Life never takes anyone lightly

Chapter 3 Don't be afraid of being blocked by tens of thousands of people, only afraid of surrendering yourself (2)
Give every young person a fair chance, a fair encouragement, and don't accuse them of minor mistakes or even stupidity.Because a lot of stupid people who used to be called good for nothing were just in the wrong place, like fat boys stuffed into square holes.

Wellington had been taken for a fool by his own mother.At Eton College, Wellington was regarded as slow and lazy in the eyes of everyone, and even the least expected one among the students in the school.There was no talent in him, and he had no intention of joining the army.In the eyes of his parents and teachers, his diligence and hard work are the only character traits he can make up for.But at the age of 46, he defeated the greatest living general other than himself.

Goldsmith is the principal's laughing stock.Graduated with the "Last Place Award", which was synonymous with fools in college at the time.He had wanted to enter the surgical class, but was rejected.Goldsmith found himself completely unsuitable for the medical profession, so he was transferred to a literature class.But who else could have written The Vicar of Wakefield or The Abandoned Village?At that time, Dr. Johnson knew that Goldsmith was about to be arrested for debts, so he sold the manuscript of "The Life of the Rev. Wakefield" to the publisher and paid the debts.It is also because of this manuscript that Goldsmith became famous.

When Robert Clive was in school, he had the notoriety of "fool" and "villain", but at the age of 32, he led only 3000 people to defeat 5 enemies in Plassey, laying the foundation for the rule of the British Empire in India. Base.

Young Linnaeus was called a fool by his teachers.Because he was not suitable for studying in the church, his parents sent him to university to study medicine.But an obscure teacher guided Linnaeus towards botany.Illness, disaster, and even poverty could not stop him from studying botany.It was a choice of heart, and in the end he became the greatest botanist of his time.

Richard Sheridan's mother had tried in vain to teach him the rudiments of knowledge.His mother's death awakened his dormant talent, as it had done in hundreds of cases.Ultimately he became one of the greatest talents of his time.

Samuel Drew was once the dullest, most listless little boy in the neighborhood.He almost lost his life in an accident.The death of his brother made him cherish every moment of his life.He began to study hard and study diligently.He spends all the time at his disposal studying, improving himself, and even reading while eating.He once said that it was Penn's "The Age of Reason" that made him a writer.Because The Age of Reason prompted Drew to think, and then write a book disproving Payne's views, he was first known as a hard-line, energetic writer.

There is a saying that has been widely circulated: "No one who realizes his own talent becomes a worthless person, and no outstanding person misjudges his own talent."

How stupid the hawk looks, perched high and blinking, but how sharp is his eye, and how steady is his crooked figure, as he spreads his mighty wings to the blue sky!
4. Because there are expectations, there is a future
Everyone has all kinds of beautiful expectations deep in their hearts: the future is bright, the flowers are blooming; the flowers are full and the moon is full, and the dreams come true.All these expectations can be transformed into huge energy and can become the catalyst for everything in the future.

We should always have an optimistic and expectant attitude towards our own life.What is an optimistic and expectant attitude?It is to hope for the happiest and best things.

Only with good expectations for our own future can our subconscious inspire us to do our best.Looking forward to settling down and establishing a career, enjoying the prosperity in peace, looking forward to getting ahead and obtaining an ideal position.Every expectation is enough to spur us to continue to work hard.

Some people think that all the comforts and wealth in the world, such as luxurious homes, fine clothes, and travel and entertainment, are not for them.They think that happiness does not belong to themselves, but to another class of people.They see themselves as inferior, as hopeless.Let me ask, can a person who has implanted the idea of ​​inferiority in his bones still have a good life?

If a person has low ambition, low character, no higher expectations for himself, and stubbornly believes that all the happiness in the world is not prepared for him, then such a person can only live a humble life.

What you expect, you may get; if you expect nothing, you will certainly get nothing.Those who are willing to be poor can only live in poverty.

However, with the expectation of success, but without firm belief, I often hold a skeptical attitude in my heart, worry about my lack of ability, and have various fears of failure, and it is impossible to achieve my goal.Only those who wholeheartedly expect success can achieve success.Therefore, we must be guided by positive, creative, and optimistic thoughts before we can approach our goals step by step.

