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Chapter 55 Interest dictates: Seeing through a person from his hobbies (1)
Interests and hobbies are restricted by society. People in different environments, different classes, different occupations, and different cultural levels have different interests and hobbies.Interests are not subject to interpersonal relationships like work and family life, they can be chosen freely, so they can better reflect a person's personality.In this chapter, FBI experts teach you how to identify a person's quality from a person's hobbies.

§§§The first section looks at character from reading preference

In the eyes of psychologists, reading can not only increase a person's knowledge and cultivation, but also reflect a person's personality and psychology to some extent.From the books a person likes to read, we can analyze his personality and psychology as follows:

1. People who like to read financial magazines
They don't like to be content with the status quo, unwilling to be lonely, and have the courage to advance despite difficulties. They are eager to win, unwilling to submit, and like to surpass others most; they advocate authority, long for honor, and strive to find opportunities for development. A brilliant stroke.

2. People who like to read fashion magazines

They pursue fashion, care about their appearance very much, take face into consideration, and try their best to change their image in the eyes of others in their daily life.They spend generously and take pleasure in mastering the latest clothing information and fashion trends to show their level and ability in this field; time and energy are spent on appearance, ignoring internal cultivation.

3. People who like to read romance novels

They pay great attention to emotion and can share joys and sorrows with the novel characters as the storyline develops.They have a strong insight into things, self-confidence and open-mindedness; they will soon regain their vitality and have the possibility of achieving career success.Most of these people are women.

4. People who like to read martial arts novels

They are full of fantasies, pursue romance, have a kind of repressed heroic complex deep in their hearts, and always hope that they can stand out; they are rich in emotion, sometimes too delicate, but they are not liked by women; Affects its attractive properties.People with this personality have more male friends.

5. People who like to read history books

Creative, practical, don't like nonsense, spend time on constructive work, hate meaningless social activities.They can learn something meaningful to their own lives from historical events; they have strong discernment skills and are deeply appreciated by those around them.

6. People who like to read biographies

With a strong curiosity, cautious, ambitious.They are good at weighing the pros and cons, taking overall care of the overall situation, not fighting unsure battles, and never overstepping the threshold if the conditions are not ripe.

7. People who like to read popular books
They like to read tabloids, periodicals and magazines.They are warm, kind, straightforward and cute, and good at using clever and humorous words to enliven the atmosphere.They have a very strong ability to collect and create, and they always come up with interesting topics, and they often become popular characters in the office or social occasions.

8. People who like to read comic books
Generally like games, childlike innocence, cheerful personality, easy to approach; unrestrained, like freedom, don't want to take life too complicated; do not take precautions against others, and often realize that they are so childish after being fooled by a disadvantage, can eat A cut, a wisdom.

9. People who like to read detective novels

I like to challenge ideological difficulties, full of fantasy and creativity, and have rich imagination; I am good at solving problems, and can analyze difficulties from different angles, try to solve them, advance despite difficulties, and like to challenge problems that others dare not touch.

10. People who like to read horror novels

The simple life makes them feel too boring, eager to activate their brain cells with excitement and adventure.They have a lazy personality and don't like to think, so it is difficult to get fun and joy from the surroundings. At the same time, they are not interested in the people around them, so they are not very social, and spend more time alone.

11. People who like to read science fiction

Full of fantasy and creativity, often confused and attracted by science and technology, likes to make plans for the future, but not practical, lacks the spirit of perseverance; always cheers for others, rarely builds his own brilliance, often lives in fantasy .

12. People who like to browse newspapers and news magazines (especially those who like to read current affairs articles)

Most of them are strong-willed realists who are good at accepting new ideas.

13. People who like to read the Bible

Honest and hardworking, he respects those in power and forgives others easily.

14. Women who like to read women's magazines

Self-motivated, eager to become a strong woman, hoping to perform well in everything.

§§§The second section looks at human nature from music preference

Many people have formed an indissoluble bond with music. Some of them regard music as their confidant and confide their deepest feelings to music; some people regard music as their lifelong ideal to pursue and persevere; , Borrow the shock of music to stimulate your vitality and motivation.We are also used to calling people who like the same music "confidantes". The so-called bosom friends are hard to find, which means that everyone likes different music, and the reason why bosom friends can know and cherish each other is that they have similar personalities and thoughts.It can be seen that by analyzing the types of favorite music, some personalities of people can also be glimpsed.

