Personal Charm Perfect Private Tutorial

Chapter 31 The Ultimate Application of Attraction (1)
Lesson 48

perfect yourself with this book

Before proceeding further, let's clarify the exact goals of this study face to face.We will neither hesitate nor beat around the bush on this issue.We would like to divide our students into two categories:

1. Those who are willing and eager to follow our advice read this book twice carefully and slowly without missing a word.This is a category, or call it the first category.

2. Those who may read our book in the above way at some time in the future, or feel that it is unnecessary to do so.Between 5% and 15% of the people who get the book, they only read it once, and then they start wandering on the road of life again.This is the first category, or call it the second category.

Having divided our readers into two categories, we turn to the first of these.Our goal for them is to achieve 100% improvement in this capability.

100% progress means:

1. To achieve or secure financial independence.

2. Completely earn the respect and trust of others.

3. Dominate affairs in all aspects of life.

The needs of the world are nothing more than this, but there are very few people who can really get these.Still, this goal should not be too difficult for anyone who takes it seriously, and the course is enjoyable from start to finish.The taste of sugar-coated pills is always tempting.Our lessons are sugar-coated, fun and engaging.Not only that, but every lesson we teach will benefit readers in every aspect of their lives.Your self-improvement has been present from the beginning, and it will not cease until the moment of death.

Before proceeding further, let's briefly review what we have learned.

The "Where's the Charm" part at the beginning was very rewarding and uplifting for us.

The second part, "The Four Desires of Man", makes you realize that you are facing the wrong direction.It helps you change direction and pushes you forward.It makes all the difference in the world about what you should do and how you should do it.When you find the right direction, you will never go astray again.If it doesn't play such a big role, by what means can you make progress, and how fast can you make progress?At this time, since you have chosen the right direction, just make great strides forward.No matter men or women, as long as they have mastered Lesson 12 and Lesson 13, they will definitely be able to surpass all living beings in the world.The content of the lessons in the second part is not difficult to master.

The third part, "Creating the Eyes of Enchantment", is so important that if it can be converted into an equivalent amount of cash, then the number must be staggeringly large.When we read a book, we understand the author's thoughts by understanding the words in the book.Now, we have to read other people's facial expressions like we read books.Please spend half an hour every night studying this part, preferably one lesson per day.You need to know that the opportunity to make a huge fortune is close at hand, if you can apply what you have learned to the affairs of the next day, and at the same time pay attention to improving your own consciousness.

The next section, The Key to Charisma, shows you what to do each day.You cannot ignore them.

The fifth part, "The Enemy of Charm", is extremely valuable to everyone, whether he is interested in this study or not.Because it can transform your body, mind, and nerves from a state of disease to a state of good health, freeing you from the troubles of illness, from the threat of physical weakness and energy leakage, these are the keys to your success necessary condition.These courses are worth more than 1000 times their cost.

The sixth part "Tension Creates Charm" allows you to go beyond the drifting state experienced by ordinary people, especially the state of desperation, and come to the other side of vigilance and excitement.The fire of purpose within you is ignited and a whole new life begins.It tells you a way to restore strong vitality.Nothing in the world can catch up with its value, and nothing can replace its status.

Studying the seventh part "Relaxing and Blooming Charm", you are like entering a big garden, where all kinds of wonderful flowers full of natural vitality are competing to attract you.The dynamic and static life appears so calm, which in turn reflects the beautiful and lovely heart.A few centuries ago, there were no gentlemen, no elegant women, no gentle people, and everyone was so vulgar.That's when people can't help but feel admiration and respect for someone who radiates grace, self-restraint, and calm, attractive behavior.Now, after further training, our quality in this area has been raised to a new level.

With this training system alone, you can be extremely attractive in your life.The advantage it brings you is of great value, so you should prioritize it over other affairs.

The eighth part, "Building a Magnetic Sound," is a complete system in itself.People use voice most of the time to influence their peers or followers.It is precisely because human beings have the unique advantage of eloquence that they can become the masters of the animal kingdom.The system we now offer you has been taught in private schools, city colleges, academic institutions, and seminaries as the best way to develop pronunciation when speaking or talking.It can also be used for various other purposes, rich and beautiful tone and perfect expression of thought can be obtained through this system.It has extremely important practical value in all stages of human activities, especially in the field of career, professional research and social life.

