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Chapter 288 The key points of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
"I can't figure out my identity, I can't figure out my position! I can't figure out the earth-shaking changes that have taken place in my life. I can't figure out that the original role relationship has undergone a huge change. This is the root of all tragedies."

"I understand!" Miao Dangui sighed: "It turns out that not only Jiang Mingfei didn't clear up the previous life, but even I did. Throughout my life, I have never left my son, daughter-in-law, and grandson at all. Moreover, I injected Jiang Mingfei into Jiang Mingfei. I expected too much. I always thought that she would change!"

"That's the truth!" Jiang Muxue praised.

"You treated Jiang Mingfei as your own child when you came up, so reckless, it is a doomed failure. Because she is not your child! She will never be your child! A daughter-in-law is not the same as a stranger, and a stranger may Will become your child, as long as it is a coincidence. But the daughter-in-law will never be. She is the other half of your son, and her arrival has completely severed the original intimacy and dependence between you and your son. You often doubt whether she is there Speak ill of you in front of your son, have you chewed your tongue in front of your son, and let him alienate you? To put it bluntly, this is actually a kind of ambivalence produced by the idea of ​​​​"fear and not accepting the growth of your child."

"Don't deny the deity's words, the deity has received your memory, you can't deceive the deity. Moreover, you are not a special case. Mothers often have an instinctive rejection when facing their children's growth. On the one hand, they hope that their children will grow up and start a family. , to gain a place in society. But, on the other hand, they don't want it! Children's growth brings them not only hope, joy, but also loss. Human beings are a species with complex emotions, there is no way , This kind of feeling is so tangled. Yes, it is normal. But losing reason is not normal, and it is also the beginning of tragedy and conflict."

Miao Dangui wanted to refute at first, but after hearing what was said later, he bowed his head again, what the adults said was right!

"And Jiang Mingfei thinks that she owns your son, so she owns everything your son has added. What's even more absurd is that she also counts you as your son's appendages. That's why all kinds of absurd things happened later. .”

"The mistakes you and Jiang Mingfei made are common to most women these days. The difference is that many people gradually understand and improve. Some people can't figure it out in this life. It can only be tragic."

Miao Dangui sighed for a while.

Repeat the eight words "advance and retreat in a certain way, respect each other as guests".

The two walked a little further.

Jiang Muxue thought for a while, and then said: "It's not enough to just have a certain amount of advance and retreat, and respect each other as guests. No one can forget that there is another key point between the two, son and husband. Two identities, one person. From this point, we can I can see the importance of the key point of man. In fact, many times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not well handled, and most of the source is still in that man. Many conflicts can be resolved by him, but he is lazy, he is upset, and he is unreasonable. He doesn't want to. Under such circumstances, the result can only get worse and worse. Of course, there are many incompetent people among them, they are all in a mess, and they can't handle this seemingly simple, but actually the most complicated interpersonal relationship. "

Miao Dangui sighed: "Yes, my son is just an idiot, incompetent!"

"What should we do in this situation?" Jiang Muxue asked.

How?
Miao Dangui shook her head, if she knew how, her previous life would not be so tragic.

"Advance and retreat are measured, respect each other as guests. When two parties are at war, do not behead them."

Jiang Muxue laughed, how did talking become the art of war?
"Your Excellency, you mean to treat your son as a messenger?"

"Yes! Or more precisely, the springboard, the buffer zone, the green zone, or, the gray zone."

"When there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the most taboo is to confront each other directly. Sometimes, even if both parties are very polite, are you really polite in your heart? Are you really convinced? If you are really polite and convinced, you will not be tit-for-tat. We fought hard based on reason. It is better to be polite in this kind of face-to-face confrontation, but if there is a big quarrel, this will be a rift that can never be repaired."

"What does your lord mean, if you have something to say, let your son convey it?"

"Can you give me an example, such as what kind of conflicts or disputes?"

Jiang Muxue paused, and if he said seriously: "There are only a few categories, money interests, children's education, future pension... Besides these few items, what else?"

Miao Dangui thought about it, but really couldn't think of anything else.

In a few short words, almost everything is covered.

"Let's talk about money. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should never be directly involved. If you have anything to say, let the middle party convey it. This deity has seen many strange phenomena in this journey, among which is One, the son’s family often takes it out of the daughter-in-law’s pocket for giving gift money to his parents. It’s ridiculous. I need my son’s help, and I have to take it out of another woman’s bag, and then look at her face. As Mother, you can imagine the kind of aggrieved!"

"Yes, yes, yes! My lord! Indeed!" Miao Dangui praised.

The two of them talked so much, before they knew it, Naihe Bridge was already in front of them.

Jiang Muxue searched her stomach and felt that she had been "hollowed out" and couldn't say anything else. She just raised her hand, stroked Miao Dangui's forehead, and sent her the blessing of the afterlife.

Miao Dangui left without worry, turned around and disappeared.

Jiang Muxue stood blankly for a moment, and after a moment of time and space shifted, she returned to the Ghost King Palace.

"Little Xue'er! Give the yin and yang mirror to this deity!"

Unexpectedly, the evil ghost king stood at the entrance of the hall to intercept.

"Wang! I knocked, but there was no response." Jiang Muxue offered the yin and yang mirror with both hands.

The evil ghost king glanced at him, knock?
You thought there was a knock on the door!

After getting the yin and yang mirror, the evil ghost king left without saying anything.

After he entered the secret room, Jiang Muxue stood up straight and walked towards the desk.

"The Law of the Pyramid on Earth" is more perfect than before, Jiang Muxue sat down with a sigh, it seems that the evil ghost king is not only practicing hard during this period.

Writing books and talking more seriously.

"what!!!"

Just as Jiang Muxue was flipping through "Apocalypse of the Grieving Woman", a scream suddenly came from the secret room.

The voice was extremely painful, as if it had been greatly hurt.

Jiang Muxue hurriedly ran to the door of the secret room, but the stone door was closed tightly, and she couldn't get in at all.

There was only one yell, and there was no response after yelling twice, and suddenly he slapped his brain and opened the imprint to contact.

"King! What's the matter with you?"

"King! Are you all right?"

……

He said a few words, but there was no response.

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