Reborn 1978

Chapter 184 (Second update on October 11th)

But Fu Chunhua didn't take it seriously. In his previous life, his family wasn't even counted as a well-off family. It could only be regarded as someone who had escaped poverty. Because of Gou Caixia, the family was always up and down all day long.

The most irritating thing is Fu Chunjing, I don't know if he really doesn't understand or if he doesn't understand, in a word, he doesn't care about Gou Caixia's troubles, and sometimes what Gou Caixia said is very right to him.

Whether to come or not is the same sentence: "I am the eldest son of this family, this thing should be mine."

Hearing this, he gets angry, and when the family needs to contribute money, the eldest son disappears, and when there is a little bit of petty profit, he becomes the eldest son.

Therefore, whether a family is good or bad, it cannot be completely said that if there is money, all are bad, and if there is no money, all are good.

There are some wealthy families in this world who can last for several generations. It can only be said that parents educate their children properly and do not spoil them too much, because a child is born as a blank slate, and any child knows to fight for family property after birth.Children's bad habits are all caused by parents, and have little to do with children.

Therefore, the source of the Wan family's farce today is not actually those children, but Mr. Wan and Mrs. Wan. When the children were young, they did not educate them well, but they were always pampered. It is strange that these children can learn well. .

However, it cannot be completely said that if the parents spoil the child, the child will be bad. My younger sister, Fu Chunni, was born and raised by spoiling her, but she is not like Fu Chunjing. She is much more responsible than Fu Chunjing.Later, when the Fu family had anything to do, Fu Chunhua didn't discuss it with his elder brother, but instead made a long-distance call to discuss it with his sister.

But from the beginning, if the parents don't pamper and spoil the child, at least the chance of letting the child go astray is much smaller.

What real parents need to do is not to leave a lot of inheritance to their children, but to teach their children the skills and life experiences they know, so that children can avoid detours and grow up as soon as possible.

Fu Chunhua couldn't help but speak out her own ideas, causing Fu Yongde and Xu Shuzhen, who were still complacent, to fall into deep thought. Even Fu Chunjing and Fu Chunqiang didn't speak, and began to smack her words carefully. .

Seeing that they still couldn't understand for a while, Fu Chunhua told another story that she read in a book, and it was a story that left a deep impression on her.

It is said that in ancient times, there was a businessman who was very good at doing business, and his family had a lot of money, but he didn't have a son until he was middle-aged.The husband and wife dote on this son very much, and they are reluctant to let him do a little thing, even if he wants the stars in the sky, the husband and wife are willing to go to the sky to pick them up.

But this is such a son, spoiled and spoiled since he was a child, ignorant of learning and skills, when he grows up, the husband and wife are both old, not only can't do business, but he can't even do simple things. Whoring and gambling will not do anything else.

It was only at this time that the husband and wife started to get anxious, but if they teach now, if they will teach in a while, the son will not learn at all.The husband and wife thought of many ways and made a lot of preparations, fearing that the son would starve to death if they were gone.

Finally, both the husband and wife passed away, and the son felt that when the parents were there, they would not let this or that.It's all right now, no one cares about it, it's really a good thing, he spends his days drinking and drinking, drunk and dreaming, and it didn't take long for him to wipe out all the wealth that the businessman had saved for most of his life.

The son was kicked out of the big house, with only a ragged cotton jacket on his body, so he had no choice but to beg for food.Everyone in this city knew his background, and felt that he deserved it at all, and they were unwilling to give alms to this person.

There is only one shop that sells buns, and every time he goes to beg for food, he will be full.The son has been there many times, and he thinks the owner of the steamed stuffed bun shop is a good person.

Finally one day he couldn't help but asked the boss: "Shopkeeper, I go to other places to beg for food, and no one pays attention to me. Why are you the only one who treats me well and gives me steamed stuffed buns?"

The bun shop owner is indeed a good person, and he couldn't help but tell him a big secret. This bun shop was actually bought by a businessman a long time ago, but he made an agreement with the boss not to tell his son the secret of this shop. Just feed him every day.

After hearing that, the son immediately took the bun shop back and drove the shopkeeper away.

After a few days, the little bun shop was ruined by him again, and no one gave him anything to eat. Finally, on a cold winter night, the son died of cold and hunger. street.

Speaking of this, Fu Chunhua paused for a moment, and then Fang said: "I personally feel that if parents love a child more, they should be stricter. Even if he has gone astray, he should help correct it. Just It's like a sapling that has grown crookedly. If you want to straighten it, you have to tie wooden strips around it to make it grow in the right direction. This is painful for the sapling, but only in this way can the sapling grow up. It will grow into a real big tree. If the businessman had been ruthless to correct his son's faults when he was young, his son would not have ended up in such a miserable end."