While comprehending the above new knowledge, you will immediately enter the next process.Only then will you realize the importance of the process to some extent.

Lesson 49

awareness of attraction
Awareness that generates attraction consists of three forces:

1. Dare to tell the truth.

2. Have ideals.

3. Full of spiritual determination.

The power of speaking the truth is manifested in two ways.On the one hand, it can help you identify future facts based on past experience; on the other hand, it can help you accept existing facts in the future, and then use your insight to avoid hitting your life boat on the rocks or sailing into dangerous situations. Shallow, avoid letting your personal appeal suffer.Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to achieve brilliant results.

Only by possessing an ideal can one transform it into reality.Both men and women are often building castles in the air in their youth or middle age.Their blood, brains, and hearts push them to turn their deepest, seemingly achievable desires into reality. If their castles in the air become physical reality, the world we live in will become a rich paradise.When people have ideals, it does not mean that the castles in the air will immediately become bricks and concrete buildings, but it will allow you to transform into a brand new self full of personality, and then turn the ideals in your heart into reality. Belongs to the highest realm in our small world.There is little difference between people. The real difference lies in people's ideals and personalities, and in the consciousness of attractiveness, which can promote people to meet their own standards.We'll explore this later.

Mental determination is the most powerful force in life.

A locomotive parked on the main traffic line, but it contains huge power inside, but it cannot move.Similarly, if a person always stubbornly adheres to a fixed point of view, lacks flexibility, and freezes there, then he will not be able to go anywhere.The world moved on, but he stood still and was soon left behind by others.Only if we open the valves of the locomotive and let it release its energy can it rumble forward.We must have the courage to participate in various activities in our lives and make them part of our lives.In the same way, mental determination is also a dynamic force.

We can only achieve success if we have a goal and act towards it. Relying on faith alone or sticking to the same place is hopeless.

There are various reasons why instinctive consciousness or ordinary consciousness stays put, or we stick to our own opinions.Disease is a very common cause.As people age, brain cells become stiff and less flexible than they should be, which is also a common reason.For most people, the above symptoms appear before aging.The reason is that the organ starts to lose its flexibility when people are in their teens or twenties.Single thinking and biased listening and partial belief make it difficult for people to challenge their original ideas or beliefs to a certain extent.

People who are inflexible or stubborn have difficulty fully possessing the kind of magnetism that can be used to win success, friends, or valuable partners.

Looking at the life journeys of people of all stripes and achievements (big and small), we don't find a single person who is bigoted about his thinking and beliefs, nor does he find attractive people or real friends.There are those who have gained wealth and power, but they flatter people in front of others and ridicule them behind their backs, and their so-called close friends are but tools to use when needed.

Stubbornness is just one of the main symptoms of a rigid mind.

As long as most people are stupid, the world is full of bigotry and bigotry, full of unsympathetic men and women who have no one to pity, who live miserable mules all the time, waiting to die for someone else pity.They can neither save themselves nor make the situation better.What we're trying to say is that if you're one of those people who can't get out of the trap of inflexible thinking, if your mind is stuck with a thought like a dog tearing at a rag, Then all you can learn from this study will be limited to this, and no greater progress will be possible.

The consciousness that generates attraction is very open, and always open to facts and truths, it is never afraid to touch them.A person with this kind of consciousness never stubbornly adheres to a certain belief, because he believes in his own knowledge and experience.This consciousness is closer to reality than instinctive consciousness, because it is always closer to the source of facts.The latter is the accumulation of people's worldly experience since birth, including everything that has been remembered since then, while the consciousness that generates attraction is knowledge acquired from another direction entirely.

You can't say that people who cling stubbornly to a fixed belief or goal—often unattractive—haven't acquired the ability at all, they just haven't gotten to the level.First, they don't understand the difference between stubbornly sticking to a fixed goal and sticking to a flexible goal.Even fixed goals are applauded if they are worthwhile; flexible goals are usually aligned with the facts and fit statements of various factual situations.The difference between the two is hard to grasp.However, we can only choose between losing attractiveness and failing, or having attractiveness and achieving overall success.