There are some people who work very hard and still get nowhere because their thoughts are not in harmony with their actions.When they are doing this job, they are thinking about other jobs. This attitude has virtually dispelled the real desire in their hearts.Inconsistency in doing things is the biggest obstacle that prevents expectations from being realized. Please keep in mind this motto: "What you expect in your heart is what you can achieve."

Fear often wipes out the spirit of people, and its great power often dries up the source of life.If your mind is dominated by fear, it will be difficult to succeed in anything you do.Lofty ideals and firm beliefs can heal people's cowardice and improve people's habits and character.Looking forward to health and happiness, looking forward to a position in society, looking forward to a better life in the future... All these expectations are the capital of success, and can push us to go further and further along the road to success.

Optimistic expectation is the quality that every successful person should possess.No matter how bleak the current situation is, they are unswerving in their pursuit.This kind of optimistic expectation can often generate a huge energy and push them to success.

Expectation can awaken dormant powers in us, so that our potential can be fully realized. If there is no expectation, those powers will be dormant in us forever.

No matter who you are, you should believe that your expectations can be realized.Don't doubt, get any doubting thought out of your head and replace it with winning belief.In the optimistic expectation, put in firm confidence, work hard, and persevere, then you will surely achieve complete success.

5. If there is hope, there will be miracles in life
Hope is often more valuable than ideals and dreams.Because hope is often a prophecy of future facts and a beacon to guide people's actions.At the same time, it is hoped that it can also show the level of goals and effectiveness of different people.

Some people's flame of hope gradually dims because they don't understand the truth: Only by persisting in their hope can they increase their strength and realize their dreams.

Hope has creative power, it has inspiring magic; it can make people try their best to complete their careers.Hope is a complement to talent, it enables you to increase your talent in practice and realize your dreams step by step.

God is the most generous and fair, as long as you give something, he will give you something in return.Human thoughts are like trees rooted in the earth. As long as the roots of these thoughts are full of vitality, people will have hope.

Migratory birds fly to the south in autumn because the south gives migratory birds warm hope.The Creator gives people hope, hoping that people can realize a greater and more perfect mission, that people's personality can be more fully developed, and that people can surpass in this life.Therefore, as long as you put in the effort you should, you will definitely get what you want.

Of course, hope should also have its limits.Some absurd and unreasonable delusions can also lead people astray.The most precious hope we need is to gradually perfect our personality and to fully display our talents for a long time.

The increase or decrease of a person's talents is closely related to his hope for life.From a person's ideals and ambitions, one can see his character and the appearance of his entire life, because the vitality of life is dominated by ideals.

People become steadfast in their thoughts and emotions.Therefore, everyone should set lofty goals and make up their minds to put an end to despicable and dirty thoughts dominating their thoughts and actions, and move towards noble goals with firm confidence.

Positive and enterprising thoughts will in turn promote people's hopes, prompting people to exert their talents to the best of their ability, and finally reach the highest level.Positive and enterprising thinking can make up for the lack of talent and remove all obstacles on the way forward.Even those things that seem difficult to accomplish, as long as you have firm belief and perseverance, you will eventually achieve your goal.Hope is the mother of facts.No matter what you want to achieve—healthy body, noble character, or large enterprise, as long as the method is right and the measures are strong, it will be successful.

As long as there is hope, supplemented by indomitable confidence, there will be great creativity. With this kind of creation, coupled with persistent efforts, we will be able to reach the ideal shore.But if there is hope in vain, and if you don't put effort into it, and treat hope indifferently, then even the most ambitious ideals will be blown away by the wind and turned into nothing.

Hope has an incredible magic power for the achievement of one's life's career.

Before an engineer constructs a building, he has already designed the architectural blueprint.Similarly, before our career has started, we should establish our own goals and hopes.

But if you just hope and don't make a plan and implement it down-to-earth, then the best plan is just a piece of paper, just like an engineer's blueprint is designed, but it is still a pile of waste paper without starting work.

If you want to change your destiny, you should be passionate about your hope, keep it in your heart, and work hard until it becomes a reality.

A hopeful mind has incredible creativity. This power can exert human talents, change people's destiny, and realize people's ideals.

6. If you are willing to be poor, gods will not be able to save you
Poverty is actually a sickness, the result of thousands of years of bad thoughts, bad environment and bad life.Poverty is an extremely abnormal state, which is despised by everyone.Numerous facts have proved that anything in the world, as long as you work hard, you will succeed; after you succeed in your career, poverty will naturally leave you.

