Yin is love: the reversal of women chasing men

Chapter 31: Single Men and Women (3)
As soon as the words finished, Yang Fan stretched out his fingers and scratched her nose lightly, and snuffed out her unrestrained laughter by the way.

The atmosphere suddenly became weird, and Yang Fan, who came back to his senses, realized that his behavior just now was too forgetful, but he couldn't think of how to explain it to resolve the embarrassment, so he coughed dryly and poured tea into the cup in front of him.

Cheng Yin stared at Yang Fan as if her acupoints were tapped, and for a while she felt that something was wrong—Yang Fan had never behaved so intimately towards her, and for a while she felt that it was no big deal, he was not her brother, that brother pinched his sister The nose does not seem to need to make a fuss.

But why does she still feel awkward?Maybe it was the uneasiness on Yang Fan's face that infected him.

Only Li Zheng was the happiest, winking and laughing: "My aunt has also been taught a lesson! Oh yes!"

He is usually most afraid of Cheng Yin pinching his nose, and he always catches her by surprise, so he has no time to hide.

"Do you want tea?" Yang Fan handed the teapot in front of Cheng Yin, and his complexion returned to his usual level of honor and disgrace.

"Ah? Okay, come on." In his flat tone, Cheng Yin felt that she was alive again.

It was rare for a meal to be eaten peacefully. Cheng Yin secretly glanced at Yang Fan several times, seeing that his expression was normal, her heart gradually returned to the original place.

The program in the afternoon is still sightseeing, rushing from one scenic spot to another.

Yang Fan was fine, he strolled all the way in the courtyard, taking in the beautiful scenery for the camera, Cheng Yin followed Li Zheng's ass, rushing here and there like going to a market, very tired.

Li Zheng is not interested in scenery or humanities at all. The purpose of his trip is very simple, that is to take a ride on the high-speed rail in his dream that is as fast as a rocket.It wasn't until he entered the largest civic square in J City that he was attracted by a huge inflatable Disney palace. Children around his age were jumping and screaming on the palace trampoline.

"Auntie, I want to play too!" Li Zheng couldn't move his eyes from staring at this joyful children's world.

Cheng Yin bought a ticket for him, let him in after a few words of advice, turned around and sat down on the bench under the steps of the palace, sighing comfortably.

Yang Fan walked around the palace for a while, took a few photos of Li Zheng having fun, walked over slowly, and sat down beside Cheng Yin.

Cheng Yin kneaded her legs that almost didn't belong to her, "I can't think of spending hundreds of dollars and walking dozens of miles just to bring him to play with such a thing! It's not that there are no such things in our place. It costs 20 yuan. You can keep him playing from morning till dark!"

Yang Fan put away his camera, turned his head and glanced at Li Zheng who was standing next to Mickey Mouse and said, "It's better if he is happy, it's better than being dissatisfied with everything after coming here—legs are tired?"

"That's right, the muscles are stiff. It's been a long time since I've exploded like this! It's not easy being a nanny!"

Yang Fan thought of the argument between Zhou's father and Zhou's mother about the child at the dinner table, and looked at Cheng Yin who was frowning in front of him, feeling that she was still like a child, and smiled secretly.

Cheng Yin is still yelling in disbelief, "When I have a child in the future, I won't spoil him like a big brother and a sister-in-law! As soon as he is sensible, I will teach him how to work, and every day when I go home, he has to stand in front of him. At the door, give me a 90-degree Japanese-style bow respectfully, then offer you slippers, and ask: 'May I help you?'”

Yang Fan couldn't help but laugh, "How can you treat children like this, it's too utilitarian!"

"What's the matter, he was born by me, so he has to listen to me!"

"I'm afraid you won't be able to bear it until you really have a child."

"I won't!" Cheng Yin pinched her feet while swearing, seeing Yang Fan's expression of disapproval, she asked him, "Hey, do you like children?"

"like."

"Boy or girl?"

"Girl." Yang Fan said, "Girls are closer to daddy, and they will put their arms around daddy's neck and act like a baby."

He turned his head and glanced at Cheng Yin, "Aren't you also very close to your father?"

Cheng Yin nodded thoughtfully, "Yes! Then I'd better have a boy in the future, so that I can kiss me."

After speaking, they realized something at the same time, and smiled in relative embarrassment.

