If you don't do some things now, you will never do them in your life

Chapter 11 Bring a tent and go camping (2)
The girl was my roommate when I was studying abroad. I know that she likes the Chinese boy L in our school very much.Once, L and another boy asked me to go to Edinburgh to play. Because I couldn't leave because of something, I gave this opportunity to my roommate and encouraged her to confess to L boldly.

A few days later.

When the roommate girl came back and saw the smile on her face, I knew that she had succeeded!
Because it is during the period of studying abroad, it is normal for everyone to live with a companion. I did not expect that two years later, L told me that they were getting married!

Sometimes, I wonder why so many excellent men and women around me are complaining about the pain of being single?

If there are distressed bachelors around you, you might as well put them on the line!

First of all, you have to make sure that he doesn't have a partner yet, and he really wants to find a partner.

Then think about whether anyone's conditions are suitable for him.

Ask your friend if they are interested in getting to know the person you are introducing.

Depending on the degree of "leftover", the people who will gladly accept your introduction will also be different.

If he's not very enthusiastic, tell him not to take it too seriously and that you're just trying to introduce him to a friend.Tell your friends, don't take this future development as something you could have foreseen, you just hope that everyone can be good friends.

Next, you must persuade your friend to temporarily put aside his stereotypes and prejudices, accept the object you want to introduce to him with an open attitude, and briefly describe the internal and external characteristics of the object you want to introduce in advance, don't forget , When talking about the advantages, you must emphasize it, so as to enhance the motivation of your friends to meet.

At the beginning of their acquaintance, they often create some dating opportunities, allowing them to have some indirect observations of each other, and can determine whether to continue to develop at this stage.If they are already familiar with each other, they will naturally have many dates of their own, so you don't have to worry about it.

Introduce friends to each other, and if successful, you will feel extremely happy.Go to the amusement park and have fun.

"There is amusement everywhere, and all thoughts are chasing after playful and wanton... There is amusement everywhere, colorful, dark, bright and chaotic blowing dust..." Sodagreen's "Amusement" sings the mood of people in the amusement park.During the summer vacation, the amusement park is the most popular place, where the children wantonly relax their tense nerves for half a year, and you can also find the pleasant memories of childhood from it.

In addition to satisfying your childlike innocence, it’s okay to do some thrilling activities.

Do some exciting bungee jumping that puts you in motion or go on a roller coaster ride.

To play the "jumping machine", you can find pleasure in the sensory stimulation of weightlessness and overweight.Feel the power of the wind as it whistles past you.When you find yourself moving at a higher speed than usual, feel your thrill and the feeling of gravity trying to push you back as hard as it can.

If you're trained, skilled and experienced, you can try your hand at hang gliding, boogie boarding, or even jet skiing.But take good precautions and follow every instruction of the security officer.

If your stomach can't bear such exciting activities, take a bumper car or a Ferris wheel instead!
If you rarely do water sports, you can use this opportunity to "white water".Glide along the water in a canoe, ascend the path and enter the tunnel, and finally fall suddenly from the "mountain" more than ten meters high, fall into the abyss, and stir up layers of waves. You will feel the excitement in the excitement.

You can also go to the aquarium.It is really wonderful to see the big sharks swimming leisurely at close range, and to admire the shiny jellyfish and seahorses.The aquarium will satisfy your novelty and curiosity, and learn more about marine life.

Motion Cinema is also a place worth visiting.Enter the hemispherical dome theater, sit on a special seat that can swing 20 degrees, and the light gradually dims. You will conduct a space exploration, watch the nine planets beckoning to you, watch the stars in the Milky Way, and chase stars in the universe Moon feels indescribable.To visit an old friend.

Both friends and lovers are indispensable people in our life, but there are two differences between lovers and friends:

1 A lover may break up with you because you did not reply to her mobile phone text messages in time, and a friend will still be a friend even if they have not seen each other for seven years.

2 You will give up your former lover because you met a better lover, but you will not forget your former old friend just because you met a better friend.

