Life never takes anyone lightly

Chapter 15 One day you will become who you like (1)
1. A bright future has already happened
One should not be at the mercy of fate.There are many poor people in the world. Although they come from humble beginnings, they can do great things.

Fulton invented a small propulsion engine and became a famous engineer in the United States; Faraday became a famous chemist in Britain only with a few bottles of medicine in the pharmacy; Whitney relied on a few tools in a small shop He turned out to be the inventor of the textile machine; Hewei invented the sewing machine by relying on a few sewing needles and shuttles;

One of the most moving and tear-jerking stories in American history is the miracle of personal success through struggle, men and women who set great goals and endured despite the most difficult obstacles in the way He continued to face the suffering with tenacity, and finally overcame all difficulties and achieved success.There are many people who are in a very mediocre position, but they can rely on their indomitable will and hard-working spirit, and finally rank among the leaders of social celebrities.

Looking at those losers, their excuse is always: "I don't have a chance!" They often say that the reason why they fail is because of lack of opportunities, because they don't have Bole's insight, and they don't have the favor of Goddess of Fortune. , can't wait for them to compete.

But people with will will never make such an excuse. They do not wait for opportunities, nor do they beg their relatives and friends, but rely on their own hard work to create opportunities.They know that only they can create opportunities for themselves.

After a victory in a battle, someone asked Alexander whether he would wait for the opportunity to attack another city. Hearing this, Alexander was furious. He said, "Opportunities? Opportunities are created by ourselves!" This is what made Alexander great.Therefore, only those who create opportunities can establish vigorous achievements.

It is extremely dangerous if a person always has to wait for an opportunity to do something.All efforts and aspirations may be in vain because of waiting for an opportunity, and that opportunity will be like a mirror, never available.

Some people think that opportunity is the key to open the door to success, and once you have an opportunity, you will be able to secure success and move towards success, but this is not the case.No matter what you do, if you have the opportunity, you need unremitting efforts, so that you have the hope of success.

In social life, there are a large number of unemployed people everywhere. On the surface, it seems that the society has insufficient demand for labor force.But in fact, many employers still have many vacancies.Advertisements of "recruitment of employees" are still posted at the entrances of many enterprises.Of course, companies are hiring people who are better trained, better managers and leaders—the business world demands people with more complete personalities.

Sometimes, people tend to take the career they want to do too far.In fact, as long as the greatest career starts from the simplest work and advances step by step, it can reach the peak of the career.

If young people read Lincoln's biography and understand his childhood circumstances and later achievements, how would they feel?He lived in an extremely rough hut with neither windows nor floors. From our point of view today, he seems to be living in the wilderness, very far from the school, with no newspapers and books to read, and even less life. All the necessities on board.However, under such circumstances, he trekked twenty or thirty miles a day to attend classes in a poor and shabby school; for his own education, he had to run one or two hundred miles to borrow a few books, and at night he had to burn firewood to make money. read by the faint firelight.Lincoln received only one year of school education, and was in a very difficult environment. He was able to rely on his own efforts to become one of the greatest presidents in American history and a perfect model figure in the world.

Great success and performance will always belong to those who are full of fighting spirit, not those who blindly wait for opportunities.People should keep in mind that the bright future has already happened and the opportunity is here.If you think that the opportunity for personal development lies elsewhere, in other people, then you will definitely fail.Opportunity is actually contained in the personality of each person, just as the future oak is contained in the fruit of the oak.

If it was just "I have no chance", how could this kid who grew up in a hut in a remote country end up in the White House and become a great American president?However, those children who grew up in an environment with libraries and schools in the same era were not as successful as the poor children in the hut. How can this be explained?Look at those children who were born in the slums, didn't some of them become big bankers, big financiers, and big businessmen?Aren't many of those big stores and factories founded by the children who "have no chance" by their own efforts?
Therefore, "I don't have a chance" is just an excuse for losers, while great people always start from the present, one step at a time.Their bright future is already doomed.

2. Happiness is the nutrient solution that nourishes the heart
A truly great man can often dominate his temperament and rule his heart.A man with a chemical mind—that is, a man who is good at managing his emotions can eliminate worry and boredom, just as a chemist neutralizes acid with alkali.

People who don't know chemistry don't know the principle of neutralization. Misdissolving in other acidic liquids will not only fail to neutralize the medicine, but will make the medicine more potent.Chemists are well aware of the effects of various acids, and their effects when dissolved in other compounds.

