Madam is leaving today

Chapter 9 Mother's Identity

"Young madam, Mr. Xiao Lang has woken up!"

Before the two people in the room could react, Huaping's originally happy face suddenly turned sad, "It's just that Mr. Xiao Lang seems to be very afraid of me. He obviously liked to play with me in the past."

Su Niang suddenly didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "You, you are always so bluffing, if you don't have a strong heart, you will be frightened!"

Su Yun was slightly stunned when he heard the words, but quickly settled down, stood up and smiled, "Then let's go and have a look."

She had to tell herself over and over that when it came to that child, she was not just a child psychologist, but a mother.

No matter how uncomfortable it is, this is a fact that cannot be changed.

When several people passed by the front hall of the study, Su Yun stopped by and called the old doctor who had been waiting here since he finished speaking.

He was dumped by an irresponsible genius doctor apprentice, so that the old doctor, who had been bored here for almost half an hour, immediately stood up in surprise, and then he might feel that he was a bit impolite, and hurriedly clenched his fists and put on a show. He coughed twice, twirled his beard and said slowly, "Since that's the case, I'll show Mr. Xiao Lang a look."

Su Yun couldn't help laughing, but he just pretended to have something in his heart, and he didn't say anything, and led a group of people into the bedroom.

After thinking about it, Su Yun asked the old doctor to wait in the outer room first, then lifted the curtain of the inner room with Huaping and Su Niang, and walked in.

As soon as he entered the room, Su Yun saw a group of small people huddled in a corner with fear on their faces, their bodies still trembling slightly.

Su Yun's heart felt sour. At this time, the little man had obviously seen her, and he subconsciously shrank back again, his pair of black grape-like eyes were full of uneasiness and fear.

Su Yun tentatively approached him slowly, and the little man suddenly cried out, "Don't come here! Bad woman! You are a bad woman!"

As he spoke, he grabbed the pillow on the bed and threw it at Su Yun.

Su Yun's heart was sore and astringent, he stretched out his hand to gently catch the pillow, his eyes were still looking directly at the child gently, as if he couldn't see his increasingly frightened expression, he slowly approached him, squatted in front of him, Looking at him at the same level, he said softly, "Can Jiaming tell me why you don't want to see me?"

His eyes were slightly dazzled by the smile on the lips of the woman in front of him, and the five-year-old child was inexplicably a little embarrassed. He didn't know when the panic he was full of just now gradually faded away, and turned into a deep sense of grievance and anger, "You are a bad woman!" Everyone said, because of you, father didn't come back! Ming'er is not wanted! Ming'er is not a child that no one loves, no!" As he said, a pair of small hands patted the bed board angrily.

Su Yun felt distressed when he saw it, and stretched out his hand to take his little hand to see if he hurt himself.

The child in front of him shrank back with a look of vigilance.

Looking at the little boy who shrunk himself into a ball and stuffed himself in the corner, Su Yun felt distressed and angry, but when he spoke again, his tone was still gentle and gentle, "Of course, Jiaming is not a child that no one cares about, it's because they don't care about you." I understand, many people in Jiaming are in pain!"

She secretly focused the conversation on the second half of the child's sentence, and downplayed the part about her and his father. Now she wants to slowly reverse some of the child's thinking, and let him know that he is not unloved , Let him feel the love of others for him.

A child's world is very simple, his reaction to a person is like a mirror, how you treat him, he will respond to you.

A child who has been bathed in a lot of love will inevitably have a sound personality and a warm heart, so it is useless to talk, the point is to slowly influence him with actions.

The five-year-old child was easily led astray by her, but after listening to Su Yun's words, he flattened his mouth, and suddenly burst into tears, so wronged, he kept wiping his face with his little hands He cried, and said while crying: "You lied to Ming'er, no one loves Ming'er, woo woo, my father didn't come to see Ming'er when he came back, woo woo, Ming'er deliberately didn't appear in front of him, and he didn't come either. Look for me, you...you too, woo woo woo, you don't love Ming'er, Ming'er comes to play with you and you ignore Ming'er, sometimes you are fierce Ming'er, woo woo, Ming'er can only come secretly Look at you, but...but everyone said, you're going to run away with someone else, never to be Ming'er again, woo woo woo, bad, you're all bad!"

Su Yun was about to cry when he heard the child's innocent words, Zheng Yunge, Zheng Yunge, how can you bear it!This is your child born in October!

He doesn't want much, he just hopes to get the care of his parents. Even if he has a pair of unqualified parents, he never gives up his expectations for his parents, but the reality has disappointed him time and time again.

Not when he longed for love, not when he needed the protection of his parents, how did such a child subconsciously protect himself with thorns all over his body while crying and despairing again and again?
Su Niang and Huaping who came in with Su Yun also had red eyes at this time, who would have thought that Xiao Langjun thought so!

