Smart Women Should Read Men's Psychology: Secrets Men Don't Want You to Know

Chapter 14 A man's mind, a smart woman must be able to "guess" (6)
Men who like LCD watches are mostly frugal in life and know how to budget carefully.Moreover, their thinking is relatively simple, and they are more enthusiastic about various things that are simple and convenient, but it is difficult for them to understand too abstract concepts.They take a more serious attitude in all aspects of dealing with people, and they will not appear particularly casual.

3. Men who like to wear alarm clock watches

Men who like to wear alarm clock watches are mostly very strict with themselves, always tense their nerves, and refuse to relax for a moment.Although this type of men are not traditional and conservative, they are used to doing things according to certain rules and regulations. In the process of striving for success, everything is done in a quite direct and planned way.They are very responsible, and sometimes deliberately cultivate and exercise their abilities in this area.In addition to this, they have certain organizational and leadership skills.

4. Like men who wear multi-time zone watches
Men who wear multi-time zone watches are generally unrealistic.They have a certain ingenuity, but everything is limited to imagination, and they will not try to put it into practice.They often do things half-heartedly, and one mountain is as high as another.In the face of some responsibilities, they often choose to escape.

5. Men who like to wear classic gold watches
Men who wear classic gold watches are mostly people with development vision and long-term plans. They will never give up some more developed careers for immediate benefits.They are thoughtful, flexible, and often have good foresight.Their ideological level is relatively high, and they are very mature, and they can see everything clearly.They have tolerance and endurance, and they are very loyal, and they can share joys and sorrows, life and death with family and friends.They have strong willpower and never easily bow to some difficulties and pressures from the outside world.

6. A man who likes pocket watches
Men who like pocket watches have a good ability to control time. Although their daily lives are busy, they are not slaves of time. They know how to relax and find happiness in the limited time.They are good at controlling themselves, have strong adaptability, and can adjust their mentality well.Most of them have strong nostalgia and are willing to collect some things from the past.They speak and behave elegantly and have a certain degree of cultural accomplishment.They have strong romantic thoughts and often create some unexpected surprises.They are patient in dealing with others and value the friendship between people.

7. A man who likes to wear a wind-up watch

Like to wear clockwork watches, this type of man has a strong sense of independence.They are self-sufficient and insist on doing many things themselves.They are happy to do jobs that can see immediate results, such as physical labor.What they value most is the sense of accomplishment they get, but in the process, they don't want everything to be easily obtained, so it is meaningless.They don't want to get too much care and love from others.

8. I like men who wear watches without numbers

I like to wear watches without numbers. This type of man has a strong abstraction.They are good at expressing ideas, and they don't want everything to be explained very clearly.They are very concerned with the exercise and test of a person's intelligence, and they think that it is meaningless to say everything too clearly.They like to play puzzle games very much, and they are quite intelligent in themselves, they don't seem to care much about all practical things.

9. Men who like to wear watches specially designed by designers

Most men who like to wear watches specially designed for themselves are very concerned about their image and status in the eyes of others, and they can change themselves to cater to others.They often exaggerate and exaggerate things in order to prove and express themselves and attract the attention of others.

10. The man without the watch

Most men who don't wear watches have relatively independent personalities. They will not be easily dominated by others, but only like to do what they want to do.They have a relatively strong ability to adapt to changing situations, can think of coping strategies in a timely manner, and are very happy to get acquainted and interact with people.

Ten Fingers Connecting Hearts: Find out a man's mind from his hand movements

A person's hand movements can often convey his inner emotions. For example, a person who has been hit often clasps his hands, rests his elbows on the table, and presses his clenched hands against his head.After suffering a blow, most people will start to close themselves due to the trauma of their hearts. The closed space formed by the clasped hands is the external expression of his closed heart.In addition, when forgetful people suddenly think of something, they will hit the head with the palm of their hand to express their punishment for forgetfulness.This is also a habitual action of many people, reflecting their mental state at that time.

The thoughts in a person's heart are easily reflected by hand movements. This is not a false talk, but has a scientific basis.

Since ancient times in our country, there has been a saying of "ten fingers connecting hearts".According to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, there are meridians on each finger, which directly lead to the brain through the limbs, so it is called "ten fingers connected to the heart".Modern science has proved that the hands are rich in nerves and are one of the places with the most nerve endings in the human body.Therefore, its senses of touch, temperature, and pain are extremely sensitive, and a slight pain will make people feel "heart-wrenching" pain.When we move our fingers, we can also stimulate different centers of the brain.

In the same way, brain activity will also be transmitted to the hand through the nerves, including various subconscious minds.Sometimes, we may not be aware of it, but these consciousnesses have been transmitted to our hands.

Therefore, hand movements can indeed provide us with a direct and convenient method for studying men's psychology.Here, we first study two kinds of habitual hand movements of men.

1. Gearing up
In real life, men often express their expectation for something by rubbing their palms together.For example, if a newly appointed department manager holds a department meeting and explains his future plans, he may rub his hands together at the end of the meeting to give everyone a final encouragement: "Let's work together!" Rubbing hands represents his inner drive And the determination to put in a big fight.

In addition, when men throw dice, they always like to rub their hands first, or hold the dice with both hands and then blow a breath, as if such an action can bring him good luck, and this action also represents their innermost feelings. A desperate desire to win.

However, it needs to be reminded that body language is always closely related to the context in which it is used.Therefore, we must also pay attention to the "context" at that time.For example, gearing up does not mean excitement and anticipation at all times.In the cold winter, when you see a person who is gearing up, he may breathe into his palm like a dice thrower, but that is only because it is too cold and he wants to rub against it to generate heat.

Generally speaking, the rubbing of the entire palm can express excitement, while the action of rubbing only the thumb and index fingertips has another meaning.East and West have reached an agreement on the meaning of the action of rubbing only the thumb and index fingertips, which is generally used to imply money or express the desire to ask for money.

However, people always have some negative associations with money, and many people don't like to talk about money openly, so people who make such actions are likely to attract people's resentment.If you need to win the favor of the other party, you must control your hands and don't do this action often.

2. Snap your fingers

Finger snapping is a finger rubbing action, that is, rubbing the thumb and middle finger, or the thumb and index finger quickly, to make a crisp sound.Not everyone can make this movement, usually only regular practice can make the sound.Such actions usually express a positive and positive emotion. For example, when you express a point of view, if the person you are talking to feels that the opinion coincides with yours, he may make this action, snap his fingers, and then say: "Yes, that's what I mean."

Men, especially young men, do this move a lot, and many young men think it's "cool".This may also be driven by some singers. Many singers use this method to beat themselves and control the rhythm.There are not many women who like to do this action, but some women will suddenly clap their hands when expressing agreement with the other party, saying: "That's it." This action is similar to the meaning of men's snapping fingers.

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