Rebirth Farmer Yaomei

Chapter 253
The next day will be the day of washing the third child, which is also the custom in Liaodong, to wash away the dirt on the third day after the baby is born, so as to bless the child with a safe and auspicious life.

Xisan'er invited all female relatives, Ning Wan's mother, eldest aunt, and eldest sister all came, and the mother-in-law also had a few relatives who were closer.People who come here must eat three noodles first, that is, no matter how many dishes are cooked for this meal, they must serve everyone a bowl of noodles at the end, which is also a good intention for safety and smoothness.

Ning Wan was in the house and listened to the laughter outside. It turned out that the weather was already very hot at noon at this time of year, and Xisanyan was for lunch. After eating Xisanmen, she could wash the children for the third time in the afternoon.

Washing the third son is to invite the midwife who delivered the baby that day to wash it. Today the midwife is dressed up, and after eating noodles, she enters Ning Wan's room and greets her with a smile, "Madam is really strong and refreshing. I will accept it." If you have so many children, you can count on your life going well!" The midwife was really happy when she got two silver coins that day, and there will be a reward for the third day today, so as soon as she came to Lu's house, she couldn't stop talking nice words.

Ning Wan also smiled and said politely, "Thanks to Auntie, the child and I are fine now."

The family had prepared a large copper basin early on, filled with warm water boiled with locust tree branches and mugwort leaves, and the midwife held the child in one hand and dipped a green onion in the other hand and sprinkled it on the child, saying auspicious words , "One washes for a long life, and the second washes for wealth and auspiciousness..."

At this time, the mother-in-law began to put things in the basin, which is commonly known as the gift of adding a basin.The mother-in-law was the first to put in an ingot of gold, then the mother put in a gold lock, the eldest aunt and elder sister each put a pair of small gold bracelets, and Aunt Wu and other relatives put in small silver ingots or silver bracelets. There are also ones with a handful of copper coins, and the bottom of the basin will be covered in a short time.

Washing green onions means smartness, and adding money means making money. In short, they are all for the children, so everyone should say some auspicious words when adding pots.For a time, the best blessings in the world were given to the little baby.

There is no need to be polite to her own family. Ning Wan only greets her mother, eldest aunt, and eldest sister, and then speaks when there is no one else for a while, but she refuses to neglect the relatives of the Wu family, and thanks them with a smile, "I'm sorry for you guys Come here, I spent a lot of time thinking about her as a child."

"Our aunt has a granddaughter, so we shouldn't have come here!" The second-ranked aunt of the Wu family said with a smile, and then pulled a pretty girl beside her and said to Ning Wan, "The family must be very busy recently. Well, why don't we let Duo'er come over to help take care of Madam Yuezi? She is the eldest, and there are several younger brothers and sisters who were brought up by her."

These relatives of her mother-in-law, Ning Wan only met when she married and recognized relatives. At that time, as a new daughter-in-law, she treated her relatives very attentively and won everyone's praise.

After getting married, although Ning Wan didn't live in the old house for a long time, her walking around during the New Year's festival was not bad at all. Although she felt that these relatives were trying to flatter her, she still loved her. The mother-in-law's natal family is still very respectful, and they are also very harmonious with everyone, so there are many people who come to add basins today, and they give quite a lot of gifts for adding basins.

Of course, Ning Wan would naturally add some points to these gifts and slowly return them. The relatives of the Wu family are all from ordinary backgrounds, and it is impossible for her family to take advantage of them.

But if you send someone to help, she can't accept it.Since they are relatives, it is best to treat them as relatives; it is best to write a contract clearly when hiring someone to do something, everything is clear, and there is something easy to do.Now that relatives come to help, it is difficult to know what to do. It is not good or convenient to instruct people to do things lightly or seriously.

Especially for a big girl like Duoer, it is not convenient to go to her own room.After all, Tieshi is at home now.

So Ning Wan smiled and said: "Thank you, Second Aunt, for thinking of me so much. I also know that Cousin Duo'er has always been the most capable, but a few days ago I invited Wan Shi to take care of the child in the dental clinic. She But it is very useful for those who have taken care of several children. Therefore, there is no shortage of people in the family now."

In order to give birth to a child, Ning Wan specially went to Boss Bi of the Dental Shop to choose a few months before she picked Wan Shi to buy it. Do things at home with peace of mind.As he spoke, he pointed to Wan Shi beside him.

The second aunt said: "After all, you are raising a child for the first time. You don't know how many things will happen to a child? I haven't seen the young master and young lady of a rich family surrounded by several nurses and girls, not to mention the nephew and daughter-in-law are now deputy daughters-in-law. Mrs. Hu, there are so many people around, it is better to use our own than to use outsiders! You see, your mother-in-law is not because of Aunt Wu's hard work!"

Listening to what she said, Ning Wan didn't like it. She usually respected her relatives according to the etiquette, but she actually respected her ancestors!Could it be that she still wants to teach herself how to be in charge of the house and how to manage it!Immediately, she smiled, "My mother-in-law and Aunt Wu have different identities, but she has never used Aunt Wu immediately. As for other families, I don't know, and I don't want to know. I only know that our family has no foundation and the population is small. There's no need to make such a big show! Besides, I can't afford to support those people!"

I don't know if Second Aunt Wu is winking or if she didn't listen to Ning Wan's words, she didn't see her reluctance at all, and said loudly: "Your family is no better than a big family, and it's not bad for a person who eats, right? Letting Duoer stay at your house is just a matter of adding a pair of chopsticks! My cousin, who is always a direct relative, is really helping you guys!"

A fire rose in Ning Wan's heart. Looking at her, she sneered and said, "Since our family is not short of people who eat, everyone should go away and stay at our house all day! The relatives are sincerely for us. Alright, you don’t have to leave, I’ll give you all of my home!”

