A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 37 1 Your child must go to school
Chapter 6 Only when fathers fall in love with learning can children fall in love with school
Why do children go to school?When children are of school age, everyone sends them to school. Will your children follow them to school?In the words of Lu Xun: It has always been like this, right?

Japanese writer Kenzo Oe thought about this problem and wrote a book "Why Children Should Go to School".

I was skeptical at first, whether the child should go to school.The summer when I was 10 years old, Japan was defeated in the Pacific War.The lives of the Japanese have undergone great changes. The education we received before has always said that our country is the strongest and most powerful. However, after the war, we understand that the emperor is also a human being.

At that time, the United States was the country we feared and hated the most, but later this country became the country we most needed to rely on to stand up from the ruins of war.

A month after the war ended, I was reluctant to go to school.I spent a long time in the woods, and it was not until I recovered from a serious illness that I thought of going to school.

My eldest son, Guang, was born with abnormal brain and could not speak at the age of 5.On the contrary, he is very sensitive to the pitch of the voice.He could name the birds as soon as he heard them.He got the bird's name from a record.

When Guang was 7 years old, he went to school and entered a special class.The children gathered there all have different physical disabilities.Some always shout loudly, while others cannot be quiet and keep shaking.Hit the table for a while, lift the chair for a while.Looking in from the window, I saw that Hikari was always covering his ears with his hands, and his body was in a stiff posture.

Not long after entering the special class, Hikari discovered a child who disliked noise as much as himself.Therefore, the two always sat in the corner of the classroom, holding each other's hands, and endured the noise of the classroom together.

Not only that, but Guang also started to help this kid who was less mobile than him go to the toilet.Being able to help children do something is really a joyful experience full of freshness for Guang.Gradually, the two of them began to set up chairs a little further away from the other children and listen to classical music on the radio together.

After another year, I found that light surpassed the sound of birds, and the music created by humans began to become a language that light could understand.He can even write down the name of a friend's favorite track from the ones he has played, and he can find the CD when he gets home.The teacher also discovered that the names of Bach and Mozart had already appeared in the language of the two children who rarely spoke.

For Guang now, music is a deep and rich thing in his heart, and it is also the only language for him to convey his inner emotions to others and society.The language is germinated in the home and developed in school.Not only Chinese, but also natural science, arithmetic, gymnastics, and music. These are the languages ​​for deep understanding of oneself and communication with others.

In order to learn these, no matter what age, children have to go to school.

Oe Kenzaburo's articles are written very plainly, and his reasoning is also very simple.Children need to go to school because there are many things that cannot be learned at home, such as getting along with strangers, finding their own partners and hobbies, systematically understanding knowledge, etc., not only to learn a lot of new things, but also to learn how to Survive and live well in this society.

When a father sends his child to school, it is not when he transfers the responsibilities of custody and education. How much the child has learned in school, and whether it is worthwhile for the child to study from morning to night are more serious and important. The topic, must be measured by the father.

When a child does not want to go to school, it is also the time when he encounters problems in school and needs to be solved.If the father does not understand that the ultimate goal of the child's schooling is to develop himself, he will be furious and even fight when he hears that the child is tired of studying. This will not only fail to solve the problem, but will also hinder the child from learning new things in the process of solving the problem. s things.Since a person needs comprehensive development, why can't he take care of his feelings and consider the development of the child's emotional intelligence?

Children go to school, but they are studying the lessons of life. Dad should never forget this.

(End of this chapter)