The prodigal Fu Jin has tricked me again

Chapter 552 Modern Times: Wife Gets Arrested (4 words)

"Even if this kind of emotion is very immature and hazy, it is a kind of emotion. We should not deliberately avoid this kind of emotion for some reason, or even stop it."

"This is actually a bit anti-human, not very good."

"But I think the school's regulations do not allow junior high school students to fall in love, largely because they are afraid that they will affect their studies. If students can fall in love on the basis of completing their studies, the school should not object."

"And it is really rare to be able to talk about a campus romance in youth, because that kind of pure and beautiful feeling, ignorant and sprouting love, pure heart palpitations, will never be found again in any stage of relationship in the future... ..."

Her words made Yan Yan think of herself back then.

If I didn't have such feelings, I might not have been entangled with that person until now.

But she doesn't regret it.

As Qi Jin said, the love in adolescence cannot be replaced by any subsequent stage of love.

That kind of green and hazy beauty, that throbbing feeling, will never be there again...

She smiled and said: "I can feel that you seem to have regrets."

Yin Yu immediately looked at Dong Ejin.

His daughter-in-law had a campus romance, and she lost it?First love dumped?
Who is that man! ?
She gave birth early, and he thought he was her first love, but he didn't expect that there was another one before him! ?

Yin Yu's gentle expression just now disappeared in a flash, her long and narrow phoenix eyes narrowed slightly, and her sword eyebrows were slightly raised, waiting for her answer.

The right hand has already taken out the phone, and sent a message to Xiao Hei, asking him to re-investigate her relationship line.

This good-for-nothing actually told him before that her relationship line was blank!

Dong Ejin felt that the hand holding her right hand became tighter.

Facing the camera with a faint smile: "It is indeed a pity. In my youth, I also had such a feeling, but due to various reasons, it was decisively snuffed out when it just emerged. So Now I feel a little... a little lost."

"I just remember that kind of relationship is very beautiful and sweet. Although it is very young and cannot withstand any blows, that kind of pure feeling is really precious."

Yan Yan asked: "Then did you regret not continuing this relationship?"

"If you regret it...it's not worth mentioning. If I do it all over again, I will still make the same choice. Because I am a very rational person, and I have been since childhood."

Yin Yu scratched his heart and lungs listening.

Still lost?

Who is that man? !

"So if your daughter is in adolescence, if she likes a little boy, you won't interfere?"

"I will not interfere with her. If she can tell me this secret, I will encourage her."

Yan Yan made a hypothesis: "Then if her adolescent love lasted until she graduated from college, and the two loved each other very much, but this young man failed to accomplish anything, would you still agree with them being together?"

"Because the relationship between two people is already very deep at this time, and it is very difficult to be separated. Moreover, as a mother, if you help fight mandarin ducks, the pain in your heart is no less than that of a child. But as someone who has experienced it, especially when you said that you were very young You were very sensible when you were young, and I think with your character, you should not agree to the two children being together again."

Dong Ejin didn't say exactly whether she agreed or disagreed.

No matter which choice you make at this time, you will be criticized in the future.

If you agree, if you fail to realize it in the future, you will say that you have been dishonest to the public. It has been a long time, but now that the Internet is so developed, it can still be sent out.

In particular, Yin Yu will become a movie star in the future. The media's attention to children cannot be avoided since they were young. This will continue for their entire lives and cannot be escaped.

So telling lies is too easy to be slapped in the face.

But if you tell the truth now and firmly refuse to agree, you will be scolded by the audience directly, calling it power.

But any mother will make the best choice for her child. She will help the boy, but she will not choose to let the boy stay with her daughter.This is not power, this is out of love.

As Yanyan said just now, when a child is overwhelmed by emotions, parents, as experienced people, will always make the best choice for the child.

Dong Ejin pondered for a while, and said: "There are too many kinds of marriages in this world. Some marriages are happy and happy, which is of course the best, but not all marriages are so perfect, there will always be some flaws."

