The FBI teaches you lie detection, people reading and intelligence skills

Chapter 45 Look at what he's wearing: spying on others from their clothes (1)
Human beings are originally naked, but in order to hide their true colors, they wear clothes.In fact, everyone never expected that in order to wear the clothes they like, including the matching of color, texture and mood, they would show themselves without any concealment.Because the clothes each person chooses, although they cover up their nakedness, they reveal their psychological state.In this chapter, the FBI will teach you how to gain insight into people's hearts from clothing.

§§§Section [-] Know the owner from the handbag
Handbag is a very important item in people's work, study and life. In many cases, it is almost inseparable from people.Wherever people go, they are brought with them.To a certain extent, they can convey certain information to the outside world, allowing the outside world to know the owner of the bag through the bag.

1. Popular bags
There are various styles of handbags, and people can choose according to their own preferences.Generally speaking, people who choose more popular bags have more popular personalities, or they don’t have any distinctive personalities that belong to them.Most of the time, they follow the crowd. Everyone chooses this way, so I also choose this way. I don’t have my own opinions, and my vision and thinking are relatively mediocre and narrow.There are many gains in life, but no great achievements and development.

2. Personalized bag
The bags you choose have special characteristics, even people who are so unforgettable at a glance, their personalities may be analyzed in two different situations: one is that their personalities are really strong and prominent, For anything, you can start from your own unique thinking, vision and other aspects to make a choice.This type of people has a lot of artistic cells. They like to do their own way without being restricted by others, and they are unconventional, dare to take risks, and have certain courage and courage.If there are no accidents, and I am willing to work hard, I will make certain achievements in a certain field.There is another kind of people, they don't really have any personalities, and they don't have any aesthetic vision, but they just want to show their own uniqueness, and deliberately make some choices that are completely different from others, so as to attract more attention. That's all.This type of people have a strong desire for self-expression and vanity.

3. Casual bag
Most of the bags chosen are for casual people. It can be seen that their work has great flexibility and there is a lot of space for free activities.It is precisely because of such conditions, coupled with innate personality, most of these people know how to enjoy life.They have a more casual attitude towards life and will not be too demanding on themselves.They are more positive and optimistic, and also have a certain degree of aggressiveness. They can arrange work, study and life well, achieve a balance between work and rest, do their own things well in a relatively relaxed and comfortable atmosphere, and achieve certain achievements. .

4. Briefcase

Most of the selected bags are briefcases, which also explains the nature of the work of the bag owner from one side.They may be the bosses of a certain enterprise or institution. If they are ordinary employees, they are also in a more formal unit.Choosing a briefcase may be a need for work, but it can also reveal some personality characteristics.Most of these people are cautious and prudent in their work. They don't necessarily have to be serious, even if they are talking and laughing, they will be quite strict with others.Of course, they often have higher demands on themselves.

5. Handled, square, accessory bags

A square or rectangular handbag with small handles can sometimes be considered an accessory.The shape and volume of this handbag are relatively small, so it is not particularly convenient to use.People who love this style of handbags are mostly those who have not experienced any hardships.They are relatively fragile and vulnerable, and they are easy to compromise and give in when encountering setbacks.

6. Medium Shoulder Bag
People who like medium-sized shoulder-strap handbags are relatively independent in character, but they are relatively traditional and conservative in terms of words and deeds.They have a relatively free space, but it is not particularly large, the social circle is relatively narrow, and there are not many friends.

7. Small, delicate, impractical bags
Very small and exquisite, but impractical, and a handbag that can't hold much. Generally speaking, it should be the best choice for a relatively young girl who is not deeply involved in the world and is relatively simple.But if you have passed this age, entered adulthood, are very mature, and are still keen on such a choice, it means that this person has a very positive and optimistic attitude towards life, and is full of good expectations for the future.

8. Bags with ethnic customs and local characteristics

People who prefer small bags with strong national flavor and local characteristics have a strong sense of autonomy and are individualists.They have outstanding personalities and often have completely different clothes, ways of thinking, etc. from others.Sometimes it seems that they are out of tune with others, so it is difficult to create a better interpersonal relationship.

9. Oversized Tote
People who like oversized handbags have a free and unrestrained personality. It is easy for them to establish a special relationship with others, but once the relationship is established, it is also easy to break.This is also determined by their personality, because their attitude towards life is too loose and lacks the necessary sense of responsibility.Although they feel indifferent to themselves, it is not tolerated and accepted by everyone else.

10. Metal bags
People who like metal handbags are more sensitive and can quickly keep up with fashion trends. They are very receptive to new things.But this type of people, in many cases, they are not willing to give easily, but always hope that others can give.

11. Neutral color bag
People who like neutral-colored handbags don't have a strong desire to express themselves. They don't want to be noticed, and the purpose is to reduce stress.They have a muddled attitude in everything and are relatively lazy.In terms of dealing with others, I also like to maintain a relatively neutral position.

