Liangyue Farm Gate

Chapter 148
A-He wiped his eyes, shook his head and said, "I don't know what he planned. He made an agreement before coming here, discussed it with my father and the others, and he agreed. I haven't arrived at my aunt's house in town yet. He hesitated again, asking whether someone would say that he was not filial or something like this. I always knew that he had a soft ear, so there was no place for him."

"Brother-in-law is a fool, sister, you can't go on like this with him!" Axiu said bitterly: "According to what you said now, brother-in-law and his parents have all gone to brother-in-law and his younger brother's family, your sister-in-law You are also a difficult person to get along with, every day to take advantage of you, you two do the housework, they just eat with their mouths open, how can it be so cheap! If I were you, I would directly quarrel with them Let them know who is doing things at home!"

Li Xin didn't speak, but the two sisters said sweet words, she is the sister-in-law, after all, she is separated by a floor, so she can't force the sister-in-law to separate from her in-laws, can she?
A-He just wiped his eyes, then sighed and said, "I want to make a fuss too, can I make a fuss? It's not like you don't know that your brother-in-law is soft-tempered, and I'm afraid he will be punished if I say a few words." Dad yelled and came to cover my mouth to keep me from talking."

Ahe shook his head, "In my father-in-law's heart, sons and grandchildren are treasures, daughter-in-laws who have given birth to grandsons are treasures, daughter-in-laws who have not given birth to grandchildren are grass, and granddaughters are also grass... The big girl and the second girl are not in their grandfather. In front of grandma, it’s okay, the children are only a little over three years old and they know who likes them to be close to them, and who doesn’t like them not to be close to them, and they know how to look at people at a young age, and I feel distressed when I see it.”

As she spoke, she shifted her gaze to the faces of the two daughters, sighed again, and tears fell down again: "When I thought about losing a child, my sister-in-law said in a weird way that I didn't know my own body, The fetus was unstable, and the first baby was also a girl. This time it was definitely a girl. She was born as a loser who opened her mouth to eat. The words made me lose my face again. They stopped talking about my affairs and kept my natal family from knowing, and blocked my mouth by saying that it was bad luck to pass on my natal family's wedding... except for my two daughters Accompanying me, Brother Qiang also greeted me with care, and after only two or three days of rest, he let me go to work again... I can't even eat a mouthful of fermented glutinous rice..."

Perhaps it was really the grievances that had been accumulated for a long time, A-he couldn't stop the tears as she spoke, and kept falling down.A-mei had already started crying along with her, and A-Xiu's eyes were also red, scolding the Luo family for being ignorant, obedient and filial daughter-in-law who knows how to do things, but Ahe who gave birth to a grandson.娌.

Ah He felt better after crying a lot, took Li Xin's handkerchief and wiped his eyes, his eyeballs were swollen, and said embarrassedly: "Sister-in-law, I made you laugh at me the first time we met."

"What kind of joke is this? You are crying so sadly." Li Xin sighed, "If I still treat your life as a joke, I'm still not human."

Speaking of getting up, he carefully put Yang'er in it and let him sleep with the big girl Erniu, and said: "You guys are chatting, I'll go cook something to eat. I've been busy all day today, and I'm still in the middle of the night. Feeling hungry."

Then he put on his clothes and went to the kitchen.

When he was too busy for a stick of incense, Li Xin came over with four bowls of fermented glutinous rice eggs on a tray.

The charcoal pot in the room was burning vigorously, and Li Xin added two more pieces of charcoal into it.The tray was placed on the dressing table, and all four of them picked it up.

Ah He sniffed and said, "It's better to be at my natal family. Some sisters talk about their concerns, and the sister-in-law will cook for us."

"Sister-in-law is good at cooking, third sister, you have to eat hard."

Axiu drove the eggs from her own bowl into Ahe's bowl, and said, "I'll just have some soup. I ate meat today, and I'm impatient to eat eggs again. Third sister, eat more. Make up for what you didn’t eat during the confinement period.”

"...Mmm." Aho paused, then silently scooped up the eggs and started eating.

After eating, the bowl was placed on the dressing table, and Li Xin didn't wash it, saying, "It's very cold outside, I'll clean it up in the morning."

After rushing the three sister-in-laws into bed, Li Xin suddenly felt like a mother.