Therefore, a person with a chemical mind knows that the antidote of happiness can eliminate depressive thoughts and gloomy thoughts; that pessimistic thoughts can be eliminated by optimistic thoughts; Eliminate hateful thoughts.He knows all kinds of ways to manage his emotions, so he won't suffer all kinds of pain in his mind.

Many people have no way to eliminate all kinds of depression and troubles in their minds, because they don't know the chemical principles of the mind.Anyone will face spiritual distress, but when a period comes, people should guide themselves with the power of reason, and use appropriate disinfectants to relieve all kinds of spiritual distress.

When the mind is full of pessimistic, extreme, and hateful thoughts, as long as you immediately turn to the opposite thoughts, you will generate optimistic, harmonious, and friendly thoughts. This is like turning on the faucet of a cold water pipe, and the boiling water will immediately reduce the temperature.

People should be able to adjust their thoughts like adjusting the temperature of water. When the water is too hot, they should turn on the faucet of the cold water pipe.If when the anger is in full swing, we should immediately turn to the thoughts of friendship and peace, then the anger will naturally disappear.Where there is loving thought, hatred cannot exist.With the idea of ​​loving your neighbor as yourself, you will eliminate the evil thoughts of jealousy and revenge.

Most people don't know how to replace evil thoughts with good and beautiful thoughts. They think that it is enough to expel evil thoughts. However, what they don't know is that it will be more effective to expel evil thoughts with true, good and beautiful thoughts.People cannot drive out the darkness in the house, but as long as the light is allowed in, the darkness will disappear naturally.

Many people think that thoughts only affect the brain nerves, but this is not the case at all.Physiologists have found that the fingers of blind people have skilled nerves. Many blind people have an amazing skill, such as the ability to distinguish the fineness of fabrics, and even the shades of colors. This is enough to prove that thinking is not limited to the brain.

The human body is composed of 12 different types of cells, such as brain cells, bone cells, muscle cells, etc. A person's health depends entirely on the health of various cells.Countless cells in the body are closely related, what is harmful to one cell is harmful to the cells of the whole body, and what is beneficial to one cell is also beneficial to the cells of the whole body.Whether each cell is healthy or not, alive or dead, has a very close relationship with people's thoughts.

Experiments by physiologists have shown that all evil thoughts damage the cells of the human body.Damage to the nervous system caused by irritation can sometimes take weeks to recover.Numerous experiments have proved that all healthy, joyful, harmonious, and friendly thoughts are beneficial to the cells of the whole body and are beneficial to enhancing the vitality of the cells.As for the opposite thoughts, such as extremes, despair, sadness, etc., they all damage the vitality of cells.

Professor Coase once conducted an experiment to prove that anger and depression affect the harmony of the body; while joyful emotions have the power to nourish and regenerate cells.

Professor Coase said: "Bad emotions have a considerable chemical effect on the muscles of the human body. Good emotions have an overall beneficial impact on life. Every thought in the brain nerves is changed by the organization of cells, and this The changes are permanent."

As for water, there is no pollution that cannot be purified by chemical means.In the same way, there is no dirty and mean thought that cannot be purged by healthy and correct thoughts.Extremism, pessimism, and disharmony are all symptoms of thought, and only true, happy, and optimistic thoughts can increase the value of life.Once a man has healthy thoughts, there is no room for unhealthy thoughts, because healthy thoughts and unhealthy thoughts are irreconcilable.

3. Health is the greatest capital in life
Who can calculate the total amount of harm and loss caused by unhealthy body and mind to individuals and society?
Health is the most important source of vitality.

If a person does not have health, he will definitely feel that his interest in life will be dull, his work efficiency will drop sharply, and his life will therefore be dim.Therefore, if a person has a healthy mind and a healthy body, this in itself is a great happiness.

Some young people who have received higher education have knowledge and talent, but unfortunately because of their health, they have lofty aspirations and ambitions, but they cannot turn them into reality after all.

In this world, there are countless people who live a depressing life because of their weak bodies, because they feel that even though they have a lot of knowledge and great strategy, they can't show it because of their bodies.

It is a great tragedy that such talents cannot be used!The most disappointing thing in a person's life is the unrewarding of ambition.It is the most painful thing in life to have great ambitions but not be able to realize them due to lack of physical conditions.

