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Chapter 103 Mother and Daughter Talking Hearts
"Of course, do you think that mother only cares about me now, and not about you?" Xu Hanwen couldn't help asking the sensible and well-behaved daughter opposite.

"..." When Li Yiran heard Xu Hanwen's question, her body froze for a moment, and she raised her head helplessly. Xiao Beifang bit her lip lightly, but said nothing, and lowered her head again.

"Actually, both you and Laodou are the most important people in my mother's heart! It's like the palm of your hand and the back of your hand. It's not an easy choice for mother to leave either of you!" Xu Hanwen sighed secretly in her heart, and then said.

Although she swore to herself that she would never neglect her daughter again when she was reborn, too many things happened in the past year, one after another, which made it impossible for her to calm down and have a heart-to-heart talk with her daughter.

The root cause of Li Yiran's rage this time is still her lack of confidence in Xu Hanwen. She has lost her father, and since her mother got together with Zhang Lin, she feels that she no longer cares about her as much as before, and pays constant attention to her. Let her feel lost.

"Mom..." Listening to her mother's words and seeing the struggle in her eyes, Li Yiran actually understood her mother's dilemma, but she still hoped that her mother would pay more attention to her, so she just called out in a low voice Mom, bowed her head again and said nothing.

"Of course, this time Mom wants to go back to City S with you, not just to accompany you, Mom has her own work to do. Mom goes back to City S to be closer to City N. This makes it easier to handle some work matters!" Xu Hanwen sighed in her heart as she looked at her daughter's expression, after all, she was still a child, and she still hoped that her mother would be by her side in the end!

"We are not short of money, so why do you still have to work? Could it be that Laodou can't support you and me?" When Li Yiran heard the word "work", she suddenly felt disapproving, and she didn't know if someone had said it in front of her. What, actually murmured such words that made Xu Hanwen dumbfounded.

"However, do you think that mother goes to work only for money? Or do you think that women only need to find a rich man and let him support themselves?" Xu Hanwen couldn't laugh or cry when she heard Li Yiran's words, her tone suddenly became serious, making the woman in her arms Li Yiran's body stiffened.

"Of course, it's not a question of money! Of course Mom knows, you old man can definitely support us! But apart from being able to bear children for men, women are no worse than men in many aspects, and even better than men in many aspects! Since God has given women such unique conditions, why should they confine themselves to a small family?" Xu Hanwen felt the stiffness of her daughter's body, and knew that her tone was too serious, so she took a deep breath and calmed down.

"Do you remember the mother who lived with your father?" Xu Hanwen pulled her daughter away from her arms, made her face herself, and looked at her daughter seriously.

"Hmm..." Although she didn't understand the meaning of Xu Hanwen's lack of words, Li Yiran still recalled how her father and mother got along in the past, nodded, and finally looked at Xu Hanwen suspiciously.

"In the past, my mother put your father and you first, and her life was family-centered. She went to work and went to work, thinking about daily necessities all day long. In the end, not only did she not achieve anything at work, but her life was also a mess! I hope my mother will remain the same as before. Is it?" When Xu Hanwen talked about her previous living conditions, her heart was sore, her mood was so gloomy, and her speech speed couldn't help but speed up a lot!It turned out that Xu Hanwen still cared about the past!

"No! I don't want such a mother!" Li Yiran once again saw the scene of her mother lying on the hospital bed with a pale face, and she couldn't help shouting in panic!
"Of course, don't be afraid! It won't happen anymore, mom assures you, the situation like before will never happen again!" Xu Hanwen didn't expect her daughter to have such a big reaction. Knowing that her words reminded her of bad things in the past, she hurriedly took pictures He patted his daughter on the back to comfort her.

"Mom, you must be well. I don't want my mother to get sick or get hurt again..." Li Yiran stood up, stretched out her hands, hugged Xu Hanwen's neck, and put her cheek on Xu Hanwen's face. Disappeared by myself.

After hearing Li Yiran's words, Xu Hanwen suddenly realized that Li Yiran had remembered her car accident and her miserable appearance in the hospital. It seemed that the past had left a deep shadow in Li Yiran's heart.

Xu Hanwen really wanted to dig out those dark memories from the depths of her daughter's heart and smash them, but she also knew that she should not rush for a while, she could only slowly let time dilute the memory and let love dilute the heartache Li Fang left for her daughter.

"Of course, don't worry! Mom won't fall into such a mess again! So Mom's departure is only temporary. Let's work together to make ourselves stronger. Only when we are strong, others can't hurt us !" Xu Hanwen looked at her daughter who was attached to her with distress, and her belief in making herself strong and her daughter strong became stronger in her heart again.

"Of course, you just said that Laodou can support us. When mother heard this, she was both happy and worried. The happy thing is that this shows that you agree with Laodou's sincerity to us and regard Laodou as your relatives; worried Do you think in your heart: Women, as long as there is a man to rely on, you can rest easy for the rest of your life?!" Xu Hanwen felt that the daughter in her arms gradually relaxed, and continued to chat with her.