People who like symphony are full of confidence, full of ambition, and only think about the positive side in everything, so they can quickly get along with others, but blindly trusting others often leads to losses and losses; they like to show themselves, show their extraordinaryness everywhere, and hope that the upper class Being able to have a place for oneself has the disadvantage of being "not pragmatic".

People who like to listen to poignant songs are sentimental, kind-hearted, and considerate of others.Songs are like lighthouses in their life course, guiding them in the direction they are going. Music often plays a role in fueling the ups and downs in their lives.

People who like opera are traditionally conservative in thinking, easily emotional, and prone to extreme behavior.They are aware of their weakness, so they always try their best to control themselves to avoid unpleasantness.They have a strong sense of responsibility, are serious and responsible for their every move, strive to appear in front of the public with a perfect image, and demand perfection in everything.

People who like rock music are afraid of loneliness, can't stand loneliness, like to be active but not quiet, and love sports; cynical, dissatisfied with society, often unable to control themselves, and sometimes unpleasant things happen, but they don't care; I really like to show off everywhere, can attract attention, but can't leave a deep impression on people; I can use my hobbies as a strong guide, borrow the aura of a rock star to calm myself in the world, and find spiritual comfort; Likes groups and uses music as a tool to satisfy various desires.

People who like marching music stick to the rules, do not seek change, are satisfied with the status quo, strive for perfection, have high demands on themselves, and do not allow the slightest mistake in what they do, but the imperfections in reality often make them shake, disappoint and even bruise.

People who like country music are mature and experienced, and they will not easily do things that make them regret or harm their interests.Careful and sensitive, they like to pay attention to social issues and can breathe with the underprivileged who are being bullied.They pursue tranquility and ease, dislike the hustle and bustle of big cities, prefer to live a pastoral life completely controlled by nature, and spare no effort for it.

People who like percussion music are mostly straightforward, innocent, straightforward, full of hope for life, and carefully design their own future; Most people welcome.

People who like pop music belong to the ordinary type of drifting with the crowd. In the process of love and interpersonal communication, they stay away from complicated thoughts. Their family members or lovers will solve many problems in their lives for them. They are ready to be captured by emotions at any time; deep introspection and Strong feelings are the most unbearable, try to stay relaxed and at ease by listening to music.

People who like classical music are more rational, more introspective, and can restrain their emotions with reason; they can draw a lot of life insights from music, but they often end up alone, because few people can resonate with their thoughts and feelings.

People who love jazz have a large proportion of emotional elements in their personalities, and most of them like quiet and romantic nightlife. Many things are involved in a moment of enthusiasm, which is often divorced from objective reality.They don't like to be restrained, they do their own way, and they always have some absurd fantasies; they pursue novelty and hate the same, and the colorful nightlife often makes them linger; their life is too far from their ideals, and they often feel a kind of inexplicable fear and insoluble contradictions.But although they look bohemian, they are very caring and considerate to others, knowing that they are always considerate of others.

§§§The third section looks at each other from the perspective of travel preferences
Psychologists have found that the way people like to travel is inextricably linked to their potential personality. If you want to know the real personality of yourself or those around you, the following content will help you.

People who like to visit relatives and friends, pay attention to honesty and trustworthiness, and pay attention to emotional friendship, which has won them a very wide range of friendship and help; when visiting friends or relatives, they will get great happiness and satisfaction, because of the enthusiasm of others. Hospitality confirmed that their efforts were not in vain, that they were successful.

People who like the sea and the beach are conservative, traditional, and have serious concerns. They don't want to reveal their true feelings. It is their great wish to be alone in a room and enjoy their own space.Not keen on interpersonal communication, whether it is with friends or business partners; being a good parent because of a sense of responsibility, children will receive their great love and meticulous care.

People who like camping have a lot of conservative characters. They respect traditional ethics and act strictly in accordance with lofty moral standards. Every move will attract the attention of the public. They have high moral quality; Asylum and restraint; rich imagination, able to turn ordinary into magic, has a practical outlook on life; treats others neither humble nor overbearing, and has a clear way of communication.

People who like natural scenery pursue unrestrained and longing for ease and comfort. Restricted life and unchanging work often make them miserable. They hope that the work in front of them will be replaced by pleasant scenery immediately; With a rich imagination, it is their lifelong desire to pursue new ideas or new things in life, and they can take responsibility for their own lives.

People who like outdoor activities do not like indoor activities, but the vast external space does not stimulate their creativity and novel imagination; their pursuits and efforts are pre-designed by others, and they only get sweaty pleasure ; They are energetic, dare to meet various challenges, can take their words and deeds seriously, and usually get good returns.

