshi next year. My sister is also 13 years old. In a few years, I can get married. Such a simple family, I also think it is very good Alright, tell Eldest Sister the truth, what do you think of him?"

Facing the serious eyes of the elder sister, Fu Ling thought for a while, and summoned up the courage to say: "Eldest sister, Zhao Hong lived in our house for a long time, and I also know him as an acquaintance. At that time, I thought this person was nice, quite Okay. In the past few years when you were away, he has not been estranged from the second brother. I heard that the second brother is a trustworthy friend. If the eldest sister and the second brother think he is good, I am willing to marry this person. Although his family is not Wealthy people, but I believe that the days will get better and better!"

When Zhao Hong's younger brother is admitted to Jinshi, becomes an official or a teacher, the family will gradually become rich.Zhao Hong's father was a good carpenter, and his father personally made several pieces of the eldest sister's dowry, all of which were exquisite.His father is honest and hardworking, and his mother is also a person who knows how to live. She should have some family background and not be very poor.

After hearing what she said, Liang Moju breathed a sigh of relief: "Since you have said so, then Eldest Sister will ask Chen Dong and the others to investigate carefully to see if there is anything wrong with him and his family. If the investigation The results show that there is nothing wrong with it, so your second brother will go test it out with Zhao Hong."

Fu Ling shyly said: "Okay, thank you, Eldest Sister, I will listen to Eldest Sister."

Liang Moju turned around and went to Chen Dong to explain to him.Chen Dong nodded, respectfully complied, and took the order to leave.A few days later, he reported the results of the investigation to Liang Moju: "General Qi, Zhao Hong has no concubine, concubine, confidante, and engagement. His family has no bad habits, and has never done anything. Vicious things. This family has a good reputation and good character, Zhao Hong is very filial to his parents and cares about his younger siblings, but he is very principled and not a foolish person!"

"It's hard work, go back and have a good rest." Liang Moju smiled gratifiedly.

(End of this chapter)