When you keep making new friends, do you forget your old friends and miss them often?
Call someone you've been missing and ask if you can spend a few days with him or her.Of course, in order not to disturb your friend's normal life, this plan should not exceed three days.

On the day you first arrive, let things take their course, try to go back in time, and allow the intimacy that was there to be rekindled gradually.Where the master is, you are there, at their pace.People always like to talk about the old days on the first day, if they want to know about you, tell them how you are now; if they would rather talk about themselves, listen carefully.

Take them out to dinner the second night.Show gratitude for your friendship with them, for allowing you to share the joy of their home, etc., with gratitude.

Buying them a small gift is a great way to show your appreciation for their hospitality.

If you have a good time with these friends, ask them to visit you in the future.If the party is not as good as you expected, thank them for hosting this weekend too.

Even if when you meet again, it's hard for you to be as happy as you were back then, don't mind it, you've just traveled a certain distance, and you've lost too much experience to communicate with.However, as long as a moment of heart-to-heart is enough for a true friend.So, don't easily deny your past friendship, it is your common memory.Learn to drink tea.

Boiled water is the best drink. It is simple, bland, tasteless, and not too particular. It is natural and light, and you don’t need to use any utensils. Cups, bowls, ladles, and basins are all fine.

However, no one wants life to be plain boiled water forever.So, someone made drinks, cola, and herbal tea.

And tea.

Wei Yingwu in the Tang Dynasty wrote a poem about tea: "The cleanliness cannot be polluted, and it is for drinking to cleanse the dust; this thing has a spiritual taste, and it comes from the mountain. Talking about the reason for the county, I led you to plant a barren garden; I am happy to follow the crowd The grass grows, so I have to talk to you." The poem has a high evaluation of tea.

And Liu Yuxi's "Compensation for Tea" expresses another feeling: "I am afraid that the hawk's beak buds will be fragrant, and the old man will send them to the immortal's house. Tonight there is even a moon on the Xiangjiang River, shining a bowl full of flowers."

For those who know how to drink tea, getting a good cup of tea is like getting the love of life.They enjoy themselves in tasting tea.People who know how to taste tea are people who pursue high quality of life. As long as there is good tea and good tea sets, they will savor it carefully.

It is also a great pleasure in life to invite three or five bosom friends, drink a pot of good tea, and talk about the gains and losses of life!
There are several levels of tea drinking, different people can appreciate different meanings when drinking tea, and watching different people drink tea can also roughly see the character of this person.

Generally speaking, tea drinkers can be divided into three realms:

The first realm is tea tasting.

Tea drinkers drink tea with their heart.This kind of person holds a teacup while drinking tea, looks at the rising mist with a focused expression, smells the tea fragrance overflowing from the cup intoxicatedly, and then starts to drink, savoring the taste of the tea.

This kind of people will also live with their heart, take the honors and disgraces of life very lightly, and don't care about small things.

They live as peacefully and calmly as tea.

People who have tea in their hearts have integrated themselves with tea.Whether it is good tea or bad tea, they can drink it with heart and taste the taste.

The second realm is happy tea.

People who enjoy tea are people who enjoy life.In their life, chasing different teas, they use different tea sets: bamboo, ceramic, purple sand, stone.Just the dazzling array of tea sets on the coffee table is enough to dazzle people.

People who enjoy tea always have all kinds of top-quality tea in their homes.They can introduce tea knowledge and tea culture like a few treasures.

The third state is to drink tea.

To drink is to drink heavily.People who drink tea in this way are relatively simple and practical people. For them, the function of tea is the same as that of white water and beverages.Most people are drinking tea, they do not seek refinement but practicality, and experience tea in practicality.This is the state of mind of ordinary people, and it is also the life of ordinary people.

What kind of tea drinker are you now?

From now on, you might as well learn to drink tea slowly, learn to taste tea slowly, and you can taste a different kind of life from tea.Move furniture, rearrange them.

This is not tossing, swinging furniture, but a renewal of life, and a good way to improve your mood.