Someone with flexible goals in the right direction is attractive.

People who are uncivilized and stubbornly stick to a fixed goal are not attractive.

Now we use an example that happened in the law school to illustrate the problem.The academy wanted to develop the intellectual capacity of its students so that they would be able to find appropriate ways to support their evidence before a jury in the future.The professor gave such an example: the current task is to move a table out of the door and send it to another room.The first step was to move the table along, but the doorway was less than three feet wide and the table four feet wide, and the task seemed impossible.Seeing the futility of doing so, the person involved turned the table over a little, trying to push it out of the door, but the table was still a full three feet wide, and the width of the door was still a little less, and the table still couldn't be moved by the first one. Room.Now, we're going to use the law of dexterity, let the table touch the ground on one side, push out the two legs first, then the body, and finally the remaining two legs.This way the whole table is moved to another room.

This example is just to illustrate the situation. People who are stubborn and unenlightened always try to get the broad side of the table on the ground in life, and then push it out with brute force. Make adjustments with the goal, there are countless such situations in life.If a man has a sense of attraction, whatever he does, he will adapt it to the situation at the time, and make it as seamless as possible.In other words, he will adjust the direction and method of his efforts according to the needs of the situation, but the original intention of solving the problem remains the same.They don't give up on their goals, but often compromise to overcome obstacles in their way.

One of the most remarkable qualities of attractiveness-conscious people is their habit of extending their tentacles of thought, getting in touch with other people around them, and analyzing the feedback from them.If the information is found to have new value, it will be absorbed; otherwise, it will be discarded.

Lesson 50

Do you dare to tell the truth

By reviewing the previous lesson, we can make the following generalization about the power of attractiveness awareness: People who have this awareness usually speak the truth.

There are more reefs and dangerous shoals in marriage than in any other area of ​​life, although there are many who disagree.But the fact cannot be concealed. If you take off the glamorous coat, you will have a panoramic view of everything.Victims don't see this, and even when they're told the truth, they can't face reality and say, "Even so, it won't hurt us." One or more of the four desires mentioned are shaken.In the previous lesson, we summarized the process of developing the awareness of attraction.By relying on those processes, plus the "how to develop mental strength" mentioned in Lesson 13, you can overcome the adverse effects of various desires on you.

In this way, instinctive consciousness will fluctuate, and desire will take advantage of it. 90% of broken marriages are caused by desire.In reality, there are many people who are about to get married or have already been married. Most of the reasons why the ship of marriage hit the rocks and sank are because both parties boarded the ship in a hurry without serious consideration.Avoiding one mistake is worth more than correcting a thousand.

We've come to realize that poor health can lead to physical torture, making it impossible to be attractive at this time.In the same way, if you are mentally unhealthy, for example, if you are experiencing a failed marriage, mental anxiety, pain, and depression, your life will be adrift for several years, until the court announces the dissolution of the marriage, and the parties seem to have returned to the spiritual and life. The beginning of the first marriage journey.Only then can he regain his confidence in life and move forward.As I said earlier, avoiding one mistake is more valuable than correcting a thousand mistakes.

If you have acquired the awareness of attraction, there is no need to correct mistakes because they have been avoided.A man who dares to tell the truth can control all kinds of affairs.He will present you with the facts in the form of questions:

1. When you think about marrying the woman you love, do you know that the love that develops during puberty is just a natural reflection of sexual desire?Is love only the partner of lust, or is it its twin, and can it live without it?Is love just a nervous reaction of people under the fire of sexual desire?In fact, is there only a very small distance between love and hate?Thousands of couples loved so deeply at the beginning, and then gnashed their teeth with hatred in an instant. What is going on? 99% of people who have experienced a marriage change will clearly realize the mistakes they made after the marriage ends.If you had kindly reminded them beforehand, they would have told you, "Oh, we know millions of people who have been divorced, but ours is different, we are a match made in heaven, and we will love each other forever. "

(End of this chapter)