Early Tang Dynasty Concubine

Chapter 518 Your Li Shimin's Son Can't
The order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker mean that the marriage of children must be decided by the parents and introduced by the matchmaker.

Any social system has its historical background. The ancient marriage system paid attention to "the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker".Under the influence of strict hierarchy and feudal ethics, this kind of marriage system also has its rationality.However, this system does not respect the wishes of the parties, and has also caused many love tragedies.

It is reasonable to talk about the orders of parents and the words of matchmakers, because in ancient times, there were very few opportunities for women to show their faces. A daughter born in a family of officials usually studied in her boudoir before leaving the court. Qinqi calligraphy and painting, needlework such as darning and embroidery, so the lady's boudoir is generally called the embroidery building.Born in a poor family, the daughter may do some work with her parents, but she also works at sunrise and rests at sunset. The romantic sentiment of "the head of the willow on the moon, and the appointment after dusk" is actually very rare.On the contrary, as parents, they have to bear the burden of life and have more contact with the society, so it is reasonable for marriage to be ordered by their parents.Furthermore, the reason why parents are chosen as the "agents" of their son's marriage

One is because parents have more experience in life, and the other is because parents all over the world hope that their children will be happy in the future, and they all promote marriages for the benefit.

Second, look at our existing marriages. As long as men and women do not have too much difference in personality, or one party is too strong, they can generally smooth out their respective edges and corners through bumps and bumps, so that the marriage can be maintained for a long time.Therefore, the author's own point of view is that before the ancient women came out of the cabinet, they were educated by feudal ethics and had no personality at all. When they marry into their husband's family, they must abide by the etiquette of husband as wife, and basically obey the man and his family. .After obeying the orders of the parents and the words of the matchmaker, as long as the man is willing, the marriage can generally be managed successfully.

Marriage in ancient times paid attention to the right family, which is not unrelated to this matchmaker's words. The feudal hierarchy determined the "communication circle" of the ancients.When people go to see officials, most of them are to sue for grievances, and when officials go to see people, it is mostly for public affairs to understand the people's feelings and understand their opinions.Rarely is it to communicate personal emotions.The marriage of children is based on the fact that the family is equal, and it is estimated that it has something to do with it.

In any case, the major event of marriage is a major event related to the lifelong happiness of men and women. Regardless of the wishes of the parties, relying on "the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker" is a bit suspected of an arranged marriage anyway.

Through some historical books, we have learned that in ancient times, there were many parents who took their children's life-long affairs as climbing dragons and phoenixes and seeking money.Presumably Zhu Yingtai's father insisted on marrying his daughter to Ma Wencai, and disregarded her daughter's happiness, because he also took a fancy to the wealth of the Ma family!It is not only Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai who suffer from "the order of their parents and the words of the matchmaker".Bu Feiyan, a girl from Luoyang City in the Tang Dynasty, was both talented and beautiful. According to the order of her parents, she married Cao Shenwu Gongye, a meritorious official in Henan Province, as his wife. There is completely playing the piano against the cow.Although he loved Bu Feiyan a lot, Bu Feiyan cheated on her. Later, when the matter was revealed, he was whipped to death by Wu Gongye.It can be seen that this system has its drawbacks after all.

"Speaking of which, you are the emperor, and you can condescend to come to my place, but it is still the same sentence, no! There are several reasons. First of all, he is your son Li Shimin. This is very important and the most important point. Don't say why, you are too ruthless, I dare not say it before, but now I dare to say, you are ruthless, and you know best how ruthless you are.

What's more, I look down on this kid. He is not a big man, and he just fights every day, fighting for everything!There are some things that he can't fight for, and Xiao Wu will not be happy if he follows him.

In the end, Xiao Wu didn't like it. Don't tell me what my parents ordered. Now even he, a warrior, dare not pretend to be a senior in front of me. I beat him to death with a hammer.Only I can decide Xiao Wu's future! "

After listening to Cheng Churui's words, Li Shimin cursed angrily, what do you mean, because he is my son, Li Shimin's son is shameful.But think about my sons, they are all talents, they are all talents, they are all good sons who are very similar to me, why do you look down on my son.

"I said, the emperor, don't be angry. If you, Li Shimin, are not the emperor, then Li Tai is really knowledgeable. Many people think that such a child is someone else's child. Unfortunately, you are the emperor, and your position will be missed by people." Well, let's put it this way, your son will always die in that position. Whether it's brother rebellion or rebellion against you.

And because Li Tai is too smart, he thinks that you are more favored than the prince, so he thinks that you can be the emperor, why can't he.And Xiao Wu follows him, no matter whether he succeeds or fails, there is no good fruit for Xiao Wu!

Do you think I will let my apprentice follow your son?Just like that kid Li You, if I dare to hit him, I also dare to hit Li Tai. I won't take it for your sake. I've caught this kid twice. If he's caught the third time, then I will Will break his leg first.

As the saying goes, it's a simple thing, if he doesn't have any face, I'll break his other leg. I don't think he dares to do that.Look at the Yu family, they just speak harsh words, how dare they do anything to my Xiao Wu? "

"Chu Rui, I know you love your apprentice, but your apprentice will always grow up, so can you support him forever?" Li Shimin calmed himself down and asked.

"It doesn't bother you to give up your mind. Whether I raise her or she has her own husband, it's too early to say. Of course, it is necessary to check! If Wen doesn't have Fang Du's talent, If Wu didn't have my bravery, it would be as difficult as going to heaven if he wanted to marry my apprentice!"

Li Shimin frowned.How many people are there in Fang Du Zhicai in the Tang Dynasty, and they are all old when they reach this level of talent. As for your bravery, you are the only one in the Tang Dynasty or in the whole world. Where can you find such a brave person.

Cheng Churui smiled and said nothing, I'm sorry for you, in fact, Cheng Churui asked Xiao Wu, and Xiao Wu only had aversion to Li Tai.He didn't have any good feelings at all, and this was the scene of Cheng Churui blasting people outside.

In fact, Xiao Wu is indeed talented now, but after all, she is still a little girl, and she is still an adult, so it is too early to think about these things, Cheng Churui also thought about it, and wait until the child grows up.

Li Shimin can imagine that if Cheng Churui's daughter wants to marry, the one who can marry his daughter will have a miserable life!

(End of this chapter)