If you're ambitious enough to move your entire home, take a day and work hard one day.

If you want to try something small first, start with one room, work on it for a while, see the effect, and then work on the other rooms.

You can design the furniture arrangement for your new bedroom, you can put your favorite small cushions completely as you like.

Start by moving the smallest, lightest objects you can find and see if that fits.If you like the way it looks after the switch, move another piece.Just move one chair, one lamp, one bed, one sofa at a time, and you'll have a new room in no time.

After you create a new environment, sit or stay in it for a while and see how it feels.

Make some more minor changes if needed, or do the whole process all over again.

Change your room to look exactly how you want it to look.

until you feel right.

After the bedroom decoration is completed, start to make a new arrangement for the kitchen decoration!

You can throw away some tableware that was accidentally knocked out.

Ask someone to come and clean the range hood well.

Who would want to keep a fun little toy in the kitchen?You figured it out!
To boost your enjoyment index while doing these jobs, you can wear overalls and play loud music.If you want to try classical music, such as Bach's piano pieces, while doing physical work, there is nothing wrong with that.Sit in the dark for a while.

Sitting in the dark, sitting in the silence, is a unique experience.

At night, find a comfortable, quiet place to sit and listen to the stillness.

Indoors or outdoors, the important thing is that there is no light of any kind except starlight or moonlight.

If you are sitting outside and in the middle of nature, are you aware of the sounds of summer?Filled with the sounds of crickets, frogs and heat?
If you are indoors, do you hear your own breathing?Does it have a symphony all its own, played only in the dark?
Is there any connection between the darkness and the silence you are immersed in?
What's it like to be alone in the dark?Scary, or comfortable?Are you getting used to the dark?Is this something you can do on a regular basis?

To have a totally different experience because you are totally in acceptable solitude.

You can also fully experience what it's like to be in the dark without opening your eyes and just imagine that you are a blind child.

Closing my eyes, I immediately felt the darkness in front of my eyes, I couldn't see my fingers, and there was an inexplicable fear in my heart.Walking unsteadily, I feel that I will fall and hit things at any time, and I feel very unsafe.

You can't see this beautiful world anymore, you can only feel the world with your hands, and feel things with your imagination.

You can also learn Braille, listen to the wonderful sounds in the world with your ears; smell all the smells in the world with your nose; speak the languages ​​of the world with your mouth; feel everything in the world with your hands and feet.Everything you face is tough, you start struggling and you start to discover your luck.You should cherish your present life, including every organ in your body.Go to the cinema during the day and watch a movie that makes you cry.

Bad emotions are like toxins, which will accumulate in our body and need to be released at a certain time.At this time, go to a movie that can make you cry.

It's a great way to release pent-up emotions and stress, and whether it's through a quiet tear or a loud cry, it makes you feel like you're really alive.

Although pessimism and disappointment cannot be the masters of life, if you want to maintain a good mood to face the ups and downs in life, watching a movie that makes you cry is also a good way to adjust.Have you ever had such an experience, when you are watching a movie, you often forget all the pain in your life, even your existence, because you get into the plot.Even though you cry like hell when the tragedy plays out, at the end of the play, you feel incredibly relieved because none of the pain and hurt actually happened to you, how lucky you are!

Go to the movies at a different time than usual, don't go to the seven or eight o'clock show, go to the two o'clock one!

You can choose to go to this movie alone.

Choose this time, when you see the movie theater empty, you will feel relieved, it seems that the whole movie is just for you.

When I watch a movie alone, I cry when I feel like crying.Don't care about other people's eyes at all, no one knows anyone, normal emotional venting has nothing to do with abnormality.

When watching a movie alone, you don't have to worry about whether the accompanying person is tired and boring.

At the end of the movie, notice what it's like to re-enter the "real" world.Feel the heat, the hustle and bustle of the busy crowd going about their business, and when you think that on a hot summer afternoon, everyone else is busy with reality, you leave it all behind for a full two hours and enter a completely different world. world, you will be satisfied and lucky.

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