A Book That Addresses Women's Health Issues

Chapter 107 Marriage is like shoes, the one that suits you best

Some people say that marriage is like shoes, only you know whether they fit or not.Therefore, before entering marriage, female friends must keep their eyes open, choose carefully, and don't be fooled by temporary interests and gorgeous appearance.There are many external factors for modern people to get married, some for money, some for power, some for handsomeness or beauty... But after getting married and starting a family, an inappropriate marriage will make people suffer physically and mentally.For many women, although some marriages are glamorous on the surface, there is a deep pain in the dark.Especially when in an unhappy marriage, what a sad scene it is for a woman to lick her own wounds in the dark!Even when some female friends tried to protest against an inappropriate marriage, who would know how miserable a woman in the "siege" felt!Some people say that marriage is like shoes, only you know whether they fit or not.Therefore, before entering marriage, female friends must keep their eyes open, choose carefully, and don't be fooled by temporary interests and gorgeous appearance.Choose a kind of practical "shoes", don't use the ones that don't look good.In this way, we can walk through life with our other partner more happily.

How should a woman choose a marriage that suits her well and not wear the wrong shoes?Don't stick to the appearance just for your own vanity. Whether you are a man or a woman, you will have a little bit of vanity.In this world, not only men like to find beautiful women, but women also want to find a handsome guy as a boyfriend, because that will save face no matter where they go.Handsome guys are always attractive, falling in love with a handsome guy can win the envy and jealousy of many sisters, and the rate of turning heads is high when walking on the street... This greatly satisfies a woman's vanity.It is right to choose a handsome guy, but many women have entered a misunderstanding because of this. When they choose a husband, they only value their appearance.However, I have forgotten that some handsome guys are "outside the gold and jade, but inside the poor". For the sake of vanity, it is really not worthwhile to lose a lifetime of happiness.Holding on to a loveless marriage for money will make life worse than death. Nowadays, some young women can marry an old man for money, or even marry someone they don't love... But in the end?The rest may only be money, but not the thoughtful and warm happiness of the husband and wife who live together.

For example, two pairs of shoes, a pair of branded shoes, look noble and beautiful, feel comfortable and generous, but they are expensive, can not stand the mud, need to be careful, a little carelessness will fall apart; and those well-matched loving couples , even if the life is not rich, but simple and unpretentious, just like a pair of strong hiking shoes, strong and wear-resistant, even after going through wind, rain and mud, the uppers will not fall off, and as long as they are put on, they will always hug the feet tightly .Therefore, the more rough the road of life is, the more it shows the characteristics of its durability and fit.

Be loyal to love, but don’t be foolish and loyal; give up, but don’t lose yourself Perhaps, the god of love is really a blind man, he is only responsible for impulsive, moving, and exciting people in love, he only induces people’s illusions about love and marriage... ...But after actually walking into the siege, I found that all the good things turned out to be "failures".But at this time, if it is for some reason, or to endure, or to seek death, or to retaliate, the one who is actually injured is yourself.So be sober, from choosing a lover to marriage, we must learn to protect ourselves and learn to be a little selfish. After all, Eros does not care about "happiness", only you can create happiness!In short, marriage is your own business. Only you know whether you are happy or not, not for others to see. Therefore, it is very important to choose a pair of shoes that are more comfortable than beautiful.In this way, no matter how far or how rough the road is, the shoes will not be too tired.No matter what stage of marriage you are in at the age of 30, remember to be selfish, keep your eyes open, choose a pair of marriage "shoes" that suit you, and accompany you through your difficult life.

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