Life never takes anyone lightly

Chapter 18 One day you will become who you like (4)
Let me ask you, if a person doesn't even want his own character, what value is there in his life?If a person violates the good nature of human beings, let alone coveting fame and fortune, he can do all kinds of ugly behaviors.

11. Physical strength and energy are the two sources of human life
The success of a person's career is measured not by how much he deposits in the bank, but by how he uses all the capital in his body and his ability to do things.

A person who is weak in body, or weak in energy through alcohol and tobacco, has much less chance of success than someone who is strong in body and vigorous in spirit.

Any calm person, persistent person, and promising person will maintain all the strengths they have, whether it is physical or spiritual, and they will never easily consume the most precious assets in life.

Everyone should regard any form of useless energy consumption and the slightest useless energy damage as an unforgivable waste, or even an unforgivable crime.

Physical strength and energy are the capital of our success in life, and we should prevent the ineffective consumption of this successful capital.It is necessary to gather all the energy and make the most economical and effective use of physical strength and energy.

If a person can always display his talents in the most energetic state, then he will naturally have great results when doing things.

When a person is working, if he cannot give full play to his outstanding talents, then the possibility of his success is naturally much smaller.

In work, the poorest people are those who start work in the morning with a sluggish, lifeless spirit.What kind of work does such a person get excellent results?

In work, the most ideal state is to be able to do one's job and work happily, so that people will not feel the difficulty and pain of work.When taking over the work, you should maintain a strong interest in the work and the determination to win, so that you will be full of energy when you work.An hour's work with a strong body and a lot of energy is more productive than a day's work with a weak body.

It is quite impossible for a man to attain high status with an unhealthy physique or untrained talents.But what is even more sad is that some originally bright and talented young people buried their talents because they didn't know how to make good use of them, and spent their lives in mediocrity.

For those who want to achieve a great career, the body is the greatest capital.The secret of personal success is buried in your mind, nerves, muscles, ambition, and determination.

As a person, physical strength and intelligence are the most important things, because physical strength and intelligence determine a person's mental state, vitality and ability to do things.

Some people expend more energy outside of working hours than they do at work.If someone reminds them and admonishes them, they may still get angry.In their view, only physical exertion can damage the spirit, but they do not know that energy is also consumed in various ways, such as worry, anger, fear, and various other bad thoughts.

In addition, bringing work to home and using the time when you should rest to work is actually a waste of energy.

What is the use of a man's abundant physical and mental strength, that is, a great capital for success, if he does not use it rationally?

No matter what you do, you can't have weaknesses, because a small weakness may be enough to destroy your entire career and future.For example, any kind of disorderly behavior or wrong behavior may open a loophole in the treasure house of your life capital, causing your life capital to flow away silently.

Nature is ruthless, even if you are a king, if you violate the laws of nature, you will be punished.In the eyes of nature, there is no distinction between kings and beggars. She will not accept any excuses or prevarications. She requires people to maintain a vigorous state and work hard.

In work, the most ideal state is to be able to do one's job and work happily, so that people will not feel the difficulty and pain of work.

12. Having a clear mind is more important than having a smart mind

In any environment and under any circumstances, people must keep a clear mind and maintain correct judgment.When others are panicked and helpless, they still keep calm; when others are doing ridiculous things, they still maintain correct judgment. Such talents are truly outstanding people.

A man who is easily flustered, and is at a loss when accidents happen, must be a coward.Once such a person encounters major difficulties, he is not good enough to deliver important tasks.Only those who are not disturbed or flustered in unexpected situations can take on major events.

In many organizations, it is common for an employee with mediocre ability and low performance to hold an important position, and his colleagues are surprised.They do not know, however, that employers, in selecting persons for important positions, look not only to merit, but also to clarity of mind, goodness of temper, and soundness of judgment.Because the employer knows very well that the steady development of his enterprise depends entirely on the calmness and good judgment of the employees.

A big man with a calm mind will not be shaken by a change of situation.Financial losses, career failures, and hardships cannot make him lose his normalcy, because he is a person with a calm mind and a firm belief.Similarly, the prosperity and success in his career will not make him arrogant and frivolous, because the foundation of his life is solid.

In any case, you should be prepared before doing things, be down-to-earth, and plan ahead.Otherwise, when encountering difficulties, they will panic.

When everyone else is flustered and you can stay calm, you have great power, you have a great advantage.

In society, only those who are calm in dealing with things and do not panic no matter what storms they encounter can cope with and achieve great things.And those who are emotionally unstable, often shaken, lack self-confidence, turn around when crises come, and lose their minds when encountering difficulties can only lead a mediocre life.

The icebergs in the ocean, which are not capsized by violent storms under any circumstances, are our perfect example.No matter how violent the wind and waves are, how rough the waves are, the iceberg standing in the ocean remains motionless, as if it has not been hit by the waves.Why is this?It turns out that 7/8 of the iceberg's huge volume is hidden under the sea level, firmly and firmly rooted in the deep sea, so that it cannot be shaken by the impact force of the waves on the water surface.Since the iceberg has a huge volume at the bottom of the water, it is not surprising that the iceberg will not move when the violent wind and waves hit the tip of the iceberg on the water.