12. Masculine bag

People who like masculine purses (of course for women here) are generally strong, tough, capable, and tend to be extroverted.

13. Bag with lots of pockets

A handbag, but there are many pockets, you can put all kinds of things in the right place.People who choose such handbags show that their lives are very regular, and they can keep their minds clear most of the time, and they will not easily do confused things.

14. A bag that doubles as a shopping bag

People who use handbags as shopping bags are mostly people who want to find shortcuts and get things done in the shortest time with the least effort.They pay great attention to the efficiency of doing things, but they do things in a chaotic manner, without certain rules, and often they cannot get what they want.Their personalities are more friendly and easy-going, have good patience, and are satisfied with being self-sufficient.In their personalities, there are more emotional components than rational ones, and they tend to act emotionally.Independent ability is relatively strong, not used to relying on others.

15. Cluttered bags inside
The things in the bag are arranged in a mess, there is no rule, and if you want to find something, you need to pour out all the things in the bag. Such people can see that their life is messy and they follow the "doesn't matter" philosophy casual attitude.People of this type tend to be vague in their actions and their purpose is not clear, but they are usually more enthusiastic and kind to people.The disadvantage is that such people are generally not considerate, cautious enough, unreliable and meticulous in their work.

Because their attitude towards life is too casual and indifferent, it often leads to embarrassing situations for themselves.It is easier to get acquainted and associate with this type of person, but it is not difficult to separate.At work, it is difficult for highly conscientious individuals to cooperate with such individuals.

16. Put well-defined and orderly packages

All kinds of things in the bag are clearly arranged, and you can get what you want, which shows that the owner of the bag is a very principled person. They are very aggressive, serious and reliable, and treat others well More polite.Generally speaking, this kind of person is serious and reliable in work, has an organized life, is good at dealing with people, and has organizational skills.In addition, most of these people are self-confident, good at arranging their lives, have a high sense of responsibility for work, and have outstanding organizational skills.But the disadvantage is that most of them are serious and dull, and they will stick too much to certain details of life.

17. Everything inside the bag
Some people have everything in their handbags: glasses, mirrors, combs, jewelry boxes, nail clippers, phone numbers, contacts, toilet paper, needles, and so on.If the owner of this kind of bag is a woman, then she is often strict and serious in everything, good at dealing with practical problems, and careful in handling things.In addition, such people tend to be good at home, kind-hearted, considerate of people, and far-sighted.If the above-mentioned items are found in a man's handbag, it proves that he is too particular about details.

18. Get used to not carrying a bag

People who are not used to carrying handbags can have several personalities. It may be because they are lazy and feel that carrying a handbag is a burden and too much trouble.Another possibility is that they have a strong sense of autonomy and hope to be independent, and handbags will create some obstacles invisibly.In both cases, the handbag is regarded as a burden, which can show that this kind of person's sense of responsibility is not particularly strong, and they don't want to be responsible for anyone or anything.

§§§Section [-] Observing each other by watch

What a person thinks about time is largely determined by his personality, and what kind of influence time has on people is often conveyed through the watch he wears.There is an extraordinary relationship between the two.

There is a new type of electronic watch, as long as you press the key to display the time, red numbers will appear. If you don't press it, the surface will be pitch black and you can't see anything.People who like to wear this type of watch are probably a little different.They have a strong sense of independence and never want to be restricted and controlled by others, but are free and unrestrained to do what they want and are willing to do.They are good at hiding their true emotions, so ordinary people cannot easily approach them to understand them.In the eyes of others, they are very mysterious, and they themselves like this sense of mystery very much, and are willing to let others guess about themselves.

People who like LCD watches are more frugal in life and know how to plan carefully.Moreover, their thinking is relatively simple, and they are more enthusiastic about various things that are simple and convenient, but it is difficult for them to understand too abstract concepts.Most of them hold a more serious attitude in all aspects of life, and they don't appear to be particularly casual.

People who like to wear alarm clock watches, most of them have strict requirements on themselves, always tense their nerves, and refuse to relax for a moment.Although this type of people is not traditional and conservative, they are used to doing things according to certain rules and regulations. In the process of striving for success, everything is done in a quite direct and planned way.They have a sense of responsibility, and sometimes they deliberately cultivate and exercise their abilities in this area.In addition, they have certain organizational and leadership skills.

For people who wear watches with several time zones, they may be somewhat unrealistic.They have a certain degree of cleverness and wisdom, but everything is limited to imagination and will not be put into practice.Doing things often half-heartedly, this mountain looks at that mountain high.In the face of some responsibilities, we often face them in an evasive way.

