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Chapter 418 It's Sweet Without a Honeymoon

Generally speaking, the days after marriage were uneventful.

A few days after receiving the license, "Flowers and Full Moon" officially started.

In order to ensure the efficiency and quality of shooting, the director requires the main actors to stay on the set and be on call 24 hours a day.

Therefore, Qin Yuxiu and I did not go on our honeymoon either.

It just so happens that his company is also very busy during this time, if he goes on honeymoon at this time, it will definitely disrupt many work arrangements.

After the two of us discussed it, let's forget it, let's talk after we have finished our work for a while.

Although Qin Yuxiu and I are newly married, we both feel like an old married couple, so we don't pursue those formalisms anymore.

After experiencing so many ups and downs, after years of inspection, we have already seen very thoroughly about love, marriage, and even life.

The fierceness of dry firewood is not as good as the silent lukewarmness of moistening things.

The hesitation of weighing and comparing is not as good as the loyalty of life and death.

The index of happiness is not obsessed with finding the so-called "right" person, but living a "right" life with the people around you.

Both of us feel that the current state of life and mental state are the best.

And this is undoubtedly the best education for Xuanxuan.

Parents are children's first teachers. The atmosphere of the family and the character of the parents are very important to the children. If the parents are anxious and irritable every day, and panic, it will inevitably cause the children to feel in dire straits.

In many cases, we need to be a calm parent, which allows the child to have his own space.

Of course, I was not able to do this at the beginning, especially during the period when I just recognized Xuanxuan. At that time, I wished I could stay with him 24 hours a day.

But Qin Yuxiu said that it was wrong for me to do that, it was not good for me or Xuanxuan, and it would even develop into a sickness after a long time.

After I calmed down and thought about it, I also felt bad. Xuanxuan is my child, yes, but he is not my private property. He is an independent individual. He has his own classmates, teachers, interests, hobbies, and he also has his own. own world.

If I follow him closely all the time every day, then he can't do anything.

However, it is too difficult to let go of my child, really too difficult.

I couldn't do it at first, but I knew it was wrong for me to do this, so I was very contradictory.

I struggled with it for a while, and I couldn't do anything. I even went to see a psychologist and listened to many lectures on parenting.

Later, I began to try to let go slowly, one day, two days, three days, five days...

Slowly, I gradually adapted, and Xuanxuan gradually adapted.

You are there when your child needs you.When he doesn't need you, you don't have to be there, and you can still do some things of your own.

The same is true for lovers.

Therefore, when "Flowers and Full Moon" was officially launched, I was able to devote myself to the crew with a good mentality.

During the day, Qin Yuxiu worked in the company, Xuanxuan went to school, and I was filming on set.

In the evening, we made phone calls, made video calls, and sent WeChat messages. When it was convenient, the father and son could also come to the crew to visit the set.

Occasionally there are days off, and our family of three will go out to play, or take Xuanxuan to aquariums, science and technology museums and other places to visit.

All in all, work when you should work, and rest when you should rest. Every day is happy and fulfilling, and it is sweet without a honeymoon.

In a flash, two months have passed.

(End of this chapter)