Game life my anchor system

228 Chapter 220, Hou Wenxia's family
I don’t know if everyone in the world is in this state, but here’s a bold sentence: “There are three opportunities to change your destiny in life.”

This is the first time when you were born, your parents, your family background.

When a child is born, some people are happy, some people are sad, what kind of state is it like to have a rich family and only one child, and what kind of life he will give you; or in a poor village, the third child is born and takes root, the man sees the big one running, The little one is jumping, what kind of helplessness does this newborn bring, he looks sad and slightly dazed, and there is another mouth in the family.There is no choice for this point, it is given by God, and being poor and rich is the merit you have accumulated in the previous generation.

And most of us use the second way, the word "hard work", to trek on the journey of destiny again.

Natural selection, survival of the fittest, changing destiny through one's own struggle, poverty is not an excuse, no matter what kind of family you are born in, as long as you go on with perseverance and fight to the end, you will have a chance to rise to the sky sooner or later.

As for the third time, I have to talk about it, it is a big turning point in life - "marriage".

A good husband and a good wife will change your life forever.There are many phenomena in this society that illustrate this point.

For example, Wang Moumou, the "national husband" in people's mouth, he not only explained the destiny from the first article, but also explained the opportunity from the third article!My dad is a cow, and I am a typical representative of a cow.And such as "old husband and young wife", "old wife and young husband". A 20-year-old guy married a 60-year-old woman, clamoring for true love.Master of physics Yang Zhenning married Weng Fan, one old and one young, one is a teacher, one is a student, one is a professor, and the other is a graduate student. The age difference is 50. They have attracted a mighty audience in the academic world. Beating the pestle is unbearable.

They're all choosing - all true love! ! !
No matter from the moral or legal perspective, no one can deny all of this. This is a phenomenon of social development and a series of changes brought about by our commercial economy.

Our story today begins here.

In the 80s, Hou Wenxia's mother, Wu Xiangyu, was a high school graduate. The opportunity for thousands of troops to cross the single-plank bridge made her become a dragon and a phoenix. It is a pity that she did not enter the university, nor did she have the opportunity to enter a full-time study. Her family All this is not allowed and cannot be afforded.

But her advantages are still obvious, she is young, she is beautiful, and she is one of the top students in her village!When people talked about this polite and studious Gu Liang, they all gave a thumbs up and praised "good." If it is modern, it can't be said that it should be rated as a "village flower".

For such a cool person, there must be countless people who say that the matchmaker stepped into the door, but this daughter of the Wu family just shook her head, no matter whether people say she has a big heart or a high eye, she doesn't care much.

Time dies, but my heart does not change!
Opportunities come quietly in the dark, perhaps this is "fate".A young guy in the town went to the countryside to buy goods and stayed in Wujia Village. Then the young guy saw her shy, youthful and beautiful. This is a love that makes people feel shy when they think about it now!
Especially when the boy knew that the girl was a high school student who had just graduated, he was shocked, because he entered the unit to work under the arrangement of his parents just after graduating from junior high school. We are enjoying campus life.

At that time, reading may not be a big deal, but in the eyes of caring people, it is nothing.

Afterwards, things were not so complicated, the two families were very satisfied, and things went smoothly, Gu Liang had good looks, was talented, and was a seed for studying, and the guy had a career, worked in a factory, and was a city resident, which was a good thing.

This is a typical example of changing one's destiny through a marriage. Wu Xiangyu graduated from high school and found her current husband. After more than 20 years of struggle, the two moved from the town to the city.

Although the family does not have much money now, and it is not a wealthy family, but there is a house and a car, the husband and wife work in the same unit, and there is a daughter under their knees. The family is harmonious and harmonious, and they are the envy of the neighbors. What a luxury.

Moreover, her daughter Bingxue is smart, and she has never let her parents worry about her since she was a child. She has won a lot of awards and almost inherited all the advantages of her parents. In Wu Xiangyu's view, her family is very happy.

Time has come to the present.

Hou Wenxia's mother, Wu Xiangyu, is almost halfway through her life!

After going through all kinds of things, she very much hopes that this kind of happiness can continue in her daughter. This is a smart mother, and Hou Wenxia is her pride and heart, just like every child is the treasure of her parents. The most authentic verification.

Therefore, for her daughter's various requirements, she will basically satisfy what she can satisfy, and will find ways to satisfy what she cannot satisfy.

Now that her daughter has grown up, she doesn't have much to worry about, but there is one hurdle that she must take care of, and that is choosing a mate! ! !
It is a matter of a lifetime for a woman to find a husband. How many people on TV have lost their families because of unkind people, she must stand on the last post!

In Wu Xiangyu's eyes, her daughter is undoubtedly beautiful, and she is even more beautiful than herself back then, but there is a saying that a beauty is unlucky, and she does not hope that this will be the result. As a mother, she asks for her future son-in-law It's not as high as people think, first, the daughter is willing, second, the condition must be passable, and third, the man must be able to show it.

With the conditions on her side, there is still more than enough in the family. For a boy's family, she has at least the same requirements, a car and a house, whether there is a deposit or not, and the family background must be clean.

This is a mother who loves her daughter. She always wants to do the best for what Hou Wenxia can do.

This semester, her daughter is in her senior year, and she is still quite worried. During the summer vacation of the last semester, she found that something was wrong with her daughter. She was mysterious to WeChat every day. aggravated her suspicions.

At that time, after discussing with the old guy, the two felt that Hou Wenxia had a boyfriend, but they were too busy at that time to take care of it.

Now that I have free time, during National Day time, the husband and wife study together, and bring their sister-in-law with them, and they come for a sudden check-up!
Red face, black face, they must never let their daughter's head heat up and do something stupid, this is what they think.

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When Hou Wenxia's parents were discussing the countermeasures, Hou Wenxia herself was lying on the bed in distress. Suddenly, very suddenly, she had never thought of this, and it was basically impossible to deny it. Her mother wanted to dig it out. As a daughter, I really dare not hide this matter.

My mother is very shrewd. She has talked about the concept of choosing a mate since she was a child. If a woman finds a reliable man, she will have a blessing in her life. I don’t know how many times I have said this word.

It is precisely because of some kind of ear-to-eye transmission that Hou Wenxia's ability to recognize people has been greatly improved by her influence. In many cases, she is more independent in thinking and has different thinking from others. This is precisely the reason why she can stand out in middle school and even university .

Simply put, some of the mother's ideas have a huge impact on her.

So this matter, parents check, whether it is ethical or conceptual level, she can not refuse!

She rubbed her head in distress, feeling a faint worry in her heart.

(End of this chapter)