The four lay side by side, with Li Xin on the outermost side, Axiu next to her, and Ahe sleeping between Axiu's sisters and sisters.

Li Xin turned sideways and said softly, "Sister, don't you not like to listen to what I have to say."

Ah He hurriedly replied: "Sister-in-law wants to say something, just say it."

"Then I'll say it," Li Xin thought for a while, and said, "If I were you, I would definitely not break up with others so easily."

Axiu immediately said: "Sister-in-law, if you and your elder brother are separated and live on your own, wouldn't it be okay?"

"It's good to separate the family and run your own family, but you have to analyze everything thoroughly." Li Xin comforted Axiu, and asked Ahe: "Sanmei, right now your in-law's family is only your parents-in-law. The grandma who is the head of your family, as well as my brother-in-law and sister-in-law, as well as the eldest girl Erniu and my brother-in-law's son, are these people?"

Ah He hurriedly said: "Brother Qiang, his grandma passed away the year before last."

"That is to say, the oldest elders in the family are your father-in-law and mother-in-law." Li Xin nodded and said, "And you are the eldest son in charge of the family."

Ah He sighed: "So what about the eldest son, it's because I'm not up to date, and he's so tired that he doesn't receive much attention from his father."

Axiu said displeased: "Third sister, what are you talking about? If we women look down on women ourselves, who else will look down on us? What happened to the daughter? Some have a lot of sons and none of them are successful. On the contrary, it is a daughter, if she marries well in the future, she will supplement her natal family and be close to her mother."

Ah He just sighed faintly.

Li Xin said: "Axiu is also right. First of all, you can't feel sorry for yourself. Third sister, I saw you for the first time today, and I thought you looked bad. How to live a good life? If you want to say that there is a solution once and for all, since your father-in-law and mother-in-law want to have a grandson, why don’t you both work hard to have a son? Who said that the first child gave birth to two daughters? In the future, all the children will be daughters? Besides, you lost one earlier, if you were not tired, you would be in a better mood, and maybe it would not be so easy to lose it."

What Li Xin said made Ah He startled.

Li Xin continued: "Whether life is going well or not, the attitude of the husband and wife is the most important thing. Don't worry about the rules of your father-in-law and mother-in-law, you clearly know that your head is soft. Are you going to let him go soft? You I also said that your grandmother told you before you got married, and those words can be summed up in four words - a husband and a child. You have gone to patronize the godson, and the husband must not be left behind. The head of the family is soft, you have to give He's hardened, let him speak hard outside."

"But..." A'He interjected, "He's just like that..."

"People cannot be static, especially men." Li Xin said: "He has a family and a baby. As long as he is able to take responsibility, he has blood and a sense of responsibility. I listen to what you said, you sit down Xiaoyuezi, he cares about you, and his two daughters also accompany you caringly, which shows that the head of your family has a lot of affection for you. You have been begging for perfection all these years, and you live in the same family, can he not know?"

A-He was stunned: "He, he knows... He also said that he was wronged, wronged me..."

"Isn't it over?"

Li Xin comforted: "He knows he has wronged you, but he still makes you suffer. He just compensates you where he can. Have you ever thought about why?"

"He...he is filial, but also afraid of his father..."

"Look, you understand too."

Li Xin sighed and said: "Although you are marrying a man, you still have to deal with the people around this man. His parents, brothers, sisters, friends, these people, you have to have a relationship with them." The intersection, but at the core, that man is the real master."

A-He was busy talking, but Li Xin stopped him and said, "Sanmei, listen to me first."

Ahe paused, and Li Xin said: "Your situation is different from mine now. You are also the eldest daughter-in-law. Your population is simple and things are simple. My side has many people and things are complicated. So just separate the family and ignore those many things. Your family is different from mine. Your eldest brother is filial and soft-hearted to his family, but sometimes your father goes too far, and he will stand up and speak for me. At this point, the family was divided by accident, and this matter is a bit complicated, so we will talk about it slowly in the future, let's talk about your husband's family."

A-He nodded and said, "Sister-in-law, tell me."