Afterwards, both of them were silent. Yang Fan fiddled with the camera casing, looking at the green lawn in front, his thoughts once again drifted away.

Li Zheng stood on the wall of the castle and shouted happily to them. Cheng Yin also raised his hand and waved at him. In a blink of an eye, the kid disappeared into the colorful castle again.

The sun gradually turned from white to golden.Cheng Yin checked the time, it was about five o'clock.

She was not used to sitting dryly, and broke the silence again, "I found a law."

Yang Fan turned to look at her.

"If you want to make time go faster, you have to divide it into many pieces and do a lot of odd things, and the time flies by. For example, today, I went out early in the morning and have not stopped until now. Look, wait When I sat down, I realized that the day was almost over."

Yang Fan laughed.

"By analogy, if you want to slow down time and spend a lot of time doing something boring, it will definitely feel like years. This should be Einstein's theory of relativity, right?"

"Hehe, the analysis makes sense. This theory is also applicable to money."

Cheng Yin listened attentively.

"If you want your money to go fast, you break it up into chunks and buy bits and pieces, and if you want it to go slow, you throw a whole lot of money at one boring project."

"Wrong!" Cheng Yin corrected him, "The only way to slow down the spending of money is to save it all and not spend it!"

"Sure enough, a very boring project."

The two were laughing, when Yang Fan got a call, Cheng Yin immediately stood up, "I'll go over there for a walk."

Yang Fan stopped her before she started walking, and told her to sit down, "My phone is not that mysterious."

It was a call from a subordinate, and he asked Yang Fan if he had any questions. After listening to a few words, he set his phone to hands-free, and said to Cheng Yin in a low voice, "You can listen to it too."

It turned out that they had taken a job and wanted to do a project for the HR department of a certain company to improve employee satisfaction, and they were worrying about "what effective ways can be used to get the voice of employees".

"We plan to set up some communication platforms, including online mailboxes and physical mailboxes, but the HR department is worried that we will not be able to collect much useful information. They have tried this before, but the opinions of employees are nothing more than two, either asking for a salary increase or venting Dissatisfaction with my boss."

Yang Fan said: "No matter what method the HR department uses to get feedback from employees, it is actually guiding employees to make leapfrog complaints. The consequence is that the management authority is weakened, and the relationship between employees and their direct supervisors is very likely Aggravate, because it is tantamount to encouraging employees to sue secretly."

The other party was silent for a moment, but also felt that it made sense, and asked humbly, "Then how to operate properly?"

After thinking about it, Yang Fan said: "You can suggest that the HR department change the theme of 'obtaining the voice of employees' to 'how to provide managers with more management leverage', such as adjusting the salary into two parts: fixed salary and floating salary. Part of it depends on individual performance, and the right to evaluate performance is in the hands of the supervisor, so that the department supervisor has greater authority to mobilize the enthusiasm of employees."

There was the sound of typing on the phone.

Yang Fan added: "I'm just giving you an example. You can follow this line of thinking and find out if there is any other better way. The two sides of labor and management are always in opposition, and the contradiction is irreconcilable. What you are trying to do is to alleviate this contradiction, not to intensify it. If you do it according to your initial thinking, it may run counter to it.”

Cheng Yin listened carefully, admiring Yang Fan very much.

She has also taken on similar tasks, and usually follows the first method. As for the follow-up effect, it is out of their scope of tracking. Each project can only achieve first-hand results.

However, after listening to Yang Fan's analysis, she immediately realized that some of the methods they originally provided were very likely to cause hidden dangers to customer management itself.

Afterwards, Cheng Yin asked him, "How did you think so deeply?"

Yang Fan said: "It's very simple. I have been both an employee and a management team. As long as you put yourself in the position of both, you will understand what to do and what to avoid. .”

He leaned back on the back of the chair, and said: "The value of the management is to communicate between employees, the company's senior management and various functional departments. If employees have problems, they should first report to their superiors. If the superiors cannot solve them, Find his boss again, so that the management can be orderly and have the value it should exist.”

Cheng Yin nodded again and again, "I understand. Moreover, the results of the direct communication between the HR department and the employees can actually be guessed with closed eyes: employees serving the company first pursue profit, and the second is the working environment, but the HR department Without the authority to raise wages, it hastily solicited opinions from employees, which is tantamount to hanging a carrot in front of everyone's eyes, but they can't eat it, and it is easy to dampen the enthusiasm of employees, isn't it? "

Yang Fan laughed, "That's right. Therefore, no matter what kind of case it is, it's much more helpful to the client to focus on the practical and feasible methods than playing tricks."