"In fact, most couples are in a relationship where they know that the other party has many shortcomings, but they are still willing to be with the other party. It is not because the other party is too good and perfect. I think this kind of result is enough. Call it love."

When Yan Yan heard her theory, she shook the red wine lazily in her hand, her beautiful eyes seemed a little blurred, as if she had thought of something.

She nodded slowly and approvingly.

Being together because it is too perfect is not called love, but being together because it is not perfect is called love.

A marriage chosen because of excellent conditions, when the conditions dissipate one by one, the marriage will soon collapse.

However, love does not.

It's just... It's very difficult to maintain a loving marriage all the time.

Let alone marriage, even if it is a romantic relationship, how can it last for 10, 20, or even 30, 50 years?
How many people have fallen on the seven-year itch?

And in the entertainment circle, it is too extravagant to talk about feelings.

How many seemingly golden couples and jade girls are perfectly married, but after a year and a half of marriage, they ended up tearing each other up and getting divorced.

She is a little afraid of marriage.

When I am alone, although I feel very lonely, I often think that if two people are together and face quarrels every day, it would be better to live happily alone.

At least not unhappy.

Not to mention those messy troubles.

And as for the partner...

It is naturally the best to find a soul mate, but if you can't find it, develop more interests and hobbies to fill your time, that is, a soul mate.

In a lifetime, in just a few decades, most people seem to only live to be five or sixty years old.

Calculating her current age, it seems that she is already halfway through, but it feels like she blinked a few times, without the feeling of a long journey at all.

The second half of life will pass quickly.

It doesn’t seem like a big deal if you don’t get married, but for 30 to [-] years, you don’t even need to spend time wasting your time. You have done everything you want to do, and your wishes have been fulfilled, and your whole life seems to be over. .

It is better than living a life according to the established life, working according to the rules, getting married safely, and then starting to worry about the affairs of the sons and grandchildren... After working hard for a lifetime, finally lying on the bed, quietly waiting for the time to leave , I began to think: Have you done everything you really want to do in this life?
Maybe not.

Ah, how cruel these four words must be.

If you add that you accompany your husband to start a family from scratch, work hard and plainly, and work hard until middle age, and the husband finally makes a fortune, but finds a mistress, a mistress, and a mistress, and has countless affairs... wouldn't this life be even more of a joke?
Instead of making a wedding dress for others, it is better to start choosing now, and live for yourself every step of the way.

She is really disappointed in her married life, not because her native family is bad.

She lives in a very happy family, but she doesn't believe in love anymore...

Or tired of coping.

It's okay to fall in love, but in terms of marriage... She has some difficulty convincing herself to step into this hopeless grave.

Yan Yan suddenly thought of his previous attitude towards relationships that he had talked to Yin Yu earlier.

It is also possible to fall in love, but I never thought about actually entering into marriage.

Also because of fatigue.

I don't know how many young people nowadays have the same mentality as them.

When you can make a choice, you don't want to feel wronged and make do with it.

And the degree of responsibility for marriage is also very low.

more and more out of the traditional cognition.

I no longer think that carrying on the family line is a kind of responsibility and a kind of filial piety.

More and more began to pay attention to themselves.

Yanyan thought of what she least wanted to face every time she went home for the Spring Festival—the Heliwei talk of the seven aunts and the eight aunts.

What did it matter to them whether she married or not?But each one is so enthusiastic.

For them, they just want to inquire about the news, and by the way, have another conversation after dinner—that girl Yan Yan, regardless of her beauty, high education, and good job, she is almost 30 years old, and she is not married yet. People can only find second-married or middle-aged men, and their whole life is completely ruined!
I have studied since I was a child, and when I grow up, I will marry.

Such a life is really boring...

Or maybe it's just such a bunch of boring people.

So as long as she thinks that she will find such a boring person to live her whole life in the future and start such a boring life, she will feel that life is too hopeless.

It would be better to live like this wasting the years - to be an old woman that no one wants.

old woman……

Ha ha.