"If you want me to say, you are too cowardly in dealing with these things. If you are tougher and defend you a little more in front of your parents-in-law, you can't bear so much grievance. Your The sister-in-law is so angry, why? It’s because she gave birth to a son, but why can she take your dowry at will after giving birth to a son? You can’t retort that it is for your own son. Could it be that your sister-in-law wants to say You won't be able to have a son in the future? You can say that she cursed you and the head of your family without a descendant, and you are afraid of what she will do. "

Ahe was in a daze, and Li Xin taught her: "Second point, I only heard you say that your father-in-law is patriarchal, but I didn't hear you mention anything wrong with your mother-in-law. I think your mother-in-law is also a soft-footed shrimp. Just talk to your father-in-law, and your mother-in-law will listen to whatever he says."

Ah He hurriedly said: "Sister-in-law, how do you know? My mother-in-law usually doesn't talk much..."

"Your mother-in-law is so inconspicuous, she's either suffocating, or she really doesn't have any opinions. But you have to know that men will listen to what they hear, so you should dazzle your mother-in-law as much as possible. If you are filial, she will naturally miss you better. Now that your sister-in-law is above the top just because she has a son, you can save the country with curves, please your mother-in-law and win over your father-in-law."

"curve……"

"It's just turning a corner to please your father-in-law." Li Xin said: "The old man likes children, regardless of girls and boys, they are all his grandchildren, right? I'm afraid even the big girls and the second girls will not come to him He doesn’t like it even more. You mother can’t tell your daughter what’s wrong with their grandpa. If you have time, teach them how to get close to their grandpa and grandma. For the sake of their grandchildren, you can’t tell them Has your attitude improved?"

A-He squirmed his mouth, as if he understood what Li Xin said, but he still couldn't understand it.

"The most important point is that you are the head of the family, he is the one who can talk the most." Li Xin thumped his neck and said, "You keep talking about your sister-in-law, how can I? Didn't you hear about your uncle?"

"Brother Qiang and his younger brother are good." Ah He only said so.

Li Xin laughed: "You are such a fool, no matter whether you say he is a good person or not, brother and daughter-in-law take sister-in-law's dowry, it is a loss, even if you go to the government, you can still make her a dime Spit it out without hesitation. As you said, if your uncle is really good, you can remind him a few words and tell him to discipline his own wife. It's easier, just push your boss out and let him tell his own brother."

After a pause, Li Xin said: "Sister, I still say the same thing, the most important thing is that you are in charge. If he becomes tough, let alone your sister-in-law, it's your father-in-law, who can't account for it." The word is absolutely untenable, no matter how they use the elders to oppress you, your dowry is something from the Guan family, and it is your own size, no matter who wants you, you have the right to decide whether to take it or not. "

A-He's eyes lit up, and Li Xin smiled again: "One more thing, I'm afraid you have been doing a lot of work throughout the year, right? When you go back this time, you can only do what you should do, and don't do anything else. Take good care of yourself and give birth to a few fat dolls with your boss, no matter if they are boys or girls, if there are more children, it will be more lively, and you will have more confidence."

A'He hesitated and said: "If you don't do the work, father-in-law and the others will talk about it..."

"You said you're not feeling well, your back hurts and your hands are weak, and it would be bad if you smashed things at home." Li Xin laughed and said, "Besides, don't you have a sister-in-law? Is he confinement or something?"

"No, the children are taken by the mother-in-law."

"Then it's over?" Li Xin said, "She's not in confinement, and she hasn't been asked to take care of the children. She is the most free. You are too busy with family affairs, can she help if you ask her to help? You still have two children to take care of yourself! If she doesn’t help, then don’t do it. If your father-in-law wants to ask, you just say that they are both daughters-in-law. Why doesn’t she do everything all day long? Eat, you are exhausted and don’t have a good face? If your father-in-law scolds you, it’s easier, just tell your head of the family and see what he says. If he doesn’t help you, you take the children back to your mother’s house, fearing that they will fail. "

"This……"

Li Xin smiled and said: "Of course, I'm just giving an idea. What to do, it's all up to you to choose. It's just that you yourself said that you are soft-hearted and can't be filial for the sake of filial piety. Yes. You have been wronged for a few years, that's enough, and your head of the family will also see it. You let go, so that they can know how powerful you are. Third sister, you must know that sometimes a man's responsibility is also to be punished. You can only force it out. It depends on whether you want to deal with it in a gentle way or in a quick way. No matter what, you have to remember that the Guan family in Hehua Village is your natal family, your natal brothers and sisters, I can't just watch you suffer, suffer, and be wronged, this place will always be your backing."

(End of this chapter)