People who wear classical gold watches are mostly people with development vision and long-term plans. They will never give up some more promising careers for the immediate benefits.They are thoughtful, flexible, and often have good foresight.Their ideological realm is relatively high, and they are very mature, and they can see everything clearly.Moreover, he has tolerance and endurance, and is very loyal. He can share joys and sorrows with family and friends, and share life and death together.They have strong willpower and never easily bow to some difficulties and pressures from the outside world.

People who like pocket watches have good control over time.Although their daily lives are busy, they are not slaves of time, but know how to relax and find happiness in the limited time.They are good at controlling and mastering themselves, have relatively strong adaptability, and can adjust their mentality well.Most of them have strong nostalgia and are willing to collect some things from the past.They speak and behave elegantly, which can show a certain degree of cultural accomplishment.They have strong romantic thoughts and often create some unexpected surprises.They are patient in dealing with others and value the friendship between people.

They like to wear wind-up watches. People of this type have a strong sense of independence.They are self-sufficient and insist on doing many things themselves.They are happy to do jobs that can see immediate results, such as doing a certain physical work.What they value most is the sense of accomplishment they have gained, but in the process, they don't want everything to be easily obtained, which instead loses meaning and value.They don't want to get too much care and love from others.

I like to wear watches without numbers. This type of people has a strong abstract idea. They are good at expressing ideas, and they don't want to say everything clearly.They are very concerned with the exercise and test of a person's intelligence, and they think that it is meaningless to say everything too clearly.They love to play puzzle games, and they are quite smart and intelligent in their own right.They don't seem to care much about practical things.

People who like to wear watches specially designed by designers for themselves are very concerned about their image and status in the eyes of others, and they can change themselves to cater to others.They often exaggerate and exaggerate things in order to prove and express themselves and attract the attention of others.

Most people who don't wear watches have relatively independent personalities. They will not be easily dominated by others, but only like to do what they want and are willing to do.They have a relatively strong ability to adapt to changing situations, can think of coping strategies in a timely manner, and are very happy to get acquainted and interact with people.

§§§ Section [-] Know the other party's psychology from the clothing
The FBI pointed out that clothing is a part of the human body, and it is difficult to separate from the wearer.This is called "extending the self" in psychology.According to this theory, you can analyze the other party's mental state through clothing.

1. Understand the psychology from the gorgeousness or simplicity of the clothes

People who like gorgeously dressed people generally mean that this person has a strong desire for self-display.

If the appearance of the gorgeous clothes exceeds the limit, it will become a fancy dress that is eye-catching.Generally speaking, people who like to wear this kind of clothes have a strong desire to show themselves, but they also often have a hysterical character, especially the desire for money.

The other kind of people dress plainly.This kind of person belongs to the system conformity type, and usually lacks the personality of subjectivity.However, some of them are very particular about the grooming of a certain part of the body, such as a tie, socks or shirt.Although this kind of people also belong to the type of conformity to the system, they are very able to insist on their own opinions in some aspects, and they are quite individual.

2. From the perspective of "coherent behavior" and "part dress" of clothing
The relationship between the popular phenomenon of clothing and the psychological activities of human beings is very close.The French Enlightenment thinker Portel once ridiculed popular clothing as "a half-hearted and annoying goddess".However, if someone is easily seduced by this "goddess", it can only show that he is too thoughtless.Generally speaking, women pay more attention to which clothing is currently popular in society, and they are more likely to change with the change of this fashion trend.This is a special hobby of women, which is called "coherent behavior" in psychology.However, at present, among men, there are many people who follow the fashion trend of clothing.This is a very striking phenomenon.Generally speaking, the personalities of these people belong to the system compliance.At the same time, it is also a manifestation of lack of confidence in yourself.

As for "part grooming", it refers to people paying special attention to grooming a certain part of their body.Some of the reasons why this kind of people are like this are to cover up some shortcomings or shortcomings in their physical appearance.For example, some women lack confidence in their appearance and suspect that they are not attractive to men, so they deliberately wear super miniskirts.And some men have obvious baldness, so they deliberately wear luxurious shoes and socks to make up for the defects on the top of their heads.Those who belong to this type are always obsessed with their own weaknesses, and regard them as mental burdens, which often reflect a kind of conflict and contradiction that is difficult to resolve.

3. Analyze the opponent's psychology through the sudden change of his clothing

A staff member usually wears a fixed-style suit.But one day, he suddenly changed into a smart jacket, bright trousers, and a tie of a completely different color, and his colleagues couldn't help asking curiously: "What's the matter with him today?" In terms of appearance or spirit, This kind of person must have received some kind of stimulation in his heart, causing some changes in his thinking and harboring some new hopes.

Some people will change their hobbies due to different situations, and even wear clothes that have not been selected at all, which is obviously caused by emotional disturbance.In other words, they intend to break away from monotonous work and hope to live a life rich in change.

(End of this chapter)