Cheng Yin completely agreed, she suddenly realized where Gao Xiang was dissatisfied with her.

Indeed, in the past six months, she has worked very hard to do things, whether it is data or reports, they are perfect, but thinking about it carefully, it may be just a formal aesthetic, and she has not really paid attention to the actual effect.

In other words, she works hard, but she doesn't pay attention.

Gao Xiang's behavior style is similar to Yang Fan's. They pay attention to reality, seek safety, and be thorough. Although the final result will not be as gorgeous as other departments, they rarely make mistakes or cause customer dissatisfaction or even complaints.

There was a doubt in Cheng Yin's heart that had been puzzling for a long time, but at this moment, he felt suddenly enlightened.

Feeling a little thirsty after chatting, Cheng Yin took out two bottles of water from her travel bag and gave one to Yang Fan with a more attentive attitude, "You are really busy, and you have to answer questions for your subordinates on the day off."

Yang Fan opened the bottle cap, didn't drink it right away, thought for a while, smiled and said: "Actually, I'm not busy at all recently, and I basically don't have any orders to do."

"Huh? How come?" Cheng Yin wondered, "I know that the two cooperation projects with us have not been approved, but you won't just accept the AST order, will you?"

"It's true that there are other things to do, but recently... the company is a bit unbalanced, and several people are rushing to do a job. Since someone is willing to take over, OK, let's do it for them." Yang Fan smiled wryly.

Cheng Yin understood, and grinned to comfort him, "Office politics, there are everywhere. Isn't it the same in our place now, Gordon and..."

She suddenly realized that she didn't really think bad things about Bai Hu, Lin Ruhui or Gordon, so she hurriedly put it away, "It's quite troublesome anyway, but bear with it, and it will be fine."

Yang Fan looked at her, "What do you think about this kind of thing?"

"Me? I don't like it, and I don't want to participate." Cheng Yin said sullenly, "I really can't figure it out. I'm obviously working for a company. Why should I fight like a black-eyed chicken? If it goes on like this for a long time, it's not good for the company." It is also a danger!"

"Not necessarily." Yang Fan said, "Every company is like a ship sailing on the sea. If all the crew members row in the same direction with all their strength, they may hit the rocks or go in the wrong direction because of too fast speed. If the force on the ship If they are used in all directions, they will cancel each other out, slowing down the speed of navigation, which may be inefficient in the short term, but in the long run, may avoid the danger of sinking the ship or going astray."

"Haha!" Cheng Yin said happily, "You're talking nonsense!"

Yang Fan also laughed, "There are also philosophies of erroneous reasoning. Everything depends on multiple aspects, and there is no absolute good or absolute bad."

"Is this the so-called 'when the water is clear, there will be no fish'?"

"Almost that's what it means."

The two laughed happily for a while, Cheng Yin looked up at the blue sky, and said with emotion: "Even if the whole world has already been reduced to the dust, we should live optimistically and bloom flowers from the dust."

Yang Fan glanced at her, "Zhang Ailing?"

"That's not what she said in the original words. I adapted it a bit, hehe." Cheng Yin suddenly felt strange again, "You also know Zhang Ailing?"

"When I was abroad, Chinese books were very popular, especially novels. I...a girl likes to read Zhang Ailing's books, and I would follow them when I was bored."

His suddenly low tone made Cheng Yin feel strange, and couldn't help but glance back at him.

Sure enough, Yang Fan's face showed a little gloomy color.

With a twitch in her heart, a question that had been in her heart for a long time slowly crawled up like a bug, making her feel itchy.

The atmosphere at this time can be called warm and harmonious, Cheng Yin thought, if she risked her life to ask something that shouldn't be asked, it doesn't seem to be considered a serious crime.

"Brother Yang Fan," she slowly approached him, "You..."

"what?"

Cheng Yin's heart beat like a beating drum, her eyes rolled back and forth, but she still insisted on pretending to be very casual, "How...how did you...break up with your...first girlfriend...?"

It took her 20 seconds to finish a very common question, but she managed to get it out of her mouth anyway.