The main reason why many people are slaves to the body, and thus endure the pain of unrewarding ambition, is mainly because they did not know how to maintain their body and mind to make them healthy in the first place.Therefore, everyone must know how to make their body and mind healthy.

If a person concentrates all his energy on his duties and work, rarely rests and entertains, and rarely changes the content and environment of work, or even never changes, then his thoughts often have no chance to be active.A man who is dull and unchanging, and who has few games and amusements, is apt to feel dull and bored about his occupation.Therefore, a person who immerses himself in work all day and lacks entertainment in his life will tend to age prematurely in his career.The lack of change and adjustment in work and life is also the biggest reason for premature aging or even withering of talents.

Those who work hard for years and have no time to talk to old friends are often not the ones who achieve great things.

I know a successful businessman who is the general manager of a company, but his office hours are only two or three hours a day.He often travels to enrich his thoughts.He clearly realized that only by maintaining a healthy body can he cope with work with the greatest strength.Later, the businessman made a great career.When he was working, he was full of energy, extremely efficient, and rarely made mistakes, so the efficiency of his two- to three-hour work exceeded the average person's eight- or nine-hour work.

A prudent human body stores great energy, which can resist the invasion of various diseases.But if a man has exhausted all his physical strength and energy, then when an accident happens, he is powerless to resist, so he has no choice but to catch it.

"Work and no play makes Jack a stupid boy." This is a popular adage in the United States.

Human beings are naturally fond of games and entertainment, so games and entertainment are really an indispensable part of people's lives.However, many employers nowadays force their employees to immerse themselves in work all day long. They don't understand that proper games and entertainment can enable employees to obtain a healthier body, which in turn can improve work efficiency and effectiveness.

Many people think that they may be able to get away with the rules of nature, so they break all the rules of health, such as two or three days of work in one day, two or three days of food in one meal, they still It is naive to think that breaking the laws of biology can be remedied by medical methods.This kind of thinking and practice is extremely stupid!
There are also many people who live the extreme opposite, abusing their bodies while calling in doctors.As a result, stomach problems, insomnia, madness, neurasthenia and other diseases were finally unavoidable.

The sufficiency of a person's mental power depends entirely on the strength of his body.A man in good health has more talent and efficiency than ten weaklings, so what is needed is a healthy mind and body, and a temperate life.

4. Willpower is above all else

To turn water into steam, it must be boiled to 212°F.Water cannot be turned into steam at 200° Fahrenheit, and still cannot be heated to 210° Fahrenheit.And only after the water is boiled can steam come out, can the engine be started, and the train can get the power to move forward.Warm water is not going to push anything.

Many people want to use lukewarm water or boiling water to push the train, however, they will be surprised, why the train keeps standing still?

Just as warm water cannot move a train, if you treat your work with a cold attitude, you will never achieve anything, and you will not be able to move the train of life.

Everyone should have strong willpower, and should also have the ability to make willpower tend to be firm.Without this power, a train propelled by the vapor of such water would just stand still, like water that never reaches its boiling point.

A person with strong willpower has the power to create.

No matter what you do, you must have a strong will, and you can only succeed in anything if you put in a lot of effort.

The success or failure of a person's life depends mostly on the strength of willpower.A person with strong willpower can overcome any difficulties and obstacles, eliminate obstacles, and succeed in success.But a weak-willed person will only retreat when he encounters setbacks, and finally fails.

There are many young people in life who hope to make progress, but are weak-willed, do not have strong determination, do not hold the belief of breaking the boat, and retreat immediately when they encounter setbacks, so they fail in the end.

Ask yourself, what attitude do you use to deal with difficulties?Do you feel panic or fear when difficulties come your way?Are you hesitating or avoiding it?When faced with difficulties, do you have an attitude of evasion?Do you think "if I can do it, I will do it", or do you approach it with a "try it" attitude?
In fact, human willpower has great power. It can overcome all difficulties. No matter how long it takes and how much it costs, the invincible willpower can eventually help people achieve their goals of success.

A man who can control his willpower has great power to move society.This great power can fulfill his expectations and achieve his goals.If a person's willpower is as strong as a diamond, and he uses this willpower to guide himself towards his goal, then all the difficulties he faces will be easily solved.

Lofty goals are often a strong spiritual support for a person, which can save young people from all kinds of temptations and temptations, and prevent them from sinking into the abyss of sin.

(End of this chapter)