Balance and calmness of mind are the result of harmony of mind.A person with extreme thinking and one-sided development, even if he has a special talent in a certain aspect, is not as good as a harmonious mind.One-sided development of the mind is like a tree being sucked out of its nourishment by one branch. While that branch is well developed, the rest of the tree is dying day by day.

What made Webster such an influential figure in the bar and in the Senate was his poise and poise.A calm mind and a clear head helped Webster a lot in his life.

Many brilliant men do unreasonable things, because of poor judgment, which sometimes hinders their careers in life, making their careers like crooked rivers, unable to flow far into the sea.

Once a man has a reputation for being unclear of mind and of sound judgment, he often goes through his life without making any progress in his career because he cannot win the confidence of other people.

If you want to be a person who can be trusted by others, if you want others to think that you have a calm mind and good judgment, then you must strive to handle everything properly and calmly.

However, when many people do things, especially trivial things, they are often perfunctory.They should have done better, but they are casual, which reduces the possibility of them being calm characters.There are also many people who encounter difficulties, often do not make careful judgments, but always seek convenience and rush things, so that the difficulties cannot be resolved satisfactorily.

If you can often force yourself to do what you think you should do, and to do it to the best of your ability, without being restrained by your own inertia for ease, your character and judgment will be greatly improved, and you will naturally do for yourself. It is recognized by people as a person with "clear mind and accurate judgment".

13. Common sense, knowledge, health and credit are indispensable

Young people who have just stepped into society must have a capital if they want to achieve something. So what kind of capital do young people have?That is: common sense, learning, health and credit.

Inventor Edison said: "Expert knowledge is only half as useful as common sense."

It is true that a person can be proud of his deep attainments in specialized knowledge, but they are often far inferior to those with rich practical experience and common sense in dealing with various practical difficulties.Experts may have their great ideals, and geniuses can often discover truth from nature, but if they lack common sense, what use are their ideals and discoveries for people's actual life?

There is a German saying that goes well: "When you look up at the starry sky, please don't forget the candles in the house."

However, nowadays there are still many people who ignore the role of common sense, thinking that common sense is not important, because these people usually do not pay attention to mastering common sense, so they will mess things up due to lack of common sense, but they still do not reflect on it, but think it is their own luck Not good.With such an idea they will never improve, in fact, all their mistakes and failures are their own making.

In addition to common sense, a person must have all kinds of exquisite skills.

Around us, countless young people are trying to find opportunities for success. If a person has no expertise, even if he holds a college degree and has a bunch of rich and powerful relatives and friends, it is still useless.If you really want to get good development opportunities, it is best to rely on your own strength. It is unreliable to rely on others for everything.

In short, you should try your best to develop your abilities and accumulate all kinds of knowledge, experience and skills.Although you don't have much money and wealth yet, the wealth in your body and brain must be very sufficient.That way, even in the event of a recession or misfortune, you won't be a total failure, but will ride out it.

From now on, you'll be working to increase your inner wealth -- your health, your drive, your pleasant attitude, and your integrity.

Whether you have real talents or not, others can see it from many aspects, such as your eyes, your conversation, your work performance, your sincerity in things, etc.If you are extra rich in your heart, you will be like a blooming rose, attracting everyone around you and everyone who walks by you, making them feel your beauty immediately.

Many people want to succeed as soon as they step into society, and they don't hesitate to bet all their capital. This is really a terrible thing.When a person does things, he must take into account the needs of the future. Young people must not over-exhaust their energy and physical strength.

There is a group of young people who are very rich in their hearts, but they don’t use this inner wealth for serious things. Some people even waste their talents day and night, even if they have good opportunities, they easily miss them. This approach is simply reckless.What's even more tragic is that they even sacrificed their reputation, sanity, and the most important success factor-personality.

A lively, amiable person will be welcomed by people everywhere.Anyone who associates with him feels relaxed and happy.Once a person has this kind of personality, he will virtually add infinite resources to himself.

Do you want others to know how much savings you have?Do you want others to know how many stocks and real estate you own?These thoughts are really boring.

As long as a person has good character and credit, people will pay attention to you all the time.Personality is your best cover letter, and your future depends on this cover letter.

People with a strong personality are the richest people in the world. Compared with a rich man with a good reputation, a millionaire is like heaven and earth.A person who gets rich through evil means will even feel ashamed in front of a kind and honest poor man; a rich man who has made a fortune without learning and skills will be ashamed to death in front of a learned man.Families and schools should conscientiously warn young people to let them understand the great value of personality, otherwise, education will fail to fulfill its duties, and it will cause immeasurable losses to individuals and society.

We should use our time and energy to earn wealth that benefits both ourselves and others.As long as you are kind, loyal, and open, you will be genuinely welcome no matter what you look like.Human beings have judgment, and when we meet someone of high character, sincerity, and love, we don't need introductions, and admiration arises spontaneously.This miraculous power of a great personality is enough to influence all men.

When we first stepped into society, we should aspire to cultivate a great personality, so that it can illuminate all directions like a lighthouse.Our usual words and deeds must also be based on correct judgment, and we must be gentle and moderate. Only in this way can we reach the other side of success.As soon as they step into the society, they spend all day in the money hole full of money, hoping to make a fortune. This is a big taboo for young people.

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