A good dad is better than a rich dad

Chapter 65 4 Listening to Dad Tell That Childhood Story: Good Stories Are Family Heirlooms
There are many parent-child reading books on the market now. Although the quality is uneven, they all illustrate a problem: people are paying more and more attention to the interaction with their children.Because the meaning of telling children something has gone far beyond education, but an expression of love.Reading with your child is to help him pack his bags before departure, and also to store the love and comfort he needs in life.Whether in the living room, on the bus, or at the child's desk, when you open a book, parents become best teachers and friends, and children are the only listeners. Together, parents and children begin a period of love and fun. learning journey.

At this time, if you can say something that will help him in the future, it will be even more icing on the cake.Therefore, many parents choose to tell their children some "meaningful" things, such as the Four Books and Five Classics, and common sense of humanities. If you read with your children at the same speed and emotion, the effect may not be able to achieve the purpose of both learning and communication.

In the best case, be able to tell your children stories about your past, or stories about your loved ones' past.

"In the past, our family was very poor and we often didn't have enough to eat, so when we had some snacks, it was great. Once, your grandfather took my little aunt to the supply and marketing cooperative. After returning, my little aunt was a little mysterious. Yes, I asked him what was wrong, and guess what she said? She said, 'I didn't eat rice cakes, if you don't believe me, smell my mouth.'”

"Haha, isn't this 300 taels of silver here!" The child laughed.

"That's right, your little aunt ran away after she finished speaking. By the time I realized it, I had already run half a mountain away. However, I still chased her desperately, to smell if there was rice cake on her mouth..."

The children and the whole family enjoyed themselves, and this time it was the aunt's turn to play.

"Your father was really good when he was a child. He didn't want to peel potatoes when he was a child, so we let the little girls peel them. There are Auntie Xiaocui and Auntie Ping'er who are right next door. They must still remember it now!"

"Ah, Auntie Xiaocui and Auntie Ping'er have done this kind of thing, haha, one of them is a teacher and the other is a banker. I really can't see how stupid they were when they were young."

"Oh, let me tell you, you took the initiative to peel potatoes for me when you were young, you can't say such things now."

"Why?" the child asked curiously, and both father and little aunt smiled knowingly, "Let's just say it."

"I know about this. At that time, your father asked a few little girls to help him with his work, and he climbed up the tree to pick plums for them." Grandpa revealed the answer.

"Ah, Dad, so you know." The little aunt and the others said in unison.The whole family burst into laughter.

In fact, many fathers have such stories in their childhood, and some are even more exciting than this one, but this father shared his childhood with his children, making the children feel that the family is closer and more harmonious. This is another wonderful book There is no substitute for stories.He can imagine his father chasing his aunt all over the mountains, and his father climbing a tree like a leader, all of which can increase the child's love for his father.

"There is a champion in our ancestors, he..." Usually, those who have a famous ancestor in a family will tell the stories of the year again and again. These things are like the "spiritual heritage" of a family, which cannot be replaced by other things of.Dad should not hide good stories in his memory, but share them with his children, so that the family can get closer.To this day, when it comes to Yan Shigu's "Langya Yan family" and Qian Mu's "Qiqiaofang Qian family", the descendants have glory and pride on their faces. Aren't these just some good stories.

(End of this chapter)