People who like to travel abroad are more fashionable and stand at the forefront of the trend of the times; they like to seek change, have deep affection for new things, and are full of confidence in life; they are optimistic, and the pressure in life often disappears in the midst of talking and laughing , I always live a chic life, and I can almost do whatever I want.

§§§The fourth section sees human nature from the type of drinking you like

Drinking is the most common way for people to socialize in social situations. It is a better way for people to communicate and connect with each other and solve problems.

According to the American Psychologist, binge drinkers often have a desire to change themselves.The reason why these people drink is to change their character into their ideal pattern.In other words, keep drinking until you feel like you've become a character you're happy with.Therefore, it is not drinking because of good wine, but the desire to change is at work.

People with this kind of drinking psychology will prefer the wine if they find the wine that can satisfy their psychology the most.In fact, it is not the difference in the taste of the wine, but mostly due to the psychological influence.A man who particularly likes a certain kind of wine is very different from ordinary people in character and has special wishes or desires.

Although the relationship between wine varieties and personality has not yet been fully investigated or studied, the following general analysis can be made:
1. A whiskey drinker
This kind of person is adaptable and can fully adopt the opinions of others.The desire to get ahead is very strong, eager to make a lot of money from it or to look forward to the approval of your superiors as long as you have the opportunity.Treat women with great importance to etiquette and show kindness.expresses his thoughts clearly.However, there are naturally differences in different drinking methods.

People who like to drink diluted whiskey.This is the most common male character, eager to fully convey his ideas to the other party, and he is very adaptable.

People who like to drink with ice cubes.Inability to express oneself with words or expressions exactly.Observe the situation around you carefully and be easily swayed by the opinions of others.However, in the company, it is usually smooth sailing.I usually hide my feelings.

People who like to drink straight whiskey.Masculine, adventurous, hated to be bound by form, rebellious to powerful forces.Creative, original, and righteous.On the outside, he shows a cold attitude towards women, but on the inside he is gentle.

2. People who like to drink liquor

Some people prefer strong baijiu. If there is no baijiu on the table, it will be boring. People who like baijiu generally like to socialize and be generous.He is especially kind to women, and doesn't care even if he fails.In the company or workplace, he is deeply loved by his subordinates because he takes care of them, but it is difficult to get the approval of his superiors.Excellent ability in chaotic situations.Most of these men are willing to dedicate their efforts to those who have great expectations for their abilities in order to identify with themselves. Although they fail many times, they will eventually achieve great achievements.

3. People who like to drink foreign wine

Now, more and more people drink foreign wine, and there are displays of foreign wine everywhere in the store.Men who must have foreign wine with meals, or must drink foreign wine on dates, are very individual.Most of these men pursue a luxurious life, like to engage in brilliant work, and are picky about clothing and other aspects.Many of them have experience living abroad, while others are trendy.

4. People who like to drink cocktails
Cocktail drinkers who like a little sweetness are not so much drinking cocktails as enjoying the atmosphere, or eager to talk to women.If spicy rather than flavored cocktails (such as martinis), it is a sign of masculinity, full of personality and talents at work, trustworthy, responsible and measured.Those who persuade women to drink sweet cocktails are men who do not like alcohol, or are eager to invite women to enjoy the atmosphere of drinking, or hope to use alcohol to ease their emotions.If you persuade women to drink high-alcohol or special cocktails, you are secretly expecting to use alcohol, so that women cannot make calm judgments.A man who persuades a woman to drink a cocktail before dancing usually hopes to have a deeper relationship with the woman.

5. People who like to drink beer

According to the survey of the American Social Survey Institute, drinking beer is a sign of a relaxed and happy mood, and a desire to be liberated from a depressing environment.

Men who drink beer on a date usually want to express their rawest, most natural selves.If you persuade a woman in the same company to drink beer, you are hoping that the other party has the same mood as yourself, or you are looking forward to a pleasant conversation.Neither artificial nor vain, can be called a safe type.

If you drink the specified brand of beer, you should be wary of such men.Some people want to express personal characteristics on the brand of beer.In fact, the taste of beer of each brand is almost the same, and the special designated brand is only a psychological effect.

People who buy foreign beer are similar to those who like foreign beer: men who especially like German beer just want to show women that they are different from ordinary men.Men who like dark beer usually yearn for a strong body.

§§§Section [-] The way of movement is different from the taste of seeing people
If a person chooses a certain kind of exercise, then the health regimen he chooses reveals his physical and mental needs and shows his personality.

(End of this chapter)