If all the poor people in this world dare to lift their heads from darkness and depression, and work hard towards the direction of light and self-confidence, then it won't take long for poverty to fend for itself.It is a pity that many people want to get rid of poverty, but they are reluctant to work hard.

It is true that the poverty that many people are born into is not something they can choose.However, much poverty is caused by laziness.Extravagance, waste, unwillingness to work, unwillingness to strive are the breeding grounds of the lazy.Laziness often likes to go hand in hand with waste. Most lazy people do not know how to be thrifty, and most people who have the habit of waste are not diligent.

In fact, we have many excellent qualities that are incompatible with poverty, such as self-confidence and bravery.Although some people have suffered misfortune and suffering, even though they are in a difficult situation, they can still rely on these dispositions to finally get out of the predicament and go to success.If a person loses self-confidence and lacks courage, and is willing to live a timid and lazy life, then he will certainly not be able to overcome poverty and make a difference.

If a person is determined to get rid of poverty, he must first remove the traces of poverty from many aspects such as clothing, face, attitude, etc., and secondly, he must give full play to his outstanding talents and bravely move towards "wealth" and "success". Don't waver in your resolve.Only in this way can we use our self-confidence to exert our potential power and finally get rid of poverty and move towards success.

If you are content with poverty, do not think about making progress, and do not want to change your poverty at all, then your inner potential will disappear, and your life will only be accompanied by poverty.

There is also a kind of people who regard poverty as their destiny and do not believe that they can get rid of it.Such a person is the most hopeless.If they do not change their ideas and continue to degenerate, their lives will surely be spent in hardship.

There was a graduate of a prestigious university in the United States who relied on his father to provide him with $5 a week, otherwise he would starve.The frustrated youth didn't believe he could succeed, and he tried various jobs but failed.He has no confidence in his abilities, he can't believe that he will succeed in his career, he is always looking for a job, but he never succeeds.

In fact, poverty is not terrible. What is terrible is that you are willing to be poor and obediently bound by fate.Some people think that rich and poor are determined by nature, which is really absurd.

If you think that there is darkness around you and that the future is bleak, then you should immediately turn around, go to the other side, run towards the direction of hope and sunshine, and leave all the darkness behind.

In this world, everyone has their own place, we should believe and make up our minds to strive for it.Striving for a happy life is a natural right. Because of defending this right, countless people bravely marched towards their goals and finally got rid of poverty.

7. The world is changing so fast, don't lose yourself
A fresh glass of water, if left unused, will soon become stale.In the same way, a well-run store will gradually decline if the owner does not constantly make better and newer improvements.

Change is the only constant truth in this world.

The characteristic of a positive achiever is that he can make progress anytime and anywhere.He is deeply afraid of regressing and falling, so he always strives to improve himself.

One should never stop after reaching a certain stage, but should continue to work hard to reach a higher height.When a person thinks he is satisfied in his career and no longer pursues progress, it is the beginning of his career turning from prosperity to decline.

Every morning we should make up our minds to try to do better in our duties than yesterday, and when we leave the office, factory or other place of work in the evening, everything should be better arranged than yesterday.Anyone who can do this must achieve amazing success in his business in a short year.

The habit of continuous improvement is extremely contagious.Continuous improvement employers infect their employees, so that employees also develop habits to improve their daily work.

If an employer can in this way motivate his employees to conscious effort, then such an employer will gain a powerful ally in his career.

A person who wants to achieve a great cause must be in constant contact with the outside world and his competitors. He should visit model stores, shopping malls, exhibitions and all well-managed institutions and groups to learn new and effective management methods.

There is a successful retailer in Chicago, USA. He used a week's vacation to visit the big shopping malls in the country, so he got a way to improve his own shopping malls.After that, he traveled to the East every year, specializing in the sales methods and management methods of several large-scale shopping malls.In his view, such a visit is absolutely necessary.Otherwise, if you stick to the rules and do it invariably, you will definitely fail.

The businessman said that after several improvements, his mall was very different from before.The shortcomings that he had never noticed before, such as the display of goods not attracting customers, and the lack of seriousness of employees, etc., all came to mind after visiting excellent colleagues, which aroused his great attention.So, he began to make drastic adjustments, such as changing the display of cabinets and dismissing employees who were not loyal to their duties. After doing so, the atmosphere in the store took on a new look.

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