That's right, Mr. Xiao Lang has gradually had his own thinking, his own longing and sadness when they were negligent, but they didn't know anything and completely ignored this little man.

It was with great difficulty that Su Yun suppressed the sadness and distress that poured into her throat. She knew that now she could not give the child any negative emotions, and he needed positive affirmation and encouragement.

So he slightly raised the corners of his lips, and said in a warm voice: "How could Jiaming think that I was going to leave? I am Jiaming's mother, so naturally I will not leave. Jiaming don't listen to other people's nonsense."

Before joining hands with friends to throw stones at Zheng Yunge, it was probably because they thought Zheng Yunge was going to abandon him completely, and they acted out of sadness and anger.

In the future, she will slowly teach him how to express his emotions correctly, how to control his behavior, what is right and what is wrong, and how to become a little man.

And all this, no one has ever taught him in the past.

Jia Ming looked at the woman with a gentle smile in front of him with tears in his eyes, and seemed to be stunned for a moment.

After all, it was the mother who had been longing for. The five-year-old child slowly stopped crying, and tentatively stretched out his hand towards Su Yun. Halfway through it, he seemed to be afraid of something, and then retracted, saying in a small voice: "You...you Do you really not want Ming'er?"

Su Yun looked at the child's unconscious little movements, and sighed slightly in his heart. It must be that Zheng Yunge did something bad to him when the child tried to get in touch with Zheng Yunge before, which made him dare not even touch her now.

This is called conditioned reflex in psychology. The American psychologist Watson once did a famous experiment. He let an eleven-month-old baby see a white-haired toy when he heard a scary sound. Learned to be afraid of white furry objects.

Yes, for a child who is like a blank sheet of paper, he is learning all the time, but some learning is unconscious, and some is imposed on him by others.Therefore, in the same way, using the theory of conditioned reflex can also create a positive influence on children.

After turning a few corners quickly in his mind, Su Yun just smiled softly on his face, and before the child could react, he gently wrapped his hands around his little hand and said, "Of course not, how could I not want to be home?" What about Ming." She held his hand with one hand and patted his head encouragingly with the other.

The child was stunned for a moment, and a blush seemed to appear on his fair face.

His other hand pulled the quilt beside him a little uncomfortably, and he turned his face away to dare not look at her, but he didn't withdraw the hand that was held by her, and said shyly, "Then...then Can Ming'er come to play with you often in the future?" As he spoke, he bit his lower lip subconsciously, which was a micro-expression expressing anxiety.

Su Yun smiled and said, "Of course! Not only can Jiaming come to play with me, but we can also live together in the future, okay?"

The child's hand that was pulling the quilt paused, and expressions of joy, disbelief and hesitation flashed across his face for a moment, but finally he returned to uneasiness, looked at Su Yun and said: "But, grandma doesn't allow..."

He remembered very clearly that he asked his mother before why he couldn't live with her, obviously they both lived with their parents, and every time they played with him late, their parents would come to find him When they go home for dinner, Jia Ming will be very envious every time.

But his mother looked at him impatiently, shook off his hand, and asked him to ask his grandmother, what's her business if she doesn't let them live together?

"I'm going to tell my grandmother that I really want to live with Jiaming, and beg her to let us live together, okay?" Su Yun said softly, carefully taking care of the child's emotions, "From now on, I will stay with Jiaming every day. Ming, Jia Ming can find me whenever he wants to play, and he can talk to me whenever he wants to talk to me about anything."

The child's eyes burst into dazzling brilliance for an instant, and the uneasiness on his face gradually receded. A faint blush was cast on his small face. He looked very reserved, looked at Su Yun and nodded, "Yeah."

He paused, as if he was afraid that his actions would be too light for others to see, so he nodded heavily with a nervous face, "Yeah!"

This kid might still be a little tsundere.

Su Yun laughed heartily, and continued to speak softly: "Now, can I ask the doctor waiting outside to show you, okay? Jia Ming just cried for so long, and we are all worried about whether you have broken your body from crying."

A hesitant expression appeared on the child's face, Su Yun immediately said: "I'll be here with you, Su Niang and Huaping are here to accompany you."

After struggling for a while, the child finally nodded slightly.

Su Yun smiled slightly and touched his head. Just as he was about to turn around and ask the doctor to come in, he suddenly felt that the child beside him tugged at her sleeve with a slight force, as if a kitten was biting her with its immature teeth. She took off her clothes, and said in a small voice: "Mother, don't worry, Ming'er is not feeling well, Ming'er is fine, and I won't cry anymore."

Her heart suddenly softened into a mess, this child was so good that it made her feel sad.

　Miss Sister and General Gu will learn together how to be good parents~
　　
　
(End of this chapter)