Fu Yongde nodded after hearing this: "Chunhua is right, you can't spoil your child too much. If you love your child more, you should be stricter with him. Shuzhen, I think you spoil Chunjing too much. In the future, he will We can meet any request, but it depends on whether the request is reasonable, if it is unreasonable, we must not agree."

Xu Shuzhen also nodded: "Yes, I think Chunhua and Chunqiang are stronger than Chunjing. Chunjing didn't feel it when he had no younger siblings, but it showed up when he was with younger siblings. His ability to take care of himself is not yet The two little ones are strong. It's also our fault, always thinking that the child is so young, so let's help him with what he can do!"

Speaking of this, Xu Shuzhen said to Chunjing: "Chunjing, you are the eldest brother. In the future, your parents will be stricter with you than your younger siblings. Do you agree?"

When Fu Chunjing was in Wanjia, he was quite happy, being able to eat so many delicious foods.But when something like that happened later, he also felt that the descendants of the Wan family were too unfilial. How could they be so angry with the two old people, and he felt that they should not have said such things to his family for the sake of the family property.

After listening to his sister's words, he was also deeply touched. Why did the tiredness on the faces of parents become much less when the sister came back? It's not because the sister can do everything and can help parents share a lot of things.

I used to be muddle-headed, so I knew that I would eat well and have fun. Even if the oil bottle was down at home, I would not help him. If I develop in the future, I will become the son of that businessman.

So he also said to his mother very formally: "Well, I agree. I am the boss of the family. I will be more capable than my sister in the future. I will learn to take care of a family before my parents get old."

Hearing this, Fu Chunhua couldn't help but burst into tears. In the previous life, the elder brother who had no responsibility at all, the elder brother who knew how to play and didn't give anything to the family in the previous life, said such words today, she really has no white rebirth.

Fu Chunjing strictly kept his promise. Since then, his sister no longer used material rewards to stimulate him to do housework. He is really learning how to take up the responsibility of a family. Of course, this is something for another time. .

Fu Chunhua didn't expect that this trip to Wanjia would completely change his brother's mind. This must be considered a great thing!
Next, Fu Chunhua talked about Mrs. Wan's suggestion that everyone in the Fu family should be invited to dinner next Sunday at noon.

As soon as this topic was brought up, everyone in the Fu family looked at each other in blank dismay, thinking in their hearts that they would still go to Wan's family for dinner?

Fu Chunhua knew everyone's worries, and said with a smile: "Dad, Mom, I don't think everyone should take this matter too seriously. Grandma Wan said that what happened today will definitely not happen this time. I thought If we don't go, it's as if we have a problem with the Wan family because of today's matter, so I have already agreed to the invitation for next Sunday on behalf of my parents."

After listening to her explanation, Fu Yongde understood the meaning of it, nodded and said: "Chunhua, you are right, today's incident is not what the two old people wanted to happen, the starting point is still good, I want to accept you As a granddaughter, let everyone in the family see her, how could something like this happen. If we don't go, it will be hypocritical. Okay, then let's go again at noon next Sunday!"

With Fu Yongde's decision, the others naturally had no objections. Fu Chunhua finally felt relieved and convinced his family.

After school on Monday afternoon, Zhuang Hongzhe was waiting at the gate of the school. Fu Chunhua asked in surprise, "Did you grow scud or something, and you came here so early?"

Zhuang Hongzhe smiled: "I didn't go to school in the afternoon. I went to the hospital with my grandparents. I was still worried. After all, the two old people are almost 60 years old. Only after the inspection of the hospital equipment can I be completely relieved. I also come to talk to Please report that you are safe, the two old people are in better health than Uncle Fifth, and they will be fine for another 50 years."

Fu Chunhua was also very happy to hear that, since this product is so effective, in the future, my parents, grandparents, and grandpa can give them one or two tablets, so they can live to be a hundred years old, no problem!
Thinking about it this way, she felt even happier: "It's good that there is no problem. It is our blessing that the old man can accompany us more!"

Zhuang Hongzhe was also very winking, seeing Luo Chunlin, Luo Jun and Fu Chunqiang were all in front of him, he didn't say much, until he got home, he followed Fu Chunhua to the vegetable field, and looked around again and again Only then did Zhuang Hongzhe tell what happened yesterday.

Fu Chunhua was very satisfied with what he explained to Mr. Wan and Mrs. Wan, she smiled and said: "In the future, if there is anything else, I will say that I got it from you, and you have to keep it for me. Don't ask me yet, okay?"

　Thank you Miracle Life 123 for your reward!Are there any pink tickets?

　　
　
(End of this chapter)