Yang Fan's facial expression was a little stiff, but in the end he didn't frown. This sensitive issue was something he didn't want to touch, but perhaps because his mind had turned around when Zhang Ailing was mentioned just now, he didn't feel it was too abrupt.

Under Cheng Yin's seemingly calm expression, it is not difficult to see that there is still a trace of nervousness hidden. Yang Fan suddenly felt that he actually didn't mind talking to her, even though he had never mentioned it to anyone before.

"We broke up because of an inexplicable accident." He breathed out lightly, as if he wanted to pour out the depression that had been pent up in his heart for many years.

"I met her at a class reunion. She is very lively and has many friends. She is a girl who likes to be lively. I am just the opposite of her. I like to be quiet and to be alone."

Cheng Yin pricked up her ears and listened carefully, lest she miss any details. She remembered how many tears she had shed because of their relationship back then.

"However, fate is really an inexplicable thing. Maybe we really complement each other. We came together naturally, and our relationship has always been very good. I even took her home to meet my parents."

"Probably when we got along for about two years, one day, I suddenly received a text message from a friend of hers." Yang Fan said, taking a deep breath.

"The girl said in a text message that she liked me very much and wanted to meet me alone."

Cheng Yin immediately held her breath, her eyes widened, she was not the only one who did stupid things, this Yang Fan must be so evil!
"You met her?" She was nervous for no reason.

"No, I rejected her."

The muscles on both sides of Cheng Yin's face trembled, and the end was the same as her own.

"Later, she still sent me text messages one after another. At the beginning, I replied to her a few times. The number of times became too annoying, so I changed the number."

Cheng Yin could fully imagine his stern side, sniffled, and continued to listen in silence.

"After changing my phone for two days, my girlfriend came to me and asked me why I changed my number. I told her the truth and told her to keep a distance from that girl: It's really nothing if I know our relationship and still do this. Friend. But she laughed."

Cheng Yin also wondered, what's so ridiculous?

"She said she asked a friend to text me, and she wanted to see if I would empathize."

Cheng Yin's mouth suddenly opened wide, even if she was such a fun-loving person, she couldn't think of such a boring trick.

"I was angry at the time. I don't like her treating feelings like a game. I told her that people's hearts can't be played with. If I really accepted her as a friend, I wouldn't look back! After that, I didn't have any love for three months. Take care of her. She was very sad and came to me to apologize several times, but I still didn't forgive her. "

Cheng Yin blinked her eyes and felt that his girlfriend was a little too much.

"I didn't expect that when I got angry and went back to look for her, she already had a new boyfriend."

Yang Fan was silent for a moment, and smiled wryly, "She blamed me for being too harsh and rigid, for putting principles above everything else, and saying that there would be no happiness after being with someone like me."

He didn't go on talking, he put the phone in his palm and played it over and over again. He no longer felt the pain of regret at the beginning, but this past event was not a happy memory anyway.

"Before this incident, I was very serious in many aspects and was committed to pursuing perfection, but after the breakup, I realized that there is no such thing as perfect things. She was right, I was indeed harsh and ruthless."

A beautiful relationship came to an abrupt end, and it was hard to tell who was right and who was wrong.

Yang Fan said again: "Actually, when she came to me, I also had conflicts. I can choose to forgive her, or I can use this to teach her a lesson so that she will have a better memory and stop making fun of feelings... I I chose the latter. At that time, I didn’t understand tolerance, and I didn’t understand what was most important to me. By the time I understood this, it was too late.”

"What happened to her later?" Cheng Yin felt that every story needs an ending to be healthy.

"Married as soon as I graduated. We never contacted again."

After finishing speaking, Yang Fan felt unexpectedly relaxed, as if a stone that had been pressing on his heart for a long time was lifted away.

He turned around and saw Cheng Yin's pensive expression, and couldn't help but want to shave her nose again.

He changed into a relaxed tone: "I told you before that I am a very boring person, do you understand now?"

"Then you..." Cheng Yin swallowed, and asked cautiously, "Have you ever regretted it?"

Yang Fan's handsome face showed a bit of vicissitudes of life, "Some things, if you miss it, you miss it. It's just that we were not ready at the time."

He turned his eyes away from Cheng Yin's face, and whispered softly, "Maybe, it's God's will."

Cheng Yin was startled when she heard the words, could it be that Yang Fan also believed that there was a hand of fate in the dark?
It's just that no one of them knows where this hand will push everyone.

(End of this chapter)