On the correct posture for farming in the last days

Chapter 63 Negotiations
"It's okay, I'll ask next time." Liu Ya laughed.

Xiao Chen reckoned that the current Civil Affairs Bureau would definitely not be open.

But still can find a way.

Besides, in today's world, marriage certificates are just for peace of mind, it doesn't matter if you have them or not.

He just regrets, in fact, he has thought about many details of the wedding.

It's just that they didn't have time to realize it. Before, they said that they would wait until Ya Ya had enough fun before getting married, but now they have no chance.

"In today's society, you always have to obtain a certificate to have a baby." Zhou Zhigao said.

After Xiao Chen and Liu Ya looked at each other in blank dismay, Liu Ya's eyes signaled: Do you want to talk?

Xiao Chen rubbed his nose: "Well, Dad...Mom... Let's talk about this matter?"

The couple also looked at each other, and the four of them washed their hands and sat in the warm room to talk.Zhou Jing listened.

Liu Ya also considered for a while whether to pour tea or something, but after thinking about her parents getting angry and maybe smashing it, she decided not to.

"It's just... We confirmed each other when we were together, and we don't like children."

Zhou Zhigao didn't speak, but Ma Fen hesitated to speak.

"The two of us have discussed before that we won't have children for the time being after we get married. Let's wait until we are 40 years old." Xiao Chen said.

"Nonsense, can you still live at forty?" Ma Fen frowned.

"So we decided to go to the freezer after we got married... Anyway, it is possible to do it with the current technology. But it is definitely not possible now. I discussed it with Ya Ya some time ago, and we unanimously decided that we should not have children, at least not It will give birth by itself." Xiao Chen said.

Zhou Zhigao frowned, Lao Gao: "Why?"

It looks like you're going to die if you don't give a good reason.

Xiao Chen smiled: "First of all, the two of us still don't like children."

Ma Fen frowned: "I like children when they are born! Who likes children when they have nothing to do?"

"Mom." Liu Ya called out, "We won't do things we don't like to do."

"Nonsense, if you don't have children, who will care about you when you get old?" Ma Fen became excited.

"The second reason is that the current situation is not suitable for raising a child." Xiao Chen said: "It is not enough to raise a child. Now that there are no schools, what should I do if I have a child? Even if it is not so far away, Children are very fragile, what should we do if we are sick? With such a temperature, children cannot be sent to the hospital when they are sick. Even if they can be sent, what can the hospital do if there is no electricity everywhere?"

"Third, even if these can be overcome, but in this case, if Yaya is pregnant and has a baby, parents, won't you be worried? I won't agree." Xiao Chen stopped laughing.

He has been at Liu Ya's house for a whole winter, and he has always been easy to talk, and his parents can say anything.

This was the first time he was so serious about his family.

Zhou Jing subconsciously sat up straight.

Speaking of this, Ma Fen was not so intense.

"For so many years, women don't always want to have children. Our food is also good..."

"Mom, Ya Ya doesn't like children, and being pregnant and having children, you should know how much damage to a woman's body. We don't like it, so why bother to force ourselves for those unimportant things?" Xiao Chen said.

"But... After all, you have to have children, what should you do when you get old?" Ma Fen frowned.

"I think there are many people who think like us, and there will always be a way out. Besides, after having a child, there is no guarantee that you will have a good life when you get old. Social order will slowly restore. At that time, there will be a way out." It doesn't matter if you don't have kids."

"Mom and Dad, in the current situation, do you really dare to watch Yaya get pregnant and have a baby?"

Ma Fen stopped talking, she was Liu Ya's own mother, and naturally she loved her daughter more than the grandson who didn't know where she was.

But not having children, this is too shocking.

"Without children, can the two of you survive?" Zhou Zhigao asked suddenly.

"Dad, won't you get divorced if you have children?" Liu Ya smiled: "My mother and the Liu family... there are many divorces in the village, right? We'll make do together."

"Look at what this is saying!" Mafen sighed.

"For a girl, I agree. I'm afraid that you will regret it. When you get older, you will regret it, and you will not be able to give birth if you want to." Zhou Zhigao said.

"At that time, we could adopt. Actually, although we don't like children, we will stabilize in a few years, and maybe we will adopt children if we have the opportunity. There are more orphans now. But this is all for the future. Parents, don't worry, It's the same without children." Liu Ya said.

"Can the adopted child kiss you?" Ma Fen frowned.

"Then do you think Dad treats me badly? Am I not close to Dad?" Liu Ya looked at her and said, "I haven't changed my surname. Mom, you have had another child. According to your thinking, I am not my father's biological child." Yes, you and my father have no biological children."

"You child, if I say a word, you block me with ten words. Isn't it impossible for me to give birth?" Ma Fen stared.

"I don't like you, I'm just being reasonable." Liu Ya hugged her arm: "Mom, I love you."

Zhou Zhigao sighed: "Let's go, my father and I are going to work."

This is the meaning of telling Liu Ya and his wife to talk.

Xiao Chen just smiled and followed out.

The three mothers were left in the house.

"Sister, Dink? It's so cool, I don't like children either." Zhou Jing became excited.

"Nonsense! Everything is good when you are young, but what about when you are old?" Ma Fen frowned.

"Mom, you can control you if you give birth to me, but what if you give birth to Mao Feng? Don't say it's impossible, we both don't like children, can we do a good job in educating children? Besides, being a parent If you don’t like children, it’s fair to ask them to come to this world?”

"I can't say no to you, but is there anyone who doesn't have children?" Ma Fen sighed: "You are stupid in studying. Let me ask you, even if we all promise you not to have children..."

She paused, and then said: "Xiao Chen is not from here, the situation will get better in the future, you two have no bond, why is he leaving?"

"Mom, you just think in your bones that I can't live without a man. Before Xiao Chen came, I didn't have a good life?" Liu Ya shook her head: "Besides, having a child can stop people from wanting to leave? Where? At that time, even if he reluctantly stayed, we lived well? This is not the old society, mother. Breaking up and divorce are normal."

"I didn't do it for you?" Ma Fen's eyes were red: "I gave birth to you, and I have been in Changxing Village for more than ten years... Fortunately, I met your grandparents who are enlightened, and your father is kind..."

"Yeah, you've met them all, why can't I? It's not that there are no boys in our village. It's not that there are no brothers and children. Why don't you want them?"

"I studied. When I was in high school, it was the best high school in the county. I didn't miss anything. Yes, when I was in junior high school, the villagers persuaded me to study in Jiangjiazhuang. It's cheaper. Why do you have to send me to the county?"

(End of this chapter)