This name is really vicious.

At the age of 25, countless blind dates began to be arranged. Marriage seemed to be a race. Whoever caught the man first to marry would be the winner.

Hehe, it's ridiculous...

Yan Yan was a little drunk.

Qi Jin's calm and calm voice rang in his ears: "In marriage, no matter what kind of man you choose, you have to see whether your heart is strong. If my daughter insists on choosing a man who doesn't look very good in the future, even He is a very unbearable and seemingly unreliable man, and she is aware of all his shortcomings, but she will still make such a choice, rationally and out of love."

"If this is the case, I admire her very much and congratulate her for having such a life experience. Because she has enough courage to face the world, which shows that her heart is very strong and healthy."

Yan Yan didn't expect her to say that at all.

Some exclaimed: "You are really enlightened..."

She smiled uncontrollably, and murmured: "If only my parents and relatives around me were as open-minded as you..."

Behind Yan Yan, there has always been a mysterious man guarding her. This is an open secret in the entertainment industry.

But no one dared to ask more questions.

And no one took the opportunity to do anything to Yan Yan because the secret was not accurate.

Because that person's name is so loud, just hearing it makes people respectful.

Young people are always curious, especially at this moment when everyone is full of interest and has drunk some wine. Xu Zhan has a lively nature and couldn't hold back, and asked:
"Sister Yan, has someone ruined your love?"

There are all kinds of gossip and gossip about Yanyan, and they can say anything.

The most rumored one is that Yan Yan has clearly rejected that man, but the other party is not willing to let go, even if he is far away in the sky, he has been entangled.

And it was so frightening that no man dared to confess his love to Yan Yan ever since.

As a result, she has never been in a relationship since she was 25 years old, and has always been single.

Xu Zhan sighed in his heart. A host of an emotional talk show has to face relationship problems every day, gossip about the guests, especially those sweet love... how cruel it must be for her.

Yan Yan was obviously taken aback when she heard his question, but because she drank too much alcohol, her brain was a little slow in response, and she became more emotional.

The blushing face was a little sad, even resentful, and he murmured sadly: "You say, how can a man be so shameless...Love me, but can't give me a marriage, I want to cut the mess with a knife, but he refuses . Pinch off all my peach blossoms one by one... It's so hateful!"

Yan Yan gritted his teeth, but the people at the table listened with gusto.

Xu Zhan sighed: "Sister Yan, you really should record an episode of your own show! I feel that your story will be interesting if it is told!"

The cameraman next to him was recording, so he was not good at talking, and kept winking at the assistant outside.

I want him to come in to persuade people. This is recording a program for the guests. Why do the guests make the host a routine instead?

Looking back, if the person above blames it, what should we do about it?

It's a pity that they recorded for too long, and the little assistant went out to eat and hasn't come back yet.

Yan Yan told her most annoying thing recently: "If you are my age, you are still not married, and your family is urging you to get married, but even if you want to find someone to marry, no one will dare to marry you." Knot, what should I do?"

"Then let's not end it!" Xu Zhan felt that it was no big deal: "Happiness is the most important thing in a person's life. Marriage and so on, let's talk about it later~"

Yin Yu also meant the same thing.

Dong Ejin said: "There is nothing in this world that you want to do but can't do."

She probably guessed that someone deliberately blocked her from behind, which caused her to be so unhappy, but... Obviously, this is not the root of the problem.

She looked at her quietly with her eyes: "You should ask yourself, do you really want to get married, or are you angry? If it's the latter, it's completely unnecessary. If it's the former, I can help you."

"Help me?" Yanyan's eyes lit up, as if she had finally grasped a glimmer of hope, "How can I help?"

Dong Ejin looked at the camera and smiled softly, "Let's talk about this in private."

"it is good."

……

However, what they didn't expect was that about a month later, Yin Yu was still attending a charity dinner for a fashion magazine, and Dong Ejin was arrested.

(End of this chapter)