After saying this, some people thought it was wrong, so they pulled Aunt Wu, "Since the Lu family has no shortage of people, it's fine, and you have a lot of people in your family, and you can't do without Duo'er!"

However, there were also people standing aside with smiles on their faces and not speaking, as if they were watching the excitement; there were even some people who were muttering something in a low voice, obviously not satisfied with Ning Wan's words.

Second Aunt Wu never expected that the little daughter-in-law who had always been kind and easy-going would turn her mouth like a knife, and she was choked by Ning Wan for a moment, so she looked back at those who agreed with her and said, "I have good intentions, and I don't want to be treated like a donkey." !"

Ning Wan just wanted to speak, but the eldest aunt interjected: "Today is a good day for my niece and granddaughter's third son. Could it be that Second Aunt Wu is making things difficult for the two of them? Why do you keep suppressing my niece every sentence? Is the matter in her room what she says or what you say? If you say you have good intentions, others will obey you! I also have good intentions, so please go out and stop talking in my niece’s house!"

Second Aunt Wu felt unhappy when her niece and daughter-in-law choked her, but she didn't dare to yell and scold. Now that the Ning family had come out to refute, she immediately yelled, "This is the Lu family, and who are you from?" , come to Lu's house to manage things?"

How can the aunt be able to make people, "Since you know this is the Lu family, which family are you from? Why do you come here to take care of things?"

The mother has always been honest, she came out early and hugged the eldest aunt tightly, "Auntie, please speak up if you have something to say, and her second aunt is also kind."

Aunt Wu was bringing tea, and after hearing a few words, she quickly put the tray on the table and held back Aunt Wu, "Our wife has just given birth to a child, what should I do if I get angry? Besides, my wife does all the housework." Lord, the old lady doesn't care, and her second aunt doesn't need to worry too much!"

Almost everyone knows that Aunt Wu has been with her mother-in-law for decades, so she knows best what her mother-in-law thinks of her. She can almost replace her mother-in-law in many matters, but she is an honest person like her mother-in-law, so she doesn't like to show her face.Now that these two sentences are said, everyone knows that it is impossible to use the identity of the Wu family to suppress the Ning family, so the relatives who were watching the excitement before all changed their expressions and pushed Aunt Wu out together, " Just now my aunt drank too much wine and said something drunk, now go out and have a cup of tea to sober up!"

The mother-in-law arrived after a while, quite embarrassed, but because her natal family couldn't say anything, she just said: "The family affairs have long been taken care of by the daughter-in-law, and even I listen to her. Just don't worry, my in-laws. I can’t lose my daughter-in-law again.” He invited his mother and eldest aunt out for tea again and again, “It’s stuffy in the room, why don’t we sit outside.”

The mother and the eldest aunt could not show face to the mother-in-law, so they all went out to have tea.

It's just that the mother walked around outside, but she was still worried, and went back to the house to talk to her young daughter, "I see that your husband's family is very dedicated to you, even though they gave birth to a daughter, they still treat you and the child as treasures." .As for that ignorant relative, just leave her alone, just pretend you don’t hear what she says, it’s not worth getting angry with her, it’s not good for your health!”

"Mother thinks I'm really angry? I'm in confinement, so of course I won't make myself angry because of her!" Ning Wan laughed, "It's just that since she said it, I will naturally refute it, or she doesn't know I am the character on that name tag!"

"After all, it's your mother-in-law's family. Even if there's something wrong with it, you shouldn't go back straight. Your mother-in-law doesn't look good!"

"That's what she came up with, and that's why she spoke up in public when she was washing her son," Ning Wan snorted, "I thought it was hard for my mother-in-law to say anything for the sake of my mother-in-law's face, but in fact, I am just a distant relative of my mother-in-law. I've been in close contact with each other, but I don't know why Jin Er treats me like my second aunt! After all, even if it's my second aunt, there's no reason for her to come to my door and tell me what to do!"

My daughter has always been like this, if people don't provoke her, she is a very gentle person, but if someone pokes her lung tube, she really dares to speak.She hadn't married into Lu's family back then, and Mrs. Wu, who was not her own mother at that time, went to Dejufeng to withdraw her marriage, but Wan'er also flatly refused, and very domineeringly said to her face that her son-in-law was not allowed to marry someone else!
The son-in-law liked his daughter's temperament, and insisted on persuading his mother to go back. On a good day, he took his daughter into Lu's house with a big sedan chair.

It seems that since then, the daughter has never been afraid of her mother-in-law.

Today, the in-laws didn't say a word about their daughter's fault, but they even made small talk to themselves with apologetic faces.

Thinking about it, Mrs. Yu slowed down her tone and told her daughter, "Although her second aunt is wrong, her intentions are really good. When our family used to be busy with your father, you were all taken care of by Xian Er." That Duo'er looked like an honest and capable child, but when you heard the quarrel, she was so frightened that she ran to hide behind her mother, but it's okay to stay behind, just send her two taels of money home after confinement."

Ning Wan looked at her mother, her mind was still so simple, she would believe what others said, and would not think about it any more.But the Ning family is really like this, guarding a small business and living by the rules, there is no need to think too much.

As for Second Aunt Wu's thoughts, Ning Wan couldn't be sure, so she didn't mention it, just smiled: "Today's matter is not whether to keep Duo'er to look after the child, but who has the final say in Lu's old house." If I follow her mind, next time she will ride on my head! It is she who wants to stand up, so I will suppress her arrogance, so that she will never dare to provoke me again!"

Mother laughed when she heard that, "You always have a reason. Forget it, I don't understand either, so I won't help you make up your mind."

(End of this chapter)