Rebirth 1986

Chapter 223 Patriarchal
"An Qing, you are here, come in!" Tian Yun turned to see An Qing, and hurriedly beckoned her to come in.

An Qing looked at the employees coming in and out, thought for a while and shook his head, "You better come out, there are moving goods everywhere, it will be bad if you bump into them."

Only then did Tian Yun see that An Qing was still holding the child, and quickly slipped down the ladder.

An Qing watched Tian Yun take off the dusty apron, and couldn't help wondering: "Didn't you hire someone? Why don't you climb up to clean up by yourself, and you won't be afraid of falling."

"Isn't it just to sweep down the cobwebs? Look, these people are so busy that they don't have time. Instead of waiting for them to come, I might as well come by myself." Tian Yun patted his sleeves clean, and then turned from An Qinghuai Li took it and hugged it in his arms, leaned forward and kissed, "This little guy has grown up a bit, and it's heavy to hold."

"It's a bit heavy. I weighed it for him a few days ago, and it's almost fifteen catties."

"Really, he's been so heavy for less than three months. My little treasure was only less than twelve catties when he was more than two months old. It seems that Ranran will be just like Chengwen in the future, a tall man." He's tall!" Tian Yun said with a cheerful smile.

An Qing also smiled happily. How can a mother not want others to say that her child is good? What's more, she also knows that her son will be tall in the future. The eldest son in the last life has grown to 1.8 meters eight, which is several times taller than Su Chengwen. cm, so Tian Yun's vision is still good.

Seeing Tian Yun teasing the little guy, the little guy was not afraid of strangers, giggling, An Qing glanced inside the store and asked, "Where is Tao Hong, why didn't she and Li Xuejun come over?"

"Yaya of Tao Hong's family is sick. She is still guarding in the hospital at the moment. There is another disturbance in Li Xuejun's house. The whole house is full of chaos these days. I see him annoyed. , I simply let him take a vacation to deal with his family, and I was planning to go to the hospital to see Yaya after cleaning up here."

"Is Yaya sick? What kind of illness is it? Is it serious?"

"It's not a serious illness. Isn't it common for children to catch a cold and have a fever? It's just that the girl's body is not very good. This time, it's more serious. In addition, Li Xuejun and his family are very noisy. Tao Hong simply let Yaya She was hospitalized, and she stayed there all night long."

An Qing couldn't help frowning when he heard the words, "Why are you making trouble again, what is it for this time?"

"What else can I do? The old lady said that Li Xuejun's younger brother is going to marry a daughter-in-law, and asked them to pay 5000 yuan as a dowry for his younger brother. Yaya remitted the money to her family when she recovered from her illness, but the old lady was too unreasonable, thinking that Tao Hong was evasive, so she opened her mouth to scold Tao Hong, saying that Tao Hong was a hen that couldn't lay eggs, and her youngest son married her. The daughter-in-law continues the incense for the family... You also know that the old lady had a sharp mouth, and Tao Hong was furious at that time, and said with a straight face that the family had no money, and said that she would not give the 5000 yuan, so she made a fuss gone."

What Tian Yun said was full of shock, and what An Qing heard was also uncomfortable.

What is a hen that does not lay eggs? Tao Hong just gave birth to a child this year. Although it is a daughter, it is also the blood of their old Li family. The old lady said that, anyone who listened to it would be angry, let alone Tao Hong That temper.

An Qing still remembers that when she first came to the provincial capital, Tao Hong was just a few months pregnant. At that time, Li Xuejun's family treated her extremely well. They were always asking her how to treat her and pampered her like a queen mother, but waiting for Tao Hong After giving birth, when they knew that the baby was a daughter, the Li family turned their faces.

As long as she knew about it, Li Xuejun's mother had come to make trouble several times, and every time she deliberately found fault with Tao Hong. The old lady quarreled.

Although An Qing didn't see the two quarreling, he could guess what it was like just by hearing Tian Yun's words.

Tian Yun dragged two benches from the house and put them in the shade in front of the door. After sitting down with An Qing, she said helplessly: "I don't know what the old lady is thinking all day long. Tao Hong is still so young. , and it's not that she can't continue to live, she just keeps making troubles all day long, as if wishing that Tao Hong and his wife would leave quickly is what suits her heart."

An Qing also sighed, "It's still caused by patriarchy. If Tao Hong's child is a son, they might not be happy about it."