"Mom..." Sensing disapproval in her mother's calm tone, little Li Yiran felt a little uneasy.

"Of course, although your old man can be said to love us like jewels, and grandpa, grandpa, and grandma also love us very much, but a woman must be self-reliant, self-reliant, self-love, self-confidence, and self-esteem in life!" Xu Hanwen said earnestly , maybe her daughter can't fully understand the truth now, but as a mother, Xu Hanwen feels that she needs to let her daughter remember these, let these ten words accompany her daughter to grow up, and believe that her daughter can gradually understand the truth on the way of growth !

"Of course, you sit down. Too many things have happened to our mother and daughter in the past year, one after another, so that we haven't sat down and talked for a long time. Let's have a good talk today! You If you have anything to say, mom hopes you can tell mom without reservation!" Xu Hanwen straightened her daughter's body, dragged her over the chair in front of the desk, and let her sit facing her.

"My mother just said, self-improvement, self-reliance, self-love, self-confidence, and self-esteem. Let me briefly explain to you. The so-called self-esteem is the affirmation of self, but any individual, as long as he lives, he must live with self-esteem If a person is alive without self-esteem, then what is the point of living? Self-esteem is the soul of being a human being. To be a human being, you must first have self-esteem and affirm yourself, so that others will respect you."

Xu Hanwen explained to her daughter in a soft voice, while observing her daughter's expression, seeing her daughter listening to her seriously, she felt relieved for her daughter's thirst for knowledge.

"Self-improvement means working hard, forging ahead, infinite vision and unremitting pursuit of a better future. A self-improving person, her spirit is very valuable, because a self-improving person relies on his own hard work, not the support of his parents or others." However, you should have heard the saying "A man should be self-improvement"! In fact, it is also applicable to us women. Women must also be self-improvement, work hard, for themselves and for the future, and cannot rely on others, and cannot always stay at one stage and stand still tread."

"Why does my mother try to get you to transfer to Beidu to go to school? It is to let you have a better learning environment, to let you have a broader horizon, and to lay the foundation for your future growth. This is to let you learn to be self-reliant!"

"Mom doesn't expect you to become a big tree in the sky, but she also doesn't want you to be a dodder and depend on others to live. Self-reliance means not relying on others and living on your own labor. Remember to spend the money you earn to be Let yourself spend it with peace of mind! So mother knows that there is absolutely no problem with Laodou raising us, but she still hopes to rely on her own hard work to earn the cost of living, and at the same time, she hopes to create better learning conditions for you through mother's efforts!"

Li Yiran listened to Xu Hanwen's instructing, sometimes frowning, sometimes nodding, looking at her expression, you can tell that she has listened to her mother's words in her heart. There was no resistance, which made Xu Hanwen feel even more relieved.

"Self-confidence is to learn to affirm yourself and believe in yourself. Lack of self-confidence will make people shrink back. Of course, overconfidence or blind self-confidence can also make people arrogant or complacent. However, we must remember that women must be confident and know how to recognize themselves Don’t just shrink back when encountering difficulties, but have a thought in your heart: I can do it! Only a confident woman can have the most beautiful charm.”

"The so-called self-love not only requires you to cherish your own body, but also requires you to keep yourself clean. Simply put, self-love is to know how to take care of yourself. Only when you take care of yourself can you effectively take care of others. Women must love themselves, not only to cherish Cherish your own life, cherish your body, cherish your personality, cherish your reputation."

"In short, as long as you truly achieve self-improvement, self-reliance, self-love, self-confidence, and self-esteem, then you are the most beautiful woman! The sky is not beautiful, but people are beautiful! In the future, my mother hopes that it will be true, and always remember these ten things. One word! In the process of growing up, strictly follow these ten words to demand yourself, strengthen your self-cultivation, and make yourself more attractive, so that your life will always be full of sunshine and happiness!" Xu Hanwen's remark, completely After dispelling the haze in Li Yiran's heart, a sunny smile appeared on her pretty face again!
After Xu Hanwen finished speaking, Li Yiran lowered her head and seriously recalled what her mother said just now.After a while, Li Yiran raised her head, looked at Xu Hanwen seriously and said, "Mom, I understand! Mom went back to Province J for work. Work can make mother more confident. A confident mother will be more beautiful, and it will also make her more beautiful. Have self-esteem, um, and at the same time make Ranran respect her mother even more!"

Although the understanding is unavoidably superficial, but a nine-year-old girl who has just listened to her mother's teachings can understand to such a degree is already commendable!Xu Hanwen doesn't force her daughter to understand the essence of these ten words thoroughly now. The future will be long, and she will guide her daughter during her growth. She is confident that her daughter will become a self-improvement, self-reliance, self-love, self-confidence, and self-esteem.

(End of this chapter)