"Fuck, what is patriarchal? What's wrong with girls? Is the old lady a woman or her wife is not a woman? If they all give birth to boys, who will they marry in the future? Is it possible that they will be single for the rest of their lives?" Tian Yun curled his lips, stretched out his hand to play with Ranran's little hand, and said, "They don't care about girls, I'm still looking forward to wanting a girl, you don't even know, my little treasure is now at an age that even a dog would hate, and he picks me up every day I don’t know what to say. A few days ago, the kindergarten teacher came to me and said that he lifted up the girl’s skirt, put bugs in the drawer, and made her cry. I’m so angry, you say If the family is a girl, how can she act like this!"

An Qing couldn't help laughing when she heard this, Tian Yun's son is four and a half years old this year, just at the age where he can run and jump, but he is still not very sensible, every time she sees Tian Yun, she can always hear her complaining, her little one Bao either smashed someone's glass or robbed a classmate's candy. The most exaggerated time, that little kid took another group of runny-nosed little guys to climb the kindergarten wall, and fell off the wall at that time Fortunately, they didn't climb very high, and they just broke their arms when they fell, and they were fine after hanging plaster for half a month.

I didn't expect to learn how to play hooligans this time, and even lift up other girls' skirts.

"You, don't patronize the store all day long. Money is never enough. Now that you are separated from Xiaobao's father, the child will inevitably be more sensitive and naughty. Maybe he will make so many troubles. I just want to attract your attention, if you don't pay attention to him all the time, he will be sad." An Qing persuaded.

Tian Yun was startled, "Xiaobao is only four and a half years old, can he understand this?"

"Why don't you understand, Tian Yun, don't underestimate the child's thoughts. A four-year-old child is already a governor. Even if he doesn't know very well, wouldn't it be strange for you to live separately from his father? What's more You have to know that people's words are scary, and there will always be some words that can reach his ears. Even if he doesn't know that you two are divorced, he will feel that he is different from other children. There is only a mother but no father. Children Your heart is the most sensitive, don't let Xiaobao feel thorns in his heart because of your negligence, as time goes on, even your mother and child will grow apart."

Seeing Tian Yun's disbelief, An Qing couldn't help but get a little more serious.

Since Tian Yun started her business, she has not paid as much attention to her family as before, and was even a little negligent. In addition, her husband opposed her business, and felt that showing her face was not as good as holding a solid job, so she resigned from her job without telling her about it. Afterwards, the relationship between the two became more and more tense. During a quarrel, Tian Yun's husband beat her and the child, and Tian Yun divorced the man in a fit of anger.

After the two divorced, they fought fiercely for Xiaobao's custody rights. Later, Tian Yun didn't know what method Tian Yun used to make her husband give up Xiaobao's custody rights, and she also gave up the house to her husband. Then he brought Xiaobao out from the Tongzilou.

A woman has to be busy with business and take care of the child, so it is inevitable that she will not be as considerate to the child as before, and she has also seen Xiaobao, that child is not so rebellious, it is not because he thinks Mom is not as nice to herself as before, so she intentionally made a fuss in order to attract her attention.

This kind of thing is not uncommon, and in the last life, Anqing saw many children who grew up in single-parent families. Because some words or actions of their parents inadvertently had psychological shadows when they were young, their personality became extreme and even made mistakes. Going astray, she didn't want Tian Yun's child to be like that in the future.

If these words were spoken by another person, Tian Yun might not take them to heart, or even sneered at them, but the effect of what An Qing said would be different.

Tian Yun has a kind of confidence in Anqing that even she can't explain, maybe because of Anqing's unique vision in business, or maybe because she helped her when she was in trouble, so she has always been They all regard An Qing as a true friend, and she also believes that An Qing will not harm her.

Thinking about it carefully, it seems that she hasn't cooked for Xiaobao herself for a long time. Every time she invites the aunt to do the cooking. After she goes back to eat, she is busy tidying up the things in the store. Bao has fallen asleep lying on the bed or on the table most of the time.

I still remember that not long ago Xiaobao took her to go to the zoo, but she ignored him because she was busy with the new store, and even got angry and spanked Xiaobao's ass because of Xiaobao's crying. With a guilty conscience, she really didn't seem to have fulfilled her due responsibilities as a mother.

Pursing his lips and meditating for a while, Tian Yuncai said: "Thank you for reminding me, I will pick up Xiaobao from school later, and then we will go to see Yaya together."

An Qing breathed a sigh of relief, "It's good if you know it. In fact, what the child wants is very simple, just be more caring and patient."

Tian Yun agreed in his heart, but he couldn't help laughing on his face, "Look at what you're saying, you've just been a fucking mother, but it's less than three months old, and you're talking like you've been a mother for years. Like mother."

An Qing smiled lightly and pursed her lips, "It's not like the longer you have children, the more you understand. Haven't you heard of the free gold house in the book?"

"There are such principles in the book?" Tian Yun was full of disbelief. She had never heard of any book